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Cheating
This category contains all questions regarding cheating and everything it entails, whether it is emotional or having physical relations with someone other than your significant other.
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I miss him but he cheated on me I dont know how to get over this?
We have all, at least once in our lives, dealt with some sort of betrayal. While betrayal hurts for a time, it doesn't have to mean the end of your happiness. Fortunately, life has a way of easing pain as time passes. Be patient. Mark my words: one day you will be able to look back on all of this without the excruciating pain you feel at present. Yes, you miss him. But that, too, will fade as time passes. For now, allow yourself to feel the pain of loss and betrayal, but don't wallow in it. Cry it out. Write about it in a journal. Take it day by day and eventually you'll look back and realize how much better you feel.
If your boyfriend sleep too much is he cheating on you?
Oh my' Answer The fallowing to decide your fate.= . Is he good looking (YES) or (NO) . Does he have a job? (YES) or (NO) *IF* He does then choose the following... IF NOT THEN SKIP THE QUESTION IN THE = ================================================= .+ Does he work late night shift at his "job" (YES) or (NO) .++ Does he come "home" to a silver platter? (YES) (NO) (WTF?) (IDK) ================================================ . Is he someone that is popular at school, or somewhere else, and could pick-up a girl easy? (YES! BIG TIME!) (NO HE IS SHY) -----------------------------R E S U L T S ------------------------------------ (YES HE IS CHEATING ON YOU) If he is good looking, DOSENT have a job, and could pick-up girls EASY then he is. (NO HE ISN'T CHEATING ON YOU) If he is good or not so good looking then you have a free ticket of "RELIEF" Because it mainly depends if he is popular. Or has a job" Maybe it's something to do with his family, friends, etc. It depends if he Lives with you or not. If he does then maybe he has some sorta sickness. (See a docter!) 80% he is. 20% he isn't. * If he is. I'd try to figure out the closest girl in a love level that he is close to and confront her.... w/o getting shot... Question: If your boyfriend sleeps too much, Is he cheating on you? Veronica101's Answer - It depends on his ACTIONS that make you THINK he is cheating on you.
How many women know about their cheating husband?
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At first I don't think we all knew that our husband is cheating on us because of the trust we gave them. But even if wives has this bad feelings we can't really tell because we don't have no clues that husband is doing something. So over all it does takes time for wives to know if we have some idea.
Married couples can say things in anger and most of the time that person doesn't really mean it. Everyone has bumps long the road of marriage and we all have arguments, but cheating to resolve this problem only makes matters as worse and I'm sure you have found out. Communication is the key and if you want to save your marriage you are going to have to sit down with your husband and talk out your problems. The game of "jealousy" is a risky game because if you play it you could well lose a lot and besides, it's immature. If you really have fallen out of love, the separate and then you are free to date. Most people don't mean to cheat, they are either angry, feel neglected and lonely, so they search for someone else to fill that void, but seldom does it work out. Have that talk and if your husband doesn't want to try, and neither of you are willing to work together to improve your marriage then walk away from each other and get the divorce.
Well, is your boyfriend always honest. Has he ever cheated on you. Look When I met my husband he had a girl best friend too. We were just dating and barely getting serious. He has told me that he use to like her for a long time and she knew but just wanted to be close friends. Well, one day she came down to visit and he called me with excitement that he wanted to take her out and show her around. I really not sure what happen. But the next day he told me that nothing happen or what ever. I believed him because I know in my heart he was being honest. Now I hate the fact that he is best friends with her but the time we got engage and she met me she got jealous written all over her face and you know what? it didn't bother him one bit because he was in love with me and never saw her or heard from her again. So ask him what were they doing, why did he stay up with her all night, will you ever introduce me to her someday, does she know I'm your girlfriend? Don't be afraid to ask you don't want to seem like a fool. Get details. Then figure out what to do.
Is it normal for a wife to constantly tell her husband that he is cheating when it is not happening?
No that is wreckless jealousy. If that doesn't stop the marriage will not last, if she does not trust you she shoul dnot have married you. Tell her that everytime she accuses you of cheating that you are going to cheat two times.
Can someone tell you a secretbuilders cheat?
Well honestly i don't know i just feel like answering questions
Why are infidelity good for some marriage?
- Infidelity is not good for a marriage and it is breaking the marriage vows as well as the bond of trust the couple should have for each other. Infidelity has ruined more couples relationships or marriages. Sometimes infidelity is such a shock to the other partner they will begin to realize something is not working in their marriage and they may insist their spouse go to marriage counseling or they may just walk out the door and file for divorce.
How many women would tie up and whip their husbands or boyfriends if they cheated on them?
i know i would i would beat his butty into the next century.
she meant that it is because the wife of a cheating husband is trying to do such things that the mistress of his husband realize that what she did was wrong.
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I think the wife is telling the mistress that she can have him, so she will not have to deal with pain and bad memories. And letting him go is her way to forgive him.
Why would a married guy care about your feelings if your already sleeping with him?
So you'll continue to sleep with him.
Who needs to mend your broken heart after discovering your husband's affair?
- Time mends a broken heart when a wife is broken hearted over her husband's affair. It is a grieving process much like losing a loved one to death. Once the husband cheats he has broken that bond of trust with his wife which is devastating to her and it will take time for him to earn her trust back. The wife must go down her own road of life alone to decide what she wants from her husband; how to handle the situation after the affair and if she wants to remain in the marriage or seek out marriage counseling. If the wife feels by cheating on her husband she will either get even with him or mend her broken heart it will not and proves nothing leaving her feeling used and guilty for lowering herself to her husband's level.
If you are given a chance what would you change in your marriage?
Very intriguing question that many people have asked before. It isn't really proper for WikiAnswers due to most of it being an opinion or normally questioned to one person. Some would say that if you go back in time and change one thing as a simple "Hello" or "Goodbye" it could change the entire future.
In other hands, there is no wrong or write answer, simply what the person thinks.
What is the difference between concubine and mistress?
A concubine is a woman who lives with a man, but is lower in status than his wife or wives. A mistress is a woman having an affair with a married man.
Is it ok to hang with someone your boyfriend hates?
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It's ok if you don't want to keep your boyfriend. If he hates that person, why would you hang with this other person?
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What should you do He confessed that he cheated and wants me to give him another change?
Hell more and likely do it again, they always do. Its a male ego, if you give him that second chance hell act like he can do it again later and that youll take him back.
If it bothers you and you told him so and he persists - then it is abuse.
You bet it's abusive! Please ditch this guy! If someone really loves you they trust you and there should be no problem with each of you going out with friends. This guy is on an ego trip and is a control freak. Don't allow it! You are in control of yourself and your future. Run!
It's a selfish and controlling expectation on the part of the boyfriend and his insistence on curtailing your freedom while maintaining his own does not sound like a healthy adult relationship.
Mind you, a "relationship" which involves other parties on either or both sides doesn't amount to much of a relationship -- unless that's what you wish to settle for.
At the end of the day, it's your call. Nobody can abuse you unless you let them abuse you.
The gentleman in question may well "insist" on his way, but if his way is not for you and if he is not prepared to respect your way (ie that you both date others), then you're venturing into abusive territory should you give in to HIS wishes (against your own) in order to remain involved with this man.
"Abuse" is when a stranger walks over and slaps you in the face. But where we unwittingly give over our power to another in order to win or hold onto their "love" or whatever validation they may provide, we are in effect facilitating our own "abuse" by giving in to others' unacceptable expectations and thus eroding our SELVES.
"Abusive" or just plain "selfish", remember that YOU are in the driver's seat as far as YOUR wishes and limits are concerned, and it is up to YOU to set your boundaries and to ensure that they are respected -- ie. if you are not satisfied: DON'T TALK, WALK -- and keep walking!
You should probably be worried by the fact that you were snooping in her phone! Why would you do that?
She didn't ask to receive these texts. Perhaps she shouldhave deleted them, but we all like to be wanted and needed. It probably makes her feel good to think that she has this ability to attract him, even after they broke up.
Don't be worried about her until her actions or words give you reason to be worried. We are not responsible for the behaviour of others, and she is not responsible for his behaviour.
Get control of your insecurity.
REPLY :The reason I touched her phone was because she let me text a friend of mine but when I accidentally went into her inbox she started freaking out and I just went in. There were mushy mushy messages she sent to him as well. Ones where she is telling him that she would like to go over and kook for his whole family with the text ending in calling him "hun". I did not go snooping around she was there in front of me. And her excuse was she was going to show me the messages anyway but I found out before. Who believes that excuse?-- further response --
This extra information changes the whole context of what you wrote before.
You need to ask her to explain each message she sent and ask her why she sent them.
Tell her in advance that you will only accept one answer to a question. If you ask for further details to anything she says, what she says next will need to be consistent with what she already said.
BUT- don't be accusatory, just ask calmly for a rational explanation of her messages. One consistent with her still being your girlfriend.
I wouldn't worry much about her use of the word "hun" - I worked with a woman 20 years my junior whoalwasy called me 'hun' - even in front of my wife and her husband.
I still have a concern for your insecurity....
Why, when she "started freaking out" did you continue reading? We are all entitled to our privacy and a few secrets - whatever they might be about.
Will she ever be able to trust you again?
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I don't know if she trusts me but when she was freaking out I said I wanna know whats in there you don't want me to see. And then she just stood there saying "Go on" so I did. Im insecure because I have been cheated on in the past by 2 ex girlfriends who took months to admit they were cheating on me. I trust or rather use to trust my girfriend very much until Ive started to realise these issues. For example she hangs up when shes talking to me when her ex calls. That is not very healthy and makes me feel like I'm not enough. I also have a hunch her ex does not have a clue about me and that I might be the one being used to be cheated on him.
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Break up with her... no need to be suffering like that... one of my exes, used to do that and guess what? he's an ex!! hahah cuz he left me.
Dating after divorcing a cheating husband?
Yes. of course!
Its a cheating. You can't do like that.
Divorce is taken when you feel uncomfortable with your partner after your marriage.!!
The marriage is not a business and its a bonder of relationship with your husband and you, you and your childern.
You can not take such hard decisions to cheat/make hurt your partner.
Of course now a days everyone feels to get divorce even if your partner makes small mistakes.
We should understand his/her feelings.
We should obey his/her good and bad things.
and we should love and care them for life long.
What would you do if your best friend tries to sleep with your girlfriend?
ok here it goes.....bestfriends dont sleep with their friend's boy/girlfriends this is sooooo not cool therefore they arent your real friend or maybe there getting the wrong picture maybe they think u arent that interested in your relationship so they jus want a quick fix and the way you been talking it sounds like your telling him to try your girl long story short watch how you talk about your girl friend because your best friend may think ur not that in to her therfore she is not off limits or maybe he is jus a crappy friend so Ditch em
* It appears the harm has already been done because she is not affectionate towards you any longer. Communication is the key to your situation. Take her out for a coffee or go for a walk and ask her right out if she is seeing someone else because she has become less affectionate towards you and you would like to know why. If two people love each other the can discuss any topic. Take the risk, because if she is cheating you don't want to waste your life over her and you should move on.
