Cheating

Well this has happened to me once, Im a paranoid person and this time I happened to be right. If she seems different than she usaully is she could be cheating. Follow her without here knowing and see if she is "Doing it" with another guy. That's just me though, like I said im very paranoid.

When trying to decide if your boyfriend or husband is cheating on you, you should start by looking for some of the warning signs.

# not wanting to be with you sexually # when he works later. # strange phone calls or emails # if he gets really mad when you look at his phone etc, as if hes being secretive # if you smell new perfume when your around him # if he showers right when he gets home # finding hairs or strange things on his clothing # if he cares mmore about the way he look # hes often changing his daily routine i read something like this somewhere, i think at enzine articles?

* Not dreaming of your boyfriend means nothing, but it's the memories of him that count and the excitement of waiting to see him again. There is no explanation as to why individuals dream about certain people and not others, but in your case it's nothing to be concerned about. Just enjoy your relationship.

It is not bad per say however, as long as they both do not act on it. This could cause trust issues on your part towards both of them though that you have to control and learn how to deal with or you will have to decide what is best for you in the long run. There are times this could go one way or the other and the other someone always gets hurt, used and friendships are lost.

Confront her about it but not necessarily in an offensive/defensive way. Sure, that sounds right and you're mad, but if you attack her, she will try to weasel her way out of it or twist it around so that you're the one to blame and that doesn't get either of you anywhere. It will only make the situation worse. Tell her what you know (as in what you have proof of) as well as what you suspect and give her a chance to explain herself.

Ask her why she felt she needed to lie. Tell her that you are angry or hurt or upset that she lied and what she lied about. If it's something small and can be fixed, take a few minutes apart to cool down as heat of the moment arguments never get anywhere. Then talk about it and discuss ways you can make everything okay again. Don't lead her on into thinking you're not upset about it if you truly are. Don't try to actively make her feel bad or guilty about lying. By taking a calmer approach to the situation, she will most likely feel bad about it herself and be more open with you in the future.

If it's something you absolutely cannot forgive or very difficult to forgive, perhaps you both can research intervention help from a couple's therapist if you wish to remain together. if you don't, then perhaps separation is best. Either way, don't berate or belittle her in the process of speaking about the concerns. It will only make her throw up her defenses and nothing positive can come from that.

Discuss with her why she has lost some trust with you and ways she can earn the trust back, such as remaining honest with you in the future no matter how bad she thinks it might be. By seeing this example of how calmly and maturely you approach this lapse in judgment, she may be more apt to be completely honest with you later on anyway.

It is understandable for you to be angry with her for lying. But that's why it's imperative to take a step back and cool off before you confront her, and allow her to do the same after you confront her because it could be somewhat embarrassing for her to be caught. That will also make her defensive. And if at anytime during the process of discussion either of you feel yourself heating up to explode, just remember to take a breather so that both of you can put things into perspective.

Finally, if you do decide to forgive her, you can let her know that you may not forget about it and might have your guard up for a while... but if you decide to stick it out with her, don't throw it up in her face in the future. It can cause a lot of stress on the relationship.

let her know that youre upset about it and if she continuos tio lie to you that you will have zero trust in her and that you will have to part and send her home to her parents, perhaps she can start school over again and learn that a persoon that lies is pretty much rotten to the core

Since I don't believe it's possible to "fall in love" with someone instantly, I have to assume (hopefully I am wrong) that you have been carrying on with this "other woman" for some time, and if that's the case, you probably did it behind your wife's back. Now you seem to want someone to help you to man up and leave the wife for the other woman. You should have been more of a man and told your wife you weren't satisfied with her back when you started up with this other woman. Since you didn't, you need to now be a man and tell your wife what's going on. If she is willing to forgive you and you are willing (as you should be) to give up this other woman, then you are already in the place you need to be. If your wife decides she can't (or won't) forgive you and she wants you out of her life, then you might have the illusion that you're now "free' to be with this other woman. Let me tell you something about that. If she's a woman really worth anything, she'll drop you like a hot potato, because after all, if you'll cheat on your wife with her, why wouldn't you cheat on her with someone else? If she doesn't drop you, then she's rather silly if she thinks that after having stolen you from another woman, no other woman can come along and steal you from her, in which case, you shouldn't want her either. If you do, then perhaps you deserve each other.

You be honest to yourself and your wife before anything happens. You took a vow to love, honor and cherish. It sounds like you didnt understand some of that. Falling in love with someone while you are in a committed relationship only points to one thing and that is that your not committed enough. You have the right to be happy and should be honest with your wife, now. Dont forget if the grass isn't greener on the other side you may not be able to come back over the hill. Good luck and think clearly.

Well I think I may disagree with the other ladies above..Yes, they do make some valid points but love isn't just something that you say about women, men have to build up the courage to say it half the time and your saying it about another woman who is not your wife, which says a lot... I have had a recent experience and It's really taught me a lot, my ex who is married and got married for the wrong reasons, his wife was pregnant and he felt like he needed to marry her to completely provide for her, On his wedding day he stood there up at the alter and I was sitting in the crowd, I felt someone looking at me and I look up and to my surprise it's him he was starring at me, like he was lost, like he needed me to stand up and say something but I shrugged it off and acted as if I didn't see him. later that year he asked me and my fiance to go on vacation with them and of course my fiance said yes. We were over at his house a couple weeks before we were going on vacation and my fiance fell asleep and I had to leave for work he walked me to the door and proceeded to tell me that if I ever needed anything he was always there and he will always be there for me and Then he went in for a hug, and we found ourselves face to face, noses touching with nothing to say... He hugged me again and then I left after that he began calling me everyday, and After a couple days i had to see him, I went to see him and we just ended up staring at each other and knowing that what we were feeling was wrong but we felt it deep inside. He kissed me and from that moment we made each other truly happy.. He called me everyday and on vacation when everyone fell asleep he would rub my feet and kiss me and just stare at me and I loved it, I loved him.... He is the man of my dreams, he is just someone Else's man and I use to think badly about women who did what I'm doing but no one knows what I've been through and if the love of your life was with someone else but didn't love them and loved you, what would you do? How would you feel, you can't hold back those feelings, they'll show through. I love him and always will, we have recently taking a break for him to figure out what he wants but I love him so much that whatever he decides I will be happy with... You love who you love and you never hold back because life is too short and you need to live it with the ones that you love and who love you.

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It depends on the circumstances but you are right when it comes to mistresses. When a married men do have the affair, their life do change, exciting moment, different out look, new surrounding and most a new woman who is not even close to his wife. The mistress gives everything to her married man, especially time and attention. They can talk about everything especially the intimate subject that supposed for man and his wife. The facts of this relationship is his wife is always busy without taking some kind of break. With this scenario, that how and when a married man start having a different feelings for his mistress. And yes in scale of 1-10 8% of the married men did love the mistress more than their wife...

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Good question that needs direct answer. Do all women cheat and hate men, does it include your mother, sister, and grandmother? If so I think we need to talk to our family, not to insult you but when a person said "All" means part of your family also included. Now to be direct and blunt I don't think ALL women cheat and hate men. look at this way, the only way 'Some" women will do this will be the result of a husband, boyfriend not treating them nicely. No human or let me just say women will be stupid enough to ruin her life being married or having a boyfriend just to have an affair or plain hated men. A person needs to be treated wrongly, taken for granted, or even not being noticed before they will do something stupid or tragic.

We human can't judge people because they've done something wrong, what we all need to know or even find out is why, why did someone do something bad. No fun intended here in my part but we all need some wake up call to why women?....

Sorry, no percentage. Its documented that married men very seldom leave their wife for a mistress. If they do leave their wifes they never marry the mistress but find someone else to built a new relationship with. They are double standard creatures the same rules does not apply to them. He would always wonder if you are having an affair with someone else. Even if he know in his heart he was the first married man you had an affair with he will never trust you. Look on the internet: Cheating husbands. You will thoroughly and not gently be brought back to reality. Best of luck.

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When you said long distance, are you in military who are in far away places? If you are, you can't tell if your wife is cheating on you. What you need to do is give her more faith and trust so will feel secure.

there are major problems in that marriage

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A couple don't need to have a problem with their marriage for a husband to have an affair. A Happy and perfect marriage also hit by a husband ending up with affair. All we need to know is why we do it and never cared about consequences. If we all search we all going to find that there's a lot of couples with or without problem ending up cheating.

There are some not most, couples marriage will have a problem small or huge because the husband or wife started cheating. In the survey you will find out that affair, cheating, emotional or even infidelity is the main cost of couples problem.

• A person who lies to themselves or twists the truth is called a 'denier.'

• A girl who repeatedly cheats on her boyfriend doesn't have a clue what love is. When you love someone you are loyal; honest; encouraging and feel you can talk out any problems both partners may have. Some young women are so wrapped up in themselves (perhaps they feel they are too attractive to settle down to one man) or, they are immature. These are red flags and unless a person enjoys a roller coaster ride of heartache they are better off breaking off with such a person.

Adultery is a sin. Marriage is a special commitment, kind of like a promise to God that you will stay together and support each other through anything. However, God always forgives...

As long as you are sincerely sorry what you have done.

god can forgive every sin because no sin is greater than another

OK the fact that a married man has a mistress at all is a sign he has feelings for her.

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I guess married men will be different to what they feel towards their mistress. But I will use my experience and what I had notice from the man that I married. First of all he told me that he can't never have sex with a woman without feelings, so it means that I will not worry that he can get every woman that he meet. What I had noticed from him was he have this look, a happy look that I never seen from him even when we just met before we got married. How do I know that he loves this other woman, the most outrageous behavior he had was for 2 months he called her 24/7 and never concerned about getting some sleep. He will call her first thing in the morning before he can start his day. At night he will be in his office talking to her till morning hours. And if this is not love, I don't know what is. I did compared the time that we had together while dating, after we got married, and the answer he told me was there's no cell phone then and when he called his always worried about bills.

Our daughter mentioned that her dad is making himself look good for me, to impress me but he wasn't. This man that I married knows how to be affectionate to this married woman, (was married but now divorce) but I never seen it from him when we were newly wed. I could tell you what I saw from the man that I married but I think this will cover what you need to know.

Well for me a woman has to be skinned, straight hair, and any eye color except brown since I have brown eyes. She can be tall or short but she has to have perfect white teeth. But that my vision of my girl

I think put your hand in your heart and then check whether you really love her ? If yes then also check does she love you even a single percent then you should try to find out that why did she ditch you ? If no true feeling from either side then please kick out her from your life forever ......!!!

Things like this take time to get over. But i can give you some pointers: - Talk about how your feeling or when you are especially upset to someone you trust beside your dad because he is hurting too - Be there for your dad - Try to forgive your mother. We are all human. We all make mistakes. Wen My Mom and dad spilt up i was six so i didnt under stande now im alot older i no why they did it ( well not in detail) but it still hurts sometimes but i just think if they didnt do what they did then would i have life i do now ?!It Is Hard to get over but talk to your perents/perent about it im sure It will get better! From xoxspizzy101 if you wont more help or just to talk ma site it lola-button@piczo.com or spizzy_button@hotmail.co.uk ok ?? i hope u find a way!

Unfortunately I know this through experience.

I was married and had a man that was also with a man, needless to say our marriage ended rather quickly.

But he was not interested in staying home with me. Doing things with me and/or the sexual part of our relationship just left the marriage all together.

If your man is gone a lot more and has no interest to be with you or around you or take you places as before or to do things with you or the family, if you have children.

If your man is late every night from work and such..it is really no different then if he was cheating on you with a woman, same things involved.

Mine finally told me after I asked who he was cheating on me with.

Also if you all have credit cards and things like this, sometimes men will not always be smart enough about paying cash for hotels and such.. and will charge them, you may see the charges on this.

Also there may be charges for manly gifts on these credit cards as well.

Does he know of any bi or gay men in his life? Are they more then close when you are around? Do they stop talking when you come up in their gathering?

Like at a party or get together or such?

These are other signs.

Does he look at men a lot more then women?

Watch his reactions to men in stores and malls and even restaurants. What is he scoping a man or a woman?

The other and a real easy way to do this to get proof if it is really necessary for you and you have the money is a Private Investigator. They do exist and you can hire them to take pictures and follow your man to find out what he is going out with and doing in his spare time for real.

Calmly tell him that you are leaving him for cheating on you and lying to you. Tell him that you hope he's happy.

He does not love you. He never will. He probably has 3 or more girlfriends.

Change your cell # if you think you'll give in and forgive the guy.

I PROMISE YOU...Once a cheat, always a cheat.