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It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.

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Your ex-boyfriend who you broke up with still text you Sometimes he is very sweet and others he talks about how hot these other girls are you do not text himunless he text you what does this mean?

I'm a guy so I'm pretty sure i know how he feels even though this situation never happened to me. He probably still likes you and he is trying to cover up that fact by telling you about other girls so he doesn't seem so sad. If you feel bold, confront him about this and you can get a better answer. Even if he seems mad, deep down inside he will be glad that you confronted him about it.

What do you do when your ex-boyfriend says it won't work between you two because you were both too obsessive and didn't give each other space?

If he doesn't want a relationship, then it would be unwise to try to drag him back into one. You don't want to be the only person giving and working hard to keep it together. It is just too taxing and you will wear yourself out emotionally. Let this one go. You need a better match. I am going through something similar. What I have learned is that you set up times when you are to be alone or out doing something with friends. That way you have alone time, to think and when you are together maybe do something productive, so it seems as though you are getting things done as well and then it won't come down to being obbsesive, but constructive. Spending time away is hard, but can ultimatley make a relationship stronger. Make sure the comunication through this process stays mature and understanding. Loosing that can cost you the relationship. And that hurts more after you put so much effort into it.

If time is a healer why do you miss your ex more as time goes by and how do you move on?

This is just perfectly natural. When everything is over you can't help but think about all the good times you had and how badly you want it back. In moving on, you should try to keep yourself busy or find something or someone else to make yourself happy. In my opinion in getting over something, the time you spent with your ex is how long it takes for you to get over it. hope this helps.

Should dara love?

Love is not a question of "should" or "should not." Love just happens. Dara can't choose whether or not to fall in love, so this shouldn't be a question at all. Love will happen when it happens. Don't push it.

How can i forget the person that i love most?

You will never completely forget them but in time memories will fade and you will once again find happiness...Do something you love, respect yourself and things will slowly fall in place...so in other words time will heal you :)

How long do rebounds last?

It all really depends my friend.Mostly on the girl and the guy the rebound is for.If you are the rebound you really have to be careful!Ask the girl constantly why she got with you and tell her to pinky promise(It really works in most situations).If u want a general answer, they dont last very long at all im afraid.I've been through these many times and they always go back to the same guy.If you are REALLY sure that you are the rebound you can always say no and scold her for you being the rebound guy.

What is a word for Something that is not hurting?

Pick a word, any word really. If its hurting, pick again. Otherwise you're good to go.

How can you get over your boyfriend who's in jail without hurting him?

It depends what he is in jail for and if this is a first offence and nothing too, too serious. People can go to jail for minor things. If he's trouble, then at least visit him and tell him you are moving on and do so. Just tell the guy the truth. You should have done this before as it appears you don't love him or he's a lot of trouble for you to deal with.

There is no way to tell him without hurting him, but honesty is still the best policy.

Good luckMarcy

AnswerOkay, honestly there is no way to tell your boyfriend in jail that you don't want to be with him anymore. Its really hard. I've just finished a 3 year relationship (1 1/2 years of him being in jail) yesterday and i think the best way to do it is to ease the idea on to him. Tell him your finding it too hard and that while he's in there you just need time to yourself to figure out what you really want. My ex is still hoping there will be a chance when he gets out, but if that's what keeps them going, then just agree or say theres a possibility of it happening. THats just my point of view.

Why do people keep breaking up and getting back together sometime?

We sometimes forget that two people having a relationship are actually two different individuals no matter how much you may have in common. We are all madly in love at first, but as time wears on and reality smacks us in the face sometimes the relationship can grow stale. It's a constant battle all your life to keep a relationship fairly active and interesting and yes, it's usually up to the woman to do that. There are so many reason why some people keep breaking up and getting back together. Sometimes they simply get on each other's nerves because of bad habits each partner may have. Sometimes they argue too much or one cheats or both cheat and it goes on and on. Eventually (and hopefully) most of us mature and sometimes a couple that is split-up will realize they were always meant to be together. Marcy

Why do some guys use personal information about you spread rumors and even turn strangers against you in order to force you back into a relationship?

hes trying to intimidate you so you go back with him just follow your own heart and let the guys you meet know that there's a guy out their who really doesn't care about you and he wants to sabotage your relationship with them and that will prevent some of the guys from turning away from you

What do you do if your long lost love broke your heart and got married to someone else and now wants you back and he was terrible to you when you broke up It has been years but he says he has changed?

Piece of advise: people don't change. Specially when a man says he's changed... usually is not the case. We, as humans, tend to become vulnerable and fragile when feelings, such as love, come into play. We tend to forget the pain that others inflicted on us when we want to be loved. Of course every case is different, but what I would do is, if you do want to go back to him, is take it very very carefully, and always keep in mind that you are a beautiful person that deserves every bit of respect and appreciation. This man says he wants you back and he has changed? Well, let him prove that is true.

Oh, and make sure his other relationship has ended. Good luck.

How do you make him beg for you to come back?

To make him beg for you to come back no big steps are need to be taken. Just make him remember the past and the things of past. He will remember that how close you were and might come back.

How do you know if your ex husband still loves you even they're are not married?

I think you'll know if someone loves you. If your husband doesnt contact you or anything, it means he wants to forget you. Therefore you will never know if he still loves you.

If he is trying to forget you, you should do the same.

Is distance a reason to give up someone you love?

Absolutely not

It does not matter much to how far you stay from someone to maintain the relationship. Having said that, it definitely helps if we keep in touch regularly.

With my personal experience, it works well for almost all kinds of relationship.

Many people are in long distance relationships and they are in love with their dear ones. So they all assay you can make it work.

What does it mean when a woman you have dumped says that all the exes in her life can go away and that she doesn't want to be anyone's Mommy?

I think she is having the problem because she picks men SHE can control and therefore rejects the men because she is angry she has to treat them like their mother. If she truly was independent then she should pick men that are also independent, but she's afraid. She likes to control the situation. Obviously, for reasons of your own you didn't hang around to let her control you and it appears her other exes did the same thing. Marcy Sounds as though shes fed up with weak men and she maybe just realised that and wants a strong man.

Why He cheated on her with me then cheated on me with someone else?

Blokes cheat with whoever they have access to. Surprisingly, many male cheaters are not very picky with women they cheat with, frequently cheating with women that are way below the status of their current girlfriend in looks and intelligence. Sometimes men cheat simply because there's an opportunity. Typically they are commitment phobes who only care about "fun", guys with low self esteem, or guys who are just down right miserable... Or all of the above...

What does mean when the girl feels bad about moving on?

I may mean a couple of things...

She may not be over you, but thinks its better to move on

She still wants to be friends and hang out alot

She feels she made a mistake and wants you back

OR She is just used to having somebody around her like you, and she doesnt have that now, and wants it.

If you broke up with someone and they want you back But you don't like them what do you do?

Tell them that your feelings have changed...and it isn't he same anymore so just be regular to them..as a FRIEND treat them like a friend make them see it is different now..unless you want him out of our life..just ignore them haha

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