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Your ex fiance who cheated on you is acting like you wants to get back together you never got over him but you are also interested in this other guy now What do you do?

Go with other guy. But get over the ex so that new guy doesn't feel like he's competing or being compared to ex. Ex obviously only wants what he can't have. If he gets you back, then the game is over.

Is beautiful a character trait?

Beautiful is just how people see you. It isn't something that is classified. For example, you may think that a person with dark hair and brown eyes is beautiful or you may think that someone with Blonde hair and blue eyes is beautiful.

Why does a wife dream of speaking with husbands girlfriend?

* If you husband does not have a girlfriend and you dream of speaking with your husband's girlfriend then it generally is the fact you are having marriage problems and fear that your some other woman will take your husband away. If your husband does have a girlfriend then you should not even have him living in your home and if he is seeing another woman and living with you then no wonder you are having dreams of speaking with your husband's girlfriend. She is the mistress and you don't have to say anything. It is your husband you should be speaking too and tell him to make up his mind if it's you or his mistress. The up side is that more often than not men who have a mistress on the side and when faced with an ultimatum by their wife will generally choose the wife, but if he should not then it's highly unlikely he will stay with his mistress long as he will want more freedom.

If your boyfriend of 2 years broke up with you for no reason at all a week ago and now tells you he's over you and he's refusing to be friends should you try and get back with him and if so how?

im sorry bout wats happend im going through somthing similar my ex boyfriend split up with me for no reason but got me to do it then he pushed me into sex with him three times after but like you he did say he didnt want to be friends with me. there all the same i think you should move on i no its hard its killing me, im not ready to move on yet so il just carry on herting but you can do so much better than somone how dumps you for no reason i dont think hes over you he just doesnt want you to no that but i think you should definatly move on go out with friends and try and forget bout him if he sees that youv moved on he might regret leaving you and want you back then that would be your choice.good luck Your ex-boyfriend has clearly stated that he does not want to be friends with you. And if he claims he is over you one week after breaking up, regardless of having been in a 2 year relationship with you, I hate to say this, but that means he had been detaching himself from you LONG before the relationship ended, which is why he seems to have gotten over you so quickly. Hon, I know it hurts like hell, but what you need to do is not contact him anymore. If he decides one day that he still wants and loves you, then he has a phone and your number and he will contact you. Please hold on to your dignity and love yourself enough to realize that you deserve to be with someone who wants to be with you, which unfortunately, is not the case with your ex. Keep busy during the times you most want to contact him... go out with friends, find a new hobby, volunteer, take a new class, exercise, ANYTHING except contacting him! Good luck on your journey. I wish you the best, and I know what you are going through, as I recently have gone through a breakup myself.

What can you do if your narcissistic and abused ex-girlfriend was very abusive to you which made you an abuser and now you are very hurt and want her back so you can both try and change?

It is very common for people that are abusive, depressed, alcoholics, drug addicts to want to stay with a mate that has gone through the same thing (or is like them.) They seem to find some bond. In fact, it's the worse thing that person can do. If they have managed to change any of the above bad habits, it's best to find a mate with none of these traits and their future is much more promising. When a person loves another they don't want to hurt that person and there are simply no excuses. People can control their anger if they put their minds to it. If they feel rage they can get out and go for a walk to cool off. Even though your girlfriend came from an abusive environment she is playing the "lame duck syndrome" using this as an excuse for her outbursts towards you. At any given time she could have gone to seek counseling for this problem and there are no excuses for not doing so, because abuse is talked about everywhere these days and she's well aware of it. It's just easier for her to go through life the way she is and expecting people to put up with her abusive behavior. If you try getting back with her then you are classified as an enabler and you're not helping her one bit. If you want to over-come your abusive nature then you must not see this young woman, get counseling of your own and move on. It doesn't sound like she wants help or she would have gotten it by now. Don't even think for a minute if you get the help and then try to help her it will work. She will probably be angry you did something about your abusive nature and will absolutely refuse to do anything about her own abuse problems. Sometimes we have to be brutally honest with ourselves and sometimes that means moving on from someone we love. When we look back a few months to a year or so later we really find that we had long ago stopped loving that person because the hurting never went away, nor the rage from the abuser. Good luck Marcy

How do you get over a breakup if you both still love each other but he needs time to figure things out on his own?

Usually when a guy tells you that he needs time to figure things out that usaully means that they have some else but he just do'nt want to hurt your feelings it can be the same as a young lady telling a guy the same thing in fact they really done moved on ! Time heals all things. Which, unfortunately, is both good and bad. Life is very short, and no one really knows when his/hers will be over. My advice to you is not to dwell on this emotion you feel. Things will work out the way they are supposed to. Just enjoy the here and the now. Also know that when one door closes, another is opened. why does he need time to think things through? Is he wanting space between you both?

Should you date your friend's ex-boyfriend?

It will be a strain on the friendship if you do. Recognize that the friend "broke up" with her former boyfriend for what she perceived to be a valid reason. If you date him you're effectively saying that not only was she wrong, but you don't really care about her feelings. It gets real complicated, real fast. You'll likely loose the friend if you date him. You need to decide what's most important to you.

How do you get your married boyfriend back who returned to his wife once she found out that he was having an affair since he thought that was the right thing to do?

The wise and decent thing to do would be to respect this married man's decision and move on with your life. He did what he believes is right. You need to respect his decision and do what is right yourself. Let him work out things with his wife, and find a man who is not attached to a marriage or, for that matter, a girlfriend. Deb

Is there a quote you love someone but they let you go?

Yes there is. The saying is "If you love someone, let them go...if they come back, they are yours. If they don't, it was never meant to be. Hope this helps! :)

Why do women want affairs with men with children?

  • Some women will have affairs with men because she may have no children and she is hoping he will marry her and she'll have a ready-made family. Some women feel having an affair with a married man is a safe bet for her (she may be a gold digger or non committal.) Then there is a percentage of women who just want the excitement of knowing they can steal a husband away from his wife and children are involved. A woman who cheats with a married man is self centered; ego maniacal and has no scruples as to the hurt it will cause the wife and the children.

Does farting help you not get sick?

Yes fart as much as you can and you will never get sick. Why you put this under relationships I don't know, because no one will ever date you if you fart.

How can I tell if my ex really wants me back if he goes back and forth with his feelings?

The truth is, he doesnt really want you back. At times he may seem to want you back, but hes just using you until he finds someone new who can provide him with what ever it is he needs. Trust me on this one, ive been through it many times, and ended up alone.

If you break up with a boy from a long distance relationship at the age fourteen and you become just friends is there a chance they'll end up getting married in the future?

it all depends on how you both feel about each other in the future, if in the future you both still fill a connection with one another, there is no question that it's a high possibility that the both of you will get married.

i dont mean to rain on ur parade or anything but i jsut got of a realtioship like this and one of u might end up hateing the idea of talking on the phone and computer there is a small posibilty but just go with the flow of life and jsut let it see were it leads you

When she says you need to slow it down but she calls you every day what is she really telling you?

It's difficult for two people when going steady together. I'm sure you both enjoy each other and have some 'hot moments', but she probably means that you are rushing her in the sexual department. The best thing to do is start right now 'communicating' and sit down with her and ask her what she does mean by 'slowing things down' and that's a good step to a positive and successful relationship.

How do i get over my ex when he says he still loves me it's just not enough-and i wanted to marry him?

It is going to be hard because you have deep emotional feelings for him. I guess I don't understand why he is saying he "loves you" it's just not enough. True deep love is more then enough. Love can survive anything. If he "loves" you as much as he is claiming to there would be no room for a but after that. I really think that YOU deserve way more. I know that when you are hurt it's hard to see how great you are. You think thoughts like, I am not good enough or he would love me. It's not true! You're just great exactly how you are and there is someone out there that would absolutely adore you. Isn't that what you truly want anyway? We sell ourselves short when we feel unloved. Of course, it's easy to be attracted to a difficult man that we cannot make love and care about us the way that we need to be loved and cared about. It's a losing battle. He ends up feeling great about himself because he has you to care so much and you end up feeling horrible. Don't do it he is not worth it and I am speaking from experience here. Say I am wrong and this guy is truly in love with you make him prove it. In the mean time, live your life for you. You only get one shot at life and you don't want to do it half way. Good luck to you! You will get through this because you are so much stronger then you know.

When someone says maybe?

Please resubmit your question as it is unclear as to what someone would be saying maybe for. Thank you.

How can you apoligize kissing your best friend?

If he/she is a best friend, you shouldn't have to be concerned about how to apologize. Just be sincere and direct. JUst apologise and don't dwell on it - put it behind you.

How many square numbers are therE between 1 and 500?

There are 22 non-decimal square numbers between 1 and 500. 1x1=1 2x2=4 3x3=9 4x4=16 5x5=25 6x6=36 7x7=49 8x8=64 9x9=81 10x10=100 11x11=121 12x12=144 13x13=169 14x14=196 15x15=225 16x16=256 17x17=289 18x18=324 19x19=361 20x20=400 21x21=441 22x22=484

How do you get over being constantly afraid of your boyfriend dumping you He says he loves you and takes good care of you but you are still always worried he is going to leave you?

Your boyfriend of yours really does love you if he says that. Usually. Do not take my last word personally, but it is true. Now, do not think you are a worry wart. Really, many girls think that their boyfriend won't be with them long. The answer is to tell your boyfriend this. Tell him how and what you are feeling. If you don't think he will care about what you feel, he isn't a very good boyfriend.

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