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Cheating
This category contains all questions regarding cheating and everything it entails, whether it is emotional or having physical relations with someone other than your significant other.
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confront him about it
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Is your boyfriend a modern man, I ask because most men especially married are very curious when it comes to on line dating site. Then there's no such things as dating site on Internet maybe before their time, so now that we are on this computer, cell phone and such, they do check it out. Before you start the suspicion make sure that you know what to ask so the two of you will not have no issue. But at least make sure he will not give you stories why he checked that site.
most probably yes since it mattered a lot to him not only the sexual part of their relationship but being friends was important to him too i guess it was not something sexual but something deeper though i believe if in a relatioship sex has been involved and the the relationship comes to an end it s very difficult to keep the friendship as it used to be
Is your girlfriend all of a sudden calling you everyday a sign of cheating?
well it could be is she nice with you than yes but take it from me i am a girl
Can you sue your ex to pay for std testing after you found him cheating?
It depends, if its AIDS and he knew he had when he had sex with you, he can be charged with assault, but if its just a normal Herpes or Crabs, you have no legal right to sue him.
Why man cannot say to his girlfriend that he cheats?
men cant say that to their girls because girls are sensitive and some fall in love quick and if men cheat then her heart is broken and the trust that was within the couple is now broken and it takes a very long time to build back the trust.
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Why? It's true that women are all about emotion, not just sensitive. But common sense why did this man cheated on his girlfriend in the first place? When it comes to this kind of problem, most man married or single is all about the feelings of betrayal. And some of their reason will not be wanting to feel guilty for what they did. And some is the good feelings of hiding that they can get away with it....
Your husband has been cheating and he has been wearing condoms are you safe?
No you are not 100% safe condoms only protect you with certain STD not all. Syphilis. and genital warts are not passed in semen but by contact with genitals of an infected person. Also condoms are only 94-97% effective against gonorrhea and chlamydia , and HIV. So if you know or think he has been cheating protect yourself and go get tested.
Well, it's a lot of drama.
If you only think you love her, then, in fact, you don't love her.
If you have the impression she's cheating, then that implies you don't love each other.
If she really is cheating, then she doesn't love you.
It's kind of a lost cause: I'd dump her and move on to find someone more compatible with you.
And someone with whom there is less drama.
Why would you want to stay in that marriage? Get out. If he knows that you know he cheats and he is not willing to be faithful and go to counseling, forget him. Find a way to take care of yourself (and your kids if you have them--do you want your kids to grow up thinking that is how relationships work?). It might seem impossible, but women do it all the time. Find a job and a place to stay and respect yourself. You can be happier without him.
How do I convince my husband I did not have an affair?
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If he truly believes that you've had an affair it will be terribly hard to convince him that you didn't, so the best way around this is to shower your man with tons of love, be there for him, be reach-able at all times, do things with him and comfort him because he has lost faith in you. Whatever you did to make him think such a thing won't go away over-night, but doing the above things if you really love him will definitely bring you the rewards of his believing in you, but it will take sometime before that happens.
Good luck
Answer2: You dont give reasons why your husband thinks you have had an affair. Even if adultery is not the case, the damage caused by lossof trust can be extremely hard to repair. Keep friendships with members of the opposite sex within appropriate boundaries. What you have to do now is working on building trust and rekindling the spark that may have gone out of your marriage. Start by sitting down and having mature open and honest conversations. Speak to each other in a kind, tender and compassionate way. Work on restoring that close emotional bond that you apparently had before. This is strengthened by unselfishness, trust and mutual respect. How you say something is as important as what you say. So even if talking things out gets heated, do yoir best to use kind words and speak in a kind way. (see 1/15/15 Watchtower study article Let Jehovah Fortify Your Marriage on Jehovah's Witnesses official website)
i guess the answer is YES because its his form of self defense. He would like to divert your attention to the HITTING YOU ISSUE away from the one that you're actually asking him.
Why can't men be happy with just their wife?
it depends on the man. If they are cheating on you they are simply unfaithful, but where only talking a bout a very small amount
Why would a wife lie about her coworkers flirting with her?
Male coworkers have flirted with me in the past, but, it was harmless, I was married and wanted to stay that way. I didn't feel any need to tell my husband and it wasn't because I was lying to him, but it was of no benefit to him and by telling him it would only make me look like I was either playing head games with him to make him jealous or being an ego maniac.
It appears there is more to your story than you were able to explain in your question. I hope you will answer my post and give more details. There is no way you could know if your wife has coworkers flirting with her unless a coworker told you, one of her friends told you, or she told you or you work in the same company she does.
Is it related if you have a yeast infection and unexplained scratches on your back?
Yeast infections are vaginal. Scratches on your back have absolutely nothing to do with it. No, yeast infections do not spread, they are from an internal fungus. The unexplained scratches on your back have to be coming from something external. Is your skin sensitive to a new material from your clothing. Have you been itching your back and not realizing that you are scratching it with your nails. Do you have a cat, maybe while you are sleeping they are getting on your back and getting comfortable. Just a few feasible scenarios. Good luck.
How can you tell if someone is lieing?
When you have a feeling. Or the expression on ones face and how one talk.
It certainly makes your life more complicated to marry and then realize that you love someone else more than the person you married. But you can still get yet another divorce, and try try again. I have known people to remarry as many as half a dozen times.
Is a man cheating if he has a low libido for you?
- Low Libido means that there is low sexual desire or low sexual performance. Libido has no direct indication of fidelity or even attraction.
- Having diabetes; Low Testosterone, High Estrogen, thyroid problems, antidepressants and even Cholesterol meds, heart problem or other diseases can all cause low libido. If the person is depressed and on antidepressant medication this can also lower their libido. Even Anxiety, depression alone without medication can cause low libido.
- Since you obviously have had a sexual relationship then you should feel comfortable with opening up and discussing this problem with him. Make sure it is a conversation, not accusations or confrontation, there is a very real likelihood that he is having a hard time coping with some very scary issues for a man.
- Listen to what he has to say and don't always jump to conclusions that low libido (change in sex habits) means the person is cheating on you.
- Could be that he isn't stimulated by you anymore or is harboring resentment over changes in your relationship. Death in the family, adding a child, financial or job related probles can all kill libido.
- Low Libido can be physical, mental, societal, hormonal or relationship based. Confrontation is the worst approach.
Would it help if you knew the warning sign that your spouse is having an affair?
- Unfortunately, cheating is about sneaking and some people are very adept at it (an art form) so it can be very difficult to determine if a spouse is having an affair. There are two ways to know for sure; follow them with a female family friend or hire a detective. There are some signs, but it's second guessing: saying they are working late (this is possibly true and just because you can't reach them doesn't mean they aren't at work); if a friend should see your spouse with another woman at a restaurant and your husband is in a line of business where he has clients then it could be nothing more than a business meeting. If your husband is ignoring you or your sex life has taken a fall your husband could be over-tired; depressed; worried about finances, etc. It is better to work on good communication skills than second guess a situation.
What is something an individual would be angry at if they found a partner had snooped into it?
- Individually speaking nothing; if a person has nothing to hide then they should not have secrets from either partner.
How do you know the difference between anger and hurt?
Anger: has a sting face, seems like they are going to explode
Hurt: feels betrayed, wants to cry
Can a person abuse someone physically while they are asleep?
Yes. It is possible to abuse someone who is awake so of course it is possible to abuse someone who is asleep and unable to to prevent the abuse.
Should you follow your boyfriend if you think he's cheating on you?
No you should lure him to you so if he isn't he'll never know :-)
How do you stop spying your spouse and start trusting?
Well there is no relationship without trust so if you can't trust then you might as well not be with them trust should be the first step
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Why does she still want to hangout call you and texts She the one who broke up with you?
Although she broke up with you many young women are unsure of themselves or, possibly they don't like the idea of you dating other girls (even if your ex girlfriend is dating) and she's keeping tabs on you. If you were smart you wouldn't give her any information on your personal life and there is no one forcing you to answer her phone calls or texts. Tell her if she doesn't want to get back together with you then you're moving on and to stop bothering you. Don't buy the quote, 'but we still can be friends can't we?' Say no! You can be kind enough to end it with wishing her the best in the future.
The best way to win her back is to listen to the reasons she left and then fix those problems.
You should be able to communicate with your husband now and tell him you just didn't fall off the last turnip truck and what is going on! Tell him you aren't putting up with it. Don't yell or scream, but say it in a calm, but stern manner. Ask him to explain his actions. If he says that they are just friends tell him you aren't buying that one. Friends don't hang up when you answer the phone.
If he is guilty, then skip the harrassment charges and file for separation.
AnswerYou might try changing your phone number to one that's unlisted so she can't get your number and be a pest.Check out your rights on a restraining order. You CAN file phone harrassment charges. But, depending on the state you reside in, you may NOT be able to file a restraining order. Some states only allow restraining orders on people you have been in an "intimate" relationship with. Or, in certain cases have been sexually assaulted by.
However, if you threaten to have this woman thrown in jail for harrassment to your husband, you can probably tell his feelings for her by his reaction. If he gets on the defense and tries to keep you from doing anything, chances are he is still cheating with her. Examples are if he says, "Just let it go, she'll get tired of calling", etc. Then, I'd re-evaluate if you want to be w/a cheater. You know what they say.."Once a cheat, always a cheat". Weigh out your options and realize that YOU deserve NOT to be treated like that!
I meet people all the time in and have small talk with them but none of them call my house. WHY would he keep it a secret that he had an "innocent" chat with someone on the plane for 8 months. Usually when the "OTHER" women starts calling home its because she wants to know how wifey lives and is jealous that the man is going home to her. Nobody wants to immediately think their spouse is cheating but this is not a normal thing to happen. I wouldn't walk around the issue, I would march right up to it and ask him the deal. Get caller ID and see what number she is calling from, write it down and call the phone company to see if they can tell you who she is. Call her back after speaking to your husband or better yet, put it on speaker phone and start asking her questions or have him call on speaker phone, if she answers the phone, HI HANDSOME< etc, then you know this is not just a crazy women who went out of her way to track some guy she met on the plane eight months ago.
AnswerYou need to sit down and talk to your husband, let him know that you do not like this woman calling the house. If he does not do anything about it, you can file a restraining order on this woman for harrassement. As a last resort, you need to think very long and hard about what you want to do. You can stay with him even after he has cheated on you or you can try to work it out. The choice is yours. I can not tell you what to do. AnswerAsk him straight out. Don't get any ideas before you have proof. Do not get a restraining order because you'll just make them angry. Give him a chance to explain himself first. if his explaintion is uncredible, get a laywers advice. AnswerMy hunch is that your husband and this woman were having an emotional and possibly physical affair. Spouses don't keep secret friends, unless they are behaving in ways with the 'friend' that would cause serious problems in the marriage.Many of the 'other women' in an affair are more than happy to be discreet when they think there will be a payoff in the end that will make it worth it: the cheating spouse leaves his marriage and wants to be in a full relationship with them. If that payoff doesn't come, then they become angry and see that while they are heartbroken and upset, your husband is going home to you like nothing ever happened. That won't do at all, so she felt it was time to call the wife, namely you, and make sure your life gets as screwed up as your husband made hers.
By asking you to keep this call a secret from your spouse, she is hoping to cause you to doubt your marriage, while trying to get the least amount of fallout on her from your husband for exposing the affair. It causes big problems in the affair when the other woman notifies the wife (even subtly, which this woman is doing) of what is going on. The cheating spouse, in order to save his own skin, tends to throw the other woman off the bridge, at least for the time being.
Do not keep this woman's phone call a secret. But first do some digging of your own--through phone receipts, emails, etc.--to get an idea of how long this has gone on. Gather up your finances and speak privately to an attorney about what you could expect from a divorce. Then lay the evidence on the table and make it clear to your husband that you are aware of his affair with this woman. Be aware that the first confession from your husband most likely won't be the full confession---he'll be more worried about damage control than honesty to you--it will take some time for the whole background of the affair to come out.
