Cheating

• If you have the proof your spouse is engaged in a cyber relationship then you should run off copies of what you have found and confront your spouse. Some people feel flirting; talking dirty, but no sexual contact with the opposite sex on the Internet is not cheating, but it is.

Give each other one more chance but if either of you cheat again then the relationship should be terminated. it's 4 the best.

stalker much..

If you cheated on her, the first thing would to gain trust.

I am a woman, and if i ever got cheated on i would probably never be able to love that person again.

i couldn't stand the thought of someone who "loved" me being with another person..saying things about me possibly, or saying that he loves her as much as he loves me.

its disgusting and i could never love him again.

hopefully for your sake, even though i doubt you deserve her if you cheated, shell find it in her heart to start trusting you.

no relationship can get anywhere without trust.

Yes and dont do that.

It could be either, and either way it's inappropriate. It stopping, apologies and atonements made, and a promise for nothing like it to ever happen again are the least things that must occur for a marriage to continue after an affair.

You don't but in time it will ease up. I do am sorry for what's going on with you right now. From my experience it's going to be hard for you for a while. You will have this roller coaster life and it will feel like your watching a re run movie that keeps on repeating. Your heart will feel like someone hit you with a brick. The only thing you can do is make sure that you take care of yourself. For a while you will feel your life is down the drain and like a night mares. You can also ask your husband to give you space so you can think. If he needs to move out, say so. Try not to loose your faith, hangout with friends who can understand how you feel. But most of all make sure that your husband will not manipulate you. Good luck.

• A very high percentage of affairs are not worth it. Cheating is low; deceitful; immature and the person having the affair has no feelings towards his/her partner as to the damage and hurt they may cause. For some who have affairs they love the excitement of sneaking around (some almost hoping to be caught) while others are fearful; feel guilty and are always looking over their shoulder for fear they will be seen by someone they know or their spouse will catch them. Yet others love 'the chase' of finding someone they are attracted too (in love with love .. not real love) or just plain sex and nothing more and once the they have conquered that person they may stay in the relationship for a few months and move onto someone else. In the end almost all people who have affairs are caught and some spouses forgive, while others will walk out of the relationship and the person who had the affair is left with nothing. If word gets around that an individual is considered a 'cheater' or has too many affairs they risk having a normal relationship because most men and women would not want anything to do with them for fear of being used themselves.

Usually Frankish women got married around the age of 12.

Have him followed.

cheating is bad don't do it

* The question is .. why are you sitting around letting this happen? You need to confront your wife and let her know that you are aware of her position and why she feels the need to have an emotional affair. Emotional affairs are generally started when one spouse is unhappy in the marriage and feels they are being ignored or neglected or the romance has left the marriage. Men often get confused with a woman's way of thinking and in the case of your wife she is hoping by leaning on another man with her problems and talking things out she may get some answers to the marriage problems, but this man wants to take advantage of her by having a physical affair with her. Communication is far more important than sex and the two of you need to work on communication skills and also consider seeking help from a marriage counselor. If you don't take stock of yourself in this marriage and see where you may have taken your wife for granted without realizing it and confront her then you may well lose her. Both spouses in a marriage should be able to speak their mind on things that are troubling them in their marriage before something drastic happens. After speaking with your wife (I would advise you to listen carefully to what she is saying) then perhaps you can rectify the problems and go on a nice romantic holiday (doesn't have to be that far away from home) for some much needed R & R may bring you a little closer together, but that is not the total solution to your problems. You both need to seek marriage counseling to get an outside view of what both of you are truthfully feeling and the weak points in your marriage you both have. Every marriage gets into some sort of trouble.

Personally I wouldn't be very happy about it, but it could be completely innocent - does he try and hide his behavior or is he open? If he is trying to hide it then he knows he is doing wrong. Also it depends on how regularly he does this, if it's weekly then I would say there was definitely a problem but if it's only once in a while he may not see it as such. If the wife sees it as a problem - then it is, speaking to him about it would raise the awareness of the issue and to possibly request he stop. The real question should be why is he going there in the first place? That is something that should be addressed. No

only if you want to continue in this circus. cut it off with a happy moment of your own. playing games doesnt satisfy anyone including yourself.
be happy that this jug head is out of your life and stinking up someone elses yard. believe me when i say he will be found out either when he has 3 kids and a divorce pending or sometime nearer in the future. dont concern yourself with the details just go on with yours.

This happen because they aren't mature enough to be with someone, and they think that doing this to other person is fine, but obviously is not a right thing to do, but not all men's do this, they're some guys who well actually be with you and make you see things different, but don't let no one hurt you, always put your self first.

It depends on the kind of guy you're married to. If he's always trying to make something perfect, it means he might want to nake you happy. Nobody likes a wife who complains a lot, which is why a married man tries to make people happy, his wife of course.

Probably because they no longer have control of a situation they felt they had under wraps. Instead of both relationships, his spouse and his lover, being controlled at his discretion, both sides now have a choice in staying with him or leaving him because of the whole affair being out in the open.

Well first of all I don't think it has anything to do with them being gay if their cheating it's because their either unhappy in the relationship and are incapable of being faithful or maybe their bored? Maybe at this point it may be time to move on or if you feel it was just a one time occurance then seek counseling.

dear questioner! always there are two kinds of actions that can hurt u or others or beloved ones! 1. physically 2 . psychologically . if u hurt yourself then u are not just hurting yourself u are hurting your beloved one's too! trust me on this one!! when u cut your own skin with a common knife the more blood blows out the more adrenaline harmone runs through ur body and this harmone makes u feel like in peace and ectasy but after an hour it hurts PHYSICALLY like hell to yourself! then your beloved one's by seeing this they are hurted PSYCHOLOGICALLY!

It doesn't mean that he is cheating, but it is possible. If this is happening and it is bothering you you need to have a conversation with him about how it is making you feel. You shouldn't accuse him of cheating on you, but rather ask him why his behaviour has changed. There can be many reasons for such a change of behaviour, one of which could be cheating.

what you need to do is tell your wife that u 2 hooked up and just hope she takes it the right way atleast your telling her. .

You meet and greet his family with a smile. Later clear everything out with your boyfriend. If everything is clear live happily.


If he does so meet the family. Ask him later why is he doing so. Then clarify everything with him.

Because she's someone new and exciting for him and he wants to show her off but, only to people he doesn't know. Also, she probably has no children to take care of, like his wife might have so, she can actually get out for drinks!

There is no way your ex boyfriend on his own intentionally got you pregnant - it takes two to make a baby and if you had unprotected sex you knew there would be a possibility that you could get pregnant - so the blame is not at all on him. If you and your ex had sex and you both consented that does not mean he likes you it could just mean he wanted to "get some" so to speak and who better with then his ex. You should really talk with him concerning this as if you are having a baby together you are going to be talking for a very long time and you might as well at least be mature, civil and friends.

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