Breakups

Try to discover what is bothering your boyfriend and make efforts to help him.

show her how much u love her and need her back in your life.... if she loves you she will come back... and say sorry to her for breaking her heart and promise her you wont ever break her heart again... and always tell her you love her... =)

If he is a responsible father he would do so as a matter of course.

You by how he looks at you if he smiles, and his actions around you.

• Good relationships start with good communication skills. She should be able to sit privately with you and express how she feels. You have asked her a decent question for reasons of your own and you deserve a decent answer. Take the power away from her and tell her she won't be seeing you again until she has made up her mind. This will most likely get her moving as far as giving you an answer and if she doesn't get in contact with you then you will know how she truly feels about you. Life goes by far too quickly so move on and don't stick around at her beck and call until she sees fit to give you an answer. Your question was clear and you should be getting a clear answer.

• 'Ex' means the relationship is over so technically speaking your ex is free to date whomever they want even if it is your friend. Speaking from a friends point of a view your friend should have discussed this matter with you before they decided to hit on your ex as your friend must know you are still healing from the breakup. Good communication skills are a must so sit down and tell your friend how you feel about it and if they don't care how you feel then they were never your friend to begin with and it is time for you to move on from them.

ask them to separate with some other girl or boy for both to make them break up

If you and your girlfriend broke up two months ago but she has just started seeing someone, it could be possible that she is in love already. There is no definitive length of time that it takes a person to fall in love and while at the beginning of a relationship it may feel like love, it could be, or it could just be lust.

It depends how strong your love is for your long distance boyfriend.

If you start thinking of the life ahead of your with that other person,

then the time is right, tell him.

To say that you are fed up with being a lesbian means that your nature is either changing, or that you wish to end the experiment of seeing what it is like to be a lesbian. Some girls and women become lesbians because of a love they have for another female. To say that you are getting "fed up" means that you were never converted in the first place, your relationship was but an experiment.

Tell your friend just what has happened, it may upset her but it does not mean that you still cannot be friends but not in the same way as it has been. Be careful though that she does not make advances towards you that may turn you against your new found love. I do hope with all my heart that you have found your true love and that you will be happy together.

yea.....but some guys don't feel guilty as much as some other guys.

That's is a tough one. You are going to have get moving and start going out with friends and start dating again. NEVER let him see you sitting around your home depressed over him, even if you are. Love does hurt, and I think most of us have been hurt at least once in our lives. It's been a very long time since I was younger and dating, but I do know no matter how hurt you are over an ex-boyfriend, along comes another great guy who could well be the one for you. Don't give up, look your ex in the face and smile, and move on. Live your own life and let him live his. Get out with your friends and date when you want, but don't try to flaunt your activities in front of him. If he says hello, be friendly, but keep it brief. Don't go out of your way to see or speak to him.

Unfortunately, love is a funny thing. There are no definites. There is an extremely low probability that she loves this person more if she has only known them for 6 weeks but it is not completely impossible. In 6 weeks, you don't even really KNOW a person. It could be that she loves the excitement of someone new right now. It is also possible that she truly believes that she loves this person more. It is also possible that she is telling you that to hurt you enough not to put up a fight while she leaves you for the greener grass on the other side. Just remember that everything happens for a reason and although it hurts, she may not be THE ONE for you. The positive of that is that she is moving out of the way for whoever IS the ONE. If you truly want to spend your life with her then go by the old saying "If you love something let it go. If it comes back it's yours." I have a feeling that if you all have been together for 8 years and the relationship was decent, she will be back eventually.

You should try to move on because if he does not want a relationship with you and has someone else then chances are that he won't be wanting a relationship with you. if he wants to be with you then he would be with you

You can tell if he's flirting with his ex, and texting/messaging her. If he talks about he sometimes as well.

Unfortunately only she would be the one to be able to answer this and know why she has done what she has but in the end whatever happens do what is best for that baby.

women take their anger and frustration out on the men that they are involved with or whatever because they know that no matter what the man will always comfort them or even if the men get angry with them because of the way they are treating the them, they know that no matter what their significant other will always be there for them. i know it is like taking advantage of the man's emotions but we know that it is a lot easier to take our anger out on ones we love rather than the people who we are angry with because we know in the end it will all end up good, and without more drama. =]

* As difficult as it is your boyfriend is immature and if he is not supporting you and at least the two daughters you had together then take him to court and get child support. He has left you, has another girl pregnant and doesn't appear to be ready for commitment. It's time to move on and find someone that will treat you and your children the way you should be treated.

Before you do that, ask the person what is causing her not to feel the same way about you, like what changes maybe you have done that caused her to lose interest. Ask her why and see if you can improve them. However, if she's asking for changes that are out of your hands, it will be better off to call it quits with her then.

* If anyone is harassing you in any way by phone calls, sending the police with false allegations against you; harassing you at your place of work; making problems in your relationship (accusing you of things that are not true) then you have a right to get a Cease and Desist Order against that person (even if it's a family member.)

don't feel guitly cuz you and he are not doing anything right

If the person was married let it go. Don't bother! If they weren't married and you just split-up then contact that person by phone and try setting up a meeting place where it's quiet and communicate your feelings. The person may or may not come back to you.

Maybe your BF was in love with her before and hasn't fully got over her or maybe they are just still good friends and like to talk