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It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.

8,665 Questions

What does it mean when a guy looks back at you?

Usually that he likes you or he's checking you out.

He may be looking to see if you like him.

Why would my ex boyfriend talk to me about our past and bring up that maybe we're not meant to be right now but he's optimistic about us getting back together when he has a girlfriend but doesn'tadmit?

It sounds like he can't make up his mind on who he wants to be with. Perhaps he likes two girls at the same time or knows she's going to break up with him soon. I would give him some space so he can work things out. Good luck!

Why do i miss someone so badly do they miss me too?

Breaking up or leaving people is a psychological wrench and while it is normal for the feelings to be mutual this is not always the case.

Ex Boyfriend added me on facebook and is in a relationship?

Probably wants to know what you are up to. He could still care about you but does not want you back

Why did my boyfriend tell me that he regrets moving in with me and that it was a mistake?

== == To some men (and some women) it can be too much like marriage and the person doesn't want to commit. They feel as if their freedom is taken away. Sit down with your boyfriend and learn the skill of communication. Ask him why he feels this way and if you don't live together are you still both going to stick it out together.

Does Hollis Price have a girlfriend?

Hollis Price has been in a long term relationship with his current girlfriend, a costume designer from New Orleans. He is also the father of a little boy.

Do most men change their mind about not wanting a baby eventually?

There's no specific answer, because only the individual can choose to change their mind. No other person or relationship can change their mind for them. What is a mistake is to become committed to a person who has made it clear to you that they don't want children, only to later blame them for your own refusal to accept anything other than a myopic belief that they would change their mind for you.

Instead of seeing a person's opinion of wanting to be childfree as wrong or eventually changing, view them as a person who knows themselves well and knows what they want from life. They have legitimate reasons for feeling the way they do.

Don't rely on a misguided belief that they might 'change'; accept their decision and either accept that you won't have a child with them, no matter how serious the relationship or look for someone who does want to have children. But then again I believe that people who sincerely don't want to be responsible for bringing a child into this world should not have unprotected sex either, otherwise they must bear the consequences and that's why we have the law to hold such people accountable.

If ex who brokeup is not contacting you could it be because he cares about you and doesnt want to hurt your feelings and let you move on and How do i know if he regrets breakingup?

Yes, I broke up with my ex and unlike the previous times I contacted her when we split, I made it clear that I was incredibly sorry for misleading her, and that she should move on. I don't want her agonizing over me any longer than she needs to, that is better than texting/calling out of the blue and stirring up old feelings, or worse, both of us mistaking our loneliness for desire to reconnect. Lonliness won't kill you, and it may even allow some much needed introspection regarding yours and his/her mistakes. Wow I feel better just typing that out. Good luck

I keep having these dreams about my boyfriend breaking up with me Sometimes it's for someone else etc We went through a horrible break up a bit ago What do the dreams mean?

It doesnt mean anything of course it depends on whast you do during the day...

Sorry to say but its sounds like your paranoid and insecure. Your paranoid bcz you basically already think you know theres gonna be a break-up, and youre insecure for believeing for another like youre not enough or sumthin. That's two things right there that dudes hate from a woman they pick-up on it like Superman. I cant rele see youre sit ending nicely unless you break it off yourself and rele think about things. Once your paranoia and insecureness is gone yall be fine!:)

How do you get over a guy who you keep going back to when you just want to leave him behind and get on with your life?

  • You can't really get over a guy who you keep going back to unless you really want to it can be so hard and seem like the most impossible thing that can be done but that is not true if he doesn't want you then he is stupid and doesn't realize how much you are worth because you are beautiful and you have a sparkling personality and if he cant see that then he is a 'pompous fool' but then again don't just blame him for not wanting you there may be so many reasons and even if it is hard to accept you could be the reason why you might have pushed him away or not shown that you like him enough he tries so hard but you push him away because you don't know what to do if you are too fast then he will think you are desperate there are so many of the'se ideas in your head and in the end you don't show the real you and the real feelings you have for him first you have to learn to love yourself and when you have done this then you can love someone else and if it doesn't work out don't just blame him or yourself think about what you did wrong and make sure you never make those same mistakes again and don't think he's the one because there are so many guys out there and the perfect one for you is out there so don't just drown in your own sorrows have fun with your friends talk about it let it out it really helps feel upset there is nothing wrong with that but don't do so forever your worth so much and this guy cannot see that so why want him forget him it may be hard but give it time it really helps and just get out there and enjoy you only live your life once so don't let one guy take that fun away from you because frankly he doesn't deserve you! PS: listening to love songs never helps, listen to girl power songs like irreplaceable and feel loads more better!
  • Hang out with your friends, go to lunch, have pool parties etc. Try not to have any down time so you don't think about him. keep yourself busy. Volunteer at the library, animal shelter, senior center, get lost in a good book. I find shopping always cheers me up. You will be over him soon enough if you stay true to yourself and do not call him or see him. Another guy who is worthy of you will appear when you least expect it.
  • First thing on your to do list: Make a mental note to yourself "Once a cheater always a cheater" people like that don't change unless they have an incentive to change either through something dramatic happening in their life to cause them to see the need to change their evil ways or they finally meet someone that they really do fall head over heels for and want to spend the rest of their life with. I got bad news for you dear. You are not that person. And you will never change this man. He has made it very clear by his actions.
  • In fact You my dear have sent this man a very clear message by your actions. "No matter how many times he cheats or what he does to disrespect you, you will always accept him back. You by doing this are not helping this man see the need to change his evil ways therefore you are encouraging his behavior. Let him GO let him see that there is consequences to his behavior he will never see this as long as he knows he can come back crying to you. If he loves you as he says he does his ACTIONS will reflect this not his words. Just remember that by accepting him as he is you are not only keeping the standards low for yourself as a woman which is only working to HIS ADVANTAGE but you are enabling him to continue on his wayward course with no consequences for his foul behavior if you really love this man let him go, stop sleeping with him and find someone more worthy of your affections who will respect you to direct your feelings towards. Take Care of Yourself!

How do you win back an ex-girlfriend that you still love when she has a boyfriend who she met when you broke up because you needed time for yourself to figure things out?

I'm afraid it's too late. You should have told your ex girlfriend how you felt and given yourselves a little time, but it appears you just faded off into the sunset without too much of an explanation and I have no doubt she was very hurt. Since she has a boyfriend I'd leave well enough alone. From now on it's adviseable that you communicate your feelings to the person you are with.

What would you do if your boyfriend's twin sister was jealous possessive and manipulative and lying about you telling him you were cheating on him and making up other lies trying to break you up?

This is not your problem at all, but your boyfriend's problem! I went through the same thing with my 2nd husband. We were dating for sometime and we were talking about the future. His sister had been in Australia and she came for a visit and it was the first time she and I had met. My husband and her had been quite close as siblings. His sister and I got along fine while she was visiting, but behind my back she told him not to marry me and even wrote him once back in Australia making him doubt his decision to get married. The long and short of it is, I was ticked off with my boyfriend for not using his own head and listening to her and causing big doubts in our relationship. It almost split us up. Many years later she admitted she was jealous and although she was in Australia she didn't want ANY girl coming between her and her brother. So, you have to have a good blunt talk with that boyfriend of yours and tell him to set things straight with his twin sister or you're going to kick him to the curb. After all, who needs it! When it comes down to the crunch and if he loves you then he'll certainly choose you. If he doesn't, then he doesn't love you and he is weak minded and you've just saved yourself a lot of heartache. Good luck Marcy

Is it possible to win your ex-boyfriend back if you stop chasing him after 5 months?

It is possible to win your bf back...on the condition of if he loves you and for what ever reason you all can forgive and forget but there is no promises in love...but i do understand where your coming from I'm in the same position right now.. good luck though! -Crystal-

AnswerI would say it's definitely possible. BUT you need to let nature do it. When love is meant to be, it will be..Whenever you guys start talking back together (eventually you guys will..) then, you wait and see what happens.For now, try to move on and put him somewhere in your heart..

Should you still be best friends with someone who is going out with your ex right after the two of you broke up and there was a chance for you to go back out but then your best friend took him?

It depends if you were the one split the relationship up. Either way, it's not wise for a friend to go rushing in and dating your ex. I'd communicate this fact to your friend and if they basically tell you your ex is up for grabs then she doesn't care about your feelings and it's best to move on from her. When people split-up they usually do so either out of misunderstanding or anger and sometimes they can get back together again. It takes a little time, and your friend has not respected this fact. If this is how your friend acts you don't need anymore enemies. If your friend landed your ex then he doesn't love you enough to try to patch things up. Marcy No, she is no real friend of yours and you should find a new best friend. She has obviously made her choice. Friends should have a "hands off" policy with ex boyfriends, it only causes friendship trouble when you share men.

Signs your boyfriend thinks your fat?

The only way you are really going to know if he thinks you are fat is if he mentions it such as: 'Don't you think that dress is a little tight on you?' 'Have you ever thought about going to gym?' Other than that you may well be second guessing him. If you feel you are over-weight then get on the South Beach Diet or Weight Watcher's Diet and do something about it and join the gym. I don't think it's so much about your boyfriend, but you yourself feel heavy. Lose the weight for you! P.S. If he has a problem with your weight, who needs him! Take matters into your own hands, and do exactly what your heart tells you.

How can you become the love of your narcissist boyfriend's life?

Narcissist people are self centered; selfish; can't be relied on and are looking out for themselves only so I have no idea why you would want to be his one great love. Do yourself a favor girl while you can and run fast and far!

What does it mean when your ex texts you random jokes?

It means he/she still likes you, or he/she wants to be close friends

Are you responsible for burial after your partner has died?

  • Generally when your spouse or partner (if living common-law) has left a Will then the deceased should have put funds aside for the spouse or partner for burial services. If this has not been done then ask the family for help and they will either be happy to give some money towards the burial without you paying them back or, you can pay them back once the Estate is settled.

How do you appolize to your friend for something your ex-boyfriend did My ex-boyfiend found out i asked a friend for advice after the break up then he contacted her i just want to appolize to her?

why is there a need for an apology? if she is truly your friend then she wont care she will only want to be there for you. also what exactly did you do wrong? if you truly feel the need to apologize then you should just bs it cause if shes your friend she wont care and if not then youll do yourself a favor by losing some unwanted baggage.

How to not break your roomate and his girlfriend up?

don't be named Andy.

don't put flower petals on his bed on their anniversary and then have him send his confused, lovable girlfriend a text asking if she put them there.

I hate you.

What does it mean when you dream of looking into your ex boyfriends eyes?

It could mean that you miss him or theres something you regret not telling him on the whole it means your thinking of him and your subconscious is trying to tell you something.

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