Breakups

* The magic word is 'married.' He may have gone off the righteous path and realized he had made a mistake or he simply doesn't want to cheat on his wife any longer no matter how tantalizing the prospect may be. If he was dating you then realize some married men want the excitement of an affair, but the woman involved in the affair is seldom the woman he will leave his wife for and if he should leave his wife he generally wants his freedom and doesn't want to commit to another women at the present time.

Be flirtatious, dress nice, smell good, lean into them a little when talking with them. Just sending off little signals such as that is a obvious way to let them know without saying anything.

Or you could be straight up about it all and kiss them first, you never know if they feel the same way about you still unless you try.

I once had the same problem years ago in high school when both of us were about to go to college. I loved him so much until i found out that i wasnt the only person he had slept with. he was devastated that we were breaking up and for a whole year after that he rang me, called on me, invited me to dances and just wouldnt leave me alone. until i went to england to visit a middle school friend who had moved ages ago and she gave me a few nifty little tricks.

• First is the obvious one. talk to him and tell him youll never love him again, but say youre sorry. if you didnt - then he would be impressed at your anger - anger turns boys on. trust me. they love nothing better than seeing a girl angry! so calmly speak to him and explain what he did and why you cant be with him.

•Get another guy. this always makes them jealous - but this is tricky as it could go either way. your ex hopefully should see that you have moved on and love someone else now - but he could also get so jealous that he starts hurting your new bf - or he could miss you even more and not leave you alone.

• Ignore him completely. blank him out! this is simple and easy. he will eventually just give up and forget about you!

• tell another girl that he likes them - try and get them together and once hes with her - your done. sorted!

• and last is the riskiest one. only be prepared to do this if he really gets on your nerves and you cant live with it. humiliate yourself.

hope this hepls!

If you love someone let them go. If they come back to you, it was meant to be. If they do not return, make yourself as beautiful (or handsome) as you can and go out there and try it again. There IS someone for everyone. Matter of fact, there are someonesfor everyone.

you should try to get closer to him again and make sure he doesn't have a new girlfriend. Let him know the way you feel and question why he broke up with you, so you can try to fix whats wrong in that area

If you are invited by his new girlfriend into the equation - then by all means, YES! However, if you two are officially split-up, then it would not be acceptable to continue to sleep with him. Imagine the scenario where you were in her shoes? Would you want your new boyfriend to still be sleeping with his ex's? Didn't think so.

I honestly don't know what it means. Have you tried asking him? Honesty is the best policy in any relationship. If he can't honestly answer you, no matter what he says, maybe he's not worth pursuing. He's definitely not worth persuing if you dn't like him. I'm assuming you do since you bothered to ask. I hope it works out.

If the person starts fighting with you for silly reasons, stops attending your calls and stops replying your messages, tries to show that he/she is busy when you know that he/she is not, stops hanging out with you and various other things; then the answer is most probably yes.

people distracted by things they like most... and hate most.

So provide or be either of them.

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Tickle their toes

Yes, it is not unheard of for an older man to want a younger woman. A possible reason for this could be that the man wants to once again feel young, and he feels a young woman would bring back this youth.

NO NO NO!!! HE IS GONNA BE 40 ONE DAY AND YOULL BE WHAT 33??? YOU OULDNT WANNA HV SEX WITH HIM THEN!! DONT DO IT! NO NO NO!!! HE IS GONNA BE 40 ONE DAY AND YOULL BE WHAT 33??? YOU OULDNT WANNA HV SEX WITH HIM THEN!! DONT DO IT!

You're not necessarily crying over him but the absence of a relationship in your life. You might yearn for the comfort of a relationship and knowing that there is someone who is always there for you.

Because yes! (: We has teenagers see love in a different point of view from Adults.

Adults may not understand or maybe they forgot how they felt when they were our age(: It is not stupid to date someone who we think we love!

You wont fell in love because you want to. Love will arrive suddenly. Just make sure, he/she is worth it.

She may be confused , love is not something that can just go away overnight . You probably did something to push her away & make her feel like she doesn't need to be in a relationship with you but she'll most likely always love you .

Just pack your bags, call a taxi and before leaving spin around and say "honey I'm leaving". If you are much too cowardly to do this, find a place to stay and call him, you can also text and e-mail him as well. If you can't summon the courage to do that , then get your lawyer to tell him. If you are having an affair then you can always get your lover to do it (it'll be like in the movies, don't forget to record the confrontation and put in on youtube). Or you can always leave in the morning and just leave a note behind explaing why (that happens in the movies too). Other methods include faking your death (leave the note) and faking a trip to Iran and telling him they have detained you on charges of working for the CIA (pretty neat). If you want out then go ahead and tell him. The longer you just sit doing nothing the more miserable you will get.

• Humans remember all their relationships so it is quite normal that you remember the good and bad in the relationship you had with your ex. In time and when you meet that special young man you should be with your ex boyfriend will be just be a faint memory.

SIGNS OF A RELATIONSHIP GONE BAD OR HEADED THAT WAY 1. YOUR BOY/GIRL FRIEND DOESN'T HAVE MUCH TO SAY AS THEY USED TO2. THEY ACT DIFFERENTLY WHEN THEY ARE WITH YOU AROUND FRIENDS 3. THEY START ACTING AGGRESSIVE/CONTROLLING4. THE WAY THEY KISS OR TOUCH YOU IS EITHER DIFFERENT OR HAS NO SPICE TO IT ANYMORE 5. THEY IGNORE AND AVOID YOU 6. THEY OPEN THEIR MOUTH AND SAY "(YOUR NAME), WE NEED TO TALK. I DON'T THINK WE..." *note: sometime they are either just depressed, going through a phase, cheating on you or they are going through their cycle/period (girls only)

Put cell on ignore.

Find spots he would not go to.

DO NOT HIT HIM.

I had a situation where I had a brief time with a lady who was besotted with me but did Cannabis and was violent.

I LOVED HER but I had to get out her way because she was violent on at least two occasions-for no real reason.

And the way to end a relationship is to DEPRIVE THE OTHER PARTY OF 'OXYGEN'

Ignore calls, stay out their way, don't answer your door if you suspect them coming round,, spend your free time out of town. If you do happen to bump into them keep the conversation polite but get out the way asap.

Staying polite is particularly important. Kicking off at them will reinvigorate them for all the wrong reasons.

And DO NOT HIT THEM UNLESS IN SELF-DEFENCE!

You run the risk of being the Bad Guy if you ignore the above irrespective of the provocation.

It really depends on why you and the person broke up. If he/she cheated on you then you really shouldn't ever go back to them. People generally aren't going to change their way of life for you. If they cheated they are going to continue, if they lie they will not stop lying. I'm not saying it is IMPOSSIBLE I'm just saying that it is EXTREMELY unlikely no matter how they manipulate it to sound like they are being honest.

If the person broke up with you for someone else they may try to come back when they are done with the other person. Sometimes the person may really realize how much they missed you but they also may just be crawling back when they don't have the other person anymore and do it again when somebody else comes along.

It is MUCH MUCH easier said then done but it is usually best to just pull yourself away from the person and move on. If you have dated more then once and continue to brake up and go back out, then nothing is going to change, just break away from the cycle. People can deserve second chances but third just shouldn't EVER happen. Once you pull yourself together you can maybe be the person's friend again but if you don't think you are capable of doing so without wanting them back, then removing yourself completely may be the best option.

I have no idea what your circumstances are, but unless he is married, then there is no reason you can't work something out. If you really love each other as much as you say there is always a solution to every problem. I have known a couple where the woman only had a year to live (she was young) and her and her boyfriend loved each other so much they had the big wedding, reception, went on a honeymoon and she actually lived for 15 years. Love can heal a lot of things. Sit down with this person you love and have a heart-to-heart talk and see if you can't figure out something. If either of you are married and you have good reason to be unhappy with your partners then it's best to leave them and both of you stay together. Good luck Marcy

I really think that you should be friends with him/her.In fact,you will be very good friends as he/she will know you better as you have dated:he/she will know your likes,dislikes and many things more.You must think that the relationship between you two will be better as friends than a couple.

She's being honest with you and you have to give her that even though it hurts you. You have to sit down by yourself and go through this problem step-by-step. First off when you go with someone the two of you make wonderful memories together before the problems enter into the picture. When things go wrong and one or the other splits up with their mate it leaves the one that is still in love with the other with a feeling of grief. It's a grief of losing someone special in your life and grief has no time limit so I can't tell you she is going to get over this guy in a few weeks, month or even a year. It simply takes patience and time. You should sit down with her and let her know that perhaps the two of you should separate until she has had time to clear her head and see which way she wants her life to go. Let her know in no uncertain terms that you aren't willing to sit around and be second best while she is always thinking about her ex. Absence often does make the heart grow fonder, so with you out of the picture it will force her to start thinking and she may just come to realize you are indeed more important in her life than her ex is. Don't sit around taking this sort of behavior as it's not fair to you. At the present time you are enabling her behavior (even though she is grieving) and you are simply going to have to take the risk that if you separate she'll either come back to you or go back to her boyfriend. Either way you win! ask her if she has considered going back to him...if she would..dump her..if not, work things out

Typically, because they're miserable themselves, and want to drag others down with them. As the adage goes, misery loves company.

well destroy something of hers undetecteed like pull a plug out of something or snip a wire of something of hers to make it look like a rat chewed it, but make sure its unplugged after awhile shell get annoyed or pissed. or you could txt her from a different phone and act like someone else and see if she will cheat with the fake man which is you and thus exposing her to be unloyal.

People grow up and change from who they used to be. This means best friends may no longer be compatible. Also, sometimes they split because of petty arguments both sides have too much pride to let go.