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It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.

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What should you do if your ex hurt you badly and slept with someone else and said she only loved you as a friend but now wants you back?

Stand up and fly right! This girl is burning the candle at both ends at the expense of your feelings and the partner he/she happens to be with at the time. With the explanation this person gave you I'd tell her to keep on walking! Love isn't about hurting someone and they shouldn't cheat on you. If they have fallen out of love or don't want to be in the relationship they should have the guts to tell the person they are with and then start dating other people. Sorry, wish I could be more positive about this, but would rather see you take the controls over on this one and move onward and upward. There are a lot of great girls out there. Take those controls back and move on!

10 easy ways to break up with your boyfriend?

1.) Text him. (But this is highly douchey and horrible)

2.) Phone call. (Also kind of rude)

3.) Change the Facebook status........

4.) A letter

5.) Procrastinating on making plans to see each other

6.) Don't text back immediately, be blunt and short with him

7.) Make excuses not to meet up

8.) Arrange to meet up in a comfortable place to explain why you don't want to be with him... NOT in public

I can't think of 10 but honestly breaking up is never easy so just do it...

Is it okay to ask your ex that you still love very much that you would appreciate if he told you he was seeing someone rather than have an outsider tell you that?

Well, you don't want to seem desperate do you? Well you could ask him to, if you wanted. There is nothing wrong with that, but he will know that you still care about him and everything.

Why did he break up with you if he still likes you?

He probably doesn't feel like it time for relationship yet

What does it mean when an ex suddenly wants you back after a 5 year break up?

It simply means he has had no luck with anyone else sure he still hates you but he doesn't want to look like a loser with no girlfriend or it means it is a dare from one of his mates

Why guys break their promise?

Guys tend to make promises they just can't keep. They make promises to make their girlfriends or wives happy then they realize they cant possibly keep it. Then there is always the occasional guy who just wants to ruin someone's life (has happend to me before). But on any circumstance guys will be guys and guys will do what they want and what they can get away with. Hope this helps. :) -(minti321)

What is a life belt for?

A life belt is for saving life at sea. You throw it to a person who has fallen in the water.

What does it mean when a guy breaks up with you but continues to invite you to spend the night with him and flirt with you constantly?

If your smart you will just leave him alone and not give him the satisfaction!!! The only thing he wants is sex and as soon as he gets it or finds something better in his eyes he will drop you without a thought and your heart will be broken!! There is no feelings and he isn't going to carry around the extra baggage if he doesnt have to!!! YOUR BETTER OFF LOOKING FOR SOME ONE WHO WANTS TO BE WITH YOU, THAT WANTS A COMMITMENT!!!!!

AnswerHe's angling for a friends with benefits situation, i.e. a booty call. If you're fine with this, proceed. If you're not comfortable with this, refuse the late night invites and tell him you're busy. Cut contact with hi. AnswerIt means he doesn't want to have a committed relationship with you and probably not even a dating situation, but he definitely does want to have sex with you...not necessarily a bad thing if it's what you want as well.

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I have seen this same situtaion many times at my own school. It basically means that the guy thinks that getting you as a girlfriend is a game and when he's won, he gets bored and wants to play again. Get where im going? basically he likes you but once he has you, he wants to do everything again

Hes trying to get into your pants. Just ignore him and stay away from him. Hes not worth it. Spend your time better.

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it can also mean that he doesnt want to break your friendship. maybe, he wants to hang out with you more but only as friends. it doesnt necessarily mean that he wants to play with you but still be friends just not in a relationship.

What does it mean if a girl breaks up with you because of something her old boyfriend did?

a girl would break up with you because she does not want to deal with the same problem.

Can you give me some slogens on love hurts?

You know its real when it hurts,love too.

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Sweetie I can give you all the slogan about love but I will just open your eyes. It is a myth but it's true LOVE means you never have to say sorry. This is what you have, your heart is broken, and you can feel the pain that feels like a warmth coming from your blood.

How do you make someone regret his mistakes?

Most times after someone knows they have made a mistake they do regret it but tend to try and not show it but they do feel the shame and guilt.

He says he doesn't want to be with me but when we do see each other we can't help the chemistry - what should you do?

when he moved away...u probably miss him so bad..you r probably thinking he find someone else better than u but in his heart he still love you so when u guys see each other in a while u guys can't help it cause you guys like each other so much...what u should do is talk to him about this nd find out wat he is thinking

I had a dream about my ex-boyfriends mother talking to me about what her son thinks of me And it was all bad news what could this possibly mean?

Sometimes a dream like that is something you already knew about him, just could not get it past your conscious, thinking self. It is worth considering that you are lucky that he is an ex. A boyfriend should be thinking and bringing out the best in you. Who wants to keep fighting an uphill battle?

Answering How does some one grief if they don't want to let go of a loved one and is built up inside and want's to let go but doesnt no how?

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I am sorry for your loss. Grief is such a personal thing, and there is not time limit on it. It might lessen over time, but nothing will wash that person out of your life, nor should you want to. But you have to make the grief manageable so you can grieve but you can also function in other areas of your life. Fortunately, we have many grief counselors who specialize in helping you compartmentalize your grief so you can go to work, take care of the children, or just get out of bed in the morning. I suggest you go to the home page for Psychology Today magazine. You can input your zip code and you will get a list of therapists in your area and each therapist lists their specialty. You need to look for someone whose specialty (or one of their specialties) is grief counseling or grief management. They will help you with the remembering, but letting go part that you are having a hard time with. If you can't find a specialist in that list, contact your local hospital. They deal in grief every day and will certainly either recommend someone they use, or have an on-staff counselor you can meet with.

Phil Another way of coping with grief that can be a tremendous help is to keep a journal. This way, when you feel the need to just get a lot of emotions out, you can write down everything you feel, without worrying about what anyone may think of what you are feeling. Grief is so personal, and everyone deals with it in their own way, that they sometimes wonder if what they are feeling is 'normal'. There is no right or wrong way to grieve; you have to do it in what ever way works for you. Don't let anyone tell you that "you need to do...." or that "you need to stop doing.....". Your feelings are yours, and you have every right to them. So by writing down all of your feelings, you are releasing them, which will help the recovery process. But as the first answer above says, counseling is also highly recommended. If you can't afford a therapist, check with your local colleges to see if they have a Counseling Program. Many universities do, and their fees are based on your ability (or inability) to pay. When you call to get this info, ask for the Psychology Department, which is the dept. that will be able to help you with this info.

Did Jim Ed Brown remarry Becky Brown?

Yes. They divorced in the early 80s but remarried a short time later.

How do you know when somebody does hot love you anymore?

  • The best way to find out if someone does not love you anymore is to ask them. If they cannot make eye contact; go red in the face; shuffle their feet or walk away this is an indication that they may not love you any longer. If they spend more time away from you; your sex life has dwindled; they may not spend weekends with you; break dates; forget special occasions such as your birthday, etc., or, they may make excuses as to why they are not around as often such as too much homework; working late (on a steady basis) or they simply don't feel like hanging out with you.

Why does my ex-girl sometimes blush secretly behind me?

Ass-uming her blushes have something to do with you,

she may have been looking at your posterior.

Or just watching you and fantasizing.

In regards to trust you promise not to talk about your friendship with your mom well what if the friendship is abusive and your friends doesn't want to work it out?

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I could never tell you what to do in this situation, but I will do my best to advise you. I do not know why were not supposed to discuss your relationship, but that already sets off a red flag. If you are in a healthy, happy relationship, you do not have a problem talking about it; and there is no reason to keep it a secret. I would go ahead and talk about it with your mom, or whoever you feel comfortable with. Let them know that this is something that you were not supposed to discuss, but you came to them anyway because of how important you feel this is. They will appreciate you coming to them, and they will listen to you.

What is the best way to get a girl off your mind when you are still in love with her but she does not want to speak to you anymore?

By trying to get her attention you are not only letting yourself down, but losing your dignity. It's truly time to move on no matter how much it hurts. There were reasons why you two are still not together (either she fell out of love with you or you did something to hurt her) and that relationship should teach you some valuable lessons if you are willing to really look at the relationship honestly and openly. Get out and see friends! You never know who you could meet while you are out, but if you just hang around the house or sit in front of the TV, you'll never know. There are over 4 times more women in the world than men ... so what's your problem again? Good luck Marcy See other women.

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