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How can you get your Pisces woman back im a Gemini man?

i don't know if it's too late...but im as piscean as a piscean woman can get.

and here's what i think.

first of all...

she should have no clue u want her back in the frst place.

don't call

don't

do whatever it takes to make her think ure over her

that will make her question her feminine powers-her feminity

the biggest mind boggle fr a Pisces female, since she's lived every second of her life knowing her feminity is her biggest strength/weapon wen it comes to men.

to push it, start dating other ppl.

and please, make sure they're incredibly attractive.

like i said- that is the kind of thing that will make her wonder (atleast once) -'was i not good enough?- is she better?'

and at that point she wants to do nothing more than prove to herself and to u that she's degfinitely the best u've had (not that u disagree;>)

start looking good

tone up.

grow your hair.

the more artistic-erotic you look- she's going to start thinking of u from the physical point of view. and with Pisces female the physical point of view easily permeates into the mental being- and she'll want to translate these desires into action-and once in action- i truly believe if u can blow a Pisces mind in bed- she see's it more than sex- she see's physical intimacy as the ultimate expression of compatibility- so if she's blown she's going to start thinkiong there' more to it...

and that is when the possibilities of getting back arise in her membrane.

and i repeat- at no point should she even doubt you may be looking to get her back

if she sniffs victory- she'll never come back

if she senses indifference (emotionally and physically) she'll try and put all her womanly weapons to effect you.

but mate...

really-

also depends why u guys broke up in the frst place

if uve cheated on a Pisces girl

there's no hope

if physical relation has gone boring

there's no hope

anything else- there's repair chances.

also- try being the man she always wanted you to be-BUT WITH ANOTHER WOMAN.

if she was with u

she definitely loved you- just that she wanted things a bit different. so u guys broke up.

so if she sees- the man she once loved has now also the man she always wanted him to be (though its a pretense), and another woman is getting her dream package- she'll come around my friend...

phew...

lmme know if i can tell u anything specific about our peculiar breed.

cheers.

hope u win her back

but then again- if u cheated on her- i hope u suffer.

goodnight!

How do you overcome loneliness when you break up?

I have just had my heart broken and know how you feel.The only advice i can give is the advice i keep drilling into my mind everyday for the past 4 weeks - get out there and meet new people.it will take your mind off your heartache.just remember that you wont be lonely forever,its just the initial shock of loosing someone and your whole routine is messed up because that person left you and not only do you have to deal with a broken heart but you also have to deal with the overwhelming feeling of loneliness,i know exactly how you feel and the only thing that i can say to you is see your family more,get more involved with your friends again and build up a new routine and eventually the one you had with your partner will fade and you will no longer feel the isolating feeling of loneliness.Maybe you could talk up a hobby or get more involved with work or whatever you are doing right now,you juse need a few months to settle down again and the feeling of loneliness will go away,ive been through it before now and i was fine after a while.you will do fine,you only need yourself to live your life!

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You find other things to do that you havent done before. You change your scenery or the place you live, decor wise. You evolve as a mature person and deal with the fact that that part of your life is done and now you must move on. I am sorry that your heart has been broken but better to known love when you had it then not at all. There is more love out there and I know it will take you a while to get through this. Humans are creatures of comfort and habit so when those things which made of comfortable and were constant are changed we withdraw and get scared. Understandable, but there is so much more to you then being defined by another. You have talents that no one else has, you have ways about you that no one else has, you have ideas all your own, you have choices you can make that no one can take from you. Grab life and take a ride to make yourself who you are. At the end of everyday, whether we are in a relationship or alone we still can only depend on ourselves, to have others in our lives only makes it more interesting. Be good to yourself and go out and do something right now for yourself. Go and buy yourself something or buy something for a homeless person. You may not have someone to share your house with but that person has even less.......

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I just wanted to thank you both for the answers, I couldn't stop crying thinking of the answers posted, it's very thoughtful. And tremendously helpful. I will definitely take it on. My situation is worsened by the fact that he actually cheated on me and then because he feels too guilty he doesn't want me back. It is absolutely awful. I have asked him back endlessly as I still love him. It's very hard to let go. I feel like I am stuck in the middle, I love him so much that on my not-so-good-days (which is frequent) if he asked me back I might (it's a very slim chance but I can daydream right?) and on my good days, I think how much I should move on because he doesn't deserve me. I think to myself, the best revenge is to show him I have moved on. Anyway, THANK YOU so much for your answers, you have made my day :)

How do you break up with a boy?

love lifeSay things are not working between us. If he asks why tell him but don't list things so much that it bores him to death!Tell him the important things you don't like about him as a boyfriend so it can help him be an even better one in the future. Tell him your just not the one that your looking for and one day he may find someone better than you and that, that person may complete him and maybe herself too. Do not tell him that you love him or care for him because then a lot of drama will come in between. Plus NEVERunder any circumstances tell im you could just be friends until you know for SURE that he is over you. Best way to finish rightYou have to be honest and sincere. Try not to be mean and hurt his feelings while breaking up with him. Think of key points why you dont want to be him so in the future he can build on these weakness and become a better man. WHAT I THINK YOU SHOULD DO
First, tell him why you want to break up, then let it down lightly for him. And, if possible, tell him you still want to be friends. If he is the understandable type. if he is the abusive type, get help now. Or things can only get worse.

How to quit a girlfriend?

You tell her bad things about her and start to ignore her. You ask her for her virginity. You call her once every two minutes, you need to hang out with her mom. And you have stalk her even if she doesn't want you to. You need to abandeon when she needs you the most. Then you kick her, or she will kick you. Or you'll kick at the same time, it happend to me.

Just act pudgy. Talk to her and ask her for a beer. Just be creepy and suspicious. Most girls like a man with mean badboy attitude. It is very easy for you to be hated by girls if you don't have attitude problems. Just ask her for a beer and treat her badly.

To get a girlfriend or to make a girl like you all you have to do is be mean to her and critisize her. Tell her you hate her hair or f off you dumpster on getting an a on that quiz, something other than i like your hair. Another way to make a girl like you is to joke about her and make her cry. If you look at her a lot she might get the hint that your into another girl so if you look at her than when she notices you you should frown instead of just looking gay. ignore her like shes your friend and flip her off at here make her feel welcome. talk about sexual things in front of her, it makes her horny and girls like that. Being rude is the number 1 way to get a girl. So call her text her every minute and stalk her. For a violent evening go to a military school.

First if you don't make it obvious tell her you think shes ugly or some other lame complement depending on the girl. Then if she's not stunned she'll probobly act differently around you and that's the que for you to hang out with her for a while. hang out with her every chance you get every day, unless you know she likes that.

Why does your ex want to stay friends?

either because of two things.

one because they honestly only saw that person as a friend and thought they were a great friend.

or two.

that the ex girlfriend still likes the guy and hopes that if they stay friends and see each other often then they still might have an opportunity to get back together(because she might still like him)

Signs if a boy is in love with you?

1.He will stare at you. 2.He will find reasons to touch your hands. 3.He will talk to you a lot. 4.He will laugh at all of your jokes whether their good or not. 5.He will act nicer to you than to other girls. 6.He will constantly compliment you. 7.He will get jealous when you talk about other boys around him. 8.He will defend you when someone picks on you.

What do you do about false rumors spread about you and your ex?

Laugh when you hear them and start spreading even worse ones to be funny. We all have to go through rumors (good/bad) by people as some people are just troublemakers, jealous or mean spirited. Those that are your true friends and know you both won't believe the rumors and those that can't think with their own brain and realize the rumors are just rumors aren't worth keeping as so called friends. It's called 'Shaking the old apple tree' and this lets you both see what rotten apples fall to the ground. Let these people that have started the rumors hang themselves! Pull out the popcorn, sit back and relax and watch the noose tighten around their own necks. I've just gone through something similar from a long time female friend of 30 years and that's exactly what I've done. My true friends knew it wasn't true and have left her and now she has only two friends left. She got the message loud and clear!

How can you get your ex boyfriend jealious?

WELL IT'S A LITTLE TRICKY QUESTION BECAUSE EVERY CASE IS INDIVIUAL. THERE ARE TWO THINGS THAT I'VE NOTICE WORKS LIKE A CHARM BUT THERE HAS TO BE SOME INTEREST STILL IN YOUR EX IN ORDER FOR IT TO WORK EVEN A LITTLE. FIRST THE MOST OBVIOUS ACT LIKE YOU ALREADY HAVE SOMEONE. MEN TEND TO BE FOR THE MOST PART POSSESIVE AND HENCE FORTH WHEN THEY THINK SOMETHING OF THERES IS BEING THREATEN SOME REACT ON INSTINCT LIKE GETTING JEALOUS. THE SECOND IS ACT LIKE YOU JUST DON'T CARE, DEPENDING ON THE WAY YOU'VE PERSUDE THE RELATIONSHIP AFTER THE BREAK IF HE SUDDENLY SEE'S A CHANGE IN YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARDS HIM IT WILL ALSO TRIGGER A REACTION OF "WHATS WRONG, WHY THE CHANGE?" IT WILL SPARK HIS ATTENTION AT LEAST, BUT ALL DEPENDING ON THE INTEREST ON THE PART OF THE GUY. THE DRAW BACKS CAN BE, ONE IF HE IS STILL A LITTLE INTERESTED AND THINKS YOUR WITH SOMEONE ELSE CAN SAY FORGET IT SHE'S OVER ME OR IF SHE FORGOT ME SO QUICK IT'S NOT WORTH IT. TWO IF YOU IGNORE HIM TO MUCH HE'LL THINK THEN I'LL FORGET HER OR IF HE'S NOT THE LEAST BIT INTERESTED IN YOU HE JUST WON'T CARE OR BE GLAD. LIKE I GIVE YOU THE POSITIVE I ALSO GIVE YOU THE NEGATIVE. IT'S UP TO YOU WHAT YOU DECIDE AND I'M JUST GIVING MY VERY PERSONAL OPINION WHICH MAY NOT BE RIGHT. BE VERY CAUSIOU IN WHAT YOU DECIDE AND REMEMBER LOVE IS NOT BEGGED IT'S GIVEN FREELY IF IT'S TRUE AND SINCERE. GOOD LUCK BYE BYE.

Can you really believe some one who has lied to you in the past?

  • If you really sit down and think about it you have without a doubt lied to someone and it does not matter if it was to save someone's feelings or, to get out of a mess you may have gotten yourself into. As long as it is not lying about cheating on you then realize everyone lies to a degree and some people choose to call them 'white lies.' If this is not a lie about cheating then yes, you can trust that person, but learn better communication skills which means talking over any problems you may have and be honest and agree to disagree. If it is about cheating then cheating once can be forgiven depending on the personality of that person, but if they have cheated more than once they will cheat on you again.

Why do you dream your ex boyfriend girlfriend?

Dreams are produced by the subconscious mind, which does not always recognize or accept the actions and decisions of the conscious (waking) mind. Just as the emotions might long for the ex for a while after a breakup, sometimes it just takes the subconscious more time to adjust. Other times, the ex remains in dreams as a cartoon or avatar, merely representing "sexy person," without much connection with the actual person.

You may subconsciously miss them a lot more than you are willing to admit.

What does it mean if i dream about my boyfriends ex girlfriend being good friends with me?

Maybe because deep down you don't want to hate her. You want to be best friends with her. Dreams usually show your desires.

How do girls handle breakups?

Some men take it differently. They can take it just as a girl takes it: hard. well, the men that usually make the break-up, and it is not you as a girl, the man can take it quite well sometimes

How can i tell her i don't want to see her anymore?

there is no easy painless way of doing this. Be honest but kind, tell her how you feel i.e that you are growing apart from her, not feeling the same as her, but don't blame her for the way you feell. Tel her that just because you feel this way doesn't mean that you don't think she is a very special person or very lovable. One thing that I would however suggest is that once you have made up your mind that you make it very clear that it is over leaving no room for her to misunderstand your intention to leave her as this leaves the door open to guilt and manipulation.. Don't contact her for a few weeks to see how she is doing however guilty or sorry you feel- she feels worse and there is nothing worse than pity when you have been dumped espeically off the dumper.

Why has he gone back to his ex girlfriend after she hurt him so badly?

There can be many reasons i guy would go back to his ex, most of them don't involve you. First, I guy could have just broken up with his ex over something stupid and now regrets it. If you'd started going out with him pretty soon afterwards then he might not have had enough time to realize it was not over between them. Or she could have broken up with him and she was his first real love. Maybe what you two have is so new to him that he just wanted to go back to something he new.

Either way don't beat yourself up about it or wait by the phone. If it's meant to be with you two then let it go and it will happen. Just don't put your life on hold because Mr. right could be right around the corner.

Are narcissists jealous?

Know the difference between jealousy and envy.

Narcissists are inherently jealous; they dislike when others think someone else is better than them. However, narcissists are not envious because they believe that they are better than everyone else... envy goes against everything a narcissist is.

What if you still like you ex-boyfriend?

You need to remember that you broke up with them for a reason, and if they broke up with you, you need to relieze that they caused you pain. It may be hard to get over someone, but if you put your mind to it then it'll work out. try to focus on other things and the feelings will eventually eaze away.

When is your next birthday?

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What to do when a couple breaks up because she wanted to be independent for awhile but tells you she still loves you a lot and that you should try to move on but you want her back because you love her?

Don't listen. If you've been together in a loving relationship that long, and then she wants to leave you, she never had interest. Don't allow her to "take some time off" without getting an exact reason why. If she's cheated before or if there is a HIGH chance she's unfaithful, then she only wants away to hook up with someone. Ask and find out. If she won't answer, ask her family. Find out if it's a personal problem of hers or if she's mad at you. Just don't blame yourself.

My girlfriend is bi and she is in love with me and another girl What do I do?

Basically this is a yucky situation. The fact that your girlfriend is bisexual is irrelevant; if she were straight and were in love with your male best friend, you'd be in the same boat.

It sounds like you are not okay with the situation. Some relationships might be negotiated to allow this kind of situation, but you are obviously not open to this situation. You simply have to tell your girlfriend that you need more of a monogamous relationship. It's okay for you two to love each other but also decide not to stay together.

If your friend has expressed interest in your girlfriend back, then your friend has betrayed you. If she has not, or doesn't know, then there is no need to raise any of these issues with her. If she has, you should tell your friend that she has betrayed you (how and why), and that you are mad. Whether you two can reconcile depends on where you go from there and how you feel.

Why do men take breaks and need their space from the women they love?

Sometimes they may feel overwhelmed and not ready for such a commitment, there could be someone else, they could be rethinking the relationship, they could feel smothered if they are not "allowed" to do things they enjoy, issues outside the relationship but feel its getting in the way or can't offer the time they would like to it - among their own personal reasons. Whatever the case may be when they need a break this would indicate there is something going on with them or bothering them with their current situation whether it be with the relationship or not. Its best to allow them their time and space and if/when they are ready they may come back around to talk or they may not - try not to put pressure on them as there is already something.

Is it common for abusive ex-boyfriends to show up a lot out of the blue when you're out and ignore you?

Yes it is because they are an abusive nature. They treated you like garbage, yet in their own twisted way they did care about you. Abusers are about control and even though he may be running all over town he doesn't like the idea of another guy having you and sure hates the thought you may have become independent and found someone you actually love. He's keeping an eye on you! If this abusive ex keeps turning up in too many places and bothers you in anyway it's called "harrassment or stalking" and you can never be too careful. There isn't much you can do if he turns up at a public place, but if he phones you, turns up where you live or bothers any of your friends you can nail his butt! Be careful! NEVER underestimate an abuser or a person of a quiet nature. They may fade off into the sunset and leave you alone, but many can come back and harm you and some, will even become so enraged they can attack and kill. Still waters run deep! I suggest you change where you hang out if they are place you both use to frequent. Good luck Marcy

Why would a guys ex girlfriend talk to him?

if the boy broke up wiff her; she wants to be friends or more than friends.

if she broke up wiff him; she wants to be friend, get backk, or make another boy jealous.

Can you get married twice?

yes u can marry twice or more ex in some state u can get married once and get married again while till married with 1st wife

Should you break up with your boyfriend?

i need some help... i am 15 and i have been dating this guy for about three years. hes amazing but is it time to take a break?

if you truly love him and he is good to u then he is a keeper ;)

i think that if he's amazing and you guys have lasted 3 years you are VERY lucky to have found him, but on the contrary if you do not feel need to be with him there is no point in telling yourself you still like him. There is no point in holding onto a relationship that is going nowhere, and the longer you stay together the harder it will be to break up.

if you are getting bored or there are no sparks, of course.
Should you brake up with yourboyfriend This is a tough thing to do and can be scary and upsetting ,but if you are unhappy or being abused then yes! If you are unsure and you and your boyfriend are having problems that can be resolved try talk to him about it. If this fails and you see your relationship going nowhere then you maby should consider braking up, because there is more then one guy out there and you can find someone else and as hard as that may sound you will! So just think about about the reason why you want to brake up and see if they can be resolved if you want try make it work, if its going nowhere and your unhappy then end it.

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