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Breakups
It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.
8,665 Questions
What is a word for Something that is not hurting?
Pick a word, any word really. If its hurting, pick again. Otherwise you're good to go.
How can you get over your boyfriend who's in jail without hurting him?
It depends what he is in jail for and if this is a first offence and nothing too, too serious. People can go to jail for minor things. If he's trouble, then at least visit him and tell him you are moving on and do so. Just tell the guy the truth. You should have done this before as it appears you don't love him or he's a lot of trouble for you to deal with.
There is no way to tell him without hurting him, but honesty is still the best policy.
Good luckMarcy
AnswerOkay, honestly there is no way to tell your boyfriend in jail that you don't want to be with him anymore. Its really hard. I've just finished a 3 year relationship (1 1/2 years of him being in jail) yesterday and i think the best way to do it is to ease the idea on to him. Tell him your finding it too hard and that while he's in there you just need time to yourself to figure out what you really want. My ex is still hoping there will be a chance when he gets out, but if that's what keeps them going, then just agree or say theres a possibility of it happening. THats just my point of view.Why do people keep breaking up and getting back together sometime?
We sometimes forget that two people having a relationship are actually two different individuals no matter how much you may have in common. We are all madly in love at first, but as time wears on and reality smacks us in the face sometimes the relationship can grow stale. It's a constant battle all your life to keep a relationship fairly active and interesting and yes, it's usually up to the woman to do that. There are so many reason why some people keep breaking up and getting back together. Sometimes they simply get on each other's nerves because of bad habits each partner may have. Sometimes they argue too much or one cheats or both cheat and it goes on and on. Eventually (and hopefully) most of us mature and sometimes a couple that is split-up will realize they were always meant to be together. Marcy
hes trying to intimidate you so you go back with him just follow your own heart and let the guys you meet know that there's a guy out their who really doesn't care about you and he wants to sabotage your relationship with them and that will prevent some of the guys from turning away from you
Piece of advise: people don't change. Specially when a man says he's changed... usually is not the case. We, as humans, tend to become vulnerable and fragile when feelings, such as love, come into play. We tend to forget the pain that others inflicted on us when we want to be loved. Of course every case is different, but what I would do is, if you do want to go back to him, is take it very very carefully, and always keep in mind that you are a beautiful person that deserves every bit of respect and appreciation. This man says he wants you back and he has changed? Well, let him prove that is true.
Oh, and make sure his other relationship has ended. Good luck.
How do you make him beg for you to come back?
To make him beg for you to come back no big steps are need to be taken. Just make him remember the past and the things of past. He will remember that how close you were and might come back.
Is distance a reason to give up someone you love?
Absolutely not
It does not matter much to how far you stay from someone to maintain the relationship. Having said that, it definitely helps if we keep in touch regularly.
With my personal experience, it works well for almost all kinds of relationship.
Many people are in long distance relationships and they are in love with their dear ones. So they all assay you can make it work.
How do you know if your ex husband still loves you even they're are not married?
I think you'll know if someone loves you. If your husband doesnt contact you or anything, it means he wants to forget you. Therefore you will never know if he still loves you.
If he is trying to forget you, you should do the same.
I think she is having the problem because she picks men SHE can control and therefore rejects the men because she is angry she has to treat them like their mother. If she truly was independent then she should pick men that are also independent, but she's afraid. She likes to control the situation. Obviously, for reasons of your own you didn't hang around to let her control you and it appears her other exes did the same thing. Marcy Sounds as though shes fed up with weak men and she maybe just realised that and wants a strong man.
Why He cheated on her with me then cheated on me with someone else?
Blokes cheat with whoever they have access to. Surprisingly, many male cheaters are not very picky with women they cheat with, frequently cheating with women that are way below the status of their current girlfriend in looks and intelligence. Sometimes men cheat simply because there's an opportunity. Typically they are commitment phobes who only care about "fun", guys with low self esteem, or guys who are just down right miserable... Or all of the above...
What does mean when the girl feels bad about moving on?
I may mean a couple of things...
She may not be over you, but thinks its better to move on
She still wants to be friends and hang out alot
She feels she made a mistake and wants you back
OR She is just used to having somebody around her like you, and she doesnt have that now, and wants it.
If you broke up with someone and they want you back But you don't like them what do you do?
Tell them that your feelings have changed...and it isn't he same anymore so just be regular to them..as a FRIEND treat them like a friend make them see it is different now..unless you want him out of our life..just ignore them haha
How many of you would like it if someone wrote a song about an ex boyfriend or girlfriend?
it depends on wat kind of song it is....
a sad loving song i would be worried and sad that he/she didnt write one for me
a im happy you are gone song is kk
Why did he break up with me when things were good and tell me he cares for me and hurts too?
because he dont know nothin bout love....some guys think they care but they really dont.
If a girl has dumped her boyfriend, he should be aware of it. If he has not "figured it out" then she did not communicate the fact that she no longer wishes to pursue a romantic relationship with him and she should do so.
Since you are now seeing this girl, you should ask why she would not clearly communicate this to him. This could indicate that she is afraid of confrontations and would even lie to avoid them, or that she is not ready to burn that bridge with her ex-boyfriend as she might go back to him. It could even mean that she is someone who is not truly interested in either of you but is instead interested in getting attention. In any case, you should speak to her directly about it.
If you see her ex-boyfriend, you should definitely not discuss this with him because his relationship with your current girlfriend is not your business. Discussions about their relationship should only be made with the person you have a relationship with (the girl in question).
Someone will only treat you the way you allow them to. Only he knows the truth as to why he may be doing this but as I can only speculate there could be a few reasons such as: he may not know what he wants and is just confused, he may want to keep you around as to not be alone but is always looking for someone else, or he may just not want to hurt you and really does not want to be with you and trying to give you false hope. It would be in your best interest to let this one go and find someone more stable and that wants to be with you as there is no guarantee with this particular individual for any type of future and you shouldn't waste your time waiting around for what chances are is just not going to happen.
well, if you still love him and want it to work then try but if you come to realize that he's only making you jealous to hurt you in return for the hurt you caused him, then move on and don't do the same stupid thing with the next guy you date. saying sorry does not absolve you of your wrongs no matter what they told you as a kid.
Well obviously the guy isn't mature enough to accept your apology and just try to move on and get over it. You don't do either of those things -- you just drop it. You know he's just TRYiNG to make you jealous, so don't let him get to you. Because right now, he's not worth your time. You tried; he rejected. Now it's time to walk away and see if he comes running after.
How many sides does a paralelogram have?
a parallelogram has 4 sides, it can also be called a quadrilateral.
Do you love the person after they broke your heart?
Well from my experience. You'd love them enough,to let them go. You still would love them,but not the same way as you did before.
Types of dumping and the effect?
Types of dumping and the effects are: * 'Lets be friends.' This is the most common. At first the person who is being dumped may be hurt, but feels gratified that if they are friends there is still a chance to get back together again. * 'I need head space.' This too is common, and in some cases is true, but this too can be used as an excuse to breakup. This leaves the person dumped wondering what happened when everything seemed to be going well and they wait and wait hoping the ex will return. * Cheating is as low as one can get. If a person cheats behind their mates back it's an easy way out and they can have their cake and eat it too. Cheaters are often selfish and want to keep their original mate close at hand in case the other relationship doesn't work out or, there is something missing in the relationship. This leaves the person that is cheated on very hurt and it's difficult for them to ever trust that person again although they will try with all their might to make it work out. It seldom does. Trust is hard to come by and although it's possible a person can cheat once and never cheat again the percentage is very low that they will remain true to one person. * Bold dumping is when someone just states they don't want to be in a relationship with that particular person any longer and doesn't seem to be that upset about it. They aren't generally! They don't often consider how to break the news to their partner and are generally blunt with their statement leaving their mate hurt, frustrated and later angry. * Lying (dumping.) These types of individuals will lie through their teeth and may have been leading a double life. Perhaps a wife with kids, or a single guy living with a young woman and they have children. Their newest girlfriend is always the last to know. When the individual who is lying gets bored they just dump the person they have been using and make no bones about it. * Getting others to do their dirty work for them. These individuals don't have the guts to face their partner and will get their friends to make remarks to the person that is about to be dumped that they've seen him/her with another person. It's cruel, but effective. The person that lies hasn't got the guts to just breakup and hopes that by acting out this way through his/her friends their partner will breakup with them.
