Breakups

Abusers are fighters and controllers and they want that control back. They are miserable and spineless people and there is one thing they can't handle "peace in a relationship." If we need to put a label to this, abusers need psychological help, but since they refuse to admit there is anything wrong with themselves and it's everyone else's problem, then they rarely go for any treatment. He doesn't want you as his wife or best friend or even forgiveness, he wants to get back to the abusive behavior. Please leave and don't look back. IT WILL NOT GET BETTER! Because of the "Cycle of Abuse" please see the Abused Women's Center as there are excellent programs there for you to get back on your feet and tools to learn so you don't go back to your abuser or pick another abusive partner. Abusers brain-wash their victims. Good luck hon Merry Christmas Marcy Abusive husbands can be jealous of the current situation. Because he is now divorced and you are moving on, he needs someone to control and since you have taken that away, he is mad. He may feel you are still a part of him even though divorced and perhaps he does not want to move on and put the past behind him.

i would say either move on.

or just give him time, if you like your boyfriend that much. He's probably still mad at you or doesn't want to get close to you because of the drama, or it could be something totally different.

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just talk to him about it, and hopefully it will help. _________________ Dez_well im in the same boat. my boyfriend would always use to just look at me and expect for me to make the first move and think that i should go up to him and anyways he would pass right by me. what you should do is just ignor him bk it should work. he would end up asking you whats your problem and he'l end up goiing up tp you and it gives you a chance to tell him what you have been thinking and yawl should straitin things out. if not then you should try to just go up to him tell him strait up that you need to talk to him because your sick and tierd of his little boy games..theres more but if so just ask if it just dosent work out and by the way the way yawl should think about making PROMISES so that you cant leave his sight and he cant leave yours if you have a situation lioke me and my boyfriend if you break up with him most of the time then you might be doing something you dont really plan to do like me i do things without thinking first. you are telling him that he cant love you anymore or than you will hurt him and he's just tierd of waisting his tears on someone who doesnt care there falling. just try to be closer with him. and this can happen with a new relationship or a relationship that has been together quite a long time like me and JUAN:) just try it Luv you all good luck!

Just play it out as if you really could care less then he'll realize that he wants you back :)

He's saying that he cares for you a lot, but for one reason and/or another, you're just not a woman he can be with.

only if you call him

Sounds like a good case for ditching him.

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You won't care if they're dating someone else.

You don't feel anything when they flirt with other girls/guys.

Say things in a nice way and get it over with quick.

Say things like,

"I really liked being with you, but now I think we should end it here,"

or

"I don't think our relationship hasn't really worked out. Let's face it, you and me are totally different. It's over."

Things like that.

If you really want it to be over quick, then be really serious and confident that your doing the right thing for both of you.

Yea he is.

Yep :D

all you can do is let love take its course, if its meant to be it will happen, one way or another...=->

You can give her a gift..like, Jewelry (girls love jewelry), bouquet of flowers, A Locket with a picture of you and her inside it etc. Be Funny around her But most importantly just be Yourself x

because 7 ate(8) 9!

Well, firstly, do not let their dogmatic behaviors be of concern. You should avoid getting perturbed in this sort of situation. Simply discuss your side of the issue with your partner and comply upon each of your views.

It means you are thinking about him way to much...or that you still like him

Make sure that there is still nothing going on between the two of them. If nothing is going on, then just leave it alone. DID ANYTHING HAPPEN BETWEEN THEM, IF NOT DO NOTHING, IF YES LEAVE HIM THERE ARE BETTER OUT THERE

Yes. True love is hard to find. If this might be it, don't let the past be an obstacle. Unless you don't like him too much and don't think you'll have any regrets. No, you should not. Best reason for this is people talk, sometimes unfavorably and men in general are too willing too share their "experiences" in the work place because of pecking order in the job. Im sure there are other avenue for you to pursue being that we woman are too special to waste on an X, you broke up for a reason, find another man to fix. You should go for anything you feel, but don't go for the guy just to make your ex jealous. If you were him, you would be crushed about the person flaunting the new relationship in your face. If the guy you like is someone that you want to be with, then go for it. After all, you wouldn't want you ex to do the same thing to you, so just keep it on the down-low for a bit nd then show that you are no longer interested in him and you are more focused on your new guy. Just be careful about the mistakes that you could make, because you ex may want to be your friend again. I hope I helped!!

if your deeply in love why does the relationship need to end? and if there are special circumstances then you think of whats best for them, if you love someone whats best for them should come first.

Yess. if he really loved you. he would be happy and proud of being with you. But if he tells you to keep it a secret or is ashamed then hes not worth it

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umm,, make them busy

Re ask your question with more detail about the chips. What kind of chips are we talking about.

there are many things you could do.But i suggest tring to make him jelous or just tring to forget about him.there are many other guys out there.I think you will find someone better if you just wait a while.good kluck