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Cheating
This category contains all questions regarding cheating and everything it entails, whether it is emotional or having physical relations with someone other than your significant other.
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What is the threat of emotional infidelity to a wife?
- Most men to some degree will fantasize if they see an attractive woman and it is normal (just as some women fantasize about an attractive man) but, rule of thumb is 'look and don't touch.' When a man goes over that line and starts talking to the woman getting involved emotionally with her can be very dangerous and lead to a sexual relationship in some cases.
If he cheated while you were a couple , you may never know, unless someone talks. If he did after you split, why would you care ?
The only reason that people continue to behave badly is that they have never had to truly face the consequences of their actions.
This is not say that they have not experienced some of the consequences. This is to say they have not fully faced them.
You do not live in a vacuum. More accurately, you live in a Pachinko machine; every action you take affects countless other people who affect countless other people who affect countless other people, and so on. The ripples of your actions will reach out to touch far more people than you are aware, and eventually those ripple will cause a storm somewhere.
Consider for just one moment how the things you do affect everyone else, every single person. The person on whom you cheat. The person with whom you cheat. The person married to the person with whom you cheat. Your children (if any). The other person's children (if any). If children are in the mix, then their friends, the classrooms in which they find themselves. The people with whom your children and your cheating partner's children cheat with. And everyone connected to them. And, this is only a simplistic view of all those affected. Space does not permit much more than a portion of that group.
A.You have some kind of pathological psychological problem that may not have anything to do with sex , but your problem is just manifesting itself in this kind of acting out. Please seek professional help immediately. You need ongoing therapy , and more help than WE can give you here. Your marriage, family, and possibly your entire future depend upon you getting help to find the root of and the solution for this problem.Who would you believe your husband or his ex mistress telling you that their affair wasn't plan?
If she is trying to get him back, or still wants him.. Then I would believe your husband. If she is absolutely done with him, then believe her. Good Luck!!
How can you stop your husband from hiding that he is talking to other females?
tell your husband that it'll be over if he isn't faithful or honest or just trust him
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Sweetie how about just tell your husband if he doesn't stop to this woman, you will divorce him, as simple as that. Don't make your self miserable because he don't respect you enough to listen. Divorce is the easiest way for you if he ignored your request..
Can we blame a wife if her heart become cold towards her husband because of his few affairs?
No, be lucky he is still alive and not tossed after the first affair.
AnswerFew affairs my backside. One affair is one too many and he is lucky if he still has a wife. I have no tolerance from men or women who cheat. There are always alternatives.1) Live up to your marriage vows.
2) Be honest, maybe your spouse doesn't care.
3) Leave first.
Yeast infection does this mean your boyfriend is cheating on you?
No it can be you who has it first and not him. 75% of all women will have it at least once in their lives. Vaginal yeast infections can occur when you take antibiotics or if you have diabetes, is pregnant or taking oral contraceptives. Douching or using vaginal perfumed hygiene spray. It is not considered a sexually transmitted disease.
Why is it when the flashback of spouse affair she feels like it just happen yesterday?
- When a man cheats on his wife he has broken the bond of trust and has deeply hurt his wife. She is hurt because she trusted him and thought he loved her and she is hurt and angry over the thought of her spouse sneaking out and having an affair making her look like a fool. That memory will always be with the wife, but, if they try at their marriage it may be saved if the cheating spouse is willing to know a good thing when he has it. People who cheat on their spouses always lose in the end.
He probably does love you but doesnt wanna be tied down ask him if he wants to see other people. if he say no then say ok i love you but i dnt trust u ik ur cheatin on me if he says yes ask if he is cheating on u then get ur things and just go he will realize his mistake and want u back but make him jelous dont ever run back to him
What does it mean if you had a dream where your boyfriend cheated on you with your best friend?
It doesnt mean anything its just a dream. Everyone has crazy dreams its all in your head. You dream this cause your worried someones going to steal the one you love.
It's entirely possible you have trust issues from previous relationships or home life .
What if your husband said a lot of good things about his mistress to you?
Either he is in love with her or he just wants to hurt you.
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Your husband is in love with his lover, and everything she does to him is all about making him happy. His mistress has this quality that you never had. This are what will happen especially if he loves her. From my own personal experience, my husband did the same when I asked him what did his woman have that I don't have, and that's when he told me what he saw in her. The quality of this other woman was the one that the man I married didn't have no problem being open to her. But as usual the truth hurt and I'm grateful the man that I married didn't lie to me about his feelings towards his mistress.
I knew for a fact that when our spouse have this feelings towards their mistress, the marriage can not be save anymore. When a spouse begun to have this kind of attraction towards his mistress, you can bet that his love is a bit more different. The man I married feelings for his mistress was spiritually, like being soulmate, so the day he told me his feelings for her, I knew that our marriage will be impossible to work on because, his love for me will never be the same anymore. Sad but God knows its true.
You have described the type of man the is not being fully sexually satisfied by his mate. You give it to him good no reason to cheat, you don't do it how he likes an he gets a new freak..
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What kind? I will be blunt first of all, if I was his wife, I will ask him to make time so we can talk. If he still have that passion with his mistress, then I will tell him right there that he needs to pack his clothes and move out because I don't need to SOB in my life. He can't be satisfied with only me, that will be fine as long as he can sign a paper that he will not be my husband anymore.
I will not have my life be messy because he fell in love with his mistress and at the same time he want me to be part of his life, no way Jose!!
- There is no reason to 'look out' for this married man as he is a big boy! The relationship is over and he is back with his wife and he will not risk his wife leaving him so no, if he can help it he will try to stay away from his ex mistress as much as possible. The mistress is the loser (like most) and there is no good side he needs to be on with his ex mistress. The relationship is over.
It might be because he still has some feelings for the ex-mistress. Or it could just be that he feels that no good will come of still having anything to do with her.
In most of these type of cases, moving on is the best.
How do you forget love failure?
Don't try to delusion yourself, you will most likely never really forget and that's fine. Things happen that we don't want and we can't change the past, so it's better to just accept it. You shouldn't try to forget, but to deal with it and accept it as part of your past so that you can move on towards your future and enjoy your present. Learn from the mistakes you've made and use the experience you've gained.
How do you forgive your lesbian girlfriend after she cheats on you with a man?
- If your girlfriend was a true lesbian then she would be interested in men so that makes her at least bisexual. You both need to sit down and discuss how she feels about her sexuality no matter how much it makes your heart ache. Honesty is the best policy. Even if she cheated with another woman she has hurt you deeply and you have to do some soul searching of your own. Now that your girlfriend has broken the bond of trust your relationship will be fragmented for a long while.
- umm no idea!
I am in love with my best friend but married.?
If you are, do you think his wife deserve to be hurt by you. If for some odd reason that you told your best friend your true feelings towards him and the two of you becomes lover, you will be responsible for wrecking his life and his wife.
Have you heard the old saying " if you love someone, you love them enough to let them go?" Think about it, set your world to a different path and find a man whos single. Avoid men whos married and with kids.
Why does an ex say he wants to work things out but seems distant and doesn't make the effort?
Just keeping you on the hook in case he needs you , or maybe to avoid a confrontation.
Can you get a divorce in Alberta if your husband has dated another woman?
- Yes, you can file for divorce in Alberta or anywhere else in Canada if a husband has dated and cheated on his wife. The wife just has to seek legal counsel and serve her husband with divorce papers.
It may start as infatuation but it will turn to love if the married man pursued the other woman. No matter what the situation of the married man, if he kept pursuing her, called her, spending time with her, that is love. You may have your husband back, but how do you know where his heart is. If he doesn't have a problem loving his mistress, the love that you think he have for you is not complete. I don't know the whole story of your marriage but I was also in the same place as you now.
The man that I married did fell in love with his new friend. He didn't just slept with her, he waited for the right time. They become best friend first, and become emotionally intimate with her. They spent time together when they can, they talked on the phone for 2 months non stop, and they went out on a normal date for a while before they decided it's time to go on a second phase of their relationship. He also told me the truth that his feelings for her was getting deeper, so that day I knew that I don't have his heart anymore. It did hurt badly but at least I knownow that this man that I married and gave 3 beautiful children is not meant for me. Now I am leaving my life for my children and its a big help. Time is my best friend and at least now I know where I am going.
If you can, it's time for you to let your husband go. It's not bad to be alone at least you will not have anymore pain, like I do.
BETRAYED, HURT and LET DOWN... also you will go through depression.... you will NEVER have ALL the reasons WHY he did this... it hurts.
most probably to make her feel special since he had to go back to his wife
You shouldn't even stay married to him if that happens!
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I did mine, and yes our husband has the choice to do it if they want to. But the question is will it be the right thing to do if the husband still kept the communication from his mistress ( ex). If the spouse wont stop, this is a sign that no matter what you ask him he will ignore you, is showing that he can't live without being connected with his mistress.
Of course you should! You need to gain your wife's respect and trust back. Plus, if you really love her you would have never done such a thing in the first place.
You slept with your boyfriends friend and he gave you syphilis what do you do?
You have to be straight with him and tell him you have a std and who you got it from. If you don't and you have sex with him he will get it. When he does get it and finds out he got it from you it will be worse if he gets mad then. So do you want him mad now or later. Later is worse by the way. -Specter Lance
