Breakups

• Either you are trying to be funny (you are not) or, you should look up the word 'psychopath' and then realize how lucky you are she is not back.

Honesty is the best policy in situations like this. Be kind to him and tell him that you don't feel the same way about him and that you'd appreciate it if he'd let you get on with your life. Friendship in this case is out of the question as he loves you and it will just make things more complicated. If you bump into him smile and be pleasant, but nothing more. It is never easy to tell someone you don't love them, but worse if you say nothing and that person feels they still have a chance with you when they don't.

Sometimes you should accept the ability to love from a distance. If you love the person, then allow them to be happy with the person they love.

Well just make sure to give him plenty of attention and tell him to only want attention from you! forgive and forget

sweetie let him go, it obviously means he cant let go of her and still likes her.

During a temporary break the best thing to do is stay active. Staying active doing things such as working-out, shopping or reading a book tends to keep your mind off breaks.

Okay from a girls point of view i would say the main things to look for are: if she doesn't talk to you as much, doesn't text you very often, doesn't hang around with u at school or anywhere, and if she starts being kind of awkward around you when you talk to her. If she doesn't laugh at the jjokes she would normally laugh at or if she starts kinda bringing up the dreaded we need to talk conversation. well i hope i helped and hope you don't break up, just remember if someone tells you shes gonna break up with you dont break up with her just to be the dumper instead of the dumpee :(

* It depends on why you both split up. If there are characteristics you don't like about him then he may not change, but, you could meet him again to see if he has changed (or you have changed.) As long as he's still single then it's up to you as to whether you should try to see him again.

She probably just wants to be your friend, but doesn't want the relationship to be much more than that.

if you can't afford it tell her directly that it's too expensive

If he pleases himself by stimulating his own genitals and he is a boy friend you are committed to then please learn to cooperate. I hope he does not abuse you, though he may want to touch you to maximize his own sexual pleasuring.

You have since met someone else and were keen to give it a go even though you still had feelings for your ex. Now you're not sure that you want to continue talking to this new guy. What do you do?

This happens in all relationships so your not alone. You need to think of this as a test of your will, you must have a soft spot for him, hence the question. Now what ever that is you need to think long and hard about what he shows you more of. I don't know how old you are but if a real relationship is what you want you need to hold your ground for what you want. Its a give and take situation tho and men are notorious for not knowing what they want or what they have until its gone. Give him a week to think your gone and see how he reacts. RAREHINGES

She might still have feelings for you but thinks you dont feel that way so she wants to move on and not get her heart bulldozed over once again.Call her up if you still have feelings for her. Dont wait for her to do this. She probably wont even if she really wants to. Talk to her, be nice to her and try to stay friends with her.. You weren't nice to her? Sounds like she got the message and has moved on. Would you want to speak to someone who was not that nice to you after having been in a relationship? It sounds like she's a smart girl who refused to be mistreated. Maybe you could apologize for 'not being that nice' to her before and tell her you hope you can be friends? Just an idea. Or respect and learn from the fact she has moved on.

start dating someone he knows well

You have a major crush and it is perfectly normal. I had one before and I never got with that person. One day I realised that we were not meant to be and that someday I would find out the reason. One day I did and I was glad I wasn't with him. You will realise too that you love this person for some strange reason. You will also find your real love and you will forget about them. In the meantime try to distract yourself. There are plenty of other people out there that are worthy of your love.

Okay. Well. its hard if you loved them. do or did u? if so... just think. there is other dogs in the world.. (fish=girls dogs=boys) so just make him JEALOUS! go get a new guy with ur head held up high! :-P

well if she didn't ask her maybe you should tell her you need to talk and then tell her what she did wrong chances are she will say sorry or fix the problem

As many as it takes to find a husband?

If you like this girl, then don't but if she constantly stinks down there then you may aswell as it wont be easy for a boy to say it to a girl!!! But if its just for the one week period then don't bother the stink will go soon.

• Without knowing the full story if you only saw him a very few times then he should have communicated the fact he was not happy that he didn't get to see you at least on weekends and if he did warn you about his concerns that he was not happy in the relationship; wants a girlfriend that he can date properly and therefore he has the right to end the relationship between the two of you.

• It does not matter what birth sign a person is; if there is a break up the person who is still in love with their ex partner hurts the same and some ex partners either get on with their lives or may take a long while to get over the break up.

Because he has shown signs of self-mutilation, the best thing to do is call help for him, or talk to his parents. You should not put yourself in a position in his life because it'll show him the wrong signs (may wanting him back) and would make it worse. You need to talk to someone about this and get him help because once he gets in a deeper state of this then you're going to have problems getting him out of it.

Aww! You poor thing! I feel very bad for you! Don't worry, if your boyfriend broke up with you and still sees you, he wants to get back together with you! Isn't that great?! He loves you! Ask him if he wants to get back together. He may say yes. If he says no, make sure that you "accidentally" bump into him a lot. Or, try being friends with him and talking about friend stuff with him. He will eventually come back on his knees begging for you back ( he remembers the great times you guy had together)! He all yours!