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Breakups
It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.
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How do you ask your boyfriend if he still loves you?
Just ask him, If you are having doubts about him still loving you, Just speak to him about it. I hope it works out. (:
Some how growing apart is not a part of love. Every thing changes.,But, apart is another word for,"this might happen again." This has nothing to do with what he says or does or thinks right now. Forget that right now. This is about what you say. Do you still love him? Can you live with this until he comes around to loving you again? If you love him now is the time to be the best wife you can. At lease your half of the convenant will be strong. Then if you find yourself where he leaves you, because some day if he doesn't change that will happen. You can know that you did all you could to make it work. And leave with your head high and your heart safe. But, if you can not. Love is putting the needs and wants of someone else before your sex needs and other wants. But, if you can't live without him. Then do the very best and love him with ALL your heart and put this behind YOU. Don't throw it up to him or it is over for the both of you. Sorry should come with IT WILL NEVER HAPPRN AGAIN. Any thing less, you have to guard your heart. But, saying all of that. Ask yourself do you need him or want him? When the need is gone so is the so-call love. Love rises higher than need. Time to love him. Or time to get out. But, first I would pray and seek someone higher than the two of us and the two of you. Get help. Standing alone is very hard and you can't trust your feelings right now because your thinking out of pain. Not a place of power or strength. You need both, and the Bible has them both. Try it!
AnswerIf your husband wants to work things out, he needs to end the affair, having absolutely no contact with this person, and if possible going to marital counseling with you. If he refuses to stop contacting this woman or renew being a full time, responsible partner in your relationship, the marriage is doomed. It doesn't matter how much you love him--if he is unwilling to take responsibility for his actions and become an honest, contributing partner to your marriage, you will eventually desire to find happiness and trust somewhere else.More importantly, do you still want to still be married to your husband or not? Feelings don't switch off the minute that trust has been broken, especially if there is a shared history and children. But while the affair may end, the issues that led to and resulted from it may last a long time. It's very possible for you and your husband to still care about the other but to have an emotional divorce from each other long before either of you decides to get a legal one.
What is the best way to dump someone you still love?
Let him go slowly. Stop answering his texts, and say you have other plans when he aska you to go places. Finally tell him its not working, but be nice about it!
What does it mean when an ex-boyfriend wants to start hanging out again?
It means it's time for you to ask him WHY he wants to... You don't need to restart something that might end you up right where you already are only more deeply hurt or set-back......
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Nothing. You did all you could and should. Your friend is an adult and has the right to make her own decisions and commit her own mistakes. I would just leave her alone. To keep pushing the issue would only cause your friendship to weaken.
How do you get back the love of your wife after you cheated?
Every night before you go to sleep tell her you love her and give her a soft kiss. If she is angry with you still do it as it makes her feel bad. Of course you don't want her to feel bad so don't over do it. On the weekends make her breakfast and in the evenings cook her dinner. Over dinner ask her how her day was and if she is feeling OK . Have a nice talk and she should regain trust. Just be a loving husband and show her that you love her.
I hope i helped :)
Signs that your boyfriend is losing interest in you?
Is he paying less attention to you? Calling or texting less? Are his conversations less talkative, more terse? When you talk to him, does he look past you as if he has other things on his mind? Does he often give excuses when you're wanting to do something? These are a few signs that he's losing interest.
How do you know if your ex still has feelings?
They will usually start coming around a lot more often. They will have a renewed interst in your activities. They will ask you if you want to do something "as friends." The big giveaway: Is when they tend to reminisce on the good times that you all once had. Good Luck!
You slept with your ex boyfriend friend?
well if you slept with your boyfriends best friend than that would be pretty lousy. you should probly tell him and apaligize. you dont want him to get the wrong story from somebody else! even thogh he mite not like it you mite beable to still be friends or some thing.
What is the country that the pampas located?
The Pampas of South America are a grassland biome. They are flat, fertile plains that covers an area of 300,000 sq. miles or 777,000 square kilometers, from the Atlantic Ocean to the Andes Mountains. It is found primarily in Argentina and extends into Uruguay.
What should a 11 yr old ask for 12 birthday from friends?
Really a 12 year old likes makeup and rings or cloths...maybe an American girl doll or my life game console (70.00 dollars) by the way...make sure you wants something up front...she may just want money!
How do you know you have stopped loving a person?
its a hard process but its easy to determen when u stop loving someone,you wont see them the same was you used to, everything they do bothers you, you start to talk to others about the stuff y'all have Ben through, you find Ur self interested in others, kissing wont have that magic spark, making love well there wont be Any because is obvious love no longer exist in that relation ship.
How do you know if a guy is going to break up with you?
When he doesnt put as much attentionto you, when he always got to leave you alone,when he dont answer his phone much, when he's uncofortable around you and many other discomforts When he doesnt put as much attentionto you, when he always got to leave you alone,when he dont answer his phone much, when he's uncofortable around you and many other discomforts
Hugging and kissing is not inherently sinful, but lust is a sin. Lust being defined as a self indulgent craving for sexual intercourse. If you can kiss your beau without lusting, then your doing just fine.
It is perfectly normal to be sexually interested in your romantic partner; if you aren't sexually interested in your beau then you are doing sometihning wrong. However lusting after a person an pursuing them in the hope of gratifying your sexual desires is sinful.
(IMHO)
What is does it mean to reject?
When someone rejects you, it means they do not choose to be with you, or they refuse to be in a serious relationship with you even though you wanted them to. It may also mean they break off a relationship and decide you are the wrong person for them. While some people refer to this as being rejected, it can also mean the time was just wrong for the two people to be together, or they really were not compatible. It may not be proof of some defect in you, but rather, just a case of one person not feeling the same way you felt.
Is it okay to date your best friends ex?
Ask your best friend tactfully how they would feel - maybe use an imaginary scenario. Then you could say something like 'So it wouldn't bother you if I asked (name) out for a drink then?'. You will probably have a good idea if your friend is still emotionally involved though in which case maybe you should leave it a while. If not then there shouldn't be a problem.
AnswerNo too close for comfort, go and find your own ground to forrage.I am a girl and my best friend used to "have relations" with this guy, now they were never dating but now me and her don't talk as much because of silly drama and if i were to date him she would think im doing it to get back at her or that im thinking about her and my intentions are bad, but i seriously like him. Idk what to do, but in my head im saying no. She confided in me and trusted that i wouldn't like him and just cause were not as close anymore doesn't mean i can like him now. be a good friend and say no...but what if its true love and im turning my back on it ahhh help me too!
How do you get back at your ex for cheating on you?
You do what would hurt the person's ego most: You act indifferent toward the breakup as if it would not take much for you to move on and find someone better. NOTHING destroys an ego more than to think your ex didn't want or need you as much as you thought. If you do things like act crazy to hurt them back, it will only AFFIRM to them that they have the ability to affect you so much and you adore them and are hurt immensely and can't recover for a long while. However, to see you go on with your life with a new person taking their place is the ULTIMATE knife in the back to a cheating ex.
Are law enforcement cameras an invasion of privacy?
That depends on where the cameras are and do they have a warrant.
If the camera is on public location and is directed to shoot the streets and not to people's homes, then they are not considered invasion of privacy.
If the camera-operator is an agent of police and has a warrant to pry a private home, then the prying is part of an ongoing investigation and must aim to a legal action to catch a criminal.
How do you text your ex girlfriend to make her come back?
If you are over her than just casually text her, like u have been best friends ur whole life. If not, don't respond you'll just make a fool out of yourself.
How can you tell somebody you dont love them anymore?
The truth always hurts, but it's best to be honest. You could say something like, "I care about you a lot, but I need some time to myself. There are things I want to see and do before I settle down." This isn't going to stop the hurt for her, but at least you will save her a bit of dignity when you leave. Thanks for being one of the good guys and caring about this woman's feelings because you could have just split and never gone back!
There is absolutely no truth in the fact men fall in love faster than women, and, in fact, it appears women (being more of the romantics) fall in and out of love (sometimes deeply and seriously) far more than men do. There is a small percentage of men that are absolutely crazy over a woman and need to win her over. From a guy: I've never heard of men falling in love faster than women, and actually, I thought it was the other way around, that men try to slow down the relationship because they fear commitment, or want to keep "playing the field." However, if men fall in love faster than women, as you claim, it could be because of the long-held belief that girls mature faster than boys, and so the men, being somewhat immature, are falling in love when they shouldn't be.
What do you say to someone who broke off a relationship with you when you want to get back together?
If a person breaks off a relationship it usually means they don't love you in the way you would like. Count your blessings that you found out now and not later. I know it hurts to not be wanted, but there are so many people out there going through what you are. We all have had to experience rejection and life doesn't always go like we want it too. Hang onto your pride and when someone doesn't want you in their life it's time to move on. If this person isn't going with anyone and there are certain circumstances that caused the split-up then take the time out to ask the person out for a coffee and sit and discuss your relationship. Once again "Communication!" The lack of communication has caused lost love and good friendships.
- It's very important that a couple communicate their feelings to each other and it's more important through that relationship than sex believe it or not. It's apparent neither of you bothered to communicate and he should have told you he needed more space, but it's true most men just don't seem to know how to express themselves and if they do try they always manage to say the wrong thing according to what some women say. The guy is in the cross-hairs. Couples should have their own individual life and go out with their friends, perhaps on a mini vacation without their mate, and keep each other as a mystery rather than always being fused at the hip. Other interests (other than cheating) are healthy in any relationship. Clingy women/men is like having a rock strung around your neck and it makes the person feel like they can't breath. Your boyfriend is extremely immature and he should have discussed his feelings. He could well be squirming out of a relationship to start up another one (if he hasn't already). I am not trying to make you feel worse, but youth can be a fickle monster and he seems to be in that category. Don't sit around moping over him and get out with friends and start dating again. Send him a clear message he has not caused a ripple in your pond and you're moving forward. If anything will bring him back that will. Word does get around and he'll know you aren't pining over him at least.
- Honesty and being open are the best policies in this situation. The only thing you can do is suck it up and talk to the person. Confrontation, while it is hard, it is much more satisfying to know then to wonder. I wouldn't wait. Too bad if hes confused. If he loved you, he would just know your the one for him. Wouldn't you? Think about it. If you really loved a man and thought hes the one, would you need space or a break? Nope. Hes letting you down easy and hes trying to end things in a gradual way as he don't have the guts to make a clean break. Don't sit and wait. You deserve better.
How do you break up with your boyfriend that used to be your best friend by a note?
It is always best to do so face to face. Be honest, straight forward, and polite. Simply tell them the truth - whether it be I'm sorry but were just not compatible as boyfriend/girlfriend - for example.
Why i want to be an accountant?
There are many reasons why someone would choose a career in accounting. If you are asked this question during an interview, answer honestly. However, it is best not to make the number one reason financial gain. Employers want to know what really drives you and why you are passionate about your career choice.
