Breakups

Other than a hug, the "touching" should be off limits! He does not have any right to do anything more than a friendly hug. You are one fortunate woman that he still cares enough about you to be sure you are safe and cared for. What he is saying is, he thinks of you fondly, as a friend, and he wants to still protect you and care for you. Go with the flow because this doesn't often happen! I am sure when you meet someone else he will be satisfied and back off. It means he cares for you as a friend. He touches you because he wants to keep you open to him if his "moving on" doesn't work out. Decide what is in YOUR best interest.

I understand how you feel. When you spend the majority of your time with someone and then they break up with you, it's harder to deal with because you feel rejected AND lonely at the same time. The pain of that can be crippling. One way to deal with that is to find something to do to occupy your time. Think of something fun you used to do before you became involved with this person. Perhaps you could call a friend you haven't spoken to in a while. Just don't spend all your time wondering what's wrong with you. You'll just make yourself nuts.

well if ur not in love with that person you will start to get this weird reations like u dont like what she or he doing or get pissed for the stuppided reasonds or idk maybe like this other girl more or dude more!_!

It means that he want to be separated for them five weeks because you wont be able to see him or talk to him. And if u want to break up with him, be the bigger woman and break up with him.

If he just want to break up with you because...yall will be in different directions and no man or woman wants to think that there partner is cheating while your separated.

It seems as though this has been an ongoing thing for him and your likely can't expect a change anytime soon - this is the way he has chosen to be at this time in his life. Sometimes when individuals such as this feel the guilt they do and know how they are that is why they don't trust you when it is really them they know is the guilty one. You are going to have to decide if you are going to waste anymore of you time putting up with such treatment you do not deserve.

It depends on what the break up was over to begin with. If you just had a heated argument and are the type(s) to always threaten breaking up then likely not but if this doesn't happen often she may be rethinking things at this time deciding what she really wants without making her choice just quite yet. It is best to let her come and talk to you when she is ready and then sit down and talk with her to be able to decide where your relationship should go from here.

I am sorry to say, but this guy is a 'user' and has no respect for your feelings. For all you know he could be having a good relationship with his ex and it has nothing to do with his child. If he really loved you he could still have a relationship with you and still manage to help out his ex wife with issues regarding their child.

Don't be a fool! This guy isn't ready for any type of commitment. Move on.

I am sorry to say, but this guy is a 'user' and has no respect for your feelings. For all you know he could be having a good relationship with his ex and it has nothing to do with his child. If he really loved you he could still have a relationship with you and still manage to help out his ex wife with issues regarding their child.

Don't be a fool! This guy isn't ready for any type of commitment. Move on.

Yes it is possible! Yes it is. most of the time we really DO LOVE YOU we just need a break to explore our options so just give her some time and she'll be back before you know it.

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its not always true man sorry to say but Ive been Through it, she may still like you but just try to live your life for a while, with me she got jealous when i went out with some1 else and asked me back out, I'm not saying use some1 but it is possible to work

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Silence

The only reason I would think an ex would want you to lie low is because they are on the prowl for someone else and want to make sure that you don't interfere. Your saying something could 'mess up' what they might be trying to accomplish.

You will have to ask yourself some serious questions here and be honest with yourself or you could be in for a lot more hurt. Sometimes when we get married we are young or immature and the relationship doesn't work out. If you split-up and a few years go by it's quite common for the same two people to rediscover themselves because one of them or both have matured. Was he a good man when you were with him? (Not abusive mentally or physically.) If he was DON'T GO BACK! Write down the good points of what changes both of you have made in your lives and are they for the good. If he cheated on you before, don't expect any miracles now! These types of people seldom change. Do you honestly think he's ready for another go at your relationship? Are you lonely and settling for less in your life? If you feel he's changed a great deal and he is interested in you (you just aren't interested in him) and you've answered the above questions honestly then any relationship is worth rekindling again. Be sure he feels the same way. Good luck Marcy

Abusing was part of what made them felt good. It was a way of asserting power over you and that is an addictive feeling. Most people like to have control over something in their life but some people like to have control over someone else which is wrong. They will eventually give up but dont allow yourself to be put in a position where you feel threatned and in danger. If it gets bad report it to the police. Good luck!

I know what you mean. You have things to say, you need to hear certain things from them, and you can't do either. Depends on what's necessary, but if you think they need to apologize to you, just forgive them now. Don't dwell on it anymore. If the thought comes back, just say "nope, I forgave them for that, and I'm moving on". It takes a big person to forgive someone, but it will help immensely.

The best way to move on though, is do start dating again. Redirect all that you have bottled up in your heart towards someone else. You will be surprised how quickly you forget about the other person. The only thing to replace love with, is love. Good luck to you, stay strong.

Simple answer: No, but he is being cruel. People have different types of integrity for him it may be that lying and listening is not up there with essential stuff that needs to be done. However, if you were faced with a large bear that was about to maul you; if he sacrificed his life for yours then yes, he would have done so out of love.

He's still being cruel though.

Don't go crazy and block off whoever from every website you have...just cut down the texting. Check up on that person every now and then,but don't go overboard. You don't want to have to start the cycle AGAIN! Try to find a new girl/boy friend to make you happy! Do what ever you need to to feel happy!

maybe you should talk to the person they broke up with to see how they feel about the break up and if they are completely done with the person you love then maybe talk to the person you love to ask how they feel about you and if they love you too then do what you want there shouldn't be anyone stopping you

dont do it by text say it to their face ,tell them the truth why u dumped them e.g if they were to clingey tell him and afterwards dont tell everyone you dumped him boys feel less manly is someone asks then you can tell them

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The chances are your ex husband already had problems with drugs when you were together. He may have stayed away from it for a short time, but drug addicts, alcoholics, etc., have difficulties dealing with trauma in their lives and it's easier to dull the pain with drugs or alcohol. Don't blame yourself! He had a choice as to what road he could have gone down. NEVER let anyone hold you ransom for what they have become. Thousands of people in the U.S. and Canada go through bad split-ups and they don't choose to do drugs. He is your ex now and although it hurts you to see him throw his life away this is the path he has chosen. Again, the chances he did drugs before to deaden any pain he may have felt (even before you came along) has once again reared it's ugly head. You must realize hon, that everyone has choices in their lives and we all get hurt at some point in our lives (more than once) but, we deal with the hurt (a grieving process) and then we stand up, dust ourselves off and get on with life. Start going out with friends and don't feel guilty about having a good time (laughter is the best medicine.) Eventually you will meet someone that you will have a loving and healthy relationship with. Good luck!

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• Your boyfriend is vague at best (no communication skills) and he may have things in his personal life that are at loose ends and he feels he needs to resolve problems in his life before he continues on with a relationship with anyone. You deserve a better explanation than he has given you.

This depends on a few factors.

Some times people get terribly jealous. This can make them see ghosts at the brightest day. Quite often these people are jealous for no reason, but because of their behaviour when they are jealous, they push their partner further and further away.

On the other hand, many boys are just playing around with girls, having one girlfriend after another, and this is likewise not good at all.

If you don't feel safe together with your boyfriend, then I would suggest that the boyfriend you have is not the right one for you.

If you however feel safe with him, but don't like some of his actions, then I suggest you have a talk with him about it.

All in all, however difficult, you have to use your gut feeling for such a matter. Internet and internet answers causes more heartache than it cures because many people who "try to be helpful" are not mature enough to see both sides of a problem.

True love is about a deep feeling for each other. The moment one start flirting and the other one start doubting, this deep feeling is not present.

Be polite, calm, empathetic, honest and straight forward - keep it simple and to the point.