Cheating

Personally, I would not think it was OK because people with addiction and depression need all the support they can get and the best source of that is from those close to them - althought that is not easy. Addiction and depression are often caused by actual physical disorders which can be medically treated, and the person may not be able to help themselves without them. In those cases, they are no different to someone who is ill from cancer or has paraplegia. Would it be OK to cheat on these people? If you were in a similar situation, would it be OK for your husband to cheat on you? Unless he is abusive, there is no reason to abandon him and even then it would not necessarily be cause to have an affair. Try to join one of the many support groups that exist for people who have spouses in similar situations as this will give you some of the emotional support you need and are looking for. Also, if you've not already done so, learn all you can about his condition as this will help to both understand and to treat the problems. Do what you can to ensure that he receives professional help to overcome his addiction and depression.

It's more like with do we lie and cheat as human being's....i think men are the one's with the finger pointed at them more because the tend do get caught more often. ( because women are emotional individual's) When as to women we are more

my husband and I have come full circle100% he ment everything to me and broke my heart and spirit I loved him with passion and hated him with just as much passion i needed him to love me make me happy and I blamed him for my misery then we divorced and I became responsible for my life my feelings and emotions I learned how to take my own advise how to make me happy what made me feel safe. My security is my own as is my opinion I love him like I love the morning, a good book, my own company... I love my kids in a very different way... and I love myself more than that. I will never love anything like in the beginning more than life itself more than my next breath or than when they walk out the front door it is too much responsibility and doomed to failure even i can't live up to that our time together and apart is blissful we have separate interest and needs when we are together we are still on our honeymoon this has lasted three years it took me 20 years in recovery to become a butterfly or autonomous as you said

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From the sounds of it, exactly what he said. From the sounds of it, the relationship is beginning to mend itself. The wife may not be happy with it, but she's starting to get over it and put it in the past. That may be wrong, but that's from the context. He may have also said it sarcastically..that's unknown over the internet.

you know when he acts different towards you, and doesnt really respect you as much as when he is on his own. Never, ever take anything off of him that involves, being dumped or him flirting with another girl!

hope i helped, harri x

Yes he is. Him got a married to Dyna Rodgers. She sing for Fred Hammong. SHe is sweet to. I met her and him before. She is so pretty and nice and she is down to eath. He is a lucky man.

You don't. You disrespected your relationship & your parented. More often than not, there is no "rekindling" or making the situation any better. It won't hurt any less & it's displaying you're under the impression you can get the person back on your terms. If there is ANY hope whatsoever, it's simply time. Time heals wounds & hopefully the person is forgiving.

Probably not. -MJB

Take what you said to your husband (because, you know, he's not without blame for this, either), and modify it as you see fit.

Its in the works Espn wants sole rights but has now got competition from several other net works

If your boyfriend is denying (to anyone) that you're his girlfriend, then perhaps he isn't the right guy for you after all. Nevermind whether he's cheating on you or not, if he is telling you one thing and other people another, he's being deceptive and is probably not worth your time.

Don't take the reconciliation seriously since it sounds like neither of you is ready to settle on one person. Wait until you are both free and are open to one another only.

Definatley tell him. Wouldn't you want to know in the long run? I would photograph her and the person shes cheating on him with and send them to him anoymously. That way noone knows it was you but he finds out whats really going on.

Really, they should talk when it has something to do with the child. If it's more than that I would bring it up.

Sounds like Both of you don't know what you want, you need to set down togather and open up with each other, both need to tell what they want in the relationship, then work on it.

Yes! This is exactly what happened to me. My husband did not buy the secret phone until I noticed suspicious numbers on his regular cell phone bills. When I questioned him he got very angry and hostile and accused me of interfering with his privacy. After investigating I learned that he had not only a long term relationship with another woman but also numerous contacts with people of, let's just say, another walk of life! My advice - check the phone bills, call the numbers - and then decide if you can live with that kind of relationship. If you can, say nothing and let it slide. If you can't, then confront, be prepared for the attack back at you, and prepare for divorce, because the minute you say something, you'll become the bad guy.

Yep, that's cheating! -- My husband (6 years of marriage) just confronted me that he is attracted with someone else; however, he said, it is only attraction not love; that he only loved me most. He said his heart belongs to me only. He met the other girl during his clinical rotation. I think the girl left the clinic so since then, he bought another cell without letting me know. It is getting worst everyday; they always on the phone talking.(morning, day, nite with 2-3hrs min) He won't let me hear it. I told my husband I am being hurt. He told me not to worry because they are only talking. There is no physical contact. Kindly please advise what should I do. Tears won't stop falling. :(

Get a damn good lawyer honey. It will be money well spent.

I've read all those answers, the one underneath was particularly interesting, but the answers both have even chances. A guy can have two phones! My boyfriend has three but it doesn't mean he's cheating. Men can have female friends too. It would be wrong for him to ignore every female on the planet. I'll bet many relationships start with friendships and for friendships to happen men will need to talk to women. Confront your husband. It's not fair to accuse him without proof. If he owns up, fair enough. A divorce is the best option but if not, tell him to ditch the phone and stop making you paranoid, make sure you laugh about it to lighten the mood or he'll think your still mad at him. If he refuses to ditch the phone, check it for evidence. Should you find a number used often, call or text the person and find out who they are.

That is a deifnite YES. Men with wives dont need female friends. Especially when you are around. Divorce him or find a project of your own. I find men can dish it out but they cannot handle it dished back. My ex-hubby was very satisfied when he had women friends to talk to. But it was an entirely different story when my male friends came around. Good luck sweetie.

The first thing I see is that if you are a married couple then there is no need or room for anything secretive. You as a wife should know where every dime of the money is being spent. And the moment that something comes up that you dont know about then that is the time to question it. Watch for behavior changes too. If he suddenly does something that he normally doesnt do then be weary of his actions. Its not spying or wrong for you the wife to monitor what he is doing if you have the feeling he is less than honest with you. But one sure way to check and see if he is cheating is to ask to see his cell phone. If he hesitates to give it to you or refuses altogether then that is a good sign he has something to hide.

go to school

We human beings are very good at inventing justifications for what we do. In this particular case, popular justifications include, his wife doesn't really deserve him, or doesn't really love him, and I am much better for him that she is, and he was pressured into that marriage anyway, and what harm does an affair do anyway, we're just having a little fun. I'm sure there are lots more.

At the very least it would be emotional unfaithful. There are different ways of being unfaithful. Many actions incorporate only one type of being unfaithful. Others include several of them. Some examples:

mentally unfaithful - lusting after another person, viewing porn or going to strip clubs could be examples of this

emotionally unfaithful - withholding intimate information from your partner but sharing with another person, saying "I love you" to another person - in a romantic sense (saying "Love you to your mom and giving her a peck on the cheek would not count - unless it was romantic, in which case - eww!)

physically unfaithful - physical intimacy with another person

Every one of these can destroy a relationship, but being physically unfaithful is usually the most devastating since it almost always also includes the other two

It's actually harder than you think to prove his cheating, most men are emotionless they hardly ever change their ways on the surface and will lie to you til you have physical proof. That's where they are careless alot of times because they do leave evidence behind. If you suspect him its time to play detective but whatever you do try not to show him that you have any suspicions so you can get the truth first and save your relationship from constant questioning of his faithfulness to you because most men say im being accused of it might as well do it.

• If your husband happens to bump into this lady while out shopping, etc., then it is fine for him to be pleasant and talk to her. If she is always around and he perpetuates the conversation then no, he should not encourage her. Realize your husband loves you and what you are feeling is jealousy and you consider this lady a threat. Trust in your husband and as long as he simply bumps into her and she strikes up a conversation with him he can be pleasant, but make an excuse and keep the conversation light, short and then leave.

Hey, I was drunk that day, I wandered into this church and wound up marrying a complete stranger. It could happen to anybody!

Your boyfriend just had some sex with me. Just let him go he doesnt want you he wants me. He wants me because i let him touch my breasts and nipples and now im pregnant he has a kid he is going to marry me. And everytime he sees me, he takes off my clothes. We are really in love with each other. We kiss.. Can't you see?!