Breakups

In order to help someone they have to want help first. one day she will wake up and look at the man in the mirra. I have had sombody that i have loved addicted to drugs and to help hiim i had to leave hiim in order for him to understand how bad things where

If you both still love each other than why did you break up in the first place?.. if breaking up is what you feel you had to do than all i can say is.. the only thing that mends a broken heart is time.. I know that's not what you want to hear but its the truth.

oo seems like some1 got themselves in a bad situation... sry but i dont think it will work out. move on.

you break up after you go trick or treating so when you say it instead of wasting their money to buy chocolate to get fat because you made them depress they already have a supply. (okay you don't use it, just a suggestion a nice one at that.)

its never to late to tell someone how you feel...... unless they're taken. come up with a plan. what does he like to do? ever catch him in the library of walking down the street. start a conversation with him and talk about common interests. when the time is right you'll know.

you shouldn't feel guilty, im a girl myself, but she made her decision she wanted the break im going through the same thing with my ex fiance right now and i told him i was going to wait but not forever its not right, for you or her

A relationship with someone who is 'really not into you'.

You may also call it a one sided relationship, which is not really a relationship at all.

He probably wants to get back together in his heart but doesn't realize it yet or he wants to get back together but he doesn't want to come on too strong.

If u luv her let her go, if she comes back, then she luvs u. its a tough law, but it works (:

You should do your best in trying to ignore him because it'll give him the wrong message such as wanting him back. You shouldn't get involved with him as much as possible if you're truly thinking about a breakup.

You just have to be like "_________(guy's name), I really do like you but I think it would be easier on both of us to just be friends. Don't get me wrong I liked you but I think it is time to just hang out as friends. So will I see ya around?" that kida thing.

it means he loves you. and maybe wants to patch up with you. maybe he's missing you and he want to get back to you.

Excellent. That's a very adult attitude. Obviously your ex likes you as more than a 'partner'. It's very good when you can do that, I have many ex's that are still close friends. The fact that we did date makes the relationship much more open.

Yes, it is . Why not? That is the ONE LOVE that will be always there and sometimes the truth one. I got divorced more tahn 12 years ago and re-married after all those years and three kids my sweetheart and like any marriage we have good and not so good moments. But without lying there is more... GOODs and we 've been happy for 7 years!!! Go for it, love is something wonderful whe you find the right person to share it !!! Of course. I know a couple that remarried after 30 years of being divorced. They are really happy now.

* Classic obsessive ex-wife so it would be wise to stay away from her. * This sort of action is not uncommon when two people either separate, get a divorce or break up with someone. She may feel lonely or is bored and she wants to keep you in the picture to fill her needs and is on a 'need to know basis' as to whether you are dating again. If you were just going together and not married and you still love her then it's up to you to communicate the this fact and to first figure out if she is worth it. If you were married then it's best to move on. If you were the cause of the break up then do the poor woman a favor and you move on!

be honest.

Stuff . That's not a good answer! I would ask for :

- Ipod

- Laptop

- Hottest new style of clothes.

- Harry Potter stuff

- New Movies i like

- And Art Supplies

OR

if you like helping people, you can ask fo donations to places like the smile train

There are many different reasons just try your hadrest to be as nice, polite, and don't cheat. Don't talk about hot guys either cause they will get suspicious and assume your cheating on them and they will break up with you.

Seeing that it is an internet relationship, he probably found someone in real life. Move on.

Gee, look at the cat calling the kettle black..don't act like you haven't lie. Don't be a hypocrite. If you judge people, you have no time to love them.

I'm not sure if you mean that your ex had a baby girl or another girlfriend. I'm going to assume that it means girlfriend. The answer to your question about how to get him back is to sleep with him and let him keep his other girlfriend on the side too. The answer to your question about if he wants you back is - YES! Why not? He can have you, have her too, and change his mind about either one of you whenever he wants. Of couse, neither one of these options is okay if you have any values. This guy sounds extremely confused and YOU SHOULD NOT BE DATING HIM!!!! If you have minor children, then you should DEFINATELY not be dating him!!! Please be patient and take some time to be alone for a little while and then meet someone else who knows that he wants to be with you for sure, someone who pursues you, and someone who wants more for you than "fun."

Usually when a boyfriend and girlfriend are together they should be able to talk to each other and as they get to know each other they should be able to talk about anything. I find it odd that you are having such difficulties talking to him and you must have a good reason. If he has threatened to break-up with you simply because you don't converse with him enough then he isn't worth being around. However, you have to ask yourself what is stopping you from talking to him about anything you choose to talk about. Sometimes boyfriends can put pressure on their girlfriends to have a sexual relationship before the girlfriend is ready and if the guy is a jerk he can threaten to break up. I went through that at the age of 16. I stood my ground, the guy left me for a girl that would "put out" and he went with her 2 months and cheated on her. I was so glad I stood my ground on this one and realized he wasn't the type of guy I wanted around me. I wanted to have my first sexual experience when I was ready and I wanted it to be a beautiful thing and not a "rushed job!" If you feel up to it perhaps you could re-post and express why you find it so hard to talk to your boyfriend. I feel there is something else going on here. THINGS TO TALK ABOUT: Bands you like; What type of music you like ... rap, pop, rhythm and blues, country, etc.; What movies you like; What actors you like; Try getting to know a little about a sport he may like or ask him about the sport he likes; Talk about things that interest you in the world and what interests him; Ask him what he wants to do in the future; Hope you re-post your question and tell us why you find it so difficult to talk to your boyfriend. Marcy

== == Hey just tell her friends you want them to f*cking stop it's bothering you and you don't care. I told that to my friends who were ignoring me and being mean and taunting me and I confronted them like I was really gonna hurt them if they didnt stop and I'm not a very big kid but its intimidating enough to tell them you mean business. == == It's none of their business and it's crass to say the least they are even bringing it up to you. Whether it was your fault or your ex girlfriends for splitting up it's still no one's business. I suggest you get new friends. When I left my first husband I left our friends behind (half were for him and half were on my side) and find other friends. It's time to move on. Good luck Marcy

No

They believe that it is love. Unless they are just lonely and just want someone to hang around with.