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Marriage and Relationship Counseling

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Marriage counseling can be used in any stage of a marriage, but it is often looked into after a major relationship crisis, such as an affair.
you have to check your insurance
In situations like theses there are many variables. From what your  saying it could be tough, but it can work. One of the keys to have  a healthy long lasting relationship is forgiveness. He cheated,  does he deserve forgiveness, no, but Im sure glad God and others  forgave me of things I didn't...
Medical insurance will not pay for marriage counseling, as there is  no medical dianostic code for treatment and marriage counseling is  not considered "medically necessary." There must be a medical  diagnosis identified for any treatment to be covered by insurance  (same as with medical...
It is always a good idea no matter how long you've known your fiance. These counselors go to school to learn how to help you know more about each other and how to teach you how to deal with the problems and conflicts that arise. If you are a religious person, i suggest going to your pastor for...
NO human emotions cant work on mathematical formulas.All you can do  is try representing or plotting the relationship on graph and  taking out approximate conclusions based on that like Natalia  Bielczyk and colleagues from Radboud University Nijmegen.
  Answer   It's more than odd, its a way out there. Why in the world would you go to counseling, the two of you aren't married. If this is the way the two of you are going to proceed with your lives then better you split up, each of you go your way as the love you share isn't strong enough to...
  Answer   You know when I read questions like yours, it makes me wonder why you would put up with such stupidity all these years and now for some reason you are asking what you should do. You should do what you didn't do 14 years ago, that was not to get involved with this person in the...
No you do not, but you should. 50% of marriages fail, 75% of second  marriages fail. Couples going through counseling succeed by about  80%. Alot of people think there marriage will not be the statistic,  that is being careless, your marriage is not worth being careless  over. Your marriage can...
Women are more accepting of marriage counseling than men. Some men will go to counseling and try, but a larger percent will go just to please their spouse and often times only half listen to what the counselor is saying. However, seeing a marriage counselor is a good idea and if your spouse does not...
In the beginning of the relationship between the Counselor and Client, Couple, Group, or Family it is the initial exchange among the parties for who is going to control the counseling or therapeutic exchange. Often, very early on, even with the first contact over the telephone or in the waiting room...
people individuality and person center approach
If you can just get him to go , he may not want to talk initially , but he can hear what is being said. Eventually , someone is going to say something that will get his attention or tic him off and he''ll jump in with a complaint or a question . If he remains totally uncommunicative after 3 or 4...
it Solely depends on the problem at hand, it must come fromdifferences known to both parties and in this case maybe Love isnot enough to keep the relation, it is best to wish each other verywell and have a quiet and legal separation.
Marriage counseling only works if both parties want it to. If you are not both prepared to put serious effort forth towards reconciling, it won't work. You can pitch the idea of counseling to him, but if he says no, there isn't much more you can do. That he is already seeing someone else makes it...
Depends on your actual situation, if she is being urged to get counselling in a judgmental way, I don't think she'll fall for it; If it's in a mutual way, she might. Counselling, cannot be for one spouse only, but both, so try to tell her that both of you need help, and that you love her and you...
Usually marriage counseling can be free of charge if you are a  member of a church. Pastor's usually are trained in biblical  counseling. If you are in a church where the pastor is a  credentialed minister, this is a great resource for marriage or  family counseling.
No, medical insurance will not cover marriage counseling. There  needs to be a mental health diagnosis for counseling / therapy  treatment to be considered "medically necessary" and covered by  medical insurance. Marriage and/or relationship counseling is not  considered medically necessary.  ...
Marriage counseling helps couples learn to deal more effectively with problems, and can help prevent small problems from becoming serious.
You should have a relationship of trust with a client. However, you should not try to develop a close, personal relationship because that is overstepping the bounds. A client should trust you to give good advice and to be honest with them. You, on the other hand, should be distant enough to be...
Becoming a Marriage and Family Therapist requires a graduate degree  (Master's Level) or higher. Many universities offer graduate  programs specifically in Marriage and Family Therapy. Once you have  completed the program, there are often clinical hours that will  need to be completed under...
marriage counseling is one type of family therapy, but there are  other types of family therapy as well.
No, as this would be considered double-dipping or duplicate  billing. There should be only one identified "client." If that  person's treatment for an existing mental health diagnosis is  requiring their partner or spouse to participate in treatment, then  only that one client should be...
Marriage counseling is based on research that shows that individuals and their problems are best handled within the context of their relationships.
Research shows that marriage counseling, when effective, tends to improve a person's physical as well as mental health, in addition to improving the relationship.
The marriage counselor then works with the couple to help them understand that, in most cases, both partners are contributing to problems in the relationship.
When this is understood, the two can then learn to change how they interact with each other to solve problems.
Marriage counseling is an attempt to try and make your marriage better.
Yes, some psychologists specialize in working with couples. As when  seeking other services, I would recommend researching profiles  online specific for relationship / marriage counseling. Those with  specific training in Marriage and Family Therapy would be the best  fit.
A dual relationship in counseling is when the counselor/therapist  has more than one social role related to the potential client. For  example, you would not be someone's "neighbor" or "cousin" and also  their "therapist." If there is question as to whether you may be in  a dual relationship...
  It would be impossible for anyone to answer that question because there are so many factors involved, including your husband's willingness and ability to forgive and put it behind him. But if you're involved in counseling with your husband, that is a wonderful step and hopefully one that will...
There is no diagnositc code for marriage counseling, as it is not a  medical or mental health condition. Marriage counseling is not a  billable services through insurance companies, since it cannot be  deemed a "medically necessary" service.
Couples in the midst of a divorce find that marriage therapy during separation can help them find a common ground as they negotiate interpersonal issues and child custody.
A third type of marriage counseling involves postmarital therapy, in which divorcing couples who share children seek help in working out their differences.
Marriage counselors also offer treatment for couples before they get married to help them understand potential problem areas.
Therapy often begins as the couple analyzes the good and bad aspects of the relationship.
Marriage counseling is usually a short-term therapy that may take only a few sessions to work out problems in the relationship.
If medication for depression and anxiety is not working, there is a possibility that there is another closely related mental health issue that needs treatment. Seeking your doctors opinion, and also seeking other doctor's opinions until you get the help you need is important. Mental Health support...
When you got married, you made vows to each other to love and care for each other until death, or in some religions, for eternity. A spouse having an affair is a major breach of these vows. The person being cheated on will probably have feelings of betrayal along with a huge blow to their self...
Yes if you really want your relationship to work and listen to the advice you are given.
Typically when a therapist suggests marriage counseling every two  weeks instead of once per week, it means that progress is being  made and the clients are in a stable enough place in their  relationship to not come in as often. It is common for therapists  to encourage couples to increase the...
I would suggest that you go for a marriage counseling before you get married. It really helps when you apply what you learn... Well if you ever needed to have a counseling for your marriage at any point maybe your boyfriend or husband isn't the one for you! No offence because this is coming from a...
Surely a pastor knows that he's "building up his riches in Heaven," so why should he ask for, expect, or charge anything on Earth?
Sort of. Marriage counselling is not really a distinct discipline within psychology - it is just what occurs when a couple attend a (otherwise normal) counselling session. Whereas paediatric psychology, trauma counselling etc... would be considered distinct disciplines, marriage counselling (as yet)...
It tells people who is in charge ,and helps you get in a routine.
Laws related to counseling would be specific to actions prohibited  by law in your state as related to working with clients. Ethics, on  the other hand, is more of a professional standard and not  necessarily involving acts that are illegal. For example, it is not  illegal for a therapist to...
  No counseling works unless:   * Both parties want it to work  * Both parties realize that they, not the counsellor are going to make it work  * Both parties realize it will take a long time to fix problems that were a long time developing  * Both parties and the counsellor want to, and...
You can find marriage counselling online as well as at any therapist. It's better to go in person because you can really get a better feel for your problems and get better help.
Marriage counseling is available in person and online. While online counseling is less personal than traditional counseling, it can provide marriage help without being invasive. Sites like Online Marriage Counseling have services available to assist in marriage counseling. It's important to find a...
Marriage counselors have heard most embarrassing tales. Hence, knowing that you are going to get huge benefit you will have to overcome your hesitation and meet the marriage counselor. See if it is possible to have counseling on phone or email. This may suffice for your problem. Also, this will help...
Pastors are in a unique situation as counselors due to the inherent  dual relationship with their clients, who are often their  parishioners / members of their church. Although it is beneficial  to participate in counseling with someone who knows both parties  well, it is a good idea to be...
I think that relationship means it should preserve or protect in friend's circle and in the community also. The main stream is to build our interpersonal relationship. Likewise to share our thoughts, feelings, happiness, sadness and success. If can't share with someone, they might feel loneliness,...
tell him, write a note, make sure you dont talk to him so he ends it
None. You have to admit to yourself first that you need help, in order for any help to work.. This applies to everyone who has behavioural problem or any other sort of problems... First yu have to recognise yr short comings, then yu have to "want to" become a better person.. Only then yu can be...
while i dont think its a very bright idea to keep close contactswith people we have had feelings for after we stay committed. Otherpeople may think its nothing so big and they would Handle anythingbut the case is that i think you are putting yourself in avulnerable position there by inviting...
Because, nobody wants help to stay with somebody who abuses you.
There are many approaches used in marriage counseling, however, one  method in particular that is shown to be successful with couples is  Emotionally Focused Therapy.
Tell your therapist that you appreciate the work they put into it, but you are stopping the sessions. He or she will ask why. If you want to, tell them briefly and nicely why you are leaving. If you don't want to say the reason, just say that you have come to the conclusion that leaving therapy is...
There is no ICD9 code for marriage counseling.
Insurance does not cover marriage counseling because it is not  considered "medically necessary." In order for insurance to cover  any counseling services, there must be a mental health diagnosis in  place for the counseling / therapy treatment to be considered  "medically necessary."
Counseling helps you fix problems you have in your relationship and help you to have a stronger relationship with your significant other.
  == Answer ==   I think you should have moved out before. You're just asking for more trouble if you stay there. I have very low expectations for any man who would hit a woman.   == Answer ==     Absolutely! By moving out you are making the statement that you aren't taking anymore...
Marriage counseling is a kind of psychotherapy; it is mostly provided by licensed psychotherapists, and is many times of short duration. The object is to learn to manage recurring or troublesome differences and problems within a couple.
  == counseling ==   i think it can help if your really going through some hard times. but the most way that it will be effective if you have an opened mind and are willing to learn, and improve the areas that need patching.
The Mariage Counseling Directory has a complete listing of marriage/family counselling services in Washington, D.C. Some names include: Shauna Reynolds, Erin Metheny, and Jeanne Bertoli.
Marriage counseling is a useful service that struggling couples can utilize with the possibility of great success. Marriage counseling allows the couple access to an impartial observer and fosters strong communication skills.
For good Christian marriage counseling, the best place to look, of course, is your church's pastor or priest. Counseling is also available online at websites like those at counselingthelord'sway, enrichmentjournal, marriagemax, tommorowsworld, findchristiancounselor, christianbluepages, loveandseek...
Whether you are in a committed relationship that is experiencing  difficulties, or in a committed relationship that you would like to  take to the next level, relationship counselling may be helpful for  you. Even if you are single, but would like to find a partner or  improve your relationships...
This mainly depends on the country one lives in. In Germany for example one could go to the "Diakonische Werke". This is an organisation funded by the German Evangelical Church offering (besides other services) free relationship counselling. There are similar organisations in other countries, too.
  90847, billed as family therapy only you would use the partner relational problem (V61.10) as your primary diagnosis. It won't get covered by insurance anywhere, so make sure it is TRUE marriage counseling and that the provider isn't actually doing family therapy for the patient's mental...
Being married doesn't automatically solve a problem of emotional  isolation. Even physical proximity can't. Developing close, loving,  consistent relationships is a good way to help with feeling  isolated, but even if the marriage is perfect the feeling could  persist. Maybe think about whether...
If she went without you knowing what the trip meant to you, thenyou probably have to have a serious conversation about yourrelationship. At the very least it sounds like a very selfish thingto do and at worst she is trying to make a statement to you.
Yes, if a guy marries you, but does not tell his kids or family  then he wants to keep everything secret.
Real cool. You never know your mom might have gave him the green light.
In situations where a spouse or partner refuses to participate in  counseling, it can be beneficial to still seek counseling for  yourself. Although it is ideal to have both parties in the room,  individual counseling can still be helpful when trying to clarify  your concerns, identify emotions...
  No. Unless one of the people has a medical reason for needing counseling (such as depression) BCBS will not cover marriage counseling. The only way to get counseling together is if the person who has a medical reason asks that their significant other be present in the sessions for support.
The CPT code for family counseling (marriage counseling falls under this) is 90847.
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I believe the wisest thing one woman told me was that she was not  always in love with her husband. Your relationship with anyone will  have the highs and lows - not as exciting as when you first met and  fell in love - but deeper as you share experiences and life. During  the lows, try doing a...
No, absolutely not. Like any occupation, there will be couples that  have issues with domestic violence, but you can find that in the  homes of doctors, preachers, and cab drivers.   Any occupation can fall victim to violence. To say that all of any  group does one specific thing is almost...
First go see an attorney. Wherever you are, you have parental rights and abuse is wrong. Start documenting all abuse. Find witnesses ect..The emotional damage to the children is your main concern. Get help now! The abuser(men or woman) will not stop on their own.
If someone in a marriage is actually being treated like a slave,  they need to put a stop to it. That is not what a healthy marriage  is about.
  == Answer ==     Take the words of an old Country song:     "One day at a time, sweet Jesus.   Thats all I'm asking from you.   Just give me the strength, to do every day,   what I have to do.     Yesterdays gone, sweet Jesus.   And tomorrow may never be mine....
Answer . Talk to him and tell him what you see happening in your relationship and let his reaction determine your next step.
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    == Answer ==     When you are living with a person that is either physically or mentally abusing you (narcissists are game-players and mind-benders) then the mate that got away needs to go for counseling because the narcissist never will. Narcissists brain-wash their victims. ...
Answer . Many men don't think there is anything wrong with their marriage and if they are forced to go they often blame the wife for the problems or better yet, deny anything is wrong with the marriage. Obviously you aren't happy and he's not listening to what you have to say. It takes good...
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