Breakups

It is possible that you are not interested in either your current b.f or your ex-boyfriend but attracted to parts of them (meaning their qualities and stuff) Therefore you keep jumping to and fro every now and then.

My advice is that you write down all the good qualities of both your current b.f and your ex and try and find someone who matches the description.

Your relationship has been on and off for 7 years. That is why you still can't get over him. Circular thinking - you answered your own question in your question.

Unfortunately this is very common and you cannot expect him to never have another girlfriend and not be with you - that is just unrealistic and impossible. You really just have to keep busy doing things you enjoy and give it time as getting over someone takes time. You have to pick yourself up, hold your head up and not dwell on this as no one is worth it - you just wasting your time on someone that isn't the least bit worried. I realize it is easier said then done at this time for you because you are sad and hurting but many people have gone through and go through this and make it throught successfully as well eventually find someone else - I also realize you feel all alone and your the only one right now but that is not true and use the support from friends and family by spending time with them, do things you like and you will see that with time things will be better and you will move on - believe me when I say if you let them things WILL get better.

YES!!!! its his baby!!!!...isn't it?...well anyways if you don't tell him he'll probably like break up with you cuz he'll think you were ashamed to have his baby, in less your really young, then that's a whole different story.

It depends on how deeply you are involved and how long was your relation.

Generally if you get someone else who can take the place of that person effectively it will make it easier to forget a person. But as every individual is unique some place always remains there where memories will gather....

But eventually time change things and we can forget...Not 100% but for much extent.

* No, not always. When you have a love relationship with someone you both form wonderful memories together and share intimate things about your lives as well as discussing possible future plans. It's difficult to get over someone you have loved, but you're smart to ask this question because it is highly possible you are in love with the memories you had with him, but not in love with him. Give it time as it does heal. Start going out with girlfriends and get back into the dating circuit. There is someone special out there for you.

This depends on whether they have a boyfriend or not and whether you have a boyfriend or not. If you have a boyfriend that you love, I'd decide who I like more and either grant yourself lucky to have such a great boyfriend or decide that he isn't so great and try to get a different boyfriend (or maybe you'll decide you're better off without one). If you don't have a boyfriend and he doesn't have a girlfriend, go for it. However, if he has a girlfriend that he loves, you should respect that and either hang low and wait for him to break up with her (keeping in mind that he may never like you anyway and that you might be wasting your time) or you could realize that it probably won't work out and you should give him up. Do NOT go out with this guy if either you have another boyfriend or he has another girlfriend. If this is that case and you both like each other, you could each gently break it to the unluckly people that your just not that interested in them anymore and that you like someone else. However, if this guy that you like does not like you, he might not go out with you, so you might just be breaking up with your BF for nothing.

You use everything you can and get over him. He is not worth the trouble no matter how much you love him. You deserve someone who wants you, and who will do anythign for you. Do not settle for anything less than that despite your history.

I would ask her about it and if she asks where you heard it from, tell her the truth. The best thing that keeps a relationship together is honesty.

If he broke up with you and left his clothes at your house, he may have forgotten them and will come back later to get the rest of his stuff.

It means that man would rather people talk lies about him then have the truth known by everyone when he didn't want anyone to know. In other words, people don't care much if rumors or lies are spread about them cause they know they aren't true. However, when someone has a secret that's true, they don't want people to know cause it would be embaressing.

just say hey i think tthis may be kinda weird but i think im ready to go out with you again waht do you say

He doesn't love you enough to stay. He'd rather be with his "real" family. You need to just get over it and date "single" men. Men that are tied up in family usually stay with their family cuz they have already made a family, they aren't looking to start anotehr one.

if for some reason you suspect that the girl your seeing is not over her ex, then you are consider a rebound. You should talk to this girl about how she still feels about this guy, if she still has feelings for this guy then leave her and give her a chance to get over it. Because if you stick around knowing that she still has feelings for this guy, she will hurt you and possibly cheat on you. Do you think that maybe she going out with you to make her ex jealous? you should think about that.

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Thank you. Its get more complicated to the fact we are engaged and i don't believe i am a rebound. We are engaged to be married next year. She been honest about how she feel about me and him. I don't think she want to go back to this person and she even said the fact its if we no longer together hes more likely will not even be in her life. She have been as honest a person could be with some one, and express her self to me on this subject and i respect more than anything. I feel that the main problem its the fact she its frustrated because for 5 years she try her best for this other person and he walk over her, and used her in every aspect. Now that she has move on and building a new life, he has come back to hunt her saying how terrible a person he was and that he has change. I think its more anger what she have towards him, than anything but still its a very hard situation sometimes.

Yes and no. But he's an ex for a reason. Some of my exes and I talk a little bit, but sometimes they don't want to talk. If he doesn't want to talk don't worry about it. Go find another guy.

also dont tsk ei t personal if he doesnt like you aymore brush it off your shoulder and go to another guy(that you like) and forget about them. guys take girls like lint its there and then its not(except the nice ones)

Well, that's not love. He can stay your 'ex'.

then that means he don't love you all the way, he's not in love with you he just loves you or he's not in love yet give it some time in the meanwhile don't just sit at home and wait and be lonely (he ain't being lonely) go out with other boys it might get you over this jerk or make him see what he's losin

Breaking up with someone, especially is it is for no reason.

And cheating on someone.

Personally, i think Girls are most affected by a breakup because they tend to care more. However, when a Guy gets dumped, they tend to be most upset - Guys still care, even though most Girls believe that they don't...

In some cases when we are in a relationship with the former guy sometimes the feeling you were to hav did not develop at that time but when it is finally over that is when the feelings start to show. When you think you have moved on and is in a happy relationship with another person then maybe, just maybe, you see the qualities you liked in your ex and so the feelings start to return or you did not wait to get over your ex then jumped to another relationship too fast.

you run

you are probably depressed because somebody you love and trusted went behind your back and did something wrong. you cut yourself because you were in extreme depression and wanted to hurt yourself and maybe kill yourself. you are now back together and happy because you still loved him and it makes you happy to be dating him :)

• Your dream was simply wishful thinking. You are probably thinking of him quit a bit and therefore you have dreams about him and it's natural. People dream every half hour and remember few dreams in REM sleep as it's the bodies way of relaxing from stress. The dreams people remember are seconds after the first wake up.

It means that you love them so much you would give up your heart and soul for them.

maybe hes going thru something and he doesnt know what to do or how to talk to you so he just says stuff that is really mean but if he keeps calling you that stuff then break up with him :)

Two things:

1) Your ex would like to start a relationship with your crush, this is what happens in most cases or it could be theory 2.

2) The Ex would like to make friends with the person you have a crush on, the problem with this is the Ex could tell some lies that may push the "crush" away from you and closer to the Ex..