Breakups

If you suggested breaking up, then it is totally up to you. I doubt the first option will work. Once you break up, the chances are slim that you would actually get back together again in a year. If you want to stay together, then work on it now and stay together. I don't know your circumstances so I can't give real advice.

I would respect his decision. as painful as it may be there is a child involved and that child should be his first priority. would you want a man who would have it any other way?if you feel that there could be something with this man at a later time and you can get past the hurt you must be feeling now then it might be worth it to let him go for now. if you were to win him now then all you might win is a man who feels guilty and conflicted- not the man who can love you freely. i was in a situation like that and i pushed him too fast. he really only needed time to heal and time to create a new relationship with his child. i remember how confusing a time it was for him and for me.i wish you well.

You can fall in love the first time you meet or it makes its mark over time. Its not that you can fall its that you do fall. Love is a many splendor thing. Don't force it, embrace it and it will show itself accordingly. I proposed 28 days after our first date. Today is our 19th Wedding Anniversary.

Find another one.

just ditch him, a woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle.

-----from a guy: just leave him, its not worth the trouble! however;

HEY I RESENT THE ABOVE STATEMENT! the saying is the same no matter what! men/women, cant live with em, cant live without em! Besides most girls iv talked to say they like a guy who will pamper them and stuff, and women can get lonely just like guys can! (take it from me ~.~ ... snifel ... )

well it can mean a lot of things. maybe the guy she broke up with was a jerk and she couldn't stand hom or he cheated. or she does like you. it all depends if she has been flirting with you she proubly did break up with the guy to get with you.

• There is a very small percentage of people who refuse or cannot move on from their true love. However, most people in time do move on. It would be wise of you to start getting out with friends and start dating again. Sometimes fate steps in and even though a person does not always like what is happening to them and is going down a bumpy road in life fate can dictate why you are going down that bumpy road and onto a smoother happier road where you will meet up with the person you truly should be with. Try getting out with those friends and not sit around and mope over the person you love and if fate has it, your true love may even come into your life in the future, but keep going and consider this time of your life as an adventure with prospects of true love.

You don't! They are your ex for a reason.If you were the one doing the breaking up or not it's not a good idea.If you believe in having 2nd chances have at it.I would only get back with in ex if he/she I really cared about an felt that it could really work.But in some cases that's with everybody, so be careful! you let be apart of your life is up to you.Getting hurt is apart of life.

Hope this helped

Yes because she well love you

Either make sure she wins or just break up with her first.

More make-up less underwear :)

How often do you guys talk on the phone? Personally I think that your man should make time to talk to you on the phone every once in a while. At least if he really cares about your feelings and what you want then he would make a point of taking 5 minutes a night to call or whatever. MSN is very unpersonal if that's a word but things are almost never taken the right way. You can't talk about serious stuff on MSN. It's words you don't hear the tone they say it in or anything. I think that say you guys talk on MSN and he says something that could be taken one of several different ways it could be forcing you to make a mountain out of a mole hill. or vice versa. Does that make sense.

if he loves you he would not have an issue calling, if there is a will there is a way

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This can be very painful but it may not seem like it now but time will heal your broken heart. It may not all go away but it will become easier to live with as time goes on. Keep your mind thinking of something other than your problems, the more you think and dwell on your hurts the more hurt you will receive. Get involved in an activity that takes your thoughts in a different path. Read Louise Hay books the affirmations really do work.

Most likely somewhere on the internet, or go to barnes and noble and just read it there, and don't buy it.

Well if you have been in a long term relationship with this women I can imagine you must be very hurt. To me, Ive always believed that if someone chooses not to be with you there is someone else out there that would love to spend their lives with you. I can understand how painful this situation must be, but think about it this way, there must have been a reason she left him or he left her in the first time and it will slap her in the face at some point. Good luck, stay strong.

This happened to me and it took me almost a year to get over it. This sounds silly, but after I read Twilight, I COMPLETELY got over it. Haha, okay...obviously that is not the solution. This guy acted like I was the best thing that ever happened to him, seemed like a great guy, we never got in one argument, and then BOOM...he quit calling me after 3 or so months, ignored me for three days, and then dumped over the telephone in 2 minutes. Anyways, I tortured myself FOR MONTHS trying to figure out what I had done wrong, tried to retrace what happened. He began dating almost immediately, had another relationship where he was madly in love with the girl. I still don't have an answer for why, and I have finally let go. After coming in contact with him several times many months later, it was a BAD experience trying to find out why it happened and what happened and he kept contacting me wanting to be my friend and OBVIOUSLY nothing more and then acting aloof towards me. If he has stopped calling you, then you should move on for your sake. MOST times if he comes crawling back with a reason, it is ingenuine, too little, too late, or lame. These things happen a lot, so you may never know why, but most likely it doesn't have to do with you and if it does, so what...it happens to all of us and you shouldn't feel bad. :) Don't worry about getting closure...cause you may not get what you are looking for.

Wow! If you want to rekindle a relationship, you must have real commitment to this girl! It depends who did the breaking up. If she broke up with you, don't count on it. If she wants to get back together, SHE will tell you. If you broke up with her, maybe. If you want to get back together, don't come on too strong. try dropping subtle hints to her like shooting her a smile or two from across the room. If you feel that she feels it, when the moment is right, slip her a sweet little handwritten note into her pocket the next time you see her. Say something about getting back together. If she calls or texts later, it's likely that she wants to get back together unless she says otherwise. If you are really committed to her, show up at her house in the middle of the night with one rose. throw rocks at her window like they do in the movies and when she opens it, shout "baby I love you and want to be with you again! Please take me back!" She'll be hooked instantly. Please don't bother her too much! If you do, she'll think you're a creeper and you'll ruin your chances.

The narcissist is looking for attention and whatever else you can give him. You need to show no interest, no emotion, nothing. Don't show anger or sadness or even listen to them. Don't pick up the phone. Don't answer the door if its them. Ignore them. They'll eventually go away when they realize you have nothing for them. And they'll move on to their next victim.

Yeah, i feel you should call. Don't righ away ask her if anythings wrong just see hows shes doing and maybe ask if she wants to go to the movies or to the park. It will show her that you care.

I have been with a mentally disturbed man for 9 years, he has not changed, he is a very negative person. You are too young to have to deal with him, let him go and save yourself alot of trouble in the future. I am still with my man because of sympathy, the same as you. He has been hitting on me the whole time, iI can't get out, you can GET OUT NOW

Get over it!