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Breakups
It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.
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How do you know if a guy is going to break up with you?
When he doesnt put as much attentionto you, when he always got to leave you alone,when he dont answer his phone much, when he's uncofortable around you and many other discomforts When he doesnt put as much attentionto you, when he always got to leave you alone,when he dont answer his phone much, when he's uncofortable around you and many other discomforts
Hugging and kissing is not inherently sinful, but lust is a sin. Lust being defined as a self indulgent craving for sexual intercourse. If you can kiss your beau without lusting, then your doing just fine.
It is perfectly normal to be sexually interested in your romantic partner; if you aren't sexually interested in your beau then you are doing sometihning wrong. However lusting after a person an pursuing them in the hope of gratifying your sexual desires is sinful.
(IMHO)
What is does it mean to reject?
When someone rejects you, it means they do not choose to be with you, or they refuse to be in a serious relationship with you even though you wanted them to. It may also mean they break off a relationship and decide you are the wrong person for them. While some people refer to this as being rejected, it can also mean the time was just wrong for the two people to be together, or they really were not compatible. It may not be proof of some defect in you, but rather, just a case of one person not feeling the same way you felt.
Is it okay to date your best friends ex?
Ask your best friend tactfully how they would feel - maybe use an imaginary scenario. Then you could say something like 'So it wouldn't bother you if I asked (name) out for a drink then?'. You will probably have a good idea if your friend is still emotionally involved though in which case maybe you should leave it a while. If not then there shouldn't be a problem.
AnswerNo too close for comfort, go and find your own ground to forrage.I am a girl and my best friend used to "have relations" with this guy, now they were never dating but now me and her don't talk as much because of silly drama and if i were to date him she would think im doing it to get back at her or that im thinking about her and my intentions are bad, but i seriously like him. Idk what to do, but in my head im saying no. She confided in me and trusted that i wouldn't like him and just cause were not as close anymore doesn't mean i can like him now. be a good friend and say no...but what if its true love and im turning my back on it ahhh help me too!
How do you get back at your ex for cheating on you?
You do what would hurt the person's ego most: You act indifferent toward the breakup as if it would not take much for you to move on and find someone better. NOTHING destroys an ego more than to think your ex didn't want or need you as much as you thought. If you do things like act crazy to hurt them back, it will only AFFIRM to them that they have the ability to affect you so much and you adore them and are hurt immensely and can't recover for a long while. However, to see you go on with your life with a new person taking their place is the ULTIMATE knife in the back to a cheating ex.
Are law enforcement cameras an invasion of privacy?
That depends on where the cameras are and do they have a warrant.
If the camera is on public location and is directed to shoot the streets and not to people's homes, then they are not considered invasion of privacy.
If the camera-operator is an agent of police and has a warrant to pry a private home, then the prying is part of an ongoing investigation and must aim to a legal action to catch a criminal.
How do you text your ex girlfriend to make her come back?
If you are over her than just casually text her, like u have been best friends ur whole life. If not, don't respond you'll just make a fool out of yourself.
How can you tell somebody you dont love them anymore?
The truth always hurts, but it's best to be honest. You could say something like, "I care about you a lot, but I need some time to myself. There are things I want to see and do before I settle down." This isn't going to stop the hurt for her, but at least you will save her a bit of dignity when you leave. Thanks for being one of the good guys and caring about this woman's feelings because you could have just split and never gone back!
There is absolutely no truth in the fact men fall in love faster than women, and, in fact, it appears women (being more of the romantics) fall in and out of love (sometimes deeply and seriously) far more than men do. There is a small percentage of men that are absolutely crazy over a woman and need to win her over. From a guy: I've never heard of men falling in love faster than women, and actually, I thought it was the other way around, that men try to slow down the relationship because they fear commitment, or want to keep "playing the field." However, if men fall in love faster than women, as you claim, it could be because of the long-held belief that girls mature faster than boys, and so the men, being somewhat immature, are falling in love when they shouldn't be.
What do you say to someone who broke off a relationship with you when you want to get back together?
If a person breaks off a relationship it usually means they don't love you in the way you would like. Count your blessings that you found out now and not later. I know it hurts to not be wanted, but there are so many people out there going through what you are. We all have had to experience rejection and life doesn't always go like we want it too. Hang onto your pride and when someone doesn't want you in their life it's time to move on. If this person isn't going with anyone and there are certain circumstances that caused the split-up then take the time out to ask the person out for a coffee and sit and discuss your relationship. Once again "Communication!" The lack of communication has caused lost love and good friendships.
- It's very important that a couple communicate their feelings to each other and it's more important through that relationship than sex believe it or not. It's apparent neither of you bothered to communicate and he should have told you he needed more space, but it's true most men just don't seem to know how to express themselves and if they do try they always manage to say the wrong thing according to what some women say. The guy is in the cross-hairs. Couples should have their own individual life and go out with their friends, perhaps on a mini vacation without their mate, and keep each other as a mystery rather than always being fused at the hip. Other interests (other than cheating) are healthy in any relationship. Clingy women/men is like having a rock strung around your neck and it makes the person feel like they can't breath. Your boyfriend is extremely immature and he should have discussed his feelings. He could well be squirming out of a relationship to start up another one (if he hasn't already). I am not trying to make you feel worse, but youth can be a fickle monster and he seems to be in that category. Don't sit around moping over him and get out with friends and start dating again. Send him a clear message he has not caused a ripple in your pond and you're moving forward. If anything will bring him back that will. Word does get around and he'll know you aren't pining over him at least.
- Honesty and being open are the best policies in this situation. The only thing you can do is suck it up and talk to the person. Confrontation, while it is hard, it is much more satisfying to know then to wonder. I wouldn't wait. Too bad if hes confused. If he loved you, he would just know your the one for him. Wouldn't you? Think about it. If you really loved a man and thought hes the one, would you need space or a break? Nope. Hes letting you down easy and hes trying to end things in a gradual way as he don't have the guts to make a clean break. Don't sit and wait. You deserve better.
How do you break up with your boyfriend that used to be your best friend by a note?
It is always best to do so face to face. Be honest, straight forward, and polite. Simply tell them the truth - whether it be I'm sorry but were just not compatible as boyfriend/girlfriend - for example.
Why i want to be an accountant?
There are many reasons why someone would choose a career in accounting. If you are asked this question during an interview, answer honestly. However, it is best not to make the number one reason financial gain. Employers want to know what really drives you and why you are passionate about your career choice.
How do you tell your ex you still like them?
Listen carefully to their speech for a week or so to find the ideal thing they want to become and encourage them positively to achieve it without prompting.
They will know that you care about them from your behavior because you believe in their dreams.
That is a key principle in the art of seduction.
Good luck.
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You see me and this guy like each other but he doesn't want to date :(
so i decided to tell him I don't like him anymore
and we were really good friends but now he won't talk to me
and i still LOVE him.....YES PEOPLE-- I LIKE LOVE ETHAN PORTER!!
I sould try the answer above
but PLEASE put answers to the situation above
How do you make him leave his wife?
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How do you let someone go that loves you and you love them back but right now you want someone else?
Tell them how you feel. If you have to let them go, then do just that. Keep in touch though. Tell him or her that you will miss them. If your a guy, let a tear roll off your cheek so she knows you care. If your a girl, do the exact same. I hope I helped.
Much love - Kimberlay
What are signs that let you know that your ex girlfriend misses you?
good signs? Well if they always talk to you.... If they hang out with you like all the time still and if maybe their friend dares them to go hug you and they say sure! then that's probably a couple of good signs!
Why do you fall out of love with your husband?
you don't want to be around him anymore/ find joy around him , and you start to fall for another person.
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When you fail to practice loving him, you will inevitably fall out of love with your husband. You decide to be concerned with his welfare, build a life together with him, make love to him, be your best "you" with him. Enjoy all you can and ignore the small irritants. Make loving him a priority.
By the way; men get the same answer when they ask, "When do you know you are out of love with your wife?"
What makes a good relationship?
Trust d added: A good friendship is similar to a good marraige, it consists of shared giving and taking, trust, love, concern and companionship.
Giving and taking is a shared activity. One or the other should not give or take more than the other, this helps to build trust and good will towards each other.
Trust is important for any relationship in that without it one or the other will feel the hurt of a word not kept or a wrong done to them and when they feel this hurt they need to be able to go to the other person and discuss it objectively so that an undstanding can be reached. If an understanding cannot be reached the relationship will not survive and grow stronger. Love is a factor that comes with the concern and caring for another, when you love someone you share the concern for each others welfare. Caring is about knowing when you are needed by a friend and when your are not needed. Companionship cements the relationship by helping to create memories of time spent together. This is important because good memories and bad memories are what a person relies on to make choices for the continuation of a relationship.
If a man has a child with a woman can he take the child away from her if not married to her?
no you can't i dont think the child always stay with the mother unless you can go to court about it.
How do I get my son to break up with a girlfriend?
why? but i guess that isn't for me 2 answer.
if they love each other and it makes ur daughter happy why would u want to break them up? she will soon find out and that will make ur daughter and Ur relationship not nice.
but if he is hurting her in any way u should talk to her personally. if i was ur daughter i would want u 2 come up 2 me. she should trust u. point out y she should leave him make her umderstade family comes first. tell her how much this hurrts u to see her upset but its for the best. trust me i Know it will help as much as u think it wont.
ANSWER;
If you are the mother, I'd like to know why you wanted your daughter to break up with this boy. Do you know something that your daughter didn't know? I am a mother of 3 beautiful teenagers, and I had found out from a hard way that no matter how must we love our kids, we can't never protect them to everything they do. Our children needs to experience the hurt, the pain, the disappointment, and the crying thng. All we can do for them is be there and support them when they're loosing something in their life. Mother's responsabilites is to pick up the pieces of their heart. We can't just ask someone to do our dirty job so our children will stop. do think about it.
Why is your ex always so mean to you?
sometimes even though it's not right exs tend to be mean sometimes this means they like you still or are hurt because you broke up with them however it can also mean that they don't like you and they arn't a good person or who you thought they were.
my ex is sooo mean. we break up after a year and a half then he moves away. We have no contact for two hole months before he sends me a text one night. We talk all day everyday for over a year. we make these great plans about marraige and kids. then out of no where he starts being a jerk. cussing me then apologizing the next day. now we are not talking.
i have no idea why exs act like that but the best thing to do is remember you guys broke up for a reason. CUT THEM OUT OF YOUR LIFE FOR GOOD! dont try to make them jealous (even tho it makes yourself feel great at the moment) just get away from him or her. Ignore them. dont post things on myspace or facebook that even relates to them. post something about your life! like "goin to the lake with friends, goin to have sooo much fun text me(:" cause if they see that they really dont matter to you anymore, that will hurt them more then anything.
What does it mean when you dream about kissing a dead ex-girlfriend?
This dream indicates that you remember the love and affection you had for this ex rather than the problems that led to your break-up. It does not mean that there is anything spooky going on; it only reflects your own emotions.
What to do if you have sleeping with a friends ex?
After my husband and I divorced the first time, we continue to have sexual relationship which led to our second marriage and boy was that the biggest mistake ever. What a lesson I learned, because I still loved my ex husband I did not have a problem with having sex with him because it WAS great. However, in the long run, I had to pay a serious price and if I could do it again, I would have NEVER slept with my ex.
How do you get someone you like to break up with their boyfriend or girlfriend?
Im just a kid but i say what you do is, send i wanna break up with you letters to the boy you like at the end of the school day every day. Don't forget that at the end of the letters when you write the from part, put the boys gf's name and if you keep it up he'll break up soon. If his gf is like, reeealy obnoxious and up herself help him to notice that. It's more honest than the one above. Also hint in that you like someone but don't tell him who it is. This can make him jelous and if he already likes you he is more likely to breakup with his gf to see if you are still free. Most of all be yourself!!! Crack a few jokes, if your in highschool ask if he wants to go get a coffe, hot chocolate, ANYTHING!!!!!!! after school. If he sais yes YOU GO GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If no keep on trying
