Breakups

He's hiding something.

If this woman was herself desiring American citizenship, and said broke man is an American citizen, then I could see this woman desiring the broke man.

Sounds like your ex friend has run out of friends and found out in reality that they can't control most people. Narcissistic or just plain abusive people usually have few friends, and the ones they do manage to make soon grow tired of their antics and run for the hills. This person wants to control their environment around them. Most of us, at one time or other, when that survival mode clicks in lean on our ability to control our environment. However, these actions in a normal person are few and far between, but with people who abuse other people or a narcissist this is their way of life. You almost have to feel sorry for them because they run in a vicious circle. Don't let your guard down and feel too sorry for them. Don't answer the phone, emails and if, by chance, you have to talk to this person make it loud and clear to them you don't want them in your life. Just tell them they have hurt you a great deal and you've had it! Walk away! If the person persists then start taping those phone calls or keeping those emails and if they threaten, call in the police. You can never be too careful. Good luck Marcy

Ooops, something happened here and I lost my post to you. The next time he blames you, you tell him, "At any given time you could have told me what was bothering you and we could have worked it out, but it was YOU that decided to cheat. Grow up!" It appears he feels stupid and knows he's made a huge mistake. Often when someone cheats with another that person isn't as good as the cheater thought they would be, and tries to slime their way back to their first mate. Don't fall for it! Get rid of this guy because he'll cheat again, his middle name is "Denial" and he's immature! You did nothing wrong! Marcy DO NOT GO BACK.....YOU WILL BE HIS DOOR MAT AND HE WILL BE USING YOU. ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER. HE IS BLAMING YOU BECAUSE HE IS A LOSER. A BIG PERSON WOULD JUST ADMIT TO THEIR MISTAKES AND TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR THEM. HE IS NOT A QUALITY PERSON & DOES NOT CARE ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS. E ----------------------------------------------------

If you fear that she's cheating on you because that's the kind of person she is, you shouldn't be with her and you should find someone who won't cheat on you. If you fear that she's cheating on you because you're a paranoid jerk, maybe you shouldn't have a girlfriend and should live in a cave.

The only thihg you can do here is give her time. Physical violence, whether accidental or not, is probably one of the hardest things for a women to forgive in a relationship. Depending on how much time has passed id start thinking about moving on.

Keep telling her you are sorry and try to make it up to her, buy her things, do what she wants you to do, be a gentlemen.

Punched her in the stomach! I thought guys did that one-on-one!!! You are a piece of work and if she's smart she'll keep going. Get your head out from under that rock of yours and realize men don't punch women anywhere! If she is getting on your nerves walk away and cool off!

"you punched her in the stomach but you didn't mean to?" Are you being honest about what happened? Take a long, hard honest look at what happened here -- punching has no place in a relationship, and you might need help to make sure it never happens again. Real men face their problems.

You're just not over her yet; it takes time to get over that.

One explaination: A natural human emotion is jealousy, and seeing someone you once loved (or perhaps still love) show feelings of affection toward someone else hurts perhaps because you no longer have that in your life.

Another reason could be that while she may not completely love you any more, she still subconsciously wishes that you would continue wanting/loving her secretly - this is also sometimes a natural, albeit somewhat self-destructive, emotion/thought women (and maybe men?) experience after a breakup.

For some odd reason, having been in a relationship with you might make her think that she "owns" a part of you, of your past, and thereby has a right to be emotionally involved in your future.

answer this. do you love him? does he love you? if he loves you then he wont go back to his ex. if he doesn't say no and leave him. he has to chose one or the other. not both because that's not fair to you and you deserve better than this.

Let her go, try seeing other people. Maybe she will be ready for you later, that's not something you can bank on. If you want to wait for her while she promises nothing then that's your business, but don't be upset if she gives you the same answer when she gets back....

Ask Him And Explain That You Made A Mistake And Tell Him That You Now Realize How Sweet, Attractive, Funny, Etc. Etc...

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depends on the person, you can easily know he is in for sex if he always asks for it most of the time and really does not care about what happens next after you are done in bed, if the man is in love you will notice that he takes it slow without any jealousy or other negativity. a lady always knows when he loves you for you.

• Most of the time love has nothing to do with it and the ex girlfriend may be jealous of her ex boyfriend because he has found someone else and she has not or, she has found someone else and is not ready to give up on her ex or simply does not want her ex to be with anyone else. Often these feelings are quite normal. In time these feelings will pass and the best thing you can do is get out with friends; have fun and keep yourself open for dating other young men. There is always that special person that will come into your life.

• first off re read ur Q it makes no sense?

I wish i knew. im stuck in the same situation.

Go to a friend or a guy that is going through the same things u are and express your feeling to that person

• You should be very proud of your ex boyfriend for making the decision to go back to his ex wife while she is so ill. He obviously still cares for her and possibly part of him would make himself feel guilty if he did not stand by her side in this terrible time of her life. It would be wise of you to move on in your own life because it is obvious he is determined to be with his ex wife. If you are meant to be together in the future it may happen.

gurl, if it is meant to be his momma boy but will come back to you after he relizises he is a grown man and makes his own desicions

If he doesn't answer your calls and is never home, I think you might safely consider you have broken up with him. You might have a need to explain why you want to break up, but it is possibly more dignified to simply stop trying to contact him. Get on with your own life; he clearly isn't part of it.

As a dude, It has been my experience that when I didnt trust my woman with something, it is because I was doing something just like or was wanting too. So he might not be trusting you bc he isn't so innocent himself.

People might want to have a deep psychological answer to this question and you might even get one, but it is not as complex as people think it is. To first answer this question you must start off by asking a question and that is why did he marry her in the first place? We will all agree that almost all relationships are built on love. Love is suppose to keep the relationship together. The problem is that people have a misconception of love; people think that love is a noun, a feeling, but it isnt. Love is a verb. It's an action. It's what you do that counts not the feeling. When people get divorced because the other person is overweight, that realtionship was never built on love; love as a verb. When a relationship is built on love as a noun, the relationship will only last as long as the feeling last or as long as the stuff, that is the source of the feelings, last. Love is a verb and not a noun. Until people understand this and truly get it, there will always be divorces.

you tell him the truth-which is exactly what u just sed!

you could get a lawyer to make her give the ring back. but since you gave her the ring in the first place, i would just chalk it up as one of those 'failed love' relationships and move on. perhaps think about it a bit harder before you give another girl a promise ring.

if she says she thinks you would be better off without her just prove you would be worse off by not having her, but you should also realize that if you do love and respect her you would do as she wants. also tell her that if you do "break" you will always be there for her.

Hope this helps