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Breakups
It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.
8,665 Questions
What does it mean when an ex girlfriend says she is lonely?
It can mean two things. 1. she is just lonely 2. she wants to hook up with you... trust me, I know. I am a girl. You can usually tell by her body language or the tone of her voice, unless she is shy, then it can be hard to tell.
What does it mean when you and an ex always seem to find a way back into each others life?
It seems he is not sure what he wants but may be always keeping options open for something that he thinks may be "better" but while keeping you around as to not be alone as well as being selfish. Don't allow him to use you.
How can you tell if he is honest when he says the affair is over?
You can't. That is pretty much on you, as far as how much trust you have in him. Just remember, it is not your fault. He decided to go outside of your relationship, and if you want to continue, then I would suggest some relationship counseling, not only for him, but for you as well, to help you get through your issues with his infidelity. Good Luck to you. Trust yourself! Let yourself be vulnerable & willing to improve both of you in the whole relationship. Don't deny your emotion. Sure it's a contaminated mess...your mind. that is. Stop asking why! Let it go for awhile. If your gut still naggs ya then P.P.P. Plan protect PROOF. Ultimatly all these answers confuse you more. Ask yourself is his effort lifting our relationship higher? Is he putting me before his needs? Can he provide a emotional bond with me? Will he trust in you enough to be honest? LIES are just friends we haven't meet yet...
Don't take his words for granted, look at his actions. If he loved you so much, why is he currently dating someone else? Tell him he can get in touch with you when he's no longer in another relationship. Establish no contact with him---don't contact him and don't return any of his calls/texts/emails. Even after a bad breakup, it's easier to remember the good parts of the relationship and forget the crap that went on. Write a list of your ex's bad traits/behaviors from when you were dating him--anytime you have the urge to contact him, read that list before you do.
How do you break up with your boyfriend for the second time?
Like you break up if it's for different reasons too. Depending on the guy it might be better not to tell him you're leaving him for someone else, but in general being honest is the better choice. However before you do that, make VERY sure you're not just having your mind twisted by someone who won't make you happier than you are already. Find out whether you really don't love your boyfriend anymore and whether you really love the other guy. Don't take quick steps, take it slow and make sure you won't regret things you do later.
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It is simple: never, ever leave someone for someone else. Stay and finish the relationship, allow time to be on your own and then go looking. I've seen women go through this cycle over and over. Each guy turns out like the last one.
Why did ex boyfriend visit at your place of work?
Your ex boyfriend is proably in love with you again and wanted to apologize
How do you get an ex boyfriend back that cheated on you?
You should have learned from the first mistake when you cheated on him. 9 chances out of 10 the guy did the right thing and forgave you and you let him down by not respecting his kindness. Basically, you deserve what you got because you have one lousy track record. When you truly love someone you don't entertain the thought of cheating on them. Cheating can happen out of loneliness (the partner not being there that much) or, an argument that could have possibly been patched up. Sometimes the lack of commitment gets in the way.
Hopefully you'll have learned from what you've done because if you pull this off again with anyone else you're going to be one lonely person or end up with someone that uses and abuses other people as well.
I'd call him up and he may meet with you, but I have to say, if this guy was smart he'd kick your booty to the curb!
Marcy
Why does your ex boyfriends new girlfriend look just like you?
As he knows that you are no longer there , next to him he tried to find someone that reminds him of you which is sweet but offensive to that girl.
Nice ways to break up with your boyfriend?
There is absolutely no other way to break up with a boyfriend, but to be honest with him. Yes, he will be hurt, but it's better to be honest than stay with him and perhaps end up cheating on him because you are unhappy which would hurt him worse.
You could be kind about it and simply tell him that you are too young, or you want to experience more in life and don't want to get into a serious relationship at this time.
When to date after a marriage break up?
There is now right or wrong time but it has been said that people who date before the first year is out have gotten in a lot of arguments with their families because of it. You should start dating when you feel you are ready to move on, and only when you are ready. It is up to you to decide.
Why men won't admit they are in love with a woman love?
some guys r very sensitive !surprise! they r kinda scared they think if u say know then they ruined it and they don't have another chance so that want it to last as long as possible other wise it just gets really awkward
Wow, that's a tought one. Uuuummm I think you could just either ignore him or her back, give them a taste of their own medicine if they talk to you or you can give them a letter saying piss off or something Hes doing that to deliberatly hurt you. It takes alot of energy to ignore a person, so if he really didnt care he would talk to you normal. Hes a loser and spitefull. This one is really simple, despite it's apparent complexity. If it bothers you, and you can't find a way to make it not bother you, you go work some place else. There are lots of reasons to leave a job - lack of opportunity, a poor financial outlook, a better offer comes along. This reason is just as valid as any of the more traditional reasons. Pick up and move on. --Eric
How long should a break from a relationship be?
depends on whether you have had sex with the person.
maybe 2 weeks, tops.
but y?
Why is it married men want me to be their mistress?
- Is it that you make put yourself in situations to be around men like that? Married men never leave their wives and if they do the relationship never last.
- You ask this question as if it is important to the man that the mistress is you. Most married men are just after free sex and too mean to pay hookers for it. They do not care who the woman is who gives them free casual sex instead, so long as she is attractive and says YES PLEASE. It is very rare that the man loves the woman and if he did he would not insult her by asking her to make do with being his dirty secret.
What do you do when a guy says he just wants to be friends?
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If you loved and dated a guy and now he just wants to be friends, probably he has another girlfriend or someone else that he likes. Perhaps it would be better for you to move on and forget him.
How to move on after a break up?
If the break up didn't end too badly or if you think you can, talk to the person and as hard as it is when you've been hurt, consider the facts. Finding out that someone doesn't love you anymore hurts, alot, but its better than not knowing, fueling pointless hopes that will only hurt ten times worse when they're broken down later on. Don't immediately look for someone to fill the gap, focus on the other great things in life. Friends, family, sport or some other leisure activity your really in to. Keep your social life going and take the time not to consider what went wrong with the last relationship but know what your looking for in a person. Not to unload on WikiAnswers but I've just gotten off the phone after this exact situation and now that I'm forced with loving someone who doesn't love me back I think I can move on. That's it from Mr Fit It. Good luck.
There is no point in taking revenge for revenge only makes the situation worse. As a christian, Jesus said to love your neighbour as you love your self. If you take revenge, you are not showing love! I wish everyone could think of what Jesus said before taking revenge
How do you convince your ex to get back together with you?
You must first determine if he desires to come back..then you must determine if it's a good idea for the future of your life to call him back. You cannot successfully force someone to spend time with you, but if you feel it's a good idea...go see him and tell him how you feel. Honesty is the best policy, and boldness attracts success.
What does it mean when your ex boy friend is trying to kill you and your pregnant?
IT oviesly means that he is annoying and that you need some time from him like you should see other people and your not meant to be . listen to your body
or it could mean ur going threw a difficult time with that person, and your thinking about them alot. In dreams of death, it usually can mean to new begingings, and killing off and old part of your self and past maybe. It could be something you want gone, but your partner doing it for you in your dream.
How do you get your ex-boyfriend back when you were the rebound girl and he went back with his ex?
I wouldn't try. You admit you were the rebound girl, so that tells me that he went back to the girl he really wants to be with. Even if you succeed in getting him back,it will most likely just cause you to get hurt more later. You should forget him and move on. Deb
If you want a guy back and he is with someone else but still likes you what do you do?
- As painful for you as it is he has told you he doesn't want a relationship with you and you can't make someone love you. Your heart is breaking now, but, it is true with many painful breakups that in the end it was the best thing that happened and the person going through the heartache is free to get out with friends and have fun; meet other people and eventually you will meet the person you really should be with. Sometimes life can be full of twists and doesn't seem fair, but, destiny comes into the middle of things and you are lead down another path and away from the situation you are in so you are free to be with your true love that you will eventually meet.
Is it bad to be jealous in a relationship?
A little is fine, and definitely normal in any relationship, but jealousy can cause a lot of problems, as long as you both trust each other then it shouldn't cause too many problems. Actually, yeah. It shows that you lover cares that you his/her only one.
