Breakups

Ha! I would love to know the answer to this one!

But all I can say is that even though it was a terrible relationship in the past its been long enough for you to forgive them and the initial attraction has come back.

If you like her then ask her to go out again . if she says yes then you ask her to marry you and if she says no your relasionship is not totally over keep dating and in a year or maybe 6 months she will say yes to the man of her dreams. GOOD LUCK! no need to rush if she loves you shell tell u when shes ready.

dont be a slut . just follow your heart. dont keep cheating. drop the one you dont like more. and you dont like them the same. you know you dont. though there may be qualities you like in both, ask yourself which qualities you most desire in a man, which will not fade as you get older, which will keep the fire burning.

If your main concern is that he is gone so much I should imagine you must be missing him an awful lot. I'd be interested to know how much contact you do have ie, e-mails or texts or phone calls, there are lots of ways to keep things lively while your apart. It sounds like your a really supportive girlfriend to me and im just thinking is there any scope for you to go with him sometimes, or even just for a day or two maybe you wouldn't feel so out of it. It doesn't sound like you have talked to your boyfriend about this but maybe a little chat when you get chance could make a difference to how you feel?

A little but important fact I learned when my boyfriend and I parted for 5 weeks was how to live without him take a little look at yourself and don't focus on him quite so much - what are you passionate about? what are your interests? my advice make plans, go get your hair done, plan nights for just you to spend with you....make yourself the most important thing on your agenda, fill your diary...go get what you need rather than waiting for it to come to you.....I promise you will not be posting on websites because busy you will not have time and before you know it your boyfriend will be wondering where you are? I really hope this helps you sweetheart, and that you and your boyfriend find a way to bridge the lonely gap you seem to be feeling *much love* TJ

Are you desperate for drama!? Gosh don't think you're gonna get another guy like this you don't dump him for loving you and telling you the truth! And he is begging for you back when he didn't do anything wrong but try to make his girl happy don't take advantage of these relationships feel lucky you even got someone who loves you get back together with him and apologize!

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Mariespi10:

you're right why would you break up with someone who loves you? did you feel uncomfortable? If you don't feel uncomfortable, then get back with them!

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Afterball

I'm sure you have more then that reason but if you aren't happy with the way the relationship is going and you've tried to fix it then sit him down and tell him it's over. Don't give him any hope like "we can still be friends" or "it's not you it's me". Just tell him you aren't happy and there is nothing he can do to fix it. The other option that is more extreme is to tell him to leave you alone or you'll get a restraining order.

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Bankaibuddy15 (A DUDE)

If you feel uncomfortable, that's no reason to end the relationship AFTERALL! Although you should try to talk this out with him and reach a mutual understanding. Tell him what it is you dislike and give him a chance to voice his feelings as well (although from the looks of it, he's already done that.) Like seriously, reach an agreement, one that you can both live with. If in the end he has to go, then he has to go. If through the course of your discussion you find that you might like to take him back, then go for it, but make it clear what you will and will NOT accept, and so on and so fourth. Things could go either way, but they'll only go the RIGHT way if you both discuss the issue and are completely honest with each other.

You know when you feelin love when you date a girl and you think she's the right one for that's you know cause if you happiness with that person you love her and you're feelin it in you're heart

ignoring u sorry about that know how u fill

Just tell im, I have learned to just say whats on my mind.

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Usually the simple things, kindness, consideration, affection - (usually non-sexual) hand holding, door opening, tell her she looks pretty, be polite, attentive (pay attention to her when she talks) show concern to what is important to her. Let her be herself. Make eye contact, don't lie to her, be on time, take her places she likes, be a gentleman, make her feel safe to be with you - like you would protect her if some thing happened. Most women and I say MOST... like cards and flowers.. but it doesn't have to be big things... a single flower will do. It is really the thought-- that counts. We all want to be thought about. To know that someone cares, and has us in there minds and hearts.

There a number of things that you can do if you are confused about still being in love with someone. You should try to find out what still reminds you of that person. You can also talk to a professional to help you get a closure and move on or you can find your ex and talk about your feelings and see if you can get back together.

It's hard to tell, but once someone tells you that they want nothing more to do with you, it's important that you respect his wishes and back off somewhat. If he's just spouting off steam, then hopefully he'll cool off and return to you. If not, and he continues to avoid you, your only real option is to move on.

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A lot of people get into the topic of whats new in today's world.

Try talking about a new movie and what you have thought about it.

If you don't find a movie you have both seen try telling your intimate friend about it. Tell them a summary of it. But make sure you keep an open mind about it and if she/he thinks somthing else about it don't prove them wrong! Listen to there ideas!

It's up to you if u want to forgive him or not. i think its a good idea if you still love him. Take it from me.. i broke up with my boyfriend 3 times and he's asked me out again last week.i made him say sorry. i always forgive him, i still love him. but its all up to you. all my friends are telling me to brake up with him because of the way he acted before. Do what you feel is right.-dani- Yes, if he loves you enough and is willing to work it out. Even if he does come back, there will be trust issues for whatever you did to hurt him. That will take time to heal.

Love is giving. And forgiveness is the best.

First off don't call he or she or text and then if he or she starts callin you then dont pick up the phone the first 3 times

If he is asking you to wait it just means that he/she isn't ready or all that interested. No, don't wait around. Find someone who is on the same page with you.

Some guys just want to get down to raw sex and nothing else. If they were to tell you that you'd probably tell them to take a hike so, they play it cool and even (sometimes) kid themselves into thinking they love you just so they can have a sexual relationship with you. Don't be too hard on yourself or feel foolish because one can't tell sometimes who are the bad guys or the good guys. Rule of thumb ... if a guy comes onto you hot and heavy after a date or two tell them you don't like it and want to work on the relationship first. If they don't bother to ask you out on a date again then you know they were only after sex and you've just saved yourself a lot of pain.

No. He wants to play with your feelings while 'waiting' for a new catch. You are better than that.. Much better. Run.. Never look back. You deserve only the best.

Well, I am personally in a very odd situation. I hope talking about my situation can help you with yours. I said something like that to my boyfriend just today. I don't know what I want and I really do need time. I began to wonder if I have a phobia of being in a relationship. Because, I love the guy I'm with. We have a lot of great things going for us, yet there are the complications as well like in every relationship. I always fear that I will one day break his heart because I can't figure out what I really want. So, I told him to go back to when we were just friends. Because we weren't for long, and we just started the relationship so early on. And I think that may be the reason as to why we are so close, yet not close at all at the same time. At the moment, we are pretending we are not in a relationship. I know that it worries him a lot, but he understands that it may actually be for the best. We did not break up and I hope we never do. I just need time, to establish more of a friendship with him, and hopefully the fears will wash away.

I'm sure your relationship isn't exactly the same. I mean, who's really is? I don't know how long you have been going out, or how long much you like/love one another. Being realistic, there is that chance she needs time for a reason. That there could be something wrong, which may lead to her ending the relationship. However, its best to remain optimistic. You know the saying "Absence makes the heart grow fonder"? This could just be a case of that. During this time of being apart, she may realize how much she misses you, and how much she wants to be with you, and that you really are the one for her.

I hope my advice helped. And I hope she gets the time she needs in order to realize that you are the one for her. Oh! Don't push her either! That will drive her away. Give her all the time she needs. However, if it has been a month, or maybe a few months, I do suggest confronting her about it. But don't press the issue. Although, if she just continues to avoid it, then there really might be something wrong in which you should talk to her about it some more.

I think that is about it. Good luck! ^____^

Well if he's a guy that's hard to get you should beat him at his own game. show you have concern but don't make it seem like he's the only thing on your mind. Hope that helped

I asked this question, I had a boyfriend, he broke up with me a year ago, because, emotionally, I'm too tense. I just found that out, I wanna fix that so then we may stand a chance of getting back together. Any tips on how to relax emotionally would help a lot, thanks!