answersLogoWhite

0

🌎

Breakups

It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.

8,665 Questions

What does it mean when you dream of looking into your ex boyfriends eyes?

It could mean that you miss him or theres something you regret not telling him on the whole it means your thinking of him and your subconscious is trying to tell you something.

How does a girl get over being used by her boyfriend?

  • All individuals (female/male) will be used at least once (often more than once) by someone they loved. It is part of the heartbreak of lost love in order to find the right person you should be with. Even though a person's heart aches by knowing they have been used when they gave all their love to someone it is a learning curve for all individuals to know what they do not want in a mate. A strong woman of any age knows who she is and remains strong and considers the break up of their relationship 'his' loss! Life is about many roads of life each of us has to go down to get to a better place. You are just going down a bumpy road, but, remain strong and never let one man ever take your spirit or love from you because they are too immature or selfish to know how good they had it with you. Choose the next road by getting out with friends; having fun; dating again and knowing you are a good person with much love to give and that one day when you least expect it you will find the right young man that should be in your life. Be glad your ex boyfriend is not in your life stealing the precious months to years of your life.

What to do after you have messed up your two very close friends love relationship with each other and both are angry with you they are a boy and girl?

Look I did the same thing with my friends but I don't care that they are mad with me. This is what you do friend first you go to the female's house and throw a rock through her window with a note saying I'm sorry signed -insert guy's name here- and if she gets scared instead of feeling romantic then run out of the country because the police will trace that rock back to you. If you don't like that Idea here's number two go into the girl's bedroom at night with a sample of the boy's semen - find out how to get it yourself- and get a q-tip and slightly dab the q-tip in the semen and rub it inside her mouth (she'll get pregnant the next morning- and when she wakes up tell her that you're sorry and will be there by her side the entire time and she'll be in such a panic she'll let u be friends with her again. Now for the boy after the doctor's find out he's the father tell him that you will help him out and will stand by his side all the time. The couple will once again be united and you will have your friends back.

Are you responsible for burial after your partner has died?

  • Generally when your spouse or partner (if living common-law) has left a Will then the deceased should have put funds aside for the spouse or partner for burial services. If this has not been done then ask the family for help and they will either be happy to give some money towards the burial without you paying them back or, you can pay them back once the Estate is settled.

How do you appolize to your friend for something your ex-boyfriend did My ex-boyfiend found out i asked a friend for advice after the break up then he contacted her i just want to appolize to her?

why is there a need for an apology? if she is truly your friend then she wont care she will only want to be there for you. also what exactly did you do wrong? if you truly feel the need to apologize then you should just bs it cause if shes your friend she wont care and if not then youll do yourself a favor by losing some unwanted baggage.

What should you do if your boyfriend tells you that he remembers about his ex-girlfriend and when you ask him about what he wants he asks you more time to think.should you break up your relationship?

He obviously has some unresolved issues and it is good that he is telling you but at this time it is best to both go your separate ways. You can't put your life on hold and wait for him for a time that has no guaranteed length or even a guarantee of getting back together when it is good for him. Let him go and move on.

If a guy doesn't like what should you do?

There really isn't anything you can do, to be honest. You'll just kind of have to back off of him and stay friends. It depends on if he knows you like him or not though, too. If he knows you like him, then things could be a little awkward for a while. I went through it but it only lasted for about a week or so. He eventually got over it & forgot about it. I, of course, didn't. You guys would just have to stay friends. There's gonna be someone for you, just don't rush into anything(:

What do you do if your longterm boyfriend does not answer your calls for about 1 week?

Hmm... When someone completely cuts you off like that out of nowhere, it means one of two things.

1) For some reason he CANT call you. Ie: maybe he's injured or his phone is dead or something

or, more likely

2) He needs some time and space to think and be by himself.

If number two is the case, then you need to give him this space. Although, it is quite rude and inconsiderate of him not to talk to you at all about what is going on. I think what you should do is send him one email or voicemail just letting him know that if he wants some space or something to think that you understand, but you would really appreciate if he could contact you and let you know he's okay and that this is the case. If he does call you and tell you he needs space, GIVE IT TO HIM. Do not ask too many questions or get too pushy.

Feel free to ask more questions about why or whatever is going on. I've been through it all before, glad to help... Hmm... When someone completely cuts you off like that out of nowhere, it means one of two things.

1) For some reason he CANT call you. Ie: maybe he's injured or his phone is dead or something

or, more likely

2) He needs some time and space to think and be by himself.

If number two is the case, then you need to give him this space. Although, it is quite rude and inconsiderate of him not to talk to you at all about what is going on. I think what you should do is send him one email or voicemail just letting him know that if he wants some space or something to think that you understand, but you would really appreciate if he could contact you and let you know he's okay, and that this is the case. If he does call you and tell you he needs space, GIVE IT TO HIM. Do not ask too many questions or get too pushy.

Feel free to ask more questions about why or whatever is going on. I've been through it all before, glad to help...

How do you stop thinking about your ex and her new partner?

If you want to stop thinking about your ex and his or her partner all you have to do is act cool about it and just forget about the guy or girl you were with because one day your going to find your true lover!becuase he or she was the past and if you want to move on or forget about them than move on.

What is a word that means going against ones word?

to lie, to betray. it means they didn't do what they said they were going to do.

My best friend dated this guy for a week they broke up Ive been sneaking around with him behind her back and im starting to have feelings for him i dont want to loose her i think me and him could work?

well you first need to tell your friend as soon as possible. Tell her everything. If she is truly your best friend she will understand.

>>>> Also .. he dated a girl for almost 2 years before my friend. He just told us both he still misses her alot. and calls her all the time .. so im confused at the moment and do not know what to do.

Why did he breakup with me after 6 years to date a younger girl for 10 months and that he does not accept her as his girlfriend after telling me I was the perfect woman?

* He either wants his freedom or he has problems with commitment. You may have had conversations where you want a commitment such as living together or marriage and he does not want to be tied down. This is why after 10 months he does not accept the younger girl as his girlfriend. He wants to leave both doors open so he can come and go between you and this girl. If you are smart you will kick this guy to the curb and move on. Don't waste your life wondering if he's coming back. If you are meant to be together then you will be.

When a guy says he has a girlfriend but he doesn't really because he doesn't see her and his parents want them to break up and don't like her does that mean they are not together?

no they can still be together it is just that they are not in a very serious relationship and that it wont last for long at all

Why're you making this sound so confusing? "When a guy says he has a girlfriend but he doesn't really because he doesn't see her" Just because he doesn't see her doesn't mean he doesn't have a girlfriend. So he does have a girlfriend is basically what you're saying then you're telling me twice again that he doesn't. Doesn't make much sense. Next time you should work more on your question and focus on what you're really trying to ask. Just because the parents want him or her to break up, doesn't mean that he or she should. Sometimes you should let your heart decide your actions. However, if you're parents do indeed have a good reason, then you should talk with them and perhaps consider breaking up. Well, why don't the parents like her? There must be a reason for this dislike. Find out why.

Can you love someone so much that you are too afraid to see them or talk to them?

Yes, if you haven't started to steady date them, but once you start you should be able to talk about different things. It would take several dates perhaps (if you are a shy person) to feel totally comfortable. Not all of us are blessed with total self confidence and a smooth gift of gab, so, some of us find it painful when someone we love starts to talk to us. Sometimes our minds could just go blank, or, if we talk, we are fearful of saying something stupid. We can also be afraid they'll think we're stupid or not attractive enough. Second-guessing ourselves or others is a very dangerous game we play in our own minds. Sometimes we are our own worst enemy. If very nervous it's best to date with perhaps a friend of yours and their date and that way not all the attention is put on the two of you. The other thing you could do is go out to a movie, because couples usually don't talk in a movie theater. Then, when you leave the movie theater you can talk about the movie over a drink or coffee. There are ways around it. If someone loves you sometimes they prefer shy people instead of too confident a person and feel safer and more relaxed around them. Not all men/women like gabby or aggressive men/women, so just be yourself and probably what you may think is your worst feature (being shy) is endearing to them. My husband was painfully shy when I first met him, so much so, I had to go out on a date with two of his other best friends dragging along, but we had fun and I just let this arrangement be until my husband got use to me. It didn't take long and nature kicked in after that. Good luck Marcy Why not?I think it's definitely possible because when you feel intense love for somebody and they feel the same intense connection back than when the two of you get together there will be supernatural feelings..What I mean is you might get intimidated by them because these feelings will be new to you or vice versa.In another words they might leave you speechless or breathless.-DeMirci

What should you do if you have been doing well since your girlfriend broke up with you two months ago but now she has a new boyfriend and your feelings are coming back very strongly?

You're feeling a little jealous that some other man now is dating your ex girlfriend. You think it could be love, but it isn't. You wouldn't have split-up if you were really in love. Let it go and let her get on with her life and you get on with yours.

My girlfriend broke up with me in school her mom loved me and hopes my ex and i can be friends also said she broke cause she is still young 2 year difference. I'm 17. i want her back. talk to her mom?

no. give her time. it'd be weird and stalkerish for you to talk to her mom and she wouldn't want to be with you even more. put yourself in her position.. thers a kid you were with and you do'nt want to be with her anymore and then all of a sudden she's calling your mom.. you'd be weirded out.

I miss my boyfriend?

Im not sure what your relationship status with him is. However, if you guys broke up sometimes its better to just keep yourself busy. Focus on you that is the best way to keep from missing him. I understand it is hard one way or another but in the end you will understand my dear.

What if she asks for space after she breaks up with you?

That request is an indication that she does not want you to try to get together with her again. Just let her go. she says she still cares for me still

If a married man says he wants to stop because he feels guilty and you say ok and you tell him you dont want to talk to him anymore so you wont get hurt are you wrong for doing that?

No, you're not wrong. Since he wants to stop the affair, you should leave him alone to recover his marriage. Not talking is one step in that direction.

ANSWER:

what you did was the right thing to do. you can't be a part time lover and no future. At least you stand up to him........

What does it mean when you cry for everything?

Well, you could either be a very sensitive person or if this problem has only started occurring more recently you could be depressed about something. If you're just sensitive nothing is wrong with you, you're just more in tune with your emotions than other people! Try taking a deep breath, or focus on something else for a few minutes. If, however, this only started recently and you have no idea why you are crying over the things you cry about now, this could lead to a very different problem. Maybe you've had some recent trauma in your life that you're not quite over yet. If its becoming a problem, please talk to someone who can help!!

What to do when a your boyfriend leaves you pregnant and meets someone new?

Its not right to call him a man , he is a coward. You can not do to anything to make it right. Just tell the girl he is dating his truth , so that she do not have to face such situation.

  • No matter how heartbroken or afraid you may be realize that your boyfriend is a poor excuse for a man even if he is in his mid to late teens. Good men who love their girlfriends stand beside her and try to figure out how to resolve the problem. Your ex boyfriend is immature; selfish and not responsible for his own actions so it is up to you to make him responsible by paying as much child support as he can afford (a percentage can be taken off his wages) but you should see a lawyer to guide you through this. If you are both underage and both live your parents then both sets of parents should get together to decide what support each side of the family can give you.

Should your boyfriend gently rub your butt if you are on his lap and should it feel good?

yes he should but not evry time and if it does not feel good dont sit on his lap or break up with hi

Trending Questions
How do you distract someone? If you are friends with your ex-girlfriend but your girlfriend gets mad when you talk to her on the phone and screams while you are on the phone should you ask your ex not to call anymore? When you tell your ex you love them in he dont say love you back? How do you move on after a verbally and emotionally abusive with a husband of 12 years if you have two small children and your husband doesn't want you anymore but you still love him? What do you do if you love someone you don't want to love? What figures look like a heptagon? Can you find happiness while being the other woman? What do you do if you are going out with someone but you like his best friend more and your best friend thinks your boyfriends a tool? My gf wanteda break from me fora while i was deprsed and such but today i told her i was happy she then guilt triped me about not waiting now im deprsed again and so forth what should i do? How do you get to go out with a girl that has already broke up with you? Why would an ex-girlfriend flirt and be touchy? What does it mean when your ex says 'I'm in ever-growing love for you'? If you were the one that was hurt and betrayed by your husband after doing everything to make him happy how will you feel knowing that he dont love you anymore? Is it inappropriate to wear your boxer shorts around your pregnant ex girlfriend? Broken families meaning? Is Stephen G. Berman divorced? My boyfriend is going to break up with me what do I do? The guy im in love with has told me that we will never be again But he flirts with me like he still likes me a lot like making it last when we hug and when hands touch does this mean he still likes me? How long after a break up is too long for reconciliation? How can you know if he loves you?