Breakups

Generally there are reasons you fell in love with your ex boyfriend in the first place and usually those reasons are still there even after you break up-- they just aren't enough to keep you in a healthy relationship. You can love someone but it can't make up for their flaws or your needs/desires. For example I dated this guy I was head over heels for but he wanted me to be a certain way and I wanted him to change as well. In the end people don't change if they don't want to, but I think loving someone is a good motivator for change.

Some people like to have a "back up" girlfriend or boyfriend. I find that people like that are insecure and afraid of being alone so they keep someone on the side just in case it doesn't work out with the person they are dating. It could also be that this person loves keeping secrets. As I have gotten older, I have unfortunately met quite a few people who need to have a secret live away from their significant other. I don't know if it is the thrill of having a secret of a way of feeling powerful and dominant in their current relationship. Whatever the reason, the only thing that is a fact is that the person who is "on the side" is the one being taken advatage of. If someone cheats on their significant other with you, if you become their future significant other they will cheat on you too. If he really loved you, he would want to be with you completely and in public. This person does not know what real love is or they do not know how to love someone well. The person being betrayed and the one they are betraying with are both victims. Stop taking the calls!!

You need to see a counselor with your parents and see if they can work things out. You could tell them how it is affecting you and your life.

and if that doesn't work you can also try just speaking to them in each at a different time so maybe just try my advice

Well Taurus man are considered to be the nicest zodiac caracter and women love their attention and devotion. He does not tell you how he feels, he just do things to show you or prove you he really loves you but that happens only when happy in a relationship. Taurus men are stubborn and very true, so if he dumped you maybe you should just accept it or if you really love him, just give him some time. REMEMBER Zodiac signs are just another way humans found to find answers and feel safe about life, it is not right all the time.

if your " obsessive bf" if he does something that annoys you say buh~bye~ cause he is more attenionitive to other things than you

Answer Five small words doesn't tell us much to be able to answer your question. You have to be more to the point and that being said, only you would know why you would want to break up with your Fiance, we don't have crystal balls that tell us what's happening in your life.

If your Girlfriend is mad at you then you need to do everything you can to try and make up for it. Don't suffocate her with to much affection if she is extremely mad but calmly sit there and talk to her. Oh and this whole thing with use the "I" word and "You" it really works. Don't blame her. Instead of saying well you need to change. say well maybe there is some things that I need to work on. or maybe we could work on together. NEVER BLAME HER! Just love her that is what any girl would want. I know that when I'm mad at my boyfriend that even if I'm really mad when he holds e and tells me he loves me it all melts away. So try it!

Well if he knows that you know you tell him that he's a jerk. And if he doesn't know that you know, you go and find some other guy. And when he asks you why you're with this other guy say, "If you're going to lie to me that you like me, you're not good enough for me." because you are so much better than guys like that.

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Answer

Revenge is never worth it and will only bring bad things back to you. Move on and be happy.

No definitive answer can be given. Unless filed as an "emergency" action, the hearing will be added to the court's docket and assigned a hearing date in the norml course of events.

No one can control you unless you allow it! Stop! Tell this guy to take a hike! Learn to be more independent and start going out with friends and getting back into the dating circuit again and don't sit around letting him dictate when and if he'll see you.

i don't know if it's too late...but im as piscean as a piscean woman can get.

and here's what i think.

first of all...

she should have no clue u want her back in the frst place.

don't call

don't

do whatever it takes to make her think ure over her

that will make her question her feminine powers-her feminity

the biggest mind boggle fr a Pisces female, since she's lived every second of her life knowing her feminity is her biggest strength/weapon wen it comes to men.

to push it, start dating other ppl.

and please, make sure they're incredibly attractive.

like i said- that is the kind of thing that will make her wonder (atleast once) -'was i not good enough?- is she better?'

and at that point she wants to do nothing more than prove to herself and to u that she's degfinitely the best u've had (not that u disagree;>)

start looking good

tone up.

grow your hair.

the more artistic-erotic you look- she's going to start thinking of u from the physical point of view. and with Pisces female the physical point of view easily permeates into the mental being- and she'll want to translate these desires into action-and once in action- i truly believe if u can blow a Pisces mind in bed- she see's it more than sex- she see's physical intimacy as the ultimate expression of compatibility- so if she's blown she's going to start thinkiong there' more to it...

and that is when the possibilities of getting back arise in her membrane.

and i repeat- at no point should she even doubt you may be looking to get her back

if she sniffs victory- she'll never come back

if she senses indifference (emotionally and physically) she'll try and put all her womanly weapons to effect you.

but mate...

really-

also depends why u guys broke up in the frst place

if uve cheated on a Pisces girl

there's no hope

if physical relation has gone boring

there's no hope

anything else- there's repair chances.

also- try being the man she always wanted you to be-BUT WITH ANOTHER WOMAN.

if she was with u

she definitely loved you- just that she wanted things a bit different. so u guys broke up.

so if she sees- the man she once loved has now also the man she always wanted him to be (though its a pretense), and another woman is getting her dream package- she'll come around my friend...

phew...

lmme know if i can tell u anything specific about our peculiar breed.

cheers.

hope u win her back

but then again- if u cheated on her- i hope u suffer.

goodnight!

You tell her bad things about her and start to ignore her. You ask her for her virginity. You call her once every two minutes, you need to hang out with her mom. And you have stalk her even if she doesn't want you to. You need to abandeon when she needs you the most. Then you kick her, or she will kick you. Or you'll kick at the same time, it happend to me.

Just act pudgy. Talk to her and ask her for a beer. Just be creepy and suspicious. Most girls like a man with mean badboy attitude. It is very easy for you to be hated by girls if you don't have attitude problems. Just ask her for a beer and treat her badly.

To get a girlfriend or to make a girl like you all you have to do is be mean to her and critisize her. Tell her you hate her hair or f off you dumpster on getting an a on that quiz, something other than i like your hair. Another way to make a girl like you is to joke about her and make her cry. If you look at her a lot she might get the hint that your into another girl so if you look at her than when she notices you you should frown instead of just looking gay. ignore her like shes your friend and flip her off at here make her feel welcome. talk about sexual things in front of her, it makes her horny and girls like that. Being rude is the number 1 way to get a girl. So call her text her every minute and stalk her. For a violent evening go to a military school.

First if you don't make it obvious tell her you think shes ugly or some other lame complement depending on the girl. Then if she's not stunned she'll probobly act differently around you and that's the que for you to hang out with her for a while. hang out with her every chance you get every day, unless you know she likes that.

either because of two things.

one because they honestly only saw that person as a friend and thought they were a great friend.

or two.

that the ex girlfriend still likes the guy and hopes that if they stay friends and see each other often then they still might have an opportunity to get back together(because she might still like him)

1.He will stare at you. 2.He will find reasons to touch your hands. 3.He will talk to you a lot. 4.He will laugh at all of your jokes whether their good or not. 5.He will act nicer to you than to other girls. 6.He will constantly compliment you. 7.He will get jealous when you talk about other boys around him. 8.He will defend you when someone picks on you.

Laugh when you hear them and start spreading even worse ones to be funny. We all have to go through rumors (good/bad) by people as some people are just troublemakers, jealous or mean spirited. Those that are your true friends and know you both won't believe the rumors and those that can't think with their own brain and realize the rumors are just rumors aren't worth keeping as so called friends. It's called 'Shaking the old apple tree' and this lets you both see what rotten apples fall to the ground. Let these people that have started the rumors hang themselves! Pull out the popcorn, sit back and relax and watch the noose tighten around their own necks. I've just gone through something similar from a long time female friend of 30 years and that's exactly what I've done. My true friends knew it wasn't true and have left her and now she has only two friends left. She got the message loud and clear!

it means she needs space so give it some time .

WELL IT'S A LITTLE TRICKY QUESTION BECAUSE EVERY CASE IS INDIVIUAL. THERE ARE TWO THINGS THAT I'VE NOTICE WORKS LIKE A CHARM BUT THERE HAS TO BE SOME INTEREST STILL IN YOUR EX IN ORDER FOR IT TO WORK EVEN A LITTLE. FIRST THE MOST OBVIOUS ACT LIKE YOU ALREADY HAVE SOMEONE. MEN TEND TO BE FOR THE MOST PART POSSESIVE AND HENCE FORTH WHEN THEY THINK SOMETHING OF THERES IS BEING THREATEN SOME REACT ON INSTINCT LIKE GETTING JEALOUS. THE SECOND IS ACT LIKE YOU JUST DON'T CARE, DEPENDING ON THE WAY YOU'VE PERSUDE THE RELATIONSHIP AFTER THE BREAK IF HE SUDDENLY SEE'S A CHANGE IN YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARDS HIM IT WILL ALSO TRIGGER A REACTION OF "WHATS WRONG, WHY THE CHANGE?" IT WILL SPARK HIS ATTENTION AT LEAST, BUT ALL DEPENDING ON THE INTEREST ON THE PART OF THE GUY. THE DRAW BACKS CAN BE, ONE IF HE IS STILL A LITTLE INTERESTED AND THINKS YOUR WITH SOMEONE ELSE CAN SAY FORGET IT SHE'S OVER ME OR IF SHE FORGOT ME SO QUICK IT'S NOT WORTH IT. TWO IF YOU IGNORE HIM TO MUCH HE'LL THINK THEN I'LL FORGET HER OR IF HE'S NOT THE LEAST BIT INTERESTED IN YOU HE JUST WON'T CARE OR BE GLAD. LIKE I GIVE YOU THE POSITIVE I ALSO GIVE YOU THE NEGATIVE. IT'S UP TO YOU WHAT YOU DECIDE AND I'M JUST GIVING MY VERY PERSONAL OPINION WHICH MAY NOT BE RIGHT. BE VERY CAUSIOU IN WHAT YOU DECIDE AND REMEMBER LOVE IS NOT BEGGED IT'S GIVEN FREELY IF IT'S TRUE AND SINCERE. GOOD LUCK BYE BYE.

• If you really sit down and think about it you have without a doubt lied to someone and it does not matter if it was to save someone's feelings or, to get out of a mess you may have gotten yourself into. As long as it is not lying about cheating on you then realize everyone lies to a degree and some people choose to call them 'white lies.' If this is not a lie about cheating then yes, you can trust that person, but learn better communication skills which means talking over any problems you may have and be honest and agree to disagree. If it is about cheating then cheating once can be forgiven depending on the personality of that person, but if they have cheated more than once they will cheat on you again.

Dreams are produced by the subconscious mind, which does not always recognize or accept the actions and decisions of the conscious (waking) mind. Just as the emotions might long for the ex for a while after a breakup, sometimes it just takes the subconscious more time to adjust. Other times, the ex remains in dreams as a cartoon or avatar, merely representing "sexy person," without much connection with the actual person.

You may subconsciously miss them a lot more than you are willing to admit.

Maybe because deep down you don't want to hate her. You want to be best friends with her. Dreams usually show your desires.

Some men take it differently. They can take it just as a girl takes it: hard. well, the men that usually make the break-up, and it is not you as a girl, the man can take it quite well sometimes