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It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.

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If he still loves you can you get him to forgive you and come back?

It's up to you if u want to forgive him or not. i think its a good idea if you still love him. Take it from me.. i broke up with my boyfriend 3 times and he's asked me out again last week.i made him say sorry. i always forgive him, i still love him. but its all up to you. all my friends are telling me to brake up with him because of the way he acted before. Do what you feel is right.-dani- Yes, if he loves you enough and is willing to work it out. Even if he does come back, there will be trust issues for whatever you did to hurt him. That will take time to heal.

How do you know if your ex still misses you how do you find out?

First off don't call he or she or text and then if he or she starts callin you then dont pick up the phone the first 3 times

Should one wait if the other person is not ready for a relationship but wants the other to wait?

If he is asking you to wait it just means that he/she isn't ready or all that interested. No, don't wait around. Find someone who is on the same page with you.

Why do guys ask you out and then say after two months they aren't ready for a relationship?

Some guys just want to get down to raw sex and nothing else. If they were to tell you that you'd probably tell them to take a hike so, they play it cool and even (sometimes) kid themselves into thinking they love you just so they can have a sexual relationship with you. Don't be too hard on yourself or feel foolish because one can't tell sometimes who are the bad guys or the good guys. Rule of thumb ... if a guy comes onto you hot and heavy after a date or two tell them you don't like it and want to work on the relationship first. If they don't bother to ask you out on a date again then you know they were only after sex and you've just saved yourself a lot of pain.

What do you do if you acted needy and desperate after a break up and want him back?

Well if he's a guy that's hard to get you should beat him at his own game. show you have concern but don't make it seem like he's the only thing on your mind. Hope that helped

I dated my ex 4 3 yrs an i brke up wit him. aftr 6mnths i tld him i wnt to get back 2gether he said no an he has a new girl. now he is txtn me sayn he miss me does he wnna get back with me?

No. He wants to play with your feelings while 'waiting' for a new catch. You are better than that.. Much better. Run.. Never look back. You deserve only the best.

Why did jemi breakup?

Sources say the Jonas Brothers rocker was approached by Disney publicists about the possibility of having him and Demi "date" in order to bring in ratings for Camp Rock 2.

Apparently, Demi had no idea that Joe was just using her and when she found out that the whole relationship was just for show she had a mental breakdown over everything. She felt everything was a big lie. When Joe and his father told her the truth, she couldn't deal with anything anymore. She totally lost it, and nothing was ever the same after that. She didn't know who to trust or what was real anymore. In all honesty, she loved Joe, and to find out it was all fake, destroyed her. She immediately started blaming herself after they split, and wanted to change everything. She tried to move on. She started seeing other guys to distract her. But being stuck on tour with Joe and his new girlfriend did her in as we see now… All her feelings just exploded at once.

What does it mean when your girlfriend says needs time she doesn't know what she want?

Well, I am personally in a very odd situation. I hope talking about my situation can help you with yours. I said something like that to my boyfriend just today. I don't know what I want and I really do need time. I began to wonder if I have a phobia of being in a relationship. Because, I love the guy I'm with. We have a lot of great things going for us, yet there are the complications as well like in every relationship. I always fear that I will one day break his heart because I can't figure out what I really want. So, I told him to go back to when we were just friends. Because we weren't for long, and we just started the relationship so early on. And I think that may be the reason as to why we are so close, yet not close at all at the same time. At the moment, we are pretending we are not in a relationship. I know that it worries him a lot, but he understands that it may actually be for the best. We did not break up and I hope we never do. I just need time, to establish more of a friendship with him, and hopefully the fears will wash away.

I'm sure your relationship isn't exactly the same. I mean, who's really is? I don't know how long you have been going out, or how long much you like/love one another. Being realistic, there is that chance she needs time for a reason. That there could be something wrong, which may lead to her ending the relationship. However, its best to remain optimistic. You know the saying "Absence makes the heart grow fonder"? This could just be a case of that. During this time of being apart, she may realize how much she misses you, and how much she wants to be with you, and that you really are the one for her.

I hope my advice helped. And I hope she gets the time she needs in order to realize that you are the one for her. Oh! Don't push her either! That will drive her away. Give her all the time she needs. However, if it has been a month, or maybe a few months, I do suggest confronting her about it. But don't press the issue. Although, if she just continues to avoid it, then there really might be something wrong in which you should talk to her about it some more.

I think that is about it. Good luck! ^____^

How do you relax yourself emotionally?

I asked this question, I had a boyfriend, he broke up with me a year ago, because, emotionally, I'm too tense. I just found that out, I wanna fix that so then we may stand a chance of getting back together. Any tips on how to relax emotionally would help a lot, thanks!

What do you do if you try to set up little get togethers with your ex to try and respark a relationship but it always never happens even though she says she wants to?

Actions speak louder than words. It seems that the interest in renewing the relationship is yours alone. It is time to move on and let it go.

What does it mean if you want to break up with your boyfriend but when he talks to you blush and smile?

it means your not blushing but your getting red. Your getting red because your nervous and arent sure if youll make the right choice......your welcome

What should you do if you told your boyfriend that you want to break up with him because he doesn't care about you anymore and he told you bad words?

You should continue in your plan to break up; the "bad words" are just further evidence that he does not care for you, only for himself. Move on and find someone who does care about you.

Do ex-narcissist boyfriends who dumped you think of the good memories and have regrets of leaving her even though they found someone else?

Yes, and No. It depends on how life has treated him later on. I was not that nice to many girls I dated in the past. I didn't think much of it when I ended things with them. I did not realize how good I had it until I fell in love with someone I wanted more than anything in this world. She was nice enough, but not as nice as the women I had dated and dumped in the past. It was then that I realized I had met some great women in the past, but was too self absorbed at the time to see if or appreciate it. Now that I am older, I do remember

them, and regret that I lost the opportunity for something meaningful with people who were very kind and decent. It took a lot for me to realize it, life had to break down the Ego, and I had to face the reality that I was the problem, not them.

What does the quote nothing inspires forgiveness quite like revenge?

It's easier to forgive someone rather than plot revenge

I think it means if you get revenge, it is then easier to forgive because you got the person back for their bad deeds. So now forgiveness is easy.

Answer

Revenge is never the way to forgive. Revenge only makes the person who is doing it look bad. It shows bad character. If everyone took the stance that revenge is the only way to bring forgiveness just think what the world would be like. Learning to forgive without revenge will bring peace to you in a much better way than revenge ever can. Just remember that when you want revenge and you go through with your actions, you have to live with it and, someday it will haunt you if you are any kind of decent person at all. If you are not a decent person and you think revenge is the way to go, then you will end up being known as a person to avoid because of your actions.

In what words can you tell your ex you NEED him back?

I think u should say i want u back i messed up or he messed up

You are mad at your dad should you still love him?

Absolutely!! He is still your father. There will always be times of disagreements, but this is no reason to cast aside love for one another. If it is because of an abusive relationship (not just a disagreement) then you must seek outside help.

Can a child fall in love with an adult?

In answering the question, it is important to know the age in which a person can b refer to as a child. Though having one's parent still makes the person maintain the status of being a child, but in the real sense, the parent factor alone cannot decide who a child is. A child or children should be a person or people between the age of childhood which is between birth and eleven years. It is IMPOSIBLE for sane adult to date people of this age or have any emotional or mutual relationship with people of this age for these 2 reasons;

1. they lack the wit of mutual relationship,

2.they lack the physical features that can attract or arouse sexual organ. Eg. Breast, hips etc.

If there is any mutual or sexual relationship between an adult and a child, then it is called 'child abuse'.

What are the characteristic of a caring and respectful relationship?

No one quite knows the answer to that question well at least no one i know

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