Breakups

It takes a lot of courage to forgive someone especially if you have feelings for them but you should think deeply and decide if you want to b their friend or if you want to be bitter and hate them forever it's your choice.Hope this helpsSmileyshaza

She is confused as to what she wants so beware if she asks you to do something as she may be upset afterwards and regret it.

Just be a true friend if he doesn't want her anymore then tell her just to LET IT GO! because if he wanted her so bad then they would have still been together don't you think so you have to be a true friend and tell her the

Whatever the star sign, if it's over, it's over. Move on. That sounds harsh, but that's life, whether you believe in star signs or not.

Possibly although it is more likely she is just saying these things because you hurt her when you broke up with her. Remember break ups are like grieving, after the sadness she is starting to feel very angry!! Let her be, she has the right to be. Maybe you did treat her bad, maybe you didn't but it is all in the past now, and there is nothing you can do to change it.

FIRST CALL THE CREDIT CARD COMPANY AND MAKE THEM AWARE THAT YOU DID NOT OPEN THE ACCOUNT AND WHO DID. IF SHE SIGNED YOUR NAME FOR AN APPLICATION OR DID IT BY PHONE YOU CAN GET HER ARRESTED FOR FRAUD. IF SHE USED THE COMPUTER TO DO THIS ITS EVEN MORE SERIOUS CHARGES. DO NOT WHAT SO EVER PAY ONE CENT, DISPUTE THE ACCOUNT IF THE CREDIT CARD COMPANY TRIES TO TELL YOU YOUR ACCOUNTABLE. ALSO GET IN CONTACT WITH ALL THE CREDIT BUREAUS AND ASK THEM TO BE PUT ON THE FRAUD AWARENESS LIST. THIS WILL MAKE THEM NOTIFY YOU PERSONALLY IF ANYONE TRIES TO GET CREDIT OF ANY TYPE IN YOUR NAME BEFORE ACCOUNTS CAN BE APPROVED. ALSO CHANGE ALL OF YOUR PASSWORDS AND CODES SO IN THE FUTURE SHE CANNOT ATTEMPT THIS AGAIN. GO AND SPEAK TO AN ATTORNEY PREFERABLE A GOOD DIVORCE LAWYER. GOOD LUCK AND BE PATIENT.....

The reason why your feelins for an exboyfriend resuface every time you see him is because you and him had something in common. in order to get rid of those feelings you have to find out what it is and somehow alter that similaritie. when you do this usually it works or at least it worked for me.

It means he doe not feel for you now. He used to call you babe to pamper you. Now he do not call you babe that means he's been over it .

No. That may be why she would like some space - there can be too much time or contact together. Give her time and show her that you can. She could feel smothered and just would like a break. For whatever reason she has to validate her feelings she would like this time alone and you will have to respect that or you could push her away by constantly bothering or pressuring her. This would be a good time for you as well to take time for yourself keep busy and when she is ready she may come to you if not you will have to move on and accept any decision she makes for herself.

im only 18 so no expert!

but i had the same dream about breaking up with my boyfriend

you cried- therefore ask youself do you really want to break up or you can you fix whatever is making you think do

tears of blood? - maybe saying that breaking up is not the wright thing

over all very negative dream i think, but maybe you don't even want to break up with her.. could just be some thoughts from your unconcious part of your brain into your pre-concious - if you belive freuds theory that is haha

who knows.. don't worry... dreams are just muddled up thorts i dremt i did scottish dancing with the queen ^.^

first you should turn the tables around and think how you would feel if this happened to you for a man his ego is bruised very badly and he now probably feels inadequate in front of his friend if it had been someone he didn't know i would say try to win him back but with his own friend Naa that is one of the things that can justify a divorce any way cheating and or death not in MARRAIGE you know you made a mistake so live up to it and let him decide don't push it that way if he comes back it will be because he wants too if in that case he does DONT EVER DO IT AGAIN i cheated on my boyfriend of 5 years and got caught by an std he didn't leave me or hit me and when it was all over i wish he had of done one if not both but i gave him some time for a while he stopped telling me he loved and since then Ive heard it 3 times it hurt him so bad and in return it hurt me men have feelings too just give him some time and space but if he decides not to come back dont trip life goes on consider it a test that you failed and try to pass the next time meanwhile if he does come back that's a sure sign that something is missing in your marriage and you guys need to talk about and resolve what you feel is missing to the point where you feel you need to go to someone else maybe you should think about that while you guys are apart. The best thing to do is give him that space he needs to digest what has happened. You have broken the one bond that most of us cling onto and that's trust and thus, you've broken his heart. All of us make mistakes throughout our lives (hopefully we learn from them) we are just human and your husband should realize that. Although he needs his space keep in touch with him every week. See if he'll meet with you. There was something wrong with your marriage from the beginning and perhaps neither of you were filling each other needs and had poor communication skills. Poor communication skills in a relationship (be it a partner, family member or friend) and causes more problems than necessary. It will take some time before your husband will trust you again and you are really going to have to earn it. In time, he'll trust you. Have that meeting with him. Meet for a drink, coffee or go for a walk where there aren't too many people. My husband and I walk with the dogs to resolve a lot of our problems because it seems to calm things down if it's a very difficult decision we have to make. We also MAKE the time each day to sit (TV off and no answering phone calls) to discuss our day or any problems we may have. We've been married almost 36 years. Marriage takes work and it's not all a bed of roses, so you have to be strong, know what you weakness' and strengths are (as he does) and build on that. When in doubt discuss your problems with each other.

I think that the best thing to do is probably to go on a date with that person again. See whats new with them. People can really change in twenty years. Then after a couple of dates you can really decide if you wanna be with that person again.

when someone only loves you because someone else has you. like a little kid who yells at their freind for playing with their toy then when they get it back plays with it for afew seconds and throws it aside

No, Don't take him back! He obviously didn't want to spend time with you during the summer so don't spend time with him during the school year. Move on. Find a new boyfriend.

It is entirely up to you what to do not others !

You need to talk with him and listen to what he says about why he broke up with you. It is rather unusual for someone to do that. Were you getting along fine before the break-up ? If so then I can't see why he would drop you. He was not into you as much as you thought. If you were on rocky ground before the break-up then maybe he wanted to allow a break to see if you both still had feelings for each other after the summer.

It does not mean he definitely does want to get back with you after the summer though, in what he said back then.

As I said, talk with him to see how you both feel about each other and go from there.

They will come back time and again it seems - just to see if you are still thinking about them!

make me a sandwich! now! and git me a beer

If he truly cares about you then he will forgive you but it might take some time.

If my girlfriend lied to me about being pregnant, unless she was super hot, I would dump her and never look back. So if she was really hot with dark short hair, dark eyes and pale skin with a average shape then she would be alright. But if she was "country cute" then she would be back on the market. Stop lieing to people.

It's definitely tough, and most likely took a big toll on your emotions, so the most important thing to do is surround yourself with friends and family to remind you of the good in life, and know that fate has a mysterious way of working. Someone else will come around, i promise, just stay optimistic and never, never give up hope.

Some people lash out at others when they are miserable within themselves. Your ex boyfriend seems to have some emotional problems, or possibly drug related problems (not accusing him of this, but it's a thought) as drugs can change a person's personality. If you always argued in your relationship then he certainly would be not be happy and neither would you, but he was extremely cruel and immature in the way he broke off your relationship. As much as it hurts your heart it is best to move on with your life and start going out with friends and try having a little fun. There will be many other boyfriends until you end up meeting that special person you truly should be with.

• The best way to deal with a love letter when you do not feel the same about the person that sent it is to be kind and honest. All individuals have loved someone and been rejected so this young man will get over it. Simply let him know that you enjoyed reading his letter and respect his feelings, but you do not feel the same about him. Also be sure you keep his letter just to yourself or destroy it as those are his deepest feelings and not for anyone else to read.

use a lot of profanity...f*** the s**** out of my c****** a**h**** actually works pretty well

it's has been scientifically proven that swearing relieves pain

or you could try what cancer patients do

take the pain and make it into a ball

then throw the ball far, far away

• 'Ex' means the relationship is over so it should be of no concern on your part that he is taking a trip with a new girlfriend. It does hurt, but you need to move on; get out with friends and have some fun and by doing so you will meet the true person that should be with in your life. Your ex has moved on and so should you and me.

Better leave him, and fast! "Having sex with someone" doesn't mean "having feelings for someone". Unfortunately, lots of guys nowadays think that way. If you have any doubt that your relationship might not work (your question is the proof that you're starting doubting), listen to yourself and don't deny your feelings! If he's irresponsible and disrespectful toward the other girl whose pregnant, be prepared that he might as well act the same way with you. Unless you ask him directly about how he feels regarding your common future. But according to what you wrote, I'm afraid he only thinks about his own happiness in which you seem to be temporarily included... until a better one shows up! Run, pretty, run!

• Some people (mainly males, but a few women) sometimes prefer isolation such as living out in the wilderness and away from the stress of city life. Most people who do not enjoy isolation and need the bright lights; traffic sounds; socializing and then find themselves isolated through no fault of their own often feel depressed which leaves them confused as to how to start their life up again. Some people feel isolated in a room full of people they know (almost like looking through a window at the friends, but the isolated person is not there.) This is a good time to seek counseling from a psychologist to learn the tools as to how to overcome the feelings of isolation.