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Breakups
It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.
8,665 Questions
Why do i dream about my ex when i hate him?
You usually dream of stuff that your brain is trying to get rid of.
You might hate him but the thought that u hate him remains in your head so that's why your dreaming about him.
Because two guys share a bed while traveling? If he's your boyfriend, then you can be fairly sure he's telling the truth. Being gay encompasses a whole lot more than sharing a bed. You should be happy he's comfortable enough with himself that he's not homophobic and refuses to be close to another male.
Are you getting the wrong impression if your ex wants to spend time together?
They might just be wanting to talk to u and become friends but they might also want you back. so be careful for what you fall for.
How do you get revenge on my mum?
You can never get revenge on your mum, or I can never get revenge on your mum ...but if a person takes revenge on a mother ...is the most cold hearted thing to do because they had you in her womb for 9 MONTHS and GAVE DELIVERY!
It probably means that you aren't going to support him with other needs, like money, good job, etc. whatever he thinks; rather than love and special bonds. Maybe he sees something special in you, but is giving you a little warning as to how you have been acting, or in his mind, you should be focusing on what really matters in life. It sounds like he really loves you, but sees some flaws. I don't really know the whole picture, but it sounds like he is not breaking up rather wanting to keep the relationship healthy and together. I hope that helped, and doesn't make anything worse. If anyone else wants to comment more, and correct me that would be appreciated.
Should you solve anger by fighting it out?
* My mother says "two wrongs never make a right"...so no I don't think you should fight it out, but I live by the saying "Anger is best pursued by silence" and no one gets hurt. or You could also try to talk to the person and each vent out the problem between you.
did you do anything to that girl to make her hate you?. if so apoligise and if you dont think you did anything to her ask her what you did to her.
What do you do if you still have feelings for your ex boyfreind- even though he is gay?
there is nothing to stop ou being friends with him even if he is not interested in you sexualy. You can get sex any where however frienship is much harder and more valuable.
When is a good time to break up with someone?
There is no perfect time to break up with anyone...
you just have to do what is right???
or else both of you will be hurt...
Its ok to hurt his feeling rather that to stay with lies...
Dont call him or talk to him. Move on with tour life it does not revolve around him. Cut off all contact or you will eventually be back where you started.
If you break something what do you do?
if you mean break a bone then if i was you go straight to the hospital.
cos I'm a dull person who wanted to break my arm and i jinxed myself I'm 11 and i was up the mountain with my friend and i held on to a tree swing and swung and done back flips down the mountain AND NOW I WANT TO BREAK MY LEG "/ I'm just dull aye :L
What can make a girl realize that she was wrong for dumping you?
Because very few people study the intense subjects insocial science all I can give is an idea or suggestion:
Answer A:
Most of the time in this situation it is due to shock. The decision only became real as it we're when she did the the dumping. That then is when her sense of logic came in and gave her sense. Now she has sense she can't see the sense in dumping the other person.
Answer B:
Angry or hurt choices can be to blame making it no ones fault for the dumping as such seeing as the human mind isn't thinking to it's Maximum capacity when angry or hurt.
Answer C:
Forgiveness. Forgiveness can take some time, therefore if the choice was made after you (the person being dumped) did something to hurt the girl then over a short period of time (often on smaller choices, time can vary) can forgive you and then regret it.
Answer D:
The Whole Story. Expanding on the above answer, the hurt or angry judgment could be based around them only seeing a small part of a bigger story. The person again made a snap judgment and so when they got the full story they are filled with regret.
Answer E:
The term 'Dumped' or 'Dumping' could of been used in the wrong manner. It could of meant that the girl in question wanted some space for a short period of time to cool of. She may of said the word 'Dump' (or the past tense 'Dumped') however what she may of wanted to say is that she wanted a break. Now remembering she used the wrong word she probably will change her vocabulary to the social situation of 'Dumping' and then going back out with them rather than return together after a break as the original plan should of layed out in her mind.
How do you know when someone is trying to monopolize your time or control you in a relationship?
- When someone monopolizes your time they have no consideration for any plans the other person may have made and expect them to change their plans. This is selfish on the other person's part and they cannot control that person unless they allow them too. If one has made plans or honestly doesn't want to do something they want to do then they should be honest and stand behind their reply. Sometimes the other person may not like it, but there will be many things in their life they will not like and will have to learn to get use to it. By allowing someone to treat a person in this manner is enabling this behavior. A person also cannot be controlled into something they do not wish to do unless they allow it. A powerful word is 'no!'
treat them like they are your friend so anything can't go wrong. I mean just because they are your ex does not mean you are not friends! hope i helped.
do something for her that really proves your love for her. show her how much you care even if she laugh. solid relationships are built off of friendships to begin with.
ok if you love her then say it to her face, I'm only being blunt here so just say it to her physically and never do it through a friend because that's a really dumb way to do it. if you say it to her face and if she laughs at you still then she doesn't love you back dude so do not keep trying to get her to love you...it won't work like that...
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Try to have a relationship with her instead.
What do you do when you are going to be broken up with and you know it?
i have never been been dumped ive been always been the 1 doing the dumping no offense. but hurry up and break up with that person
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How do you tell someone you are leading them on and you don't want a relationship?
Aren't you just the most fun person to be around. Honesty is always the best policy. DON'T tell the person you were leading them on (it's a rotten thing to do and worse to tell them) but just say it like it is .... you don't feel the relationship is working out and would like to move on. Try to reach down somewhere in that heart of yours and at least give them a compliment such as "it was fun being with you, but it's just not working out and I hope you find someone to fall in love with soon."
How do you let someone go without hurting them if they still want to be with you?
- Honesty is always the best policy even though you know it will hurt the person that loves you. Most people in their lifetime will have a lost love or two in their friendship and most survive and meet someone in the future they truly love. It would be kinder to say that you just do not feel the same way about them as they do you, but care about them, but you need to move on and also let them get on with their lives. Life hurts sometimes, but all of us get through the hard times with both feet planted on the ground firmly.
she called a couple times crying, texted for a bit. Then went No contact for a couple weeks when i called her on her bday in october. Things have been warmer since. I had to pull her teeth for her to admit she had a new bf though.
AnswerMaybe she has just decided that you are not so bad of a man and she wants to e friends.She may have broke up with you maybe because she just wanted to be friends.You never Know.
AnswerOften when an ex contacts you, it is out of curiosity, nostalgia, or guilt. Breaking up with someone can make the person feel guilty about falling out of love and hurting the other person. When a person dumps someone, it's not unusual for the dumper to still have some feelings for the other person--just not enough to want to be in a relationship with them.She may want to keep in contact to enjoy the things she likes and misses about you, without having to be in a relationship with you. In some cases, the ex is hoping to put you on the back burner---trying to see if you still have feelings for them in case their current relationship doesn't work out. Rarely is it because they want to be in a relationship with you right away.
If you still have feelings for her (after only two months broken up, it's natural to) it will be very difficult for you to only be friends, simply because it will lead to false hopes of getting back together with her. Don't contact her; let her be the one to do the contacting, but don't pin your hopes on it leading to anything more.
When is it time to call it quits?
When you don't love that person any longer. If you truly love a person do everything in your power to make it work out because real love doesn't come along so easily.
Men are individuals and while they don't see love like women do, they certainly do love (sometimes passionately) and they hurt just as badly as a woman does if something goes wrong with the relationship. Then there are other men that wouldn't know a good relationship if it bit them and they don't care because they simply like a variety of women in their lives. You just have to take your chances and wade through the whole mess. Some young women are more inclined to date men that are moody, secretive and classify this as a wild and interesting person with problems that these girls would love to solve (tame them in other words.) The truth is, these are just young men with big problems that they haven't dealt with. A well rounded young man has some plans for the future, wants a decent education, has hopes, ambitions (doesn't have to be rich) and treats women with the respect they give him. Smart women usually like someone with a good sense of humor, loyalty, honesty and can speak on the same educational level as themselves. They like a man that is vulnerable to a point and not afraid to show it, yet tough when he needs to be. Sounds like this guy either loves women in all shapes or sizes, gets bored easily and uses women. Wishing won't make it true. Marcy
