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Cheating

This category contains all questions regarding cheating and everything it entails, whether it is emotional or having physical relations with someone other than your significant other.

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What to do when you're forcing your boyfriend to be with you?

if you have to force your boyfriend to be with you because he dont wanna be with you than if the feelings not there i think you should leave it, because its not going to work sorry and you will just end up hurting yourself more. hope this helped?:)

What will make your spouse come back to you after you cheated on her?

Hopefully you don't need to do anything and go on with your cheating life. I don't think she wants to be with a cheater!

What will you do if you caught your husband kissing a woman and told you they were only friends?

I would pull him in another room, and grind against him from bottom to top. Then after that I would slowly take both of our clothes off to be a tease. Play with his hair and his ears! And after all of that I would give him the best sex of his life, and he would wonder why he even laid eyes on that girl. Then I would ask him in a naughty voice, "Me or her my sweet?" Stroke his area while you're asking this and look in his eyes. If he says her, say, "Wrong choice honey." Then smile, and kiss his cheek (make sure your arm is wrapped around his neck, and you tap his nose with your index finger). Trust me, he will be paranoid.

When should you forgive and forget?

This is a controversial question and, as a result, there are a number of different answers.

Answer 1

You can forgive, but it's tough to forget and it keeps you on your toes in future relationships. I have this quote on my fridge: 'If you can't forgive the person that hurt you then THEY control you!'

Answer 2

Yes you can forgive and forget. It is so easy to forgive somebody, rather than forget. It is hard to forget because its like every time you see that person the memory comes back to your head. I have been in so many situations like this. This is why you have to be the better person and just forgive it and try to forget it.

Answer 3

yes you can forgive, no you cannot forget. but i think you can learn from the memories and move on the past can be a springboard to push you forward learn from your mistakes

Answer 4

Can you forgive and forget that you were convinced by your own Father that putting his personals in our mouth just made you his favorite girl? Or can you forgive and forget that your brother had sex with you more than once and encouraged you to believe that it was emotional bonding, like daddy did? For me, No, I can not forget since it affects every relationship that I have ever had with the opposite sex. Can I forgive? I can forgive me and I can forgive them in my heart and soul, but I will never, ever give them forgiveness for their actions. In some cases and I believe in this case, forgiving them of such a horrible, disgusting and despicable crime would allow them the relief of guilt that they don't deserve. That is my opinion and it refers to me and my situation.

What is the use of rebuilding your marriage after your spouse affair if he can't do what he promised to you?

  • It takes two to make a marriage successful and no marriage is 100% perfect and if your spouse has not kept their promise after the affair and continues to keep up the affair; start a new one or refuses to seek marriage counseling or whatever you promised each other then you will have to come full circle and realize that you cannot control someone else and what they say and do and you have the control to stop enabling your spouse's behavior by at least getting a separation which will show him you mean business and with luck he may change and if not, then consider yourself lucky and consider divorce and realize there is life after marriage and you can make a life for yourself with someone else.

Why should a couple be together when they are not happy anymore?

If two people truly love each other they stay together even if they fight more than normal. They need to figure out why the other starts a fight because of yours or thiers actions, and you both need to work to make the other happy if you truly love them

Why some married men who cheat can't explain why they did it?

Because the truth would just add insult to injury to the wife. It's bad enough to be cheated on and have feelings of inadequacy to meet the other person's needs that they choose to look outside the marriage. But to be told the truth of how they were inadequate in the other person's eyes, confirming these fears and feelings. That act could only be done by a husband who really despised his wife from the bottom of his heart.

ANSWER:

I don't think those married men who cheated didn't know why they did it. It's one of their tac tic and good excuse so they will not get in to much troubles from their wife. How many married men do come forward and admit to their wife that they are cheating? Most married men who are cheating, never think of who they will hurt. They don't have conscience nor guilt while they are doing it. Maybe they might feel bad at first because having sex with another woman who is not their wife but it doesn't last long. After the first intimacy happens all they can think about is the next intimacy, and this includes the man I married.

FYI he did told me when I discovered his affair. His next intimacy with his mistress does not bothered him anymore. So don't believe that your spouse didn't know why he did it. He got caught that's the reason why he " played the fifth" don't know nothing

Are you supposed to forgive your cheating fiance?

Definitely not. If your fiance is not sincere with his apology, there is absolutely no need to forgive him or her. You may leave him if you wish.

What kind of questions can you ask her if shes cheating on you?

You can ask about her whereabouts, messages. If someone is not cheating, they can easily answer those.

Why do men cheat several times on their wives?

there are plenty of reasons why a man continues to cheat on his wife. sometimes a man takes intrest in younger woman, feels he needs a better sex life,or maybe his love for you is gone but he dosent want to leave you because of your kids

How do you tell if a Gemini man is lying or telling the truth?

He mostly looks down. If he doesnt look down, then hes probibly going to look the other way. Some men have some ways of telling that they are lying

Dr. Smith Denver,CO

Why would husband hide things from his wife?

he may be cheating on her or he even may be just hiding something like a surprise

ANSWER:

There are some husband and a wives that do hide things from their spouse. Reason is its nothing important, or they don't want simple things get in a way of their marriage, or protecting our spouse. And there are the main event that we called "Affairs"

Why does my fiancee feel that it is OK for you to be around her ex husband but get annoyed if I am around my ex wife or ex girlfriends?

  • Unless there are custody of children by the former marriages between the two of you neither of you should be seeing your exes. Both of you need to mature and concentrate on your own future plans for marriage and leave the exes out of it. It is not OK for your fiancee to be around her ex husband if there are no children and you are responsible for the same thing with your ex wife or ex girlfriends. Neither of you appear to be mature enough to be engaged and should work on your relationship before you get married.

Is it wrong to be in love with a married man and his wife is disabled?

The issue is not being in love with a married man, we all have fantasies and desires. The issue is ACTING or your thoughts and your love for the married Man. Even if his wife was not disabled it is still wrong to have relations with a committed man.

How can you tell if someone wants to cheat with you?

They flirt with you and then when you have sexual intercourse they may shout out ther other partners name

Should you let your husband break off an emotional affair in person?

Emotional affairs generally mean that your husband and the other woman lean on each other for support through any problems each of them have and often there is no sexual affair, but of course a sexual affair is just that. Your husband does not have to meet with this woman and can break off the emotional affair over the telephone with you present if you so wish. It would be wise to start communicating more with each other and finding out what is lacking in your marriage and perhaps seek marriage counseling in order to have a good start at mending your marriage problems. Just winning out over the other woman simply isn't good enough and it's a red flag your husband has problems he doesn't feel he can discuss with you and does not feel you will understand.

ANSWER:

Yes, he does, you would not want your doctor to tell you on the phone that you are dying of cancer right? You would want to see your doctor so you can ask him how bad your cancer. From what I know and my own experience the right way to break up with the other woman is face to face. Come on, your husband didn't waste his time on the phone or through Internet to talk to this woman about his life, his sex with you, dreams, and future. Maybe it all depends on individual, but reality here is would you trust someone about your inner personality or even what you wanted to do with your life by talking on the phone?, you don't because we all need to look at that person's face while talking to him or her. Maybe most men especially married men who can't be happy with one woman will just call and say, it's time to move on babe. We need to stop seeing each others before my wife finds out.

It doesn't matter if the other woman will say no, or your husband might say "he doesn't want to hurt her" she deserve to know the truth and explain to her whats is coming. The man I married told me he was planning to break up with her when she came to where he worked, but I didn't believed him, because they end up screwing each others in the car. He also said he noticed something from her that do not adds up. His ex mistress never really believed him because even he mentioned to her about stopping their relationship, he still comes and see her and he never stop calling her on the phone the month and say he said he told her. His second reason, he was waiting for the right time to tell her, like he owe her his life. The only thing I knew he owe her is sex from her. She made him feels like a real man in her bed, specially their faith to God.( which now I knew better). The man I married did the wrong thing by calling her and told her that it's over because I discovered it. He owe her courtesy to tell her face to face, because his ex mistress welcome him in her own home.

So for your husband, he needs to be a man to face his ex or still mistress and tell her. Or if he say that he will just call her, do you think he will do it or he might just end up in bed with her and tell you lies that she seduce him. Tell him to have some decency to tell her face to face and in front of you. This is the only way he can show you that he really means it.

What does it mean to dream your cheating on your husband?

* It just means it's a dream. It's not uncommon for either partner to dream about cheating on their mate. Everyone has fantasy's. It's not enough to worry about, unless you have had thoughts about cheating for real on your husband. Then that could constitute a guilty conscience.

How can a husband help heal his wife from his emotional and physical infidelity?

  • The only way a husband can help his wife from the upset of infidelity is to earn that bond of trust that he has broken; not cheat again and it will take a long time before she can trust him again. When in doubt put yourself in her shoes ... what if she had cheated on you! It hurts and demeans the very person that loved you and although it hurts the wife it will be the husband that ends up paying for cheating. If the husband can afford it a nice romantic vacation somewhere would help, but take it slow and easy. If a vacation is not possible then realize most good wives just want their husbands to be at home; discuss different issues of every day life; take them out for dinner and dancing every so often and also buy them flowers. In other words spend quality time with her. However, do not over do it or she will wonder if her husband is cheating again. If there are children the husband could offer to look after them while she has a night out with her girlfriends. If the husband is out then he should phone her and give her a time when he will be home and where he is at and what he is doing. This may seem like a control mechanism from the wife, but the husband has to earn her trust back.

What should you do that your husband get married with his mistress in other country?

wow, this is a very sticky situation,as a form of punishment from you to him you might want to report his action to the local police so he can be charged with bigamy. next,you see a lawyer and prepare to file for a divorce,then he'll learn his leasson. after a while his mistress will dissapoint him because no real lady get married to a married man.he'll suffer enuff