Cheating

If he still likes you then try and make him jealous!! If you are still dating him then break-up w/ him! He doesn't really like you if he cheated on you in the first place. Hope I helped!!!

Ask her about it.Of course she's going to lie about it so do some investigation.

if there never home, always say there going somewhere. make him come home at a certain time and if he comes home late he is cheatin

Tell her why you went there. Honesty is the best policy. Lying to her once the damage is already done will get you nowhere.

Who made her pregnant? Did you? The answer to this question will go a long ways to helping you to decide about your future with her. If it is your child, you have a dilemna because you are responsible for support. If it isn't your child, you may want to leave.

Don't second-guess this situation. Many men "aren't there mentally". For example: Years ago my girlfriend went out with her friends (a rarity) and had 3 children. She asked her husband to look after those 3 kids. When she got home, one was playing out on a quiet street, the other was digging up the backyard and she was frantic looking for her 3 year old daughter. She found her fast asleep in her bed (her father hadn't had the brains to put her there either.) For some reason most men feel the rearing of children is up to the woman. Where they ever get these ideas from is beyond me. Let's just say for now your husband is pure darn lazy like most husbands! When I go away I feel it's always up to me to call and vice-versa with my husband. Most people do this, so you phone him. I am sure things are alright and he's wondering why he hasn't heard from you. So go pick up that phone and call him! Good luck Marcy

True love means not cheating, being honest and loyal and it's a lifetime of a partnership. Your husband just took his marriage vows 2 months ago and he's already breaking them. Time to lasso this guy and tie him down (in other words, nip this behavior in the bud!) People can make mistakes and sometimes it can take either the young husband or wife time to settle down and they think they can act like they did when single. It's time you sat him down and communicated to him that this behavior stops or he's kicked to the curb. My bet unfortunately, is he's cheated long before you were married; you knew it and you married him anyway. Good luck hon Marcy

Yes, if you choose to forgive and give your spouse a second chance. Infidelity is often caused by some unresolved issues in a marriage that drives a spouse to seek comfort elsewhere.

You cant really make up for it. You need to find out if she really cheated on you first. You guys need to try to move on from this. Just try to forgive and forget. It can be hard. But just try to get a clean start with her.

That's probably not a legal basis for an annulment. Annulment requires proof that one or both of the parties were incapable of contracting a marriage (ie, already married, siblings, drunk, unlawful purpose, underage, etc.)

If your spouse in unrepentent, get a divorce and put it behind you. Be content in knowing you weren't the bad guy, and at least you have learned a good lesson to pass along to your future children -- with a better man.

Trying to decipher the moods of a bipolar person with out a psychologist is nearly impossible. The moods of bipolars are never set in a pattern.

no not always some time but not all the time .

Usually your instinct is pretty accurate. This goes for anyone, except.. People who have been cheated on before in long term relationships. They see affairs everywhere and can't distinguish between their insecurities and their intuition. They're more inclined to be paranoid, and they can't always trust their "instincts".

First take a past relationship in which you were cheated, and examine it. If there is anything you wish you did better, you can take it as an opportunity to improve yourself just for the sake of you. Likewise you can realise whether or not that person was whacked...

Next you can look at the relationship your in now. if there are no obvious signals; you can't find any strange girls numbers in his phone, he isn't acting weird, etc, chances are, he isn't cheating on you.

Secretly Slyly & With A Lot Of Time On Your Hands

They believe that they can satisfy something that is not being satisfied through being faithful to their partner.

These can include:

1. Passion

2. Security

3. Wanting to feel appreciated

4. Conquest

5. Vengeance

6. Distrust

7. The cheater has no moral value against doing so

8. Conflict with partner squelches intimacy

9. Being drunk or stoned at the time

10. Curiosity

11. Blackmail (some people get blackmailed into cheating)

12. Self Esteem

In short all of the above can be connected to someone wanting to feel better than they do. Sex is sensory in nature. It is mostly about feeling something. If the feeling is less than adequate with their mate they choose another to try and solve the problem.

Answer The amount of virgins out there today is way too low, but that being said, what makes you think that you have the right to be anyone's first? Women have minds of their own, and they get sexually aroused as much as many men, I'd be suprised if you would be lucky to find a virgin, but if you do, then good luck to you.

So many people want to "hang out" with the boys or their girls. It should not be ok for attached people to be consuming mood altering substances in places where they are vulnerable and to the extent they will do things they are sorry for. I would forgive him, no big deal, really. I think a lot of people have crossed the line a little bit before marriage. However if you have marraige plans, put them off for a while. If he comes home drunk again, just assume that he is not in a position to control himself and ask yourself if this is the life you want. You need not make any demands or excuses if you decide that once more is too much. Think about it, drunk is a risk even if it is the 2 of you at home alone. Thinking is impaired. A man ready for a relationship know not to be out of control. Typically, men will only get really loose when they are not at risk. That is not very likely anymore. Maybe in your hotel room in Mexico might be somewhat safe, and if something very embarrassing happens it will probably not be all of your friends that know.

One more thing, no more being alone with this "friend". He should understand that without being told anything. Dump him flat and right now if he does not. He can learn with other girlfriends. The main reasons women like mature men when they are ready for marriage is because the "training" is done. Don't try to take it on yourself. He will just feel controlled and hate you eventually.

It is difficult to tell because friends do this too. But signs of love are caring, kindness, and spending time together.

* 'Family environment' is the use of the five senses: sight; audio; smell; oral and touch. When living with ones family it is up to the parents to guide the children in the right direction so they become mentally and physically strong to face the world when they are out on their own. No family is perfect and there will be arguments and problems in a family, but a healthy family will have quality time together; father and son will bond to a degree as daughter and mother will bond to a certain degree and even through sibling rivalry the sibling will most likely stay close as adults if at all possible. Family outings and eating meals together helps bond the family unity. House rules set by parents are to keep their children under control to keep them safe and from harms way and to teach them they can't have everything in life on their own terms because life is full of rules. If a child has been brought up with these qualities within the family (relatives included) then they are lucky and are most likely to be well adjusted adults. Some are not as fortunate and come from dysfunctional families. If a child is brought up with sexually or physically abusive parents; a parent who is an alcoholic; on drugs or are malcontent then some children who come from this environment will not receive the guidance they need in the future and will feel depressed; not accepted by their peers and may get low grades in school or have problems holding down a job. Besides family the environment around us wherever we go such as school; college; being with friends; the workplace or even walking somewhere will have a good impact on the individual or an unpleasant impact on them.

this is a 50 --50 answer frist it is wrong for any personal connection between the two,,but if it did not go any futher. then it was a moment in time not a life time of moments.in this life none of us are perfect,but the love they feel for you would not be worth losing over a moment in time. to love and forgive is easier than to stress and to hate ...susan

• It sounds to me like he may be trying to please someone or get YOUR attention. Are you a backward person when it comes to sex. he just may want to liven up your time together, But you really need to communicate with him, ask him! does he have a medical problem, rash, itching. Did he have crabs?, you need to talk to him, sorry but I would wonder myself. Most men that cheat really try to hide it. Sounds like he wants attention to me.
• I'm sure the other answers are more on target for your husband, but please consider this - If he was or could have been anywhere near Reno Nevada in the last 5 months, call the Reno Police or Washoe County Sheriff's Department. A shaved pubic area was part of the physical description given by those young women who survived rape; one did not.
• Sadly, enough, the only person that can answer this is your husband. Do you have any other reasons, to suspect he is cheating. If not, just ask him point blank why after all these years he has decided to do this. If he gets nervous or angry or his excuse sounds lame, then go to the next level and ask him point blank if there is anything he needs to tell you at this time. If he says no, let him know that if in the future you find out he wasnt being honest with you, its not going to be pretty, if you know what I mean. My husband shaves his "manscape" and its because its like a jungle down there and he says it bothers him and it get in the way. Maybe he is just going through a change or wants to see himself more clearly.
• I'm not an expert, but do you do oral sex on your husband? Apparently, some women refuse to do oral sex on their husband. I think if your husband, or any guy for that matter, shaves his pubic hair, it's a sign that he wants to receive oral sex or more oral sex. I think it's a courtesy to her so she won't have to confront a face-full of pubic hair when doing oral sex on him.

Honestly, an affair is usually due to one of two things; the lack of control by one or both partners to handle interaction with other attractive people or the result of one or both partners neglecting the other, causing the opposite partner to find or take solace in a physical affair as payback or because they find a thing that completes them within the other person as opposed to their partner. Maybe the "Art of being there" can help to prevent the neglecting of your partner and thus help to prevent cheating. A simple step, be sure to say you love them at least once a day. Remind them of why you married/started a relationship with them and spend time being all there for them emotionally.

Never Shout Never sings the song CheaterCheaterBestFriendEater

According to a study, it takes around 17 - 18 months to get over a divorce.

But, when it comes to simple relationships, it is very different from person to person, but I believe that the count of relationships you have had also has something to do with it; many people claims that it took years to get over their first love.

But, don't worry too much, you'll move on sooner or later, it might hurt at first, but everything will be okay, just believe in yourself.