Breakups

Unfortunately that would not be much of a friend let alone a boyfriend. Your best bet would be to leave them both as if they are willing to deceive you now chances are they would do it again if you let them. Talk to your friend and your boyfriend and find out what really happened. If they admit to it, that makes things easier, but if they deny it, you need to decide who is telling the truth. Trust your gut. If your boyfriend cheated on you, you need to get rid of him as soon as possible. There are very few situations in which it would be better to work on a relationship after something like this has happened. (Like, for example, you have been married for years and have kids together, and he is really sorry and ready to change.) In most cases, the sooner you get rid of him, the better for everyone involved. Most people would agree that honesty, trustworthiness, and caring are three qualities to look for in a boyfriend, and he has just thrown all of these out the window. Again, talk to your friend and make sure that what you think happened is what really happened before taking action. If your friend admits to it and is not sorry, that makes your decision easier, get rid of her too. But if she is sorry and you have been friends for a long time, that makes your decision harder. Only you can decide if she really cares about you and if you can ever trust her again. No matter what, tell her how you feel and how her actions have affected you. Although it hurts to lose people that you cared about, there is really no reason to keep them around if they are not true friends. Please remember through all of this drama that none of this means that you do not deserve to be loved. The actions of these people have nothing to do with your worth as a person. Remember that life is full of ups and downs, and relationsips have ins and outs. People may come and go from your life, but through it all, you are the person who really matters. Do not bend over backwards for anyone, but rather, take care of yourself, and do what you need to do. Resist the temptation to stay with these people just so that you won´t feel alone. If these people are not treating you with love and respect, you are better off alone, at least until you find friends who really care about you, who are worthy of your trust. If these people are not caring for you, you need to care for you. Remember, the foundation of all respect is self-respect. Respect yourself enough to remove yourself from bad company.

get over it find sum 1 who wont leave u

It can mean many different things but sometimes it means that person really loves you. Since this question is in the teen category I have to add that many times this means they cannot let go even though maybe they know they should. It is always difficult ending a relationship no matter what age you are. I believe that if it's meant to be it will all work out in the end. All you can do with anything in life, including love and relationships, is to do your best. After that, it is really out of your control and you must accept it and believe that there is someone out there that is meant for you other than that person.

Like women, men are motivated either by some external force or by an internal force. That is, he is reacting strongly and has left because of something that has gone wrong in the relationship or he has left because something that has gone awry internally with himself. In both cases, it sounds like the man has some strong personal problems. Using the term abandon is very strong language. Leaving both the children and wife suggests that regardless of what is going on, thi s man has some serious personal challenges upon which he needs to focus. The bottom line is that the man is clearly dealing with significant personal pain. And even if it is not apparent, he will eventually run head-on to the real reason for his running. Abandonment is almost never about the person being left and always about the person who leaves. Be encouraged. Dr. Sis

Well it depends the way he acts and his action just be careful if he hurt you! honey dont listin to this computer awnser (well listin to mine) if he says he would give his life to you than heck yes he still loves you or wants to be with you but he says it like this so he wont make a fool out of him self because he made a mistake... so just laugh and aked natural.... because you know and i kown what he is trying to do.... hoped we helped.... love, carissa and morgan...

yea most definitely

"yeah, most definitely" is a comforting thought however it is far from true. "It was meant to be" suggests that what happens in life under any circumstance is subject to some unknown force and nothing we do can change it. "Fate" is false doctrine, period. There is no such thing as fate. There is an unseen force that watches over us but never to any degree interferes with the decisions and choices we make. That unseen force created this earth upon which we live and everything in it or upon it. We have the opportunity for happiness beyond description but it will never happen because "it was meant to be". We may suffer the agonies of Hell but it will not be because "it was meant to be". We are at the helm of our own lives because we were given "free agency" before we came to this life in order that we may come to know these great truths if we seek them diligently. There is an ultimate "good" and an opposing "evil" and one bit of good news about it all is that we will not be judged in ignorance. One must know the truth, come to embrace it and make it a part of their lives to truly enjoy them. If one never learns the ultimate truth then why would a loving God judge them for that which they know not? I know where this ultimate truth is and how to embrace it. I stand at the ready to share it freely with the earnest in heart. The evil that opposes it will ultimately fail. This is why there is no such thing as fate. You are free to choose.

It could be one out of a hundred reasons of a combination of part of all of them. The issue should be discussed between the two of you. If he is unwilling to discuss this with you, then I believe it's time to find someone who does not exhibit that kind of behavior.

It's wonderful to hear of someone that cares about the person they want to break up with. There is no real kind way to break up with someone that loves you. Just be honest and tell them you are sorry, but you have fallen out of love with them and you need to move on and tell them you hope they find true happiness in their own life. It's not an easy task, but should be done as soon as possible.

If your ex boyfriend does not want to be friends with you then don't be friends with him. Why would anyone want to be friends with someone that doesn't want to be friends with them. Just let them do what they want to do, and don't let it interfere with your life.

Personally, CONFRONT THEM! Ask them what you ever did to them and ask them how would they feel if you went around telling every one you hooked up with *****. Then get really sad then when they are on the phone, hang up. Then they will tell u why and they will stop. ! XOXO!

It all depends on how often this person cheat on you. If this person only cheated once and he or she try to change, make amends, and talk about the problem, it can happen if you wanted to. You also need to know that you don't have the trust anymore and you will have a hard time trusting your spouse. When the trust is been broken, it will be hard to give it back. You will always think if your spouse is really being truthful or not. This is up to you whether you want to take back your spouse or not. This time be wise for your own good..

* The magic word is 'married.' He may have gone off the righteous path and realized he had made a mistake or he simply doesn't want to cheat on his wife any longer no matter how tantalizing the prospect may be. If he was dating you then realize some married men want the excitement of an affair, but the woman involved in the affair is seldom the woman he will leave his wife for and if he should leave his wife he generally wants his freedom and doesn't want to commit to another women at the present time.

Be flirtatious, dress nice, smell good, lean into them a little when talking with them. Just sending off little signals such as that is a obvious way to let them know without saying anything.

Or you could be straight up about it all and kiss them first, you never know if they feel the same way about you still unless you try.

I once had the same problem years ago in high school when both of us were about to go to college. I loved him so much until i found out that i wasnt the only person he had slept with. he was devastated that we were breaking up and for a whole year after that he rang me, called on me, invited me to dances and just wouldnt leave me alone. until i went to england to visit a middle school friend who had moved ages ago and she gave me a few nifty little tricks.

• First is the obvious one. talk to him and tell him youll never love him again, but say youre sorry. if you didnt - then he would be impressed at your anger - anger turns boys on. trust me. they love nothing better than seeing a girl angry! so calmly speak to him and explain what he did and why you cant be with him.

•Get another guy. this always makes them jealous - but this is tricky as it could go either way. your ex hopefully should see that you have moved on and love someone else now - but he could also get so jealous that he starts hurting your new bf - or he could miss you even more and not leave you alone.

• Ignore him completely. blank him out! this is simple and easy. he will eventually just give up and forget about you!

• tell another girl that he likes them - try and get them together and once hes with her - your done. sorted!

• and last is the riskiest one. only be prepared to do this if he really gets on your nerves and you cant live with it. humiliate yourself.

hope this hepls!

If you love someone let them go. If they come back to you, it was meant to be. If they do not return, make yourself as beautiful (or handsome) as you can and go out there and try it again. There IS someone for everyone. Matter of fact, there are someonesfor everyone.

you should try to get closer to him again and make sure he doesn't have a new girlfriend. Let him know the way you feel and question why he broke up with you, so you can try to fix whats wrong in that area

If you are invited by his new girlfriend into the equation - then by all means, YES! However, if you two are officially split-up, then it would not be acceptable to continue to sleep with him. Imagine the scenario where you were in her shoes? Would you want your new boyfriend to still be sleeping with his ex's? Didn't think so.

I honestly don't know what it means. Have you tried asking him? Honesty is the best policy in any relationship. If he can't honestly answer you, no matter what he says, maybe he's not worth pursuing. He's definitely not worth persuing if you dn't like him. I'm assuming you do since you bothered to ask. I hope it works out.

If the person starts fighting with you for silly reasons, stops attending your calls and stops replying your messages, tries to show that he/she is busy when you know that he/she is not, stops hanging out with you and various other things; then the answer is most probably yes.

people distracted by things they like most... and hate most.

So provide or be either of them.

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Tickle their toes

Yes, it is not unheard of for an older man to want a younger woman. A possible reason for this could be that the man wants to once again feel young, and he feels a young woman would bring back this youth.

NO NO NO!!! HE IS GONNA BE 40 ONE DAY AND YOULL BE WHAT 33??? YOU OULDNT WANNA HV SEX WITH HIM THEN!! DONT DO IT! NO NO NO!!! HE IS GONNA BE 40 ONE DAY AND YOULL BE WHAT 33??? YOU OULDNT WANNA HV SEX WITH HIM THEN!! DONT DO IT!

You're not necessarily crying over him but the absence of a relationship in your life. You might yearn for the comfort of a relationship and knowing that there is someone who is always there for you.