Cheating

Spain, Portugal even italia sometime, where ever it is very sun outiside.

Would you be so kind as to ask your question again, this one makes no sense at all.

No, or should I say that it does not cause infidelity more than being intoxicated with alcohol does. If he told you "sorry I was hammered at the time I boffed your sister", and you accept that as an excuse, then yes Wellbutrin causes infidelity. If not, then NO.

Lying can cause many changes to your body, for example, when you tell a lie, you heart rate and your pulse increases. Your skin lets off more perspiration through the sweat glands and this is all mostly because of nerves.

At the beginning he is enamored with the person because they are all bright, new and shiny. It's an adventure and both parties know it. No more "same old, same old with the old girlfriend or wife!" Of course the mistress is going to appear just super wonderful to the rat fink cheater and he'll feel like King of the Castle and have her believing his girlfriend or wife treated him so miserably. The upside of this beautiful story is ... you can't be a chameleon forever, and sooner or later she's going to get sick and tired of the same irritating traits in him that the girlfriend or wife had to put up with and before you know it ... Poof! The mistress is no more! OR............ He has his mistress completely under his spell no matter how terrible he may treat her, but he forgot one little weeny thing ... commitment! Yup, commitment to marriage or at least a more meaningful relationship never really goes away. Either way, the cheater loses! Good! If you don't believe me have a look at some of the posts from all sides of cheating (wife/husband/mistress or lover.) Marcy

it depends if your spouse had sex with this man

Sometimes. People who go to the other side because it is greener generally have some growing up to do. Wise people realize that the grass always looks greener on the other side, but that they shouldn't take the field that they're in for granted.

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Do they, some do because they get caught, if it wasn't discovered he will stay as long as his needs is being met. But when it comes to "grass is more greener" this will be up to the married man, if he don't get caught there are some married men that will keep both, because if he don't get it from his wife, he have someone to do it for him. Married man thinks that the other woman is more exciting than his wife. Wife will be so busy with household responsibilities, children, and much more, while the other woman will be available every time he wants sex with her, no kids to deal with and he don't stay overnight with his mistress.

So the answer is some married men will, and some wouldn't

There are two basic types of abuse. One is physical where you are hit, pushed, shoved, pinched, kicked and other physical things. Sex can be included in this because often it is violent. The second is emotional abuse. Emotional abuse is when you are called names, ignored, put down, told your are stupid or ugly, removal of sex. Each of these are men looking for control and they do it through abusing you. This is not love and if you are involved in a relationship with some of these things or both you need to get out. He will NOT stop no matter what he promises and how much he tells you he loves you. If he truly loved you he wouldn't do these things.

• If a man has a peaceful existence with his wife then there should be no reason to have an affair. A man is only fooling himself if he falls in love with another woman and doesn't think that eventually there will be a physical relationship. Cheating is cheap and hurtful to a man's mate and if they have children it hurts the children and is embarrassing to them.

Men use woman he loves because when a woman loves a man she devote herself to the man and the man thinks she is fully depended on me, this makes man feel as he is god for the woman and pay less attention and start using her.

'Cause he's a jerk! He doesn't know what he wants he's confused because he probably wants you both but since he is married he tells you "Friends" but in his mine he says " I want her too" that's why he drives and calls to see you.. I don't think that you should stay in that unhealthy relationship.

He's just trying to muster up the courage to make a move on you. And you, you should have bettersense. Tell him to stay home with his wife. If he's this hesitant to even make a move on you, he will either hate you or himself or both of you from the stress of the guilt afterwards.Save yourself the headaches and heartaches , and get a grip on your personal dignity and self-worth .

No, unless you really believe you can make things right again...

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No. My daughter would be my primary concern. I'd encourage her to stop cheating, and give extra support in valuing and rebuilding her marriage (or in doing what was right for her).

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If it was me, I will make time to talk to my daughter and ask what's going on with her life. I will tell her that I know what's she's doing and I will use my influence be telling her that I didn't raise her to be a person that can not solve any problem and betrayed someone. I will not tell her what to do but I will tell her she needs to solve her issue. Parents can not tell their children what to do, but we all can be the best friend they need. All we can do is be there for them and sometimes pick up the pieces when they get hurt.

You did not mention if this was mental, physical abuse or both.

There could be several reasons for this.

If they are elderly he may not have the energy or mental capacity to look after his wife.

If they are only middle aged, then looking after a disabled person is not as easy as it looks. It can be extremely draining and frustrating. Women are more apt to search around and find added help out in society, but men sometimes just don't know what to do. Then you have to understand what is really abuse. Example: If she's been in an accident and needs to see her physiotherapist a couple of times during week and doesn't keep appointments or follow their instructions that can be very frustrating for the caregiver. She certainly could be just sitting there feeling sorry for herself and perhaps she isn't as disabled as you think. I know many people in wheel chairs, some walking on walkers and canes and they manage to have a life. If she has given up on her condition her husband may be at his wits end, and don't consider some nasty words he may use against her as a total fact that he doesn't love her. Frustration may make him do this. Get the whole story!

There is a solution to this problem. If you are a family member then PLEASE interfere! Nicely sit down with the husband and say something like, "I know it isn't easy dealing with all of this, so can I help you find help for someone to come in periodically to help you out with your wife?" He may be over-joyed to leave it in your hands, but also he could be the cork in the bottle and refuse the help. The main point is, you need to get this lady some help either for her physical condition or mental condition!

Be careful about accusing the husband unless you know the entire situation. Medications can certainly play a role in the way some people react to these situations. He could be on medications for stress, heart, diabetes, etc., or she could be on medications that leave her lethargic, possibly paranoid. Unless you can actually see the mental abuse and understand what is behind the problem of verbal abuse, then you can only report it to Human Resources or Mental Health of you are not a family member.

Good luck Marcy

As a disabled and abused spouse, I must say that my husband's poor attitude towards me slows any possible recovery. He does not handle stress very well and to him, the smallest decisions bode the potential for a crisis. I could ask him to bring me a glass of water and hours might pass before he would bring it to me if then. I have hired help but when they appear, he explodes in a furious rage and the people leave. The situation is so bad that my helper which he does allow in the house came to me one day and said, "I had a dream about your husband and I woke up in tears because he is so horrible and mean." (So much for any possible paranoia on my part Miss Marcy.) I have no nearby family at all and most of my friends have married and moved away. I am presently recovering from pneumonia and this morning he was in one of his rages. Not only did the man verbally abuse me, he also hit me and bit one of my big toes. After this very negative encounter, I locked the bedroom door and did not respond to him for several hours. The man is a complete brute at home but once he leaves out of the front door, he morphs into Mr. Nice Guy. Despite my physical limitiations, I plan to leave him in the near future.

Sally

She can talk to any one she wants, if this bothers you, ask her why she would not tell you, maybe she knows that you are insecure and jealous and does not want a quarrel on her hands.

There are many men and women who talk to their exes, so if their current partners have a problem with that, maybe they should rethink their relationship.

show her how much u love her and need her back in your life.... if she loves you she will come back... and say sorry to her for breaking her heart and promise her you wont ever break her heart again... and always tell her you love her... =)

He's scum. Move on.

• Humans can be mentally and chemically attracted to the opposite sex whether they are married or not and it happens, but it is what the person does with their feelings that counts. Married; has a girlfriend ... stay away! This has always been a code amongst women although it appears in today's society it doesn't matter. As far as the individual it does matter and one loses respect for themselves (or perhaps by others) if they choose to cross that line.
  

If you were the one who was cheated on, it is not your fault. If you are the one that cheated it is your fault for ruining something you already had.

Both can be at fault for the problems in a marriage but the one who takes the actual step and cheats and involve someone else in the problem, that person is at fault for doing that. It can be stopped in time but they made a decision not to. The third party who he/she cheated with should just be held outside of the equation. It would just mess up your problem even further. That person had nothing to do with the problems you had from the beginning.

• When an ex mistress of the husband in question refuses to leave him alone it is one of two things: he is not making it clear to her that the affair is over and is still in touch with her or, she has an obsession with him and will not take no for an answer. The ball is in your husband's court and he should be looking after this problem. If he is serious about ending the relationship with his mistress and she stalking or constantly phone him or bothering him at work all he has to do is see a lawyer and get a restraining order put against her. If he refuses to do this then be wary that he does not want to completely end the relationship with her.

• Birth signs have little to do with whether some man cheat or not and it is in their character to cheat whether they are any birth sign.