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Breakups
It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.
8,665 Questions
It means you are thinking about him way to much...or that you still like him
Make sure that there is still nothing going on between the two of them. If nothing is going on, then just leave it alone. DID ANYTHING HAPPEN BETWEEN THEM, IF NOT DO NOTHING, IF YES LEAVE HIM THERE ARE BETTER OUT THERE
Should you pursue a relationship with someone who works with your ex-boyfriend?
Yes. True love is hard to find. If this might be it, don't let the past be an obstacle. Unless you don't like him too much and don't think you'll have any regrets. No, you should not. Best reason for this is people talk, sometimes unfavorably and men in general are too willing too share their "experiences" in the work place because of pecking order in the job. Im sure there are other avenue for you to pursue being that we woman are too special to waste on an X, you broke up for a reason, find another man to fix. You should go for anything you feel, but don't go for the guy just to make your ex jealous. If you were him, you would be crushed about the person flaunting the new relationship in your face. If the guy you like is someone that you want to be with, then go for it. After all, you wouldn't want you ex to do the same thing to you, so just keep it on the down-low for a bit nd then show that you are no longer interested in him and you are more focused on your new guy. Just be careful about the mistakes that you could make, because you ex may want to be your friend again. I hope I helped!!
If two people are deeply in love but need to end the relationship how do you move on?
if your deeply in love why does the relationship need to end? and if there are special circumstances then you think of whats best for them, if you love someone whats best for them should come first.
Should you break up with a guy if he's ashamed to go out with you?
Yess. if he really loved you. he would be happy and proud of being with you. But if he tells you to keep it a secret or is ashamed then hes not worth it
Re ask your question with more detail about the chips. What kind of chips are we talking about.
there are many things you could do.But i suggest tring to make him jelous or just tring to forget about him.there are many other guys out there.I think you will find someone better if you just wait a while.good kluck
How can you be hurt emmotionaly and fisicaly?
When you hurt someone emotionally, is when you say mean things to them. Or pick on someone with low self-esteem.
When hurt someone fiscally is when you abuse them constantly.
When you hurt someone emotionally, it would take longer to heal then when you hurt someone fiscally.
Hope this helps !!
Good Luck
Your ex dont want you to move on?
If your ex doesn't want you to move on, it probably means that he/she may still have feelings for you.
Ignore him. It may be hard seeing as how your friends and you've known him so long, but you shouldn't have to put up with him. Talk to other people and just pretend he isn't there. He does the same to you and it seems like it would be best for both of you if you both got some space. Dealing with an Ex is hard enough let alone if you have to see them more than nessacary. It will grow easier for you two to be around each other if you had a break from each other, I know it may sound strange but it'll work you just need time
Leaving your things in the old place doesn't mean you will be met with open arms. For all you know your ex could have given your things away. Still, there is always hope and perhaps your ex is waiting for you to come and get your belongings in hopes you may stay. Communication is so important, so give it a shot and phone your ex and be nice! Ask if it's OK if you come over as you still have some of your things there. If your ex sounds OK with this and pleasant to you then perhaps add, "Perhaps we could talk? Do you feel up to it?" This will give you some idea of where your ex is coming from. Good luck Marcy
How do you tell someone the love you felt for them wasn't real?
Don't say this to the person. It's one of the rare instances when telling someone the truth is going to hurt them far more than if you downplay your feelings and don't go into honest detail. Tell them that while you think they're a great person, you personally no longer feel compatible with them--you have different interests, and you're both looking for different things out of life.
Letter from Eveline to her father?
This is a statement and not a question. You must shape a question to get answer.
Why do people break up with you and then get mad about it when you agree to break up?
- Some people are dramatic and also can be egotistical and feel that they will leave the person in tears which does give them a sense of control and confesses true love to them even though they are the one walking away from the relationship. When someone suggests a break up and their mate agrees then the mate has deflated the ego of that person and they begin to wonder if their mate had someone else in the relationship or was thinking of breaking the relationship off themselves.
How to tell if he is throwing his new relationship in my face?
If someone is doing such a thing just ignore them as they are just trying to cause problems for some childish selfish reason. Simply congratulate him and tell him you wish him the best. When he realizes that your not letting this get to you he will stop whatever the behaviour maybe. Just ignore him and move on with your life - its not worth the worry or trouble.
What are the seven worst things to say to someone who just got dumped?
The worst things to say to someone who has been dumped are as follows: "It was for the best, There are other fish in the sea, You'll meet someone else soon." Or how about, "you know? I have a friend (or brother) that you may be interested in".
* The only way you can do this is each of you take a turn visiting the other. If your boyfriend has a car or you do then take turns visiting each other. If you are younger then both of you ask your parents to drop you off and meet for a movie, etc. Keep your dates for the weekend and text or phone each other during the week. There is always a way when you're in love!
What do you do if you love someone you'll never forget?
then you won't forget them and leaving them will be tough they have touched your heart and that is something you will never forget
(this bit edited by Daniel Askew, Iplay4u (on YouTube)
i myself have recently been dumped by my girlfriend and the night that she had dumped me i couldn't get to sleep. but sometimes in life you just have to move on.
How can you tell the difference between love and desperation?
Sorry to put this on top, but I want this young man to see this post.
I was extremely moved by your story and some people just don't realize a person can love another person with mind, body and soul and no one else can quite take their place. On top of that your girlfriend has a depression problem and thus, that's why you weren't contacted. This reminds me, in ways, of the movie "Notebook" where two young lovers in the 1940s are madly in love (more so than most) and end up going their separate ways mainly because her family was wealthy and his was not. It ended well in ways, but it was a bittersweet love story.
You did make some mistakes along the way, but, we ALL make mistakes and if we didn't what could we possibly learn on this earth? Nothing! When one chooses not to learn from your mistakes is the sad part of it all.
Joining the Military was a noble thing, but you did so for all the wrong reasons. Now that you are there just do the best you can and God Bless You that you come back in one piece!
If this young woman is getting married then she had every opportunity to look you up and explain the situation. She chose not too for whatever reason (perhaps she thought you had met someone else.) To put this to rest try to contact her (as a friend) so at least both of you know what actually happened in your relationship. If she is still going to be married then it's time you felt peace within yourself and move on. Your friend is giving you some good advice! Change that Will!
No, you are not mentally disturbed in the least. Love can be bittersweet. Some people love but one person and if that relationship shouldn't work out or even get started in the right direction that person may never want to marry anyone else. However, I suggest once you have found answers to your many questions (hopefully from this young woman) you do move forward and find that special someone and have a family of your own. You haven't given yourself a chance to share yourself with anyone else because you are curled up in the shadows licking your wounds. It's time to come out into the light and realize there is still a good life ahead of you.
I wish you all the very best and may God keep you safe.
AnswerI dated this girl my first couple years of college, and I was in love with her. I always thought that we would always stay together. I thought we were really close; everyone would tell us how perfect we were for each other. Then, she went to Europe for a semister and half way through she stopped calling me. I didnt think anything was wrong at first, but, when she didnt call me on my birthday, i knew it was over. What i didnt expect was how easy it was for her to let go. All she would talk about was how perfect I was, and then she didnt seem to care at all. It was so callous and i was completely heartbroken. I tried to move on, but i just couldn't find a girl that i cared about. It didnt matter how nice they were, i just didnt want another relationship. I didnt want the same thing to happen again. I struggled finishing school; I dropped out of two schools i really wanted to go to because it wasnt where i wanted to be. I tried persuing football, but I kept getting hurt. It seemed like all my dreams were gone, and I still never really got her out of my head. I would still think of her when i would her songs that we used to listen to or things she would always say.Then I made the decision to join the military. I tell my family and friends that i joined because i wanted to help, but a part of me realizes that one of the reasons I joined was because i wanted to stop thinking about her. I know how crazy that sounds, but it worked. Then as I am about to go to Iraq and i have stopped thinking about her, I find out she is sick and my world stopped. It turns out that she has a serious mental illness and it will effect her the rest of her life. When i found out, all I wanted to do was fly back home, fill her room with pink roses, and make sure she got the best care possible, but what my friend also told me was she is getting married. She was sick and i couldn't do anything to help her. It has been years, but I cant stop worring about her. I did they only thing I could do, I put her in my will so that, if i do die in Iraq, she will get everything. My best friend was furious when i told her what i did, and she thinks that I have wasted too much of my life on her. So I came across this website, and I wanted to ask people that were impartial. Can it still be love after all this time, are my actions noble, or am I the one with the mental illness? AnswerIt's desperation when you "settle" with someone. Answerdesperation is when the relationship is centered around you. you just want a relationship, it doesnt matter who, you just want one. it may not be love, but it could grow into love. love focuses on the person, theres only a few certain people you can love. desperation doesnt follow that because the person's desire is selfish and only on themselves. you may have heard love means being giving and puting someone else first. desperation seeks to fulfill your desires by using the person you "love". the person above stated it simply and perfectly!Answer
Love is wanting a certain person and cherishing the very thought of them. Desperation is when you cant get anyone and you just want whoever is there. But love is seeing that person in a room full of people, and not caring who else is there.
You love your ex and you don't know how to get him back?
there is a reason that they are your ex- because it is past tense, its over!!!!! trust me, i spent two years trying to work out how to get my wife to come back. she had moved on, and i hadn't- so i could drive myself insane trying different thingsto make her come back, or accept she's gone, it's over, time to move on. another pointless exercise is trying to work out what went wrong, because that is something in the past as well. i was given this same advice by someone in the beginning, i wasn't able to follow the advice. you'll come around to this way of thinking in your own time when you are ready to let go. it's really hard, but things will get better. perhaps we could discuss this.... say, over dinner. even though that's probably not funny from where you sit, when you can see the humour in it, your well on your way to getting better. good luck
Is it OK to break up with someone for someone else?
Yes it is okay to break up for someone else, Just as long as you haven't done anything with this other person while still with your current partner, cause that is very wrong & if you already have well there is your answer..., You shouldn't stay with current person if you have feelings for someone else & you want to be with this person, you shouldn't lead current partner on cause it will just keep getting worse & it will hurt alot more, You should end it.......
