Breakups

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Sure they can. But who would want THAT? There are plenty of people out there who can say they love you and not respect you. Real love and respect go hand in hand. If they really love you they will respect you. If they don't respect you - it's not love plain and simple.

If she loves him and he loves her back then there is no problem. Ask yourself: Are you jealous that she has a guy? Do you feel you don't get to spend as much time with her? If so the real question is how can YOU cope with your friend spending so much time with her boyfriend. Let them be, if they're happy then nothing is wrong. don't do anything.

My girlfriend made up this term referring to a potential fight that was going to break out. "I think they were about to have a fist off"

Its best to communicate with them instead of waiting around for signs that may not come or be there. There is no room for games in relationships so if you want something you have to go try and get it.

I think he is trying to let you down very gently.

i feel your pain, trust me. but there's nothing you can do ):

Give yourself a kick in the butt and realize your ex is an all time super jerk! He's not had any sensitivity towards you, but now your girlfriend. By the way, girlfriends of yours shouldn't be dating your ex's so I would think she got what she deserved. It's time to move on hon. Be thankful you didn't get stuck with this twit. Look at it in a positive manner. You and your girlfriend start going out and having fun and now you are FREE to date anyone you like! Wooohooo! Freedom time! Have fun as life is just too short! Marcy

Talk to him nicely about it and if he don't leave you threaten him by pretending to get the cops involved or get a restraining order :)

what would it take to get back together with you wife? People have a real short patience level when planning a relationship. If you sit back and take a look at people who are in long relationships, it kinda fills you in....if you stick it out, you have each other for life, and it don't get better than that. Michael Sabedra in my first relationship going on 17yrs and it was not easy getting here but dam worth it!

don't tell him you love him just move on

This is just am opinion, but I think you should take charge. I read that like 80% of guys want the girl to make the first move. Follow your heart if this doesn't help or work.

it sounds odd that he would break up with you because he didn't know what love feels like. but there are some sad people out there who really don't know how to love or don't know what love feels like, because they have never been loved.

what he is doing is trying to gain the upper hand in the relationship by showing you need him.

he feel threat that she will tell something wrong about him. he feel bad when he sees his ex. he became shy and uncomfortable in front of his ex.

It is not clear if you broke up with your ex or if your ex broke up with you. Either way if you are now both broken up you need to accept this and stop texting. What you are doing is harassment.

Ha! I would love to know the answer to this one!

But all I can say is that even though it was a terrible relationship in the past its been long enough for you to forgive them and the initial attraction has come back.

If you like her then ask her to go out again . if she says yes then you ask her to marry you and if she says no your relasionship is not totally over keep dating and in a year or maybe 6 months she will say yes to the man of her dreams. GOOD LUCK! no need to rush if she loves you shell tell u when shes ready.

dont be a slut . just follow your heart. dont keep cheating. drop the one you dont like more. and you dont like them the same. you know you dont. though there may be qualities you like in both, ask yourself which qualities you most desire in a man, which will not fade as you get older, which will keep the fire burning.

If your main concern is that he is gone so much I should imagine you must be missing him an awful lot. I'd be interested to know how much contact you do have ie, e-mails or texts or phone calls, there are lots of ways to keep things lively while your apart. It sounds like your a really supportive girlfriend to me and im just thinking is there any scope for you to go with him sometimes, or even just for a day or two maybe you wouldn't feel so out of it. It doesn't sound like you have talked to your boyfriend about this but maybe a little chat when you get chance could make a difference to how you feel?

A little but important fact I learned when my boyfriend and I parted for 5 weeks was how to live without him take a little look at yourself and don't focus on him quite so much - what are you passionate about? what are your interests? my advice make plans, go get your hair done, plan nights for just you to spend with you....make yourself the most important thing on your agenda, fill your diary...go get what you need rather than waiting for it to come to you.....I promise you will not be posting on websites because busy you will not have time and before you know it your boyfriend will be wondering where you are? I really hope this helps you sweetheart, and that you and your boyfriend find a way to bridge the lonely gap you seem to be feeling *much love* TJ

Are you desperate for drama!? Gosh don't think you're gonna get another guy like this you don't dump him for loving you and telling you the truth! And he is begging for you back when he didn't do anything wrong but try to make his girl happy don't take advantage of these relationships feel lucky you even got someone who loves you get back together with him and apologize!

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Mariespi10:

you're right why would you break up with someone who loves you? did you feel uncomfortable? If you don't feel uncomfortable, then get back with them!

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Afterball

I'm sure you have more then that reason but if you aren't happy with the way the relationship is going and you've tried to fix it then sit him down and tell him it's over. Don't give him any hope like "we can still be friends" or "it's not you it's me". Just tell him you aren't happy and there is nothing he can do to fix it. The other option that is more extreme is to tell him to leave you alone or you'll get a restraining order.

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Bankaibuddy15 (A DUDE)

If you feel uncomfortable, that's no reason to end the relationship AFTERALL! Although you should try to talk this out with him and reach a mutual understanding. Tell him what it is you dislike and give him a chance to voice his feelings as well (although from the looks of it, he's already done that.) Like seriously, reach an agreement, one that you can both live with. If in the end he has to go, then he has to go. If through the course of your discussion you find that you might like to take him back, then go for it, but make it clear what you will and will NOT accept, and so on and so fourth. Things could go either way, but they'll only go the RIGHT way if you both discuss the issue and are completely honest with each other.

You know when you feelin love when you date a girl and you think she's the right one for that's you know cause if you happiness with that person you love her and you're feelin it in you're heart

ignoring u sorry about that know how u fill

Just tell im, I have learned to just say whats on my mind.