Breakups

If you love your sister then you should be advised to stay away from her boyfriend. She will never forgive you if you act on these feelings and he will not respect you. He could be getting his kicks off just thinking about the score he could tell his friends about if he made it w/ the both of you.

Break up with the one sister and go out with the other sister. You deserve to be happy!

It's hard to forget them sometimes but other times it's easy. When I broke up it was easy. But when you love I'm not sure but you just have to forget. You know what they say when you really love him set him free.

just give him the space he needs .. much better if you will gave him the Universe. ='p

In my opinion and experience, he wants to be with other people without you around. Whether its just to experience life alone b/c he was previously involved in another relationship and didn't get that chance, or b/c they want to experience life without you to see which is more important or enjoyable to him. Maybe, he already has found someone else and this will give him the chance to see if it can go somewhere better with them, than with you. Sometimes, they just want to be with the guys, but usually if those guys are cheaters, he will follow their lead. Some want the best of both worlds and just don't want to be lying to you about what they are doing, so taking a break gives him the chance to be free without hurting you. Guilt-free freedom. The best of both worlds. Just my opinion. That previous answer was great and full of possibilities. This is just one man's point of view, "kick him to the curb." He's more than likely looking for a way out without seeming like a "Bad Guy". It's hard sometimes to just say it's over, sooooo....Hey here's an answer: "I NEED MY SPACE". So give his space, preferrably outer space.Les Give it to him! I went through this. Give him his space! And be matter a fact about it. No questions ask. Don't act needy or sad or pouty. And make sure he knows that you are fine and doing fine without him! Keep yourself busy too. Change the way you look as well. If you wanted to go straight or curly or you've always wanted to get streaks (flattering of course) then get them. Look good for you and keep an active social life. I did all of this and he came back and even went as far as finally bringing me home to meet his family to show me how much he was ready to commit. We were dating for a few years and he never brought me home. He just needed a swift kick in the pants, a reality check that he could actually loose me to someone else. I looked good, I made him believe that I was feeling great even though I missed him. And it tore him up. Now the risk with this is that he is in fact seeing someone else (which I believe my guy wanted to do but didn't want to cheat on me so he "needed his space.") This could drive him to her but chances are if he really loves you, like my guy loves me, he will have second thoughts and not want to lose you.

It sounds like your efforts might be better spent learning how to move on. The end of relationships are terribly difficult, but sometime's there's not a lot you can do. If your ex-boyfriend finds his way back to you, it will be of his own accord and in his own time. If he doesn't, you're free to move on a find another person with which to share your life.

Shes obviously hanging on to him for some reason, if she wanted you 100% she would have left him, you cant make her do it, its her choice. you cant "get her" to leave him, if she really wanted to be with you, she'd have left him ages ago..

send a letter I think you just say - I'm so sorry this has gotten out of hand and let's just agree to disagree and be friends again. If it's a fight where you really are in the wrong, agknowledge it and say "Sorry if I hurt you"

It's because they have nothing better to do but mess around with girls.

I'm fairly sure some, if not most, of those times when guys do that are accidental (I'm sure i'd never do it on purpose anyway and I'm a guy)

That's like answering the age old question "describe what love is." It just happens when two people fall in love. The chemistry is right and I do believe in auras. Auras surround every living thing, and that's also makes us dislike or like a person immediately. They are using auras in medical science and under the right conditions find in what area the body is imbalanced and that something is wrong medically. When I met my second husband I was walking on clouds, and the whole world looked more colorful and I had the world at my finger tips. Even my job went better and I felt better inside. When Fridays came I could hardly wait to see him for the weekend and he and I would team up with our friends and go to night clubs and dance the night away and then go water-skiing, etc., and had the time of our lives. It's wanting to be so close to each other that even if you had sexual relations that even doesn't seem close enough. That's the only way I can describe it. I still love to see my husband after 33 years. If he's been away on a fishing trip for 3 - 4 days, the first day or 2 I love my privacy and I can do what I want to do, but after that I really miss him and feel there is a hole in our domain and I can hardly wait until he gets home. Mother Nature is always right there with you and when you're truly in love you'll know it! Good luck Marcy

I hate to say it, but it means he doesn't really like you. Men still have those cavemen instincts--when they want something, they go after it, and there ain't nothin that's gonna get in his way lol. I'm sure he does like you to a point, but if he were really into you, he'd never take a risk that you might find someone else and say that he wants to be single.

My advice is to find someone else. You sound like a fabulous girl, and trust me, there are plenty of fish in the sea and there is a guy out there who will be sooooo into you he'd never wanna leave your side for a second, much less say he wants to be single and risk watchin you walk out the door for good. I know it hurts to hear it, but if he really was into you he would not be saying that.

Best of luck my dear

It depends on how you feel about that person and how they feel about you. Think about why the relationship ended the first time, could the same problem happen again? If you broke up because he treated you badly then he might do it again.

If it's not like that and you really believe that it could work then you should go for it.

No, he had a grilfriend named Dolly Christ but they broke up.

u can check on a profile page of ur crush's if that person has one. or u can just keep an eye on that person to see if that person is flirting with anybody or if ur crush is keeping an eye on anybody. u can also ask ur friends if they know any gossip going around about ur crush.

that's pretty much all i can think of...

so...

My hurting friend, I am a disabled Nam vet with many scars on my heart from the exact thing you speak of. Because you care, there is no "cure", but I found the best I could do is maintain the frindship from a distance for a while, and kindle a new "Love" with someone else. That is the only thing that will push the hurt out of your heart. If your Friend is truly a friend, they will be happy that you are happy. Much luck and God bless you.

You can't! No one can make anybody be happy. That person has to want to be. If you are in a relationship where you are constantly trying to please someone and failing then perhaps it's time to move on. In a healthy relationship, people try to please each other. If it's all one sided, then it's not a good relationship. Move on! You can do better!

First off you have to be brutally honest with yourself and ask yourself what problems the 2 of you had and why the break-up. If you fought all the time, and either you or your boyfriend didn't want to share, then it's not a good relationship. If he cheated on you, flirted with your girlfriends, was out with his buddies too much and never kept dates with you, then consider yourself lucky and don't go back. If he's a nice guy, then I'd call him and ask if you could meet somewhere. Communication is everything and so tell him you still care about him and realize you both have to work at your relationship and you're willing to give it your best shot. Whether dating someone or marriage or even friendships we all have to work at each one of these to make them work. If he doesn't want to get back together please don't take it to heart, but realize there is someone else out there much better suited to you. Good luck Marcy

Perhaps it means that it is nice to see you?

If you had a good relationship then it might be nice to see you again after some time . . . .

If he is not actually flirting, he is probably just being courteous and letting you know there are no ill feelings after the breakup.

If you are old enough to ask this question then you need to practice good communication skills. You have been together long enough where you both should feel free to discuss any problem you have in your relationship. You may be pushing the relationship too fast for her. If you haven't had a sexual relationship and you want it to start she may not be ready for this. If you are talking about a future with her then she may want to stay independent for awhile longer. She holds the key to your question so start by learning how to communicate and you do that by simply asking her what she means by that comment.

* You don't! He has chosen the girl he wants to be with for however long they choose to go together and the right thing to do is wait to see if they split up on their own accord and that's when you ask him out and not before.

They dont break-up with you!! or they ask for you back. THey obviously dont like you if they broke up with you in the first place.

One of my favourite quotes: "The psychotic believes that 2 + 2 =5. The neurotic knows that 2 + 2 =4, but hates it."

It's defined as someone who is obsessive, anxious, and/or depressed but only to a milder extent than someone who is clinically mentally ill. Neurosis does not involve hallucinations or delusions as in psychotic illnesses. The person may act irritably or anxiously, seem wound up and on edge. They tend to be quite sensitive.

When someone does not want you but you want them, you must take back your power and not want them any more, I know that's not easy! but if he was meant for you then you would still be together, if not then he's not meant for you! It's nothing about you or what you have or have not done! It's just not meant to be! so take back your emotional power and move on!Nothing has any power over you other than that of which you give it!

Improved Answer:

Whether you two are meant to be or not is not easy to determine. Many people will give you different views and opinions.

It takes two to acknowledge each other. From your question I assume that you are willing and possibly still have feelings for him. Whether he still has feelings for you and how strong they are is something that needs to be answered.

How you get your boyfriend back rests a lot on what type of person he is, what happened between you two, what was the cause of the breakup, was it a friendly breakup, was he and were you influenced by others etc etc.

Personally I know many guys that are simply very stubborn or very scared to make a comeback. Judging by many posts by women from what I have read, I don't particularly blame them. I think it is important to always leave a 'small gap in the door', do not totally close it. At the end of the day, don't we all want to be happy? Closing the door could take one possibility of that away.

You might want to try and give your boyfriend and yourself some time after the breakup. Hopefully still being in some form of contact for a short time immediately after the breakup. For everyone the amount of time suitable is different for each individual, therefore it might be best to think about how much time your friend needs.

I hope you two have the "relationship tools" you need to fix and build up a happy bond together.

Good Luck.

The same reason men fall out of love. People get bored "the honeymoon stage" is over. Butterflies fade away, but that doesn't mean your not in love anymore. I think if you truly love someone, you always will even if it is just a little bit. When the "honeymoon stage" is over try new things, a different sexy look to wow your significant other.