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Breakups
It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.
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What to say to your ex he just want to be friend but you still have feeling for him?
you say look hun im sorry but we cant be friend because i still have feelings for you and over time those feelings begin to want to share so no we cant be friends.
- It seems your ex boyfriend may not be sure if you want him to go to North Carolina with you and he is possibly discussing his fears with your friend. It is doubtful that there is anything going on with your ex boyfriend and your friend. Communication is extremely important throughout anyone's life so talk to your friend about how you feel regarding seeing your ex boyfriend. Be careful because it sounds like your ex just considers your friend a friend and nothing more.
You are probably correct, that God would not interject Himself into a teen relationship, but it seems unlikely too that the devil would do so. It may be that your ex-girlfriend simply didn't want to tell you that she is tired of you or that she finds the new guy more attractive...she's trying not to hurt your feelings. Find a new girl friend and forget about it.
God might do that occasionly, but not just randomly, it would be for a good reason. Your girlfriend might be doing what the person above wrote, but also, she might have been mistaken. Sometimes people think that God is telling them something, but Hes not actually.
On the otherhand, it is possible. Hey, you never know. Maybe she wasnt right for you and something bad would have happened. Maybe God did do it. But not to hurt you, maybe it benefited you.
You need to seek counselling as you have an obsession with something that is obviously not going to happen and you have wasted so much of your life over it. I agree with the foregoing...just consider what wonderful opportunities you may have missed while you pined away for someone who clearly does not share your ardor. You really answered your own question when you acknowledged that you know you need to "stop and move on." There's no better time than right now! Good luck.
How do you know weather your ex still loves you after you brokeup?
if you notice he/she gets weird when you talk about your boyfriend/girlfriend then you know they still love you but if they dont get weird when you talk about them then they are fine with you going out with someone else because they have moved on.
don't be so heartless and a coward do it to their face but with a bit of sympathy, don't forget this person will still love you.
You shouldn't have expectations where gifts are concerned - be happy with whatever you receive he likely just thought you would like such a gift. With that being said instead of trying to see something or find something that may not be there try simply talking to him if you feel something is off or leave things, relax and enjoy your relationship don't overreact over a little gift that has no significant meaning towards what is between you. Don't read into anything or everything and communicate when you feel a certain way. Communication is a very important part of a relationship.
If this is really causing you anguish, then it's probably best to move on.
If you really love someone and they dont love you back do you let go or keep trying?
if that person doesnt treat you good then yeah leave. don't waste your time trying to make or wait for that person to love you there are plenty of other people out there. and if your a girl come join my team
Truly if you love them then you should never let go. OK so say if you love them but you don't know if they love you back.Then let them know that you feel special about them.But if they don't love you then act normal.Don't talk about it.Period.Naadaa.Okay you "Play the game you win the prize."What it means is you act normal.Play around and act cool but oneday the will learn to like you and love you!!! And you will work it out like that!! Let me know how it works!!!What is a nice way to deny a girl who asked you to turnabout?
Be polite and say Thank you I'm flattered but no - sorry.
Is it worth getting your ex girlfriend back?
yeh, but that's if she wants to get back with you and if she still has feelings for u :)
Give him two weeks then give him a call (not text) to see how he is doing. He'll either ask to see you again or be indifferent. If he is indifferent, move on.
I been thinking about getting back with my daughters father I think it's because (I can't find a nice man). We broke up 3 years ago because he cheated on me. he always have asked me to get back together and I say no. but now our daughters in 5 and well I want her happiest it seem like I will never find a man who can loves us both or just find some who I like?? Its been 3 years that I have been single its hard to pay bills and think about the future alone =(.. her dad has been in her life ever since we broke up she goes there every other weekend he loves her dearly, and now he wants her to live with him we are going to court to flight her custody. His not responsible he has been unemployed for almost a year so no child support coming from him. He finally got a job. He also has his girlfriend pregnant 5 months he doesn't want a life with her neither does she with him dk why? I don't know I feel like I want to get our apartment together just the 3 of us and be a family, I feel like it might work even if he has another baby its ok with me, I know my daughter would be steamily happy to see us together again and who knows I would love to have another child, but then again im scare that he cheats or do something I don't like and we split up aging its going to hurt my daughter I wouldn't want her to go thru that.
Is it just cuss I am lonely? Or because that's her father and that's the man I want around us?
How do you say sorry romantically?
If they are willing to accompany you take them or make them a nice lunch or dinner - maybe even a picnic and have fresh flowers then simply speak your mind from the heart explaining how you feel - how sorry you are.
well, I've been in a relationship for over a year now and i do think I'm feeling sorta bored, but i still love this guy very much. yet, I'm not gonna leave him.
i personally think you should NOT end the relationship if you still love her. something good may happen between you two eventually that would get you outta boredom.
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What should I do about an ex boyfriend and his ex girlfriend?
The best thing for you to do and the only right thing is leave them alone. Do not start anything that might distract everyone else. Just move on and make a new life for you.
Well i think u should kill urself:) come on now...u knew sumone was goin to give u sum negative feedback on this shyt lol hope u get thru ur situation
Should you give things back after the break up?
If you are talking about things that were bought for you personally then no. However, if things were bought together and you are able to talk with your former partner you could divide things between the two of you. Gifts should not be returned if they were bought for you. If you bought gifts for your partner they should be returned to the rightful owner.
How do you convince your girlfriend to date other guys?
The only reason you would want your "girlfriend " to see other guys if you are seeing other girls. If you want her to date around, tell her you've been seeing other people.
Either his family does not approve of you or there is someone at home pulling at his heart strings
As a friend of someone that just got dumped how do you comfort them?
First, build your friend up by pointing out the positive things he/she has to offer. Make sure he/she understands that the breakup should not be taken personally, and is not a result of anything they did or didn't do; but more of a conflict of interest that wasn't meant to be. Next, reassure the friend that break-ups are often a blessing in disguise and should be viewed as an opportunity to get to know one's self again and determine the things he/she truly wants in a partner. Try to turn every negative into a positive. Break-ups are never easy and each one seems like the worstbecause we are over the last already; but once your friend can get past the hurt and focus on themself again, he/she will begin to see that perhaps the relationship wasn't as glamorous as it seemed. Remind him/her that there is someone out there who will think your friend is perfect in every way and appreciate all that he/she has to offer.
Relationships begin with trust. if you can not trust him, why are you in a relationship with him?
play hard to get or let him come to you,.. dont let him walk all over you.. then he'll know he can take advantage of you whenever he wants.. keep your mind off of him.. go out with your friends. MEET NEW PEOPLE
