Breakups

• Ex means the relationship is over. If he hasn't admitted he still loves you or or contacted you in any way then he doesn't love you enough to try in the relationship you had together.

The ex-boyfriends in this dream symbolize factors from your past. The dream might be about picking up classes or a job or plans that were dropped around the time that you were with these ex-boyfriends.

Losing a lover is a little like having a close friend die. You need to go through a version of the mourning process: Denial, Anger, Bargaining and -- eventually -- Acceptance. It may take some time. While it's happening, keep your friends close. Don't isolate yourself. You may need to force yourself to remember all the bad things about your ex. It may also help to ask yourself what you've learned that will make your next relationship stronger.

• In these modern times there seems to be a fad of 'being friends' with one's ex. It is not normal and 'ex' means the relationship is over. The only time a person should be with their ex is when they share custody of any children they may have. Men who want to stay in contact with their ex is like having your cake and eating it too. This means if the relationship does not work out with the person they are with they can fall back on their ex and this can be a dangerous situation because some men (not all) will have a sexual relationship with their girlfriend and their ex at the same time and with transmitted sexual diseases at an all time high this is not a good combination and is not fair to the girlfriend. The girlfriend should know she has the power within herself to tell her boyfriend like it is and that she is not willing to share him with his ex no matter if they are just friends or not. If he doesn't change then the girlfriend should move on in her life as she can do much better than staying with him.

It means she has moved on, and you should too. It's hard to get more definite than that.

one possible answer is that you mind knows that your ex has fully moved on. And your mind telling you it is time to invest all of yourself in the next person or current person you are with. It is one of the ultimate closures other than death. Your mind has come to terms with it all.

It could be also a dream telling you to chase after her one last time. Finish your unfinished business and make one last plea.

If she is showing signs like...If you see her and she keeps looking at you like the I still like you look or Acts like shes mad at you sometime in a stupid argument.

That is a difficult without knowing more about you. What if I am insecure and have very low self esteem??? Will my insecurity drive me to a crazed desperate attempt for acceptance by pursuing you? Is your question based on the possibility that you are insecure about yourself and feel the need for validation throught the acceptance of a special someone? Is this person giving you attention in hopes the "bait" will be taken, by you, so that they may put out another. Perhaps, one of the ways that has more weight than many in gauging this very common question is,,, what does this person gain from showing their care for you. If you gain a lot, over a proven course of time and circumstance, and they gain little or nothing,,, they are serving you, they are sacrificing their time and effort, you just might be onto something!

You have the ability to say anything, but most things wouldn't make sense in that situation. If you want him to, then say something to let him know he can. If you don't want him to, then tell him something to let him know you don't want him to touch your butt. What you SHOULD say, is completely dependably on the current relationship stays, and also where u are.

Do not be afraid to ask questions. As humans, we are afraid and wary of the unknown. Find out as much as you can by contacting the lgbt chapter in your area, or reading reliable sources on the internet. If you are homophobic because you think you might be gay, that is all the more reason for you to educate yourself.

Because he wants it all. He wants his new girlfriend and do as he pleases (have fun) but doesn't want you too. Could it be love? Possibly. I doubt he's sure where he's at so he wants his cake and eat it too. I think you're pretty smart, so get on with life and leave this guy in the dust! If he cares enough for you he'll come back and if not then you just saved yourself a whole lot of loss and heartbreak in your life. Good luck

If he didn't care he wouldn't waste energy being mad.

Female's View:

It means you should ditch him and find someone else who will respect you.

Male's View:

It means you're a lucky girl for even having a boyfriend- an honest boyfriend who loves you so much that he doesn't care that you're fat and ugly.

Well,I'm 13 and I got my first boyfriend when I was about 7 or 8..But you're parents are probably saying you're too young to have a boyfriend,right?You are kinda young but you still are old enough to have a boyfriend...When I had my first boyfriend,We were just walking around at church and then he walked upi to me and said "hi,you're pretty"and i said thanks...then we started going out..but back to you..i think if you really want a boyfriend you should be yourself...go to him at skul and find something to talk about...see what yall have in common,then you have to see what he likes in a girl and if he says stuff about how he likes a good smile,,,or if he says something that you know he's talking about you when he says it,that means he likes you,,or you could just ask him,but don't ask it out of the blue,start asking a few questions first then start going into the "do you like me?"conversation...but i think that you should at least wait a few years before dating,,but im not your boss so its not my business,,but you should live life first,,have fun,,but if you see a guy you like or a guy you know is the one for you....i say go for it..because people are gonna hurt you in life no matter who they are,,,BUT you just have to find the people worth suffering for,,,like your parents and family,,,they will always be worth suffering for,,,because they're you family,and family always sticks together,,,sorry for making this message so long,it's just that i have a 10 year old cousin and she wants a boyfriend at age ten...you remind me of her,,,and my cousin,,,we are very close so i would do anything to protect her..hahaha..but i would,,and i hope it works out with you and your crush,,,if you have any questions please message me,,,i will answer them as soon as i can..thank you and have a nice day...:)

A friend of mine who is a psychologist once told me, 'If any person that is in your life is making you feel sad more often than making you feel happy then it's time to move on.' I believe in that statement. When someone loves you they should be there for you to the best of their ability, respect you and the same goes for yourself. I noticed a change in my husband. He was lethargic, moody (when he is generally a very laid back person, and losing weight) so I decided to make a doctor's appointment for him myself and I went with him. I wanted to be sure there was nothing physically wrong with him before I lowered the boom on him. At first I thought it was his thyroid because he'd had a thyroid operations 10 years ago, but, it turned out he had what they call Celiac Disease which is a problem with wheat gluten. I am so glad I went this route or I could have made a very big mistake. I suggest you try getting your husband to a doctor first to be sure there is no physical problem with him. Men from 40 up also go through what they call 'Andropause' and use to be called 'Mid life crisis). They can have hot flashes, depression, become moody and miserable. Sort of like a woman going through menopause, but not quite as dramatic. If this is the case then your husband should have his testosterone levels checked and a good physical. The doctor may feel that your husband may need to be on short term antidepressants. If you feel the above is not the cause and he is cheating on you or he doesn't love you, then you are going to have to move on no matter how painful it is. I was married before to a man that was mentally/physically abusive and I did love him with all my heart, but he was difficult to live with and also cheated on me. It broke my heart, but I knew if I stayed he would ruin my life and I decided 'I' deserved better. I caught him cheating and I immediately filed for divorce. I kicked him out, found an apartment, got a new job, made new friends and life was wonderful. At first I just got my toes wet and went out with my girlfriends, but then I started to date. Some of the men I dated were losers, but thankfully most were nice guys, but we were more friends than anything (I still have a couple that I am friends with to this day.) I eventually was introduced to a wonderful man by one of my male friends and we've been married now for 35 years. Don't give up your life on someone that can't put their all into your marriage or is disrespecting you. If you can honestly say you gave it your best shot and nothing is working then move out and know that you are independent, strong and will meet the proper mate in the future.

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first off all, if your in 5th grade & have a boyfriend there is prob something wrong with that.. & if he broke up with you he doesn't want you back. & if you broke up with him then he might still likke you but you gotta tell him how you feel before he movess on(:

Well, there are two answers yes and no.

I once dated a guy who turned out to be a jerk and lied about our whole relationship.

So in depends on their actions and etc.

Teen problems huh?

We are over You can use one of these old cliches: "It's not you, it's me"; "I need some time off by myself"; "I need my own space"; "I love you but I am not in love with you"; "It's not the same anymore"; "The magic is gone"; or you can be truthful with him and tell him why you wantto break up.

1. When she asks how she looks, shrug and say "could be better." This will keep her on her toes, and girls love that. 2. Never hold her hand. This can be interpreted as a sign of weakness. If she grabs your hand, squeeze hers really hard until she cries (this will impress her by showing her what a strong man you are). 3. Once a month, sneak up on her from behind and knock her over. Girls are like dogs; they love to be roughed up. 4. Call her in the middle of the night to ask if she's sleeping. If she is, say "you better be." Repeat this 4 or 5 times until morning. This will show her you care. 5. When she is upset about something, suggest to her that it might be her fault. This will pave the way for her own personal improvement, and every girl needs some improvement. 6. Recognize the small things, as they usually mean the most. Then when she's sleeping, steal all her small things and break them, because jewelry is for wussies and Asian ladies. 7. If you're talking to another girl, make sure she's looking. When she is, stare into her eyes, mouth the words "**** you" and grab the other girl's ass. Girls love competition. 8. Tell her you're taking her out to dinner. Drive for miles so she thinks it's going to be really special. Then take her to a burning tire yard. When she starts to get upset, tell her you were just kidding and now you're really going to take her to dinner. Then drive her home. When she starts crying and asks why you would do something like that, lean over and whisper very quietly into her ear "...because I can." 9. Introduce her to your friends as "some chick." Women love those special nicknames. 10. Play with her hair. Play with it HARD. 11. Warm her up when she's cold...and not by giving her your jacket, because then you might get cold. Rather, look her in the eye and say "if you don't stop bitching about the cold right now, you're going to be bitching about a black eye." The best way to get warm is with fear. 12. Take her to a party. When you get there, she'll have to go to the bathroom (they always do). Leave immediately. Come back right when the party is dying and yell at her the whole way home for ditching you all night. 13. Make her laugh. A good way to do this is if she has a small pet. Kick the pet. Guys always find stuff like that funny...why shouldn't girls? 14. Let her fall asleep in your arms. When she's fast asleep, wait 10 minutes, then jump up and scream in her ear. Repeat until she goes home and you can use your arms for more important things (like basketball). 15. Spit often. I hear girls like guys that spit. 16. If you care about her, never ever tell her. This will only give her self-confidence, then you can never turn her into the object she deep down desires to be. 17. Every time you're in her house, steal one of her shoes, earrings or anything else that comes in pairs. Only take one of the pair. This way, she'll go crazy. 18. Take her out to dinner. Right when she's about to order, interrupt and say "no, she's not hungry." Make her watch you eat. Girls love a guy that speaks for her. 19. Look her in the eyes and smile. Then punch her in the face. Girls love a spontaneous guy. 20. Give her one of your t-shirts, and make sure it has your smell on it (but not a sexy cologne smell...a bad smell. You know what I'm talking about). 21. When it's raining, keep asking her if she's crying. She'll say "no, it's just the rain." Ten minutes later, turn to her and just scream at her to stop crying. Girls like a tough man. 22. Titty twisters and plenty of them. 23. If you're listening to music, and she asks to hear it, tell her no. This way she'll think you're mysterious. 24. Remember her birthday, but don't get her anything. Teach her that material objects arent important. The only thing that's important is that she keeps you happy, and your happiness is the greatest present she can ever get. 25. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it. Then, next time you know she's coming over on a trash day, leave the trash can open and have the present visibly sticking out of the can. Girls actually don't like this one that much, but guys think it's funny

Look inside yourself. (Theorectically of course.) What comes to your mind when you think of your boyfriend's brother? Do you think, "Aw, yeah! He's totally HOT!" or do you think things like, "Awww! My boyfriend's brother is soo sweet!" Of course I am speaking in general terms. If you feel like your feelings for your bf's brother are more lust than love, then it's just best to ignore these feelings, even though they are deep. If it is love, then what kind of love is it? The rest is up to you, but think to yourself, is ditching your boyfriend for his brother worth all the heartache it will cause?

Then give him alittle space. Even if you love him you gatta let him have time of his own. In a puppy love relationship to one with marriage you always gatta get away from each other some times. Just show him how much you love him and how much he means to you. Comment to him with sweet saying and do things he enjoys doing. Show him he truly has your heart and he wont leave you. =) <3

Either A.) He's jealous, or B.) He still likes you Either way its not good, especially if you broke up with him. You need to ask him why. Some people just have a hard time letting go

"King Lear" - Shakespeare