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Dating
We all get stuck and need advice about our relationships. The contributors in the Dating category work hard to give you that advice with the best intentions and sincerity.
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How do you let a guy down easily?
- Just tell them that u don't feel the same way about them like you use to and that you don't want to be trapped in a relationship that's not going anywhere :)
- I don't think there is a nice way to brake up with someone. If your mean or nice they are going to get hurt either way.
- The person is right above, either way the they are going to be hurt, but what you can do instead of saying "its over" Sit the person down and tell them the reason why you are breaking up with them, and tell them that you guys can still be friends even though they might not like just being friends,you can still talk and be close.
- Let them know that you don't feel the same way about them as they feel about you.
- Be straight forward, honest and polite. Tell them face to face and be truthful - keep it simple.
- You have to be careful what you say to someone who is hurting. You never make them feel as if they are nothing and that they are being dumped like trash. It is better to be honest and say that things were not working because you were always fighting etc so it is time to move on.
- If you want to break up with your boyfriend start by not relying on him as much then when you feel ready start with the classic it's not you it's me line it will allow him to understand better what is happening and that you want to break up then you can say I'm just not feeling the same way about you that I was when we started going out then you can gently say I want to break up. If asks you if there is someone else tell him the truth. If you don't like this or it doesn't work let him know that you still want to be friends you just don't want to date anymore.
- I've been in this stitch just say "hey I think we need to just be friends."
First you give them signs for a few days then do it, don't just one day stop giving them a hug and brake up with the the same or next day! But let the person down VERY very slowly. When you're at a good point tell them why you don't want to be with them in a really kind way cause break ups are hard and usually end up with both people hating each other. But other people stay friends for a period of time (this may be rare!). Just try to do it as nice a possible!
What does it mean when she says she likes you but does not want to lose your friendship?
She's letting you down easy. Her choices are
1. Say she likes you but wants to stay friends because that's all she wants to be
or
2. Say she doesn't like you and then not be friends with you anymore
3. This rarely happens, but once every few centuries a girl comes along who does not want a boyfriend so she will use this
Be direct and tell her (And by direct I don't mean asking one of your friends to ask one of her friends to tell her that you like her.)
tell her how you r feeling from the bottom of your heart take a day to think about what you r going to say then tell her preferably not around her friends it will make the mood weird.
well as teens get older they get more friends and the more friends the more they texts like:
I have a friend called Libby she texts to me
HIYA R U COMING TO THE PUB TONIGHTand then they will just text no or yes and then they'll get more text off the same person and then TEXT TEXT TEXT and never stop!it might happen to you
How do you know to say yes or no when a boy asks you out?
Thats the problem with girls they dont give guys the chance you never know he might be the best guy you will ever date in your entire life many girls have rejected me and those who like me will never regret it give him a chance.
Your ex-girlfriend wants to 'have her cake and eat it too." She can't detach herself from the relationship, but she wants her ultimate freedom. She probably sees the positives about you and still wants her daily dose of that (whether it's your company, affection, intimacy, fun, whatever). However, if she broke up with you she is obviously feeling like she wants freedom, or someeone else, or she doesn't see a future in the relationship. The best thing you can do, in my opinion, is to not talk to her. She broke it off, therefore she needs to stand by her decision. It's very unfair of her to send you these mixed signals - so you need to make it loud and clear to her that either you're on or you're off. Be strong, and stand firm . . . and try to fill your own void with activities and friends, so you don't weaken. Good luck!
How can you tell if a girl is trying to make you jealous?
They may make an effort to talk to a girl/boy while obviously within your sightline, or even ask someone out in front of your. If you like him, and you think he is trying to make you jealous - then hemust like you too, just go up to him and talk to him, say hi or something and build on that.
That's what I would've said! ^^ -Lovey
for girls: if he plays around with girls to make you jealous is entitled player just sayinWhat do guys like in the smell of a girl?
Clean. A dirty body is never attractive, so bathe properly. Most men prefer a food based smell, so vanilla or a fruit base scent is always a sure bet. The most expensive perfumes are usually citrus or flower based, and a good alternative is the body sprays with these smells.
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If he is your soulmate, you will know without having to question it and it will not take long to figure it out either. :-)
How can you tell if a guy knows you like him?
this is what i think and what a guy i know thinks:
so this is what i think
well if u like a guy u may not try to leave clues but along the way
u dont know that u r the guy figures the clues u gave him
and thinks u like him or an easy way is admit it in his face
or do what i do tell a friend to tell him
and maybe if he likes u back wait for him to leave clues but never
ask him out wait for him to do that part
or if he doesnt then im sorry but just move on even if its hard
if u dont know his clues that hew doesnt like u
ex:he may try ignoring u,making u jealous (even if he doesnt like u),or tell u in ur face i dont like u (it depends how he says it but if he said it no matter how hes expression was that means he doesnt like u)
what my guy friend thinks:
well i think that hell try to talk to u and smile at u and flirt without u knowing
so thats a clue for him to like u or if he doesnt he stares at u with a bad look and look at other girls and try to make u jealous so u wont like him......
What I think is if he doesnt like you yeah he will try avoiding you but if he notices u like him and he likes u back then he will probably stare over at you alot..and also if ur going past him alot like back and forth at school or something hes gonna know something is up,also if your staring or looking at him all the time then he will figure out you have a crush on himm, hope I helped(=
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So. First lesson in life: do not listen to anyone who cannot use periods. If they cannot use grammar, you probably shouldn't be trusting them with life decisions. (example: see above)
Now, onto your second lesson in life. If a guy knows that you like him, one of two things will happen. 1. He will like you back. If this happens, he will either be super nice or super jerkish trying to get your attention (I prefer nice guys, they will do better in the long run - but always remember lesson one, grammar first). It's not always easy to tell if he likes you back. 2. He will not like you back. If this happens he will either nicely try to distance himself from you or he will be super jerkish.
The easiest way to tell if he's a 1 or 2 is...(huge life secret about to be revealed)...is to...TALK TO HIM. YOURSELF. Do not, I repeat, do not allow other people to talk about your guy's relationship because it is between you two and God. And if you start a relationship with someone by getting a friend to set you guys up, the friend will expect to be part of your relationship. And I do not support polygamy. And only you can express your true heart, not your friend. And if this guy is so great...what is to stop your ol' buddy from falling for him while she is out there talking to him about you? And look - she's already TALKING to him....herself. See where this is going? Yeah I thought so.
And before you date anyone, pray. God wants the best for you and He knows ALL THINGS (more than this site even). So talk to the Big Guy upstairs, and then to your crush. Good luck, may the force be with you and remember these last words - grammar is the key to success in life and good cowgirls keep their calves together (;
What do you do if you become lonely?
loneliness is a feeling that we all pass in certain moments: moments of silence, moments of abandon , when we miss a person etc.. but it's the way we deal with it that affects us. many persons are willing to do anything to escape this feeling and they end having a fake personality and trying to please the others every time.
that is not the way to deal with loneliness the perfect way to deal with it is to accept it: accept that at the moment you have no one to to talk to and console yourself by thinking of what happened earlier with whom you have spend your moments. also you can try to solve a problem you have faced . loneliness isn't always bad you can think when you're lonely and you can focus. if you want to escape it read stories
p.s.: sorry if my answer was too long i just am trying to help
Is it possible that a man can have two girlfriends?
Sure, we all have images in our minds of the type of person we want to have close to us, some real some superficial. This other girl may act or say the things this guy really needs to hear and see to feel good about himself. If he wanted to improve the relationship he was in he would tell his partner what it is that he needs to do that but alot of guys don't do that because they think its corny. The girlfriend can ask what it is that can improve their relationship but shouldn't have to change herself dramatically.
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well, maybe so for the first answer. but that can happen at any time in someone's life. i mean, look at all the divorces out there! it's crazy! so many people leave their current spouses for someone else, so why would it be surprising for people who are just in a relationship and not married to leave their current gf or bf for someone they feel is more suited for them. i mean, you can't help what happens in life and the people you meet. things just happen. you can't help it. sometimes things happen for a reason, and it can also mean that you two are growing apart, and changing as people. it is just the way it is. i wouldn't dwell on it.
What aer sweet things to say to your girlfriend?
That she has beautiful deep (colour) eyes. That she is beautiful, that she is all you need, that she is perfect, that her kiss is all you want, that you love the way her hair is, that she brightens every day, sing your song to her, that you will love her forever (but only use that one if you mean it).
Are we speaking in relation to gravitational pull? If so, then yes. If not then it depends on the person and the culture which they are from to dictate prefference.
Americans don't seem to like larger girls because they see them as less feminine.
I do not really see why being very thin would be attractive, but I chalk it up to a fad. Curves are very nice to me. Obesity can be off putting but a nice looking girl who is lets say 5'5 and 150lbs is nothing to stick your nose up at.
I think that people expecting women to be very thin is silly. Women are supposed to have a decent amount of body fat, it's genetically imposed. So, if you do have some curves don't worry about it. Just keep healthy and fit, and like yourself. People who buy into the trend that you have to be stick thin are gullible morons who are less than original anyway.
Well, maybe she is feeling like you are smothering her or that you are being to "clingy". Some girls like being the center of attention all the time and some don't. It really just depends on the girl.
Don't take this to heart. Sometimes woman need some time to thereselves, because they want to spend sometime with our family and friends for awhile. Spending too much time together can actually make people break-up because they loose a sense of themselves and feel suffocated at times. Talk to her, tell her how you feel and that if she needs you that you will be right their for her for whatever she needs... and mean it too! I am sure that your just a good guy and that things are going to work out. Just talk to her about how you feel and truthfully, if she is toying with you or is backing away then Buddy, you deserve much better for yourself!!!!
Detailed Caseyeah thats what she says is that she just has alot of stuff on her mind and she needs this time for herself she swears that shes madly in love, and im for her and she doesn't want to leave or break up. she said she just needs this time for her to clear her head ive told her that im here for her she knows that she still calls me everyday and still we end calls with I love you so I just dotn know whats goign on
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"For a week?" Did you consider menstruation? She may be rather uncomfortable to talk about such things, especially with a guy. It seems to me you're both very young and you've been "together" for a rather short time. She may be clearing her uterus, not her head. Slight anatomical error ;-)
Just let her work out her feelings, and when she's ready to talk, be honest and straightforward with each other.
Ahhhahaa, she has doubts about the relationship. So she needs time to sort out how she really feels and she probably has another guy on the side but wants to keep you hanging on just in case it doesn't work out with the last fling with the other guy. So, while your away calling her and saying how much she loves you, she's having a fling with this other guy to see if they are sexually compatible. Cause is this woman really loves you, you can be in her face every minute of the day and it wouldn't matter. Fifty percent of all AMERICAN married couples end in divorce cause they don't know what intimate commitment is. Especially, the younger generations. Even worse is that people from other countries pick up this fast-food mentality and destroy the best things about thier own culture. I've been with several American women but it never lasted. I met one woman from Russia and we've been married now for 8 years. It's an entirely different scenario with American women, the majority of them will jump ship once they see something better. There is nothing sacred in America anymore. Blame it on "White" men ! All they want to do is scr* every women in site and *. Look at what's been proliferated all over the Internet, the most disgusting imagery concerning White men and women of color. Look how white american women are, they're like wh*. Tanya harding is a good example. Pamela Anderson, another example.Then you have talentless women that sell records solely on premanufactured musical marketing techniques, ala Britney Spears. All looks, but nothing is sacred to them, they make love with one guy and all it means to them is an org* ! So to get back to my point, your probably better off with a woman that understands commitment. You let her go off now, and that pattern will become the norm, until one day you find out she's been scr* another guy on those weeks' off. If a woman needs time away from you, to sort her thoughts out, then she's not the one. Sorry kiddo. You seam like a good person, but don't fool your self now for a load of hurt later. bless your heart.
Sorry, I disagree with the above
In reference to the above post, there seems to be a lot of anger involved, which indicates they've been hurt. While some women may be of bad character, it isn't fair to lump all American or all white women, or all women of color, or all women of any kind into a single group, of that one opinion.
Most women are loyal, trustworthy and loving; it's the few who aren't that give the rest of us a bad name. That post also makes "American" seem like a bad thing. America certainly doesn't have the market cornered on infidelity, nor do women. Did they once stop to think that more marriages end in divorce because it's the husband who cheated on the wife, than the other way around? Apparently not.
Also, just because a woman says she needs a week to her self, does NOT mean she is up to no good. There could be many, many reasons for her needing some time to herself. Maybe she has a medical problem that has to be taken care of and doesn't want to tell the guy about it, for what ever reason (it IS her body). Maybe she does need a few days to herself to decide where she wants to go with her life. Maybe she has a friend who needs her. Maybe she's just tired and needs a break from EVERY one. The list could go on and on with many legitimate, yet honest reasons she would want a few days to her self. So to say "if a woman needs time away from you, to sort her feelings out, she's not the one" is clearly a biased opinion, and not fair to women in general.
Being a girl myself, I have often felt over-crowded and smothered by my boyfriend. I love him to bits but sometimes he can become a bit too obsessive and I normally sit down and talk to him about how I feel and we try and work things out.
No relationship is perfect and sometimes I go a week without making contact (physically and through phone calls etc.) It doesn't mean that I love him any less, or that I'm cheating on him. I wouldn't dream of it.
Sometimes, if I need to spend time with mum (she has breast cancer), my boyfriend can become jealous because he constantly wants to be around me. That's when I decide to take time out from him.
I have considered breaking up with him but just taking time out seems to improve our relationship and helps him to understand what I really need. I really wouldn't be too concerned about your girlfriend, she most probably just needs some space.
I said that to my boyfriend to a couple months ago. I still loved him but he just wasn't giving me enough time just to let me hang out just me and my buddies. So don't take it personally just give her space.
Another view:
Look bro - I feel ya..... but I too need my own time away from my lady.. my love ... the one that makes me happy just to wake up. The woman I want to be with for the rest of my life yet I am such a coward that I can't tell her that because it may force me into a place that I am afraid of. ............... ya know .... I just may chat w/ her about this ...... when I am sober.
gkasi's view
i think in as much as we can have different perceptions over the case above,its important to realise that the most important thing one can do is to be real with themselves by knowing what they really want in love,a girl asking for time off is welcome so long as its for the good of her and also for the guy.
I am in the same boat bro. I've been dating the same girl for about two years, we had a spell where i was a lil disconnected from her and it made her feel un-loved, she told me she needed some time to think about it, but i didn't give it to her, instead i took her out for a romantic weekend. everything seemed fine till the following week now she says she doesn't know what she wants and she needs time to figure it out again!!!!! I don't know what to think, but I'm staying in a motel room and haven't text or talked to her in three days. It sucks.... I'm pretty sure it's not that she's cheating, she's not that type of girl, the hardest part is the not knowing. I will respect her wishes and give her the space she wants I just hope she makes the right decision..... if not I'll know it wasn't meant to be and I'll move on. as hard as it is I suggest you do the same.
What do you do with your boyfriend for your 3 month anniversary?
Here's a unique idea.
I got my boyfriend (also of 3 years, so this works for you) a personalized anniversary song.
You pick the song and then add personal touches.
He loved it.
http://my-song.ca/s/ano1.
Check out the site! Hope that helps.
How do thirteen year olds act with friends?
Some are shy around boys, and others are obsessed with them, clothes and how they look, and romantic movies. On the other hand tom boys might be into clothes that are comfortable, an action packed thriller, and maybe an ocasional boy or two. But not that all into them!
It means as in like you are annoyed and such... I.E. Angie:Hey someone told me that you were talking crap! Jackie:Ugh who told you that?! I would never do such a thing! --------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Claudia:Ugh get out of my room you little brat! John:Naa nana boooboo!! Claudia:Ugh wait till' i get my hands on you...
What do you call someone who is more attracted to women but still attracted to men?
Someone attracted to both genders is called a bisexual. Whether they like one gender more than the other or both equally.
Most men aren't faithful because they like varity. There aren't any strings attached to a "one night affair." If the man is in a committed relationship or married, affairs give him an ego boost. Also, affairs provide a temporary relief from financial trouble, work issues, children & nagging (from the significant other.) I'm not condoning his behavior! When he finally meets the woman of his dreams, karma will be there to greet him!
I think the reson most girls wear "thongs and g-srtings" is to hide pantielines while wearing tight clothing. I also think some or the reason might be a attention grabber to boys. And the reason out of all of these might just be because they look nice and they are comfertable. hope this helps
It could just be coincidence...but chances are, he probably likes either you or one of your friends. Try talking to him-this will be the real indicator if he's really into you or not.
How do you say good morning in Greek?
There are two ways to say hello in Ancient Greek depending on how many people you are greeting.
The Ancient Greek word for saying hello to one person is pronounced ki-re (the 'i' is long, and the 'e' is short).
The Ancient Greek word for saying hello to two or more people is pronounced 'ki-re-te' (the 'i' is long and the 'e's are short).
How do you kiss if your a kid?
It depends what age you are. But you never make the other do something they don't want to no matter what! If your under 12ish then I recommend no tongue and to start with just a peck or a long peck on the lips. Afterwards don't make things awkward. Just go on with life but make sure you let them notice you liked it. If you didn't like it then tell them you aren't read for all of this quite yet. Don't let them know if it was their fault.
How do you know whether he loves you or not?
This is a hard one, but if you are asking then you must be feeling something along these lines.
These are some of the signs:
Not asking you out for dinner, a movie, or some sort of entertainment Not sharing himself with you (hopes and dreams) When you are together he does nothing else, but have sex with you If he doesn't include you with his line of friends When he hides you from the world If he either has you over to his place for nothing but sex and shares no other part of himself such as conversation or just having a good time without the sex involved. Always at your place and doing the same as the above. If he doesn't see you in between for long periods of time and when he does come around he wants to hit the sheets.
If he fits into any of these catagories and he doesn't treat you the way you should be treated then kick him to the curb. It's time to move on. With HIV and AIDS out there it isn't worth the risk of sharing your body with someone that doesn't treat you with the respect you so deserve.
Good luck Marcy
AnswerBeing interested in sex really a bad thing but, if it means that it is more important than anything else in the realtionship then that's a problem.Sudden signs when you get together includes:
Constant urges to have sex when mentioned;
When somebody wants something the nicest things are always said;
You can tell if sex is the ONLY thing that YOU and HIM consider good in the relationship.
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