Breakups

a dream ends when you expect everyone to see it the same way you do and wait for their acknowledgement , rather than to go forward and make it come true

I think the only thing you can say is that simple "I'm doing fine, how are you?". I am currently facing the prospect of this again because I am going home during the Uni term holiday and will be facing my ex, who after 3 years together cheated on me in front of a lot of my friends, and then thought I wouldn't find out. He broke my heart, but now I have finally turned a corner and am over him. I found out from the last time that I saw him, the worst thing you can do is make a scene. You have to rise above it, hold your head high and treat them with a courtesy that they denied you.

This way, not only will you get a sense of satisfaction by letting them know they are not getting to you, but also that everyone has sympathy for you and sees them in a bad light.

Its going to be hard, but you will feel better for it.

Just remember, your not the first to go through this horrible situation, and you certainly won't be the last.

Good luck! And I hope the waste of space (I would use something more offensive, but this won't allow me) gets their comeuppence :)

I ask myself this question every day. To be honest, I really don't know the answer. I guess it's because you felt so strongly for the person. You woke up every morning knowing that seeing them would make the rest of your day perfect. Realising that they were the only person you could ever dream of being with, and even though you may never be what they want or need, you still keep hoping hat one day they would feel the same. I think it's hard because you can't come to terms with the fact that you loved them and they didn't love you in return. I guess I just answered my own question too. Maybe now I can move on as well?

ANSWER:

This issue are real and it always happen. could it be the husband is taking for granted of his wife. It could be the husband doesn't have anymore time for his wife. It could be that this man feels comfortable about his marriage that he forgot that his wife also needs him. Or her husband is abusing her that he can't take it anymore. Or her husband is having an affair.

No, it doesn't mean you have to stop loving them. Simply put, it means that you stop dwelling on the past and move forward with your life. You may always have love for that person, but you can't stop time.

It's possible that he may have dumped you because he decided he liked this other girl better. What do you do? Let him go. You'll eventually find the right guy, one that won't go kissing other girls, even on a dare.

^^^All That Is An Option .. Or You Could Try And Play Hard To Get And Mke Him Want You Bak . That's What I Done And ... It Worked So Who Knowss ?

Try It And Then If That Dont Work Do The Other Option At The Top . ! :D

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Don't jump into another relationship just to make someone else upset or to not be alone. Usually when you jump from relationship to relationship you could be getting the "name" that you don't want.

Sorry to tell you, but sounds to me the your ex is a jerk since he just CAN"T sleep with another woman and tells you he loves you. If you still have any feelings for him, my best advice is to get rid of them because it isn't fair to you and to the other woman. I mean if he still loves you, then why does he sleep with another woman, its just wrong, and to tell you, i hate men/boys telling you they love you, but doesn't actually show you that he loves you or has someone else. I know that (if you still have any feelings for him) its not easy getting rid of feelings for somebody, but just remember that no one can love someone if they're sleeping with someone else, it just means that they're a two-timer and a jerk.

Yes it is a good way to get closure.

Sometime she does some times she doesn't, it depends on why the relationship ended.

• What the two of you are doing wrong is not communicating with each other properly. You need to ask her why she feels she doesn't want to be in a relationship with you and if she gives you a reason then you will have to respect her wishes no matter how you feel. You can express how you feel, but unfortunately, this may not change her mind and it is time you took control of the situation by backing off for awhile. Sometimes when you try too hard to get someone or something back you never do, but, if you start going out with friends and dating again this may be a big enough jolt for your ex girlfriend to sit up and take notice and she may realize she loves you. Trying to force her to love you will not work and begging and pleading never does either.

It sounds as though you need to realize it is over especially if he is happy with the way things are now - it seems he is moving forward and you should to - let him be.

sanga ye

There is a huge difference between true love and infatuation.

Until they look in a mirror.

Yes

I'm a guy so I'm pretty sure i know how he feels even though this situation never happened to me. He probably still likes you and he is trying to cover up that fact by telling you about other girls so he doesn't seem so sad. If you feel bold, confront him about this and you can get a better answer. Even if he seems mad, deep down inside he will be glad that you confronted him about it.

If he doesn't want a relationship, then it would be unwise to try to drag him back into one. You don't want to be the only person giving and working hard to keep it together. It is just too taxing and you will wear yourself out emotionally. Let this one go. You need a better match. I am going through something similar. What I have learned is that you set up times when you are to be alone or out doing something with friends. That way you have alone time, to think and when you are together maybe do something productive, so it seems as though you are getting things done as well and then it won't come down to being obbsesive, but constructive. Spending time away is hard, but can ultimatley make a relationship stronger. Make sure the comunication through this process stays mature and understanding. Loosing that can cost you the relationship. And that hurts more after you put so much effort into it.

This is just perfectly natural. When everything is over you can't help but think about all the good times you had and how badly you want it back. In moving on, you should try to keep yourself busy or find something or someone else to make yourself happy. In my opinion in getting over something, the time you spent with your ex is how long it takes for you to get over it. hope this helps.

Love is not a question of "should" or "should not." Love just happens. Dara can't choose whether or not to fall in love, so this shouldn't be a question at all. Love will happen when it happens. Don't push it.

It's over, move on.

You will never completely forget them but in time memories will fade and you will once again find happiness...Do something you love, respect yourself and things will slowly fall in place...so in other words time will heal you :)

It all really depends my friend.Mostly on the girl and the guy the rebound is for.If you are the rebound you really have to be careful!Ask the girl constantly why she got with you and tell her to pinky promise(It really works in most situations).If u want a general answer, they dont last very long at all im afraid.I've been through these many times and they always go back to the same guy.If you are REALLY sure that you are the rebound you can always say no and scold her for you being the rebound guy.

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