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It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.

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What are you going to do if your boyfriend has another girlfriend. Even you know he has girlfriend you never break up with him because you really love him. What will you most likely do?

I'd drop the guy. You may love him still, but he is obviously unhappy in your relationship. Besides, if you break up, he might consider dropping the extra and sticking to you. However, the relationship between you two would still be tense, and would take a lot of work to keep it going.

The other girlfriend came after you, so he is technically cheating on you. If she came first, then he is cheating on her with you. Either way, he is cheating, and that means that he is easy to be stolen. If you steal a guy away from his girl, how do you know that he won't be stolen from you? Just something to ponder.

Drop him, for your own emotional sake. You'll be better off without the stress of this.

How do you make your heart stronger?

Most hearts are strong because its been broken so many times that it is unbreakable. If your spiritual, just praise and worship your God, and pray to give you strength.

What if im afraid to tell your friend that you still like him?

If you're afraid to tell him then don't , because if you do ,he might be emberraced and might feel uncomfortable hanging around you , but if you don't then he'll find out and he won't be emberraced.

What do you tell your friend who you've known for a really long time when she starts flirting with your boyfriend in front of you and you know you can trust your boyfriend?

you need to go up to her and say if your going to be my friend than you do not need to flirt with MY boyfriend and if you don't stop than i can't be your friend Another way would be to say could I have a word with you and calmly tell her you don't like her flirting with your boyfriend (she might not even realise she is doing it) and say you don't want a boy to jeopardize your friendship but if she doesn't stop then it may have to.

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Why your ex still hopes to be friends with you one day and she is dating someone who caused the breakup between you?

  • 'Ex' means the relationship is over and both parties should go their separate ways. Sometimes when people feel badly about breaking up they say perhaps they could remain friends, but that is almost impossible to do if one is still in love with the other. Also, some young women like to have their ex close by in case their new relationship doesn't work out. It would be best for you to get out with your friends; have some fun and eventually you will end up meeting a girl that you will love and that you should truly be with.

Can you get emancipated in California if you are 14 and want to move in with your 17-year-old boyfriend in Arizona?

You want to become emancipated huh. Is it really that bad where you are? If so, please contact CPS. They will help you. Now, will the court decide that your living with your "17-year-old boyfriend in Arizona" is better than living with your... parents? Most likely not. He's not of legal age (18). He's most likely not even capable of taking care of himself yet, let alone you. He might decide sometime in the future that he doesn't like you anymore and put you out. etc. In other words, it's a really bad idea. However, if the court does decide you need to be removed the most likely senario is for you to be placed in foster care. Choose carefully what you do. * NO!

How do you let a boy down easily when you no longer have feelings for him?

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There is no easy way to breakup with this boy and it's the best policy to be honest. Speak in a soft tone and tell them you care about them, but don't want to continue on with the relationship any longer. Let him know you want your freedom. Of course he will ask if you have another boy you want to be with and if this is true then tell him so and if it isn't tell him the truth about that as well. Of course he will be hurt, but the majority of people that experience rejection never die, heal and go onto someone else.

Your boyfriend is impossible to have an adult conversation with him without him twisting and turned everything around?

It's not ADD. It could be one or more of the following & I'm very familiar with this behavior:

1-immaturity

2-manipulation

3-stupidity

Now, the twisting things around is manipulation. he's trying to confuse you. stay focused on the subject at hand. for example, say, you're in a fight with him b/c he disrespected your mother. he might say something like "well, when I was a kid my mom always.." just keep repeating "what does this have to do with the fact that you disrespected my mother?" keep focused on the problem at hand...not all the other stuff he brings in to confuse you.

He will get mad that you're focused...the goal is to confuse you.

stay focused, repeat what he says and ask him to be more specific. he can't be specific if he's trying to manipulate, pay very close attention to the words he uses. is he using words by their proper definition? or is he slightly modifying their definition within the context?

if you listen closely, you'll find he makes no sense at all, not even to himself.

BE WARNED: once they know you can see through the smoke ...THEY WILL TAKE OFF!

IMPORTANT NOTE: if you leave many conflicts with him totally confused by what just went down, he is manipulating you.

My mantra is this: if I don't understand it, it makes no sense.

or, honey, he could be just plain stupid.

When I'm with a guy who I've been in a relationship with before I feel in love with him but when I'm not with him I have second thoughts about if I like him Does anyone know what this could mean?

Well , it could mean alot of things. But what is most important is how do you feel when you are not going out with him? Do you want him back the very second you are over? Do you think about him every minute of every day? If you do then this could just mean you know you want him but you wont believe it. Try going out with some one else. See how you feel about him. But if you do have second thoughts, even at any time in the relation ship, it may not be a good steady one. If there is second thoughts it may be time for a change. You should never doubt your love.

How do you start a conversation with your ex to get her back?

First, you should start off by apologizing for anything you may have done wrong. This will show her taht you're man enough to admit your faults. Then, you should tell her why you miss her and why she's so important to you.

What do I do if you went out with my best friend and then you broke up and now he hates me and I miss him so much?

  • If you were both in agreement to breakup then you know the reasons why and it would be to your best interest no matter how heartbreaking to start getting out with friends and get back into dating. If you broke up with him and feel he hates you don't be so sure of that and if you really want to get back with him then phone him and see if he will meet with you somewhere private where you can talk things out let him know why you broke up with him, but now you know you've made a mistake.

How do I stop harassment by wife's boyfriend. I'm legally separated and waiting the final of the divorce. He's on probation for DUI's and he won't leave me alone. He's posting my property for sale?

  • Your wife's boyfriend is already in trouble for his DUI's and since he's posting your property for sale and harassing you then report him to the police. Now that he has posted your property for sale he has committed yet another crime. You should also put a restraining order against your wife's boyfriend. That being said, if you want to be truly left alone then do not have any contact with your wife (with the exception of your lawyers being present if you are together to come to an amicable agreement regarding whom gets what) or her boyfriend and print out posts regarding your property or any threatening emails, etc., and give your lawyer and the police a copy of those posts.

What is she hurting about if she's the one that dumped me?

Of course she's hurting, probably more than you realise. Just because she left you doesn't mean you wasn't a big part of her life. She may have felt that it was the right thing to do for both of you, and just because you know you should do something it doesn't make it easier. I don't know the reason behind the break up but you never know how much you will miss something until its gone, she's probably trying to deal with this.

How do you win your ex girlfriend back if you are going to a different school in 2 months?

Ask her to transfer to Your school?

Or have a long-distant relationship?

Sorry if this isn't much help.

What do you do when this boy who you went out with for like 3 months goes out with another one of your friends?

Dont hate them. If they're truly your friends, you'll forgive them. You could argue that if they were your friend they wouldn't ever do it to you, but usually they chose you as a friend because you are the sort of person they like to associate with, and a person that you went out with is usually quite similar to you. So probably one of the reasons they are now going out is because they are what your friend would look for. If that makes sense.

Forgive them. And try and forget it. Afterall, you moved on, and you shouldn't be upset. Be happy for them being happy, and find someone else to go out with :)

Good luck

What do you think if your ex boyfriend lies about having a girlfriend cause he doesnt want to be bothered but he still wants to be friends and texts you?

i think he generally wants to be friends with you however, if you still have feelings though ignore him..my mom always says you can never be friends with an ex its too hard

Why do ex boyfriends stalk their ex girlfriends?

They stalk their ex's for a many different reasons (it depends on the situation/person). The most common reason is because they cling to their pride and they want to make sure that their ex's life is just miserable without them.

What do you do to get the seamen to come out ofters ex?

To attract seamen to come out of their ships or work areas, it's important to create an inviting environment. This can include organizing social events, providing recreational activities, and ensuring good communication about local attractions. Additionally, offering incentives such as meals, entertainment, or cultural experiences can motivate them to engage with the community. Building rapport and understanding their needs can also encourage them to participate more actively.

How do you ask your best friend out when he tells his mom everything?

There is nothing wrong with him telling his mom everything, and that is what you need to overcome. His relationship with his mother is obviously very strong, and is a good thing. When this young man makes decisions in his life, whether it is tomorrow or several years down the road, he will most likely be making the correct decisions in life due to the fact he consults with others he trusts about them. You are looking at the fact he tells everything as a 'bad' thing, when in turn he will be giving you that same attention once a trusting relationship is formed between you. So hold that head up high, walk right up to him and tell him your feelings!! Remember, if it is meant to be, it will be. However, if you never give it a chance, no one will really know how it 'could have been'.

How do you win over your friend's boyfriend?

well if you want to win over your friends boyfriend you must be very flirty with him the more he knows you like him he would think about you more often. if you start to step your appearance he would also take more inters=est in you also you can make sexy comments about him.

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