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It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.

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In what words can you tell your ex you NEED him back?

I think u should say i want u back i messed up or he messed up

You are mad at your dad should you still love him?

Absolutely!! He is still your father. There will always be times of disagreements, but this is no reason to cast aside love for one another. If it is because of an abusive relationship (not just a disagreement) then you must seek outside help.

Can a child fall in love with an adult?

In answering the question, it is important to know the age in which a person can b refer to as a child. Though having one's parent still makes the person maintain the status of being a child, but in the real sense, the parent factor alone cannot decide who a child is. A child or children should be a person or people between the age of childhood which is between birth and eleven years. It is IMPOSIBLE for sane adult to date people of this age or have any emotional or mutual relationship with people of this age for these 2 reasons;

1. they lack the wit of mutual relationship,

2.they lack the physical features that can attract or arouse sexual organ. Eg. Breast, hips etc.

If there is any mutual or sexual relationship between an adult and a child, then it is called 'child abuse'.

What are the characteristic of a caring and respectful relationship?

No one quite knows the answer to that question well at least no one i know

What does it mean when your ex moves on but always lets you know he still cares a lot about you and always touches you?

Other than a hug, the "touching" should be off limits! He does not have any right to do anything more than a friendly hug. You are one fortunate woman that he still cares enough about you to be sure you are safe and cared for. What he is saying is, he thinks of you fondly, as a friend, and he wants to still protect you and care for you. Go with the flow because this doesn't often happen! I am sure when you meet someone else he will be satisfied and back off. It means he cares for you as a friend. He touches you because he wants to keep you open to him if his "moving on" doesn't work out. Decide what is in YOUR best interest.

How do you get over the only person you ever spent time with the whole year and they left you?

I understand how you feel. When you spend the majority of your time with someone and then they break up with you, it's harder to deal with because you feel rejected AND lonely at the same time. The pain of that can be crippling. One way to deal with that is to find something to do to occupy your time. Think of something fun you used to do before you became involved with this person. Perhaps you could call a friend you haven't spoken to in a while. Just don't spend all your time wondering what's wrong with you. You'll just make yourself nuts.

How do you know if you are not in love anymore and what are signs?

well if ur not in love with that person you will start to get this weird reations like u dont like what she or he doing or get pissed for the stuppided reasonds or idk maybe like this other girl more or dude more!_!

What are some promises to make to your boyfriend?

There is nothing worth than worth than making promises to the one you love!It gives them hope,assurance and confidencein them and in you.On the other hand,promises are not words we can or should joke with in the sense that it can affect us negatively or positively.So before one makes a promise,he or she should consider these two areas carefully.

The first of these to be sure th sure that the person you want to make the promise to love and care for you.If you know that the person you are moving one way or the other does not love or care for you then,forget it is just words of flattery which you should not rely on.

The second is that before you make any promise,be absolutely sure that the person you are with is one you trust and has confidence in.If you know that the person you are moving with one way or the other does not love you or care for you or the other hand,you do not love or want to spend the rest of your life with,you should not make any promise whatsoever even if he or she insists.

Promise(s) words carry weight and can hang on ones neck forever.Ladies and Gentlemen do not let someone's son or daughter cry and demand a fulfillment of an unfulfilled promise(s).

What does it mean if he wants to take a break for the summer because you are going away with no phone for five weeks and you were going to break up with him?

It means that he want to be separated for them five weeks because you wont be able to see him or talk to him. And if u want to break up with him, be the bigger woman and break up with him.

If he just want to break up with you because...yall will be in different directions and no man or woman wants to think that there partner is cheating while your separated.

Another lie what do you do he lies so much expect so much from me don't trust me always seeking to cath me but i caught him married 3 times not 1 ..slept with so call just a family friend?

It seems as though this has been an ongoing thing for him and your likely can't expect a change anytime soon - this is the way he has chosen to be at this time in his life. Sometimes when individuals such as this feel the guilt they do and know how they are that is why they don't trust you when it is really them they know is the guilty one. You are going to have to decide if you are going to waste anymore of you time putting up with such treatment you do not deserve.

Is it really over between you and your fiancee if she still wears your engagement ring and hasn't moved any of her stuff out of your apartment?

It depends on what the break up was over to begin with. If you just had a heated argument and are the type(s) to always threaten breaking up then likely not but if this doesn't happen often she may be rethinking things at this time deciding what she really wants without making her choice just quite yet. It is best to let her come and talk to you when she is ready and then sit down and talk with her to be able to decide where your relationship should go from here.

What if ex says you mean the world to him and is not ready for a serious relationship because of trying to resolve ex-wifen and child issues and I still want to be with him but when he decides?

I am sorry to say, but this guy is a 'user' and has no respect for your feelings. For all you know he could be having a good relationship with his ex and it has nothing to do with his child. If he really loved you he could still have a relationship with you and still manage to help out his ex wife with issues regarding their child.

Don't be a fool! This guy isn't ready for any type of commitment. Move on.

I am sorry to say, but this guy is a 'user' and has no respect for your feelings. For all you know he could be having a good relationship with his ex and it has nothing to do with his child. If he really loved you he could still have a relationship with you and still manage to help out his ex wife with issues regarding their child.

Don't be a fool! This guy isn't ready for any type of commitment. Move on.

Is it possible to get a girl to love you again when she said she wants to by herself for now?

Yes it is possible! Yes it is. most of the time we really DO LOVE YOU we just need a break to explore our options so just give her some time and she'll be back before you know it.

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its not always true man sorry to say but Ive been Through it, she may still like you but just try to live your life for a while, with me she got jealous when i went out with some1 else and asked me back out, I'm not saying use some1 but it is possible to work

HOPE I HELPED :D

Why would your Ex ask you to lie low?

The only reason I would think an ex would want you to lie low is because they are on the prowl for someone else and want to make sure that you don't interfere. Your saying something could 'mess up' what they might be trying to accomplish.

How should you sort out your feelings and actions once you acknowledge that you're falling in love again with your ex-husband?

You will have to ask yourself some serious questions here and be honest with yourself or you could be in for a lot more hurt. Sometimes when we get married we are young or immature and the relationship doesn't work out. If you split-up and a few years go by it's quite common for the same two people to rediscover themselves because one of them or both have matured. Was he a good man when you were with him? (Not abusive mentally or physically.) If he was DON'T GO BACK! Write down the good points of what changes both of you have made in your lives and are they for the good. If he cheated on you before, don't expect any miracles now! These types of people seldom change. Do you honestly think he's ready for another go at your relationship? Are you lonely and settling for less in your life? If you feel he's changed a great deal and he is interested in you (you just aren't interested in him) and you've answered the above questions honestly then any relationship is worth rekindling again. Be sure he feels the same way. Good luck Marcy

Why is it when you ignore an abusive ex-partner they just work harder to get your attention?

Abusing was part of what made them felt good. It was a way of asserting power over you and that is an addictive feeling. Most people like to have control over something in their life but some people like to have control over someone else which is wrong. They will eventually give up but dont allow yourself to be put in a position where you feel threatned and in danger. If it gets bad report it to the police. Good luck!

How do you move forward without having closure and not keep going back?

I know what you mean. You have things to say, you need to hear certain things from them, and you can't do either. Depends on what's necessary, but if you think they need to apologize to you, just forgive them now. Don't dwell on it anymore. If the thought comes back, just say "nope, I forgave them for that, and I'm moving on". It takes a big person to forgive someone, but it will help immensely.

The best way to move on though, is do start dating again. Redirect all that you have bottled up in your heart towards someone else. You will be surprised how quickly you forget about the other person. The only thing to replace love with, is love. Good luck to you, stay strong.

When your husband doesn't listen or show concern for you well being and lie does this mean he doesn't love you or is it you?

Simple answer: No, but he is being cruel. People have different types of integrity for him it may be that lying and listening is not up there with essential stuff that needs to be done. However, if you were faced with a large bear that was about to maul you; if he sacrificed his life for yours then yes, he would have done so out of love.

He's still being cruel though.

Cant stop my feelings for ex what do you do?

Don't go crazy and block off whoever from every website you have...just cut down the texting. Check up on that person every now and then,but don't go overboard. You don't want to have to start the cycle AGAIN! Try to find a new girl/boy friend to make you happy! Do what ever you need to to feel happy!

What do you do if someone you love's just broke up with someone else?

maybe you should talk to the person they broke up with to see how they feel about the break up and if they are completely done with the person you love then maybe talk to the person you love to ask how they feel about you and if they love you too then do what you want there shouldn't be anyone stopping you

How do you dump a boy without breaking his heart?

dont do it by text say it to their face ,tell them the truth why u dumped them e.g if they were to clingey tell him and afterwards dont tell everyone you dumped him boys feel less manly is someone asks then you can tell them

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