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It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.

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What do you do if you try to set up little get togethers with your ex to try and respark a relationship but it always never happens even though she says she wants to?

Actions speak louder than words. It seems that the interest in renewing the relationship is yours alone. It is time to move on and let it go.

What should you do if you told your boyfriend that you want to break up with him because he doesn't care about you anymore and he told you bad words?

You should continue in your plan to break up; the "bad words" are just further evidence that he does not care for you, only for himself. Move on and find someone who does care about you.

Do ex-narcissist boyfriends who dumped you think of the good memories and have regrets of leaving her even though they found someone else?

Yes, and No. It depends on how life has treated him later on. I was not that nice to many girls I dated in the past. I didn't think much of it when I ended things with them. I did not realize how good I had it until I fell in love with someone I wanted more than anything in this world. She was nice enough, but not as nice as the women I had dated and dumped in the past. It was then that I realized I had met some great women in the past, but was too self absorbed at the time to see if or appreciate it. Now that I am older, I do remember

them, and regret that I lost the opportunity for something meaningful with people who were very kind and decent. It took a lot for me to realize it, life had to break down the Ego, and I had to face the reality that I was the problem, not them.

What does the quote nothing inspires forgiveness quite like revenge?

It's easier to forgive someone rather than plot revenge

I think it means if you get revenge, it is then easier to forgive because you got the person back for their bad deeds. So now forgiveness is easy.

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Revenge is never the way to forgive. Revenge only makes the person who is doing it look bad. It shows bad character. If everyone took the stance that revenge is the only way to bring forgiveness just think what the world would be like. Learning to forgive without revenge will bring peace to you in a much better way than revenge ever can. Just remember that when you want revenge and you go through with your actions, you have to live with it and, someday it will haunt you if you are any kind of decent person at all. If you are not a decent person and you think revenge is the way to go, then you will end up being known as a person to avoid because of your actions.

What does it mean if you want to break up with your boyfriend but when he talks to you blush and smile?

it means your not blushing but your getting red. Your getting red because your nervous and arent sure if youll make the right choice......your welcome

In what words can you tell your ex you NEED him back?

I think u should say i want u back i messed up or he messed up

You are mad at your dad should you still love him?

Absolutely!! He is still your father. There will always be times of disagreements, but this is no reason to cast aside love for one another. If it is because of an abusive relationship (not just a disagreement) then you must seek outside help.

Can a child fall in love with an adult?

In answering the question, it is important to know the age in which a person can b refer to as a child. Though having one's parent still makes the person maintain the status of being a child, but in the real sense, the parent factor alone cannot decide who a child is. A child or children should be a person or people between the age of childhood which is between birth and eleven years. It is IMPOSIBLE for sane adult to date people of this age or have any emotional or mutual relationship with people of this age for these 2 reasons;

1. they lack the wit of mutual relationship,

2.they lack the physical features that can attract or arouse sexual organ. Eg. Breast, hips etc.

If there is any mutual or sexual relationship between an adult and a child, then it is called 'child abuse'.

What are the characteristic of a caring and respectful relationship?

No one quite knows the answer to that question well at least no one i know

What does it mean when your ex moves on but always lets you know he still cares a lot about you and always touches you?

Other than a hug, the "touching" should be off limits! He does not have any right to do anything more than a friendly hug. You are one fortunate woman that he still cares enough about you to be sure you are safe and cared for. What he is saying is, he thinks of you fondly, as a friend, and he wants to still protect you and care for you. Go with the flow because this doesn't often happen! I am sure when you meet someone else he will be satisfied and back off. It means he cares for you as a friend. He touches you because he wants to keep you open to him if his "moving on" doesn't work out. Decide what is in YOUR best interest.

How do you get over the only person you ever spent time with the whole year and they left you?

I understand how you feel. When you spend the majority of your time with someone and then they break up with you, it's harder to deal with because you feel rejected AND lonely at the same time. The pain of that can be crippling. One way to deal with that is to find something to do to occupy your time. Think of something fun you used to do before you became involved with this person. Perhaps you could call a friend you haven't spoken to in a while. Just don't spend all your time wondering what's wrong with you. You'll just make yourself nuts.

How do you know if you are not in love anymore and what are signs?

well if ur not in love with that person you will start to get this weird reations like u dont like what she or he doing or get pissed for the stuppided reasonds or idk maybe like this other girl more or dude more!_!

What are some promises to make to your boyfriend?

There is nothing worth than worth than making promises to the one you love!It gives them hope,assurance and confidencein them and in you.On the other hand,promises are not words we can or should joke with in the sense that it can affect us negatively or positively.So before one makes a promise,he or she should consider these two areas carefully.

The first of these to be sure th sure that the person you want to make the promise to love and care for you.If you know that the person you are moving one way or the other does not love or care for you then,forget it is just words of flattery which you should not rely on.

The second is that before you make any promise,be absolutely sure that the person you are with is one you trust and has confidence in.If you know that the person you are moving with one way or the other does not love you or care for you or the other hand,you do not love or want to spend the rest of your life with,you should not make any promise whatsoever even if he or she insists.

Promise(s) words carry weight and can hang on ones neck forever.Ladies and Gentlemen do not let someone's son or daughter cry and demand a fulfillment of an unfulfilled promise(s).

What does it mean if he wants to take a break for the summer because you are going away with no phone for five weeks and you were going to break up with him?

It means that he want to be separated for them five weeks because you wont be able to see him or talk to him. And if u want to break up with him, be the bigger woman and break up with him.

If he just want to break up with you because...yall will be in different directions and no man or woman wants to think that there partner is cheating while your separated.

Another lie what do you do he lies so much expect so much from me don't trust me always seeking to cath me but i caught him married 3 times not 1 ..slept with so call just a family friend?

It seems as though this has been an ongoing thing for him and your likely can't expect a change anytime soon - this is the way he has chosen to be at this time in his life. Sometimes when individuals such as this feel the guilt they do and know how they are that is why they don't trust you when it is really them they know is the guilty one. You are going to have to decide if you are going to waste anymore of you time putting up with such treatment you do not deserve.

Is it really over between you and your fiancee if she still wears your engagement ring and hasn't moved any of her stuff out of your apartment?

It depends on what the break up was over to begin with. If you just had a heated argument and are the type(s) to always threaten breaking up then likely not but if this doesn't happen often she may be rethinking things at this time deciding what she really wants without making her choice just quite yet. It is best to let her come and talk to you when she is ready and then sit down and talk with her to be able to decide where your relationship should go from here.

What if ex says you mean the world to him and is not ready for a serious relationship because of trying to resolve ex-wifen and child issues and I still want to be with him but when he decides?

I am sorry to say, but this guy is a 'user' and has no respect for your feelings. For all you know he could be having a good relationship with his ex and it has nothing to do with his child. If he really loved you he could still have a relationship with you and still manage to help out his ex wife with issues regarding their child.

Don't be a fool! This guy isn't ready for any type of commitment. Move on.

I am sorry to say, but this guy is a 'user' and has no respect for your feelings. For all you know he could be having a good relationship with his ex and it has nothing to do with his child. If he really loved you he could still have a relationship with you and still manage to help out his ex wife with issues regarding their child.

Don't be a fool! This guy isn't ready for any type of commitment. Move on.

Why would your Ex ask you to lie low?

The only reason I would think an ex would want you to lie low is because they are on the prowl for someone else and want to make sure that you don't interfere. Your saying something could 'mess up' what they might be trying to accomplish.

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