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It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.

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How do you know when someone is trying to monopolize your time or control you in a relationship?

  • When someone monopolizes your time they have no consideration for any plans the other person may have made and expect them to change their plans. This is selfish on the other person's part and they cannot control that person unless they allow them too. If one has made plans or honestly doesn't want to do something they want to do then they should be honest and stand behind their reply. Sometimes the other person may not like it, but there will be many things in their life they will not like and will have to learn to get use to it. By allowing someone to treat a person in this manner is enabling this behavior. A person also cannot be controlled into something they do not wish to do unless they allow it. A powerful word is 'no!'

Is going back with an ex wrong?

no,if u like her then u should follow your heart.

How should you treat your ex?

treat them like they are your friend so anything can't go wrong. I mean just because they are your ex does not mean you are not friends! hope i helped.

If i love a girl but i never told her about my love but she knew that i loved her now that i told her that i love her through some other person she just laughs and ignores?

do something for her that really proves your love for her. show her how much you care even if she laugh. solid relationships are built off of friendships to begin with.

ok if you love her then say it to her face, I'm only being blunt here so just say it to her physically and never do it through a friend because that's a really dumb way to do it. if you say it to her face and if she laughs at you still then she doesn't love you back dude so do not keep trying to get her to love you...it won't work like that...

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Try to have a relationship with her instead.

What do you do when you are going to be broken up with and you know it?

i have never been been dumped ive been always been the 1 doing the dumping no offense. but hurry up and break up with that person

Is Sophie turner hot?

Most people would consider Sophie extremely attractive. She is a highly published swimsuit and glamour model.

How do you tell someone you are leading them on and you don't want a relationship?

Aren't you just the most fun person to be around. Honesty is always the best policy. DON'T tell the person you were leading them on (it's a rotten thing to do and worse to tell them) but just say it like it is .... you don't feel the relationship is working out and would like to move on. Try to reach down somewhere in that heart of yours and at least give them a compliment such as "it was fun being with you, but it's just not working out and I hope you find someone to fall in love with soon."

How do you let someone go without hurting them if they still want to be with you?

  • Honesty is always the best policy even though you know it will hurt the person that loves you. Most people in their lifetime will have a lost love or two in their friendship and most survive and meet someone in the future they truly love. It would be kinder to say that you just do not feel the same way about them as they do you, but care about them, but you need to move on and also let them get on with their lives. Life hurts sometimes, but all of us get through the hard times with both feet planted on the ground firmly.

My ex girlfriend broke up with me two months ago. I had health issues recently and she has expressed interest in talking to me more and said wished we talked more. She apperently has a new bf.?

ADD ON FROM CROWS:She broke up with me.. well she said it was because of our arguments we had. We talked about it.. thought we had figured it out, then she dumped me out of nowhere, got back together for a week then dumped me again. She kept saying "I don't know what to do"

she called a couple times crying, texted for a bit. Then went No contact for a couple weeks when i called her on her bday in october. Things have been warmer since. I had to pull her teeth for her to admit she had a new bf though.

AnswerMaybe she has just decided that you are not so bad of a man and she wants to e friends.

She may have broke up with you maybe because she just wanted to be friends.You never Know.

AnswerOften when an ex contacts you, it is out of curiosity, nostalgia, or guilt. Breaking up with someone can make the person feel guilty about falling out of love and hurting the other person. When a person dumps someone, it's not unusual for the dumper to still have some feelings for the other person--just not enough to want to be in a relationship with them.

She may want to keep in contact to enjoy the things she likes and misses about you, without having to be in a relationship with you. In some cases, the ex is hoping to put you on the back burner---trying to see if you still have feelings for them in case their current relationship doesn't work out. Rarely is it because they want to be in a relationship with you right away.

If you still have feelings for her (after only two months broken up, it's natural to) it will be very difficult for you to only be friends, simply because it will lead to false hopes of getting back together with her. Don't contact her; let her be the one to do the contacting, but don't pin your hopes on it leading to anything more.

When is it time to call it quits?

When you don't love that person any longer. If you truly love a person do everything in your power to make it work out because real love doesn't come along so easily.

Do guys value their long-term relationships and how soon is too soon for them to have a girlfriend that is not considered a rebound?

Men are individuals and while they don't see love like women do, they certainly do love (sometimes passionately) and they hurt just as badly as a woman does if something goes wrong with the relationship. Then there are other men that wouldn't know a good relationship if it bit them and they don't care because they simply like a variety of women in their lives. You just have to take your chances and wade through the whole mess. Some young women are more inclined to date men that are moody, secretive and classify this as a wild and interesting person with problems that these girls would love to solve (tame them in other words.) The truth is, these are just young men with big problems that they haven't dealt with. A well rounded young man has some plans for the future, wants a decent education, has hopes, ambitions (doesn't have to be rich) and treats women with the respect they give him. Smart women usually like someone with a good sense of humor, loyalty, honesty and can speak on the same educational level as themselves. They like a man that is vulnerable to a point and not afraid to show it, yet tough when he needs to be. Sounds like this guy either loves women in all shapes or sizes, gets bored easily and uses women. Wishing won't make it true. Marcy

What should you do if your ex hurt you badly and slept with someone else and said she only loved you as a friend but now wants you back?

Stand up and fly right! This girl is burning the candle at both ends at the expense of your feelings and the partner he/she happens to be with at the time. With the explanation this person gave you I'd tell her to keep on walking! Love isn't about hurting someone and they shouldn't cheat on you. If they have fallen out of love or don't want to be in the relationship they should have the guts to tell the person they are with and then start dating other people. Sorry, wish I could be more positive about this, but would rather see you take the controls over on this one and move onward and upward. There are a lot of great girls out there. Take those controls back and move on!

10 easy ways to break up with your boyfriend?

1.) Text him. (But this is highly douchey and horrible)

2.) Phone call. (Also kind of rude)

3.) Change the Facebook status........

4.) A letter

5.) Procrastinating on making plans to see each other

6.) Don't text back immediately, be blunt and short with him

7.) Make excuses not to meet up

8.) Arrange to meet up in a comfortable place to explain why you don't want to be with him... NOT in public

I can't think of 10 but honestly breaking up is never easy so just do it...

Is it okay to ask your ex that you still love very much that you would appreciate if he told you he was seeing someone rather than have an outsider tell you that?

Well, you don't want to seem desperate do you? Well you could ask him to, if you wanted. There is nothing wrong with that, but he will know that you still care about him and everything.

Why did he break up with you if he still likes you?

He probably doesn't feel like it time for relationship yet

What does it mean when an ex suddenly wants you back after a 5 year break up?

It simply means he has had no luck with anyone else sure he still hates you but he doesn't want to look like a loser with no girlfriend or it means it is a dare from one of his mates

Why guys break their promise?

Guys tend to make promises they just can't keep. They make promises to make their girlfriends or wives happy then they realize they cant possibly keep it. Then there is always the occasional guy who just wants to ruin someone's life (has happend to me before). But on any circumstance guys will be guys and guys will do what they want and what they can get away with. Hope this helps. :) -(minti321)

What is a life belt for?

A life belt is for saving life at sea. You throw it to a person who has fallen in the water.

What does it mean when a guy breaks up with you but continues to invite you to spend the night with him and flirt with you constantly?

If your smart you will just leave him alone and not give him the satisfaction!!! The only thing he wants is sex and as soon as he gets it or finds something better in his eyes he will drop you without a thought and your heart will be broken!! There is no feelings and he isn't going to carry around the extra baggage if he doesnt have to!!! YOUR BETTER OFF LOOKING FOR SOME ONE WHO WANTS TO BE WITH YOU, THAT WANTS A COMMITMENT!!!!!

AnswerHe's angling for a friends with benefits situation, i.e. a booty call. If you're fine with this, proceed. If you're not comfortable with this, refuse the late night invites and tell him you're busy. Cut contact with hi. AnswerIt means he doesn't want to have a committed relationship with you and probably not even a dating situation, but he definitely does want to have sex with you...not necessarily a bad thing if it's what you want as well.

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I have seen this same situtaion many times at my own school. It basically means that the guy thinks that getting you as a girlfriend is a game and when he's won, he gets bored and wants to play again. Get where im going? basically he likes you but once he has you, he wants to do everything again

Hes trying to get into your pants. Just ignore him and stay away from him. Hes not worth it. Spend your time better.

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it can also mean that he doesnt want to break your friendship. maybe, he wants to hang out with you more but only as friends. it doesnt necessarily mean that he wants to play with you but still be friends just not in a relationship.

Can you give me some slogens on love hurts?

You know its real when it hurts,love too.

ANSWER:

Sweetie I can give you all the slogan about love but I will just open your eyes. It is a myth but it's true LOVE means you never have to say sorry. This is what you have, your heart is broken, and you can feel the pain that feels like a warmth coming from your blood.

What does it mean if a girl breaks up with you because of something her old boyfriend did?

a girl would break up with you because she does not want to deal with the same problem.

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