Breakups

u can check on a profile page of ur crush's if that person has one. or u can just keep an eye on that person to see if that person is flirting with anybody or if ur crush is keeping an eye on anybody. u can also ask ur friends if they know any gossip going around about ur crush.

that's pretty much all i can think of...

so...

My hurting friend, I am a disabled Nam vet with many scars on my heart from the exact thing you speak of. Because you care, there is no "cure", but I found the best I could do is maintain the frindship from a distance for a while, and kindle a new "Love" with someone else. That is the only thing that will push the hurt out of your heart. If your Friend is truly a friend, they will be happy that you are happy. Much luck and God bless you.

You can't! No one can make anybody be happy. That person has to want to be. If you are in a relationship where you are constantly trying to please someone and failing then perhaps it's time to move on. In a healthy relationship, people try to please each other. If it's all one sided, then it's not a good relationship. Move on! You can do better!

First off you have to be brutally honest with yourself and ask yourself what problems the 2 of you had and why the break-up. If you fought all the time, and either you or your boyfriend didn't want to share, then it's not a good relationship. If he cheated on you, flirted with your girlfriends, was out with his buddies too much and never kept dates with you, then consider yourself lucky and don't go back. If he's a nice guy, then I'd call him and ask if you could meet somewhere. Communication is everything and so tell him you still care about him and realize you both have to work at your relationship and you're willing to give it your best shot. Whether dating someone or marriage or even friendships we all have to work at each one of these to make them work. If he doesn't want to get back together please don't take it to heart, but realize there is someone else out there much better suited to you. Good luck Marcy

Perhaps it means that it is nice to see you?

If you had a good relationship then it might be nice to see you again after some time . . . .

If he is not actually flirting, he is probably just being courteous and letting you know there are no ill feelings after the breakup.

If you are old enough to ask this question then you need to practice good communication skills. You have been together long enough where you both should feel free to discuss any problem you have in your relationship. You may be pushing the relationship too fast for her. If you haven't had a sexual relationship and you want it to start she may not be ready for this. If you are talking about a future with her then she may want to stay independent for awhile longer. She holds the key to your question so start by learning how to communicate and you do that by simply asking her what she means by that comment.

* You don't! He has chosen the girl he wants to be with for however long they choose to go together and the right thing to do is wait to see if they split up on their own accord and that's when you ask him out and not before.

They dont break-up with you!! or they ask for you back. THey obviously dont like you if they broke up with you in the first place.

One of my favourite quotes: "The psychotic believes that 2 + 2 =5. The neurotic knows that 2 + 2 =4, but hates it."

It's defined as someone who is obsessive, anxious, and/or depressed but only to a milder extent than someone who is clinically mentally ill. Neurosis does not involve hallucinations or delusions as in psychotic illnesses. The person may act irritably or anxiously, seem wound up and on edge. They tend to be quite sensitive.

When someone does not want you but you want them, you must take back your power and not want them any more, I know that's not easy! but if he was meant for you then you would still be together, if not then he's not meant for you! It's nothing about you or what you have or have not done! It's just not meant to be! so take back your emotional power and move on!Nothing has any power over you other than that of which you give it!

Improved Answer:

Whether you two are meant to be or not is not easy to determine. Many people will give you different views and opinions.

It takes two to acknowledge each other. From your question I assume that you are willing and possibly still have feelings for him. Whether he still has feelings for you and how strong they are is something that needs to be answered.

How you get your boyfriend back rests a lot on what type of person he is, what happened between you two, what was the cause of the breakup, was it a friendly breakup, was he and were you influenced by others etc etc.

Personally I know many guys that are simply very stubborn or very scared to make a comeback. Judging by many posts by women from what I have read, I don't particularly blame them. I think it is important to always leave a 'small gap in the door', do not totally close it. At the end of the day, don't we all want to be happy? Closing the door could take one possibility of that away.

You might want to try and give your boyfriend and yourself some time after the breakup. Hopefully still being in some form of contact for a short time immediately after the breakup. For everyone the amount of time suitable is different for each individual, therefore it might be best to think about how much time your friend needs.

I hope you two have the "relationship tools" you need to fix and build up a happy bond together.

Good Luck.

The same reason men fall out of love. People get bored "the honeymoon stage" is over. Butterflies fade away, but that doesn't mean your not in love anymore. I think if you truly love someone, you always will even if it is just a little bit. When the "honeymoon stage" is over try new things, a different sexy look to wow your significant other.

If you have any type of feelings of insecurity or narcisscism than you will always think people are looking at you when infact most times they are not they are just looking in your direction at that moment. Now there may be times someone is looking at you because they see something they like whether it be your outfit, hair, looks etc.

Since you mentioned "life-long" then we need to know more about why you feel the need to split-up. Hope you post under this and give us a little more information. After all, this is a serious thing and we want to give the best advice we can.

join me, and every other husband in america.....

you should probably tell her how much you love her and ask her what you did wrong,then say 'whatever happens, i will not make that same mistake again' ask her for forgiveness if she declines then who cares? find someone else that will stick to you no matter what hope this helps :)

It isn't possible to know 100%, but you can tell by the way that person treats you. It could be that you have been hurt in the past and have some trust issues. You must feel insecure and afraid of losing this person. He/she could tell you 100% times a day they love you, but if you don't love YOU, then you'll never believe it. Think to yourself "what is the worst thing that can happen?" Yes, possibly this person could leave you and it would break your heart for awhile, but then what? You're going to survive! A smart person always questions their own actions and if they feel they have a problem with something in a relationship then it's time they sought out some help. Many people do and it isn't a sign of weakness at all. If you continue on this way then you may lose this person. Example: I am almost 99% sure that my husband of 33 years has not or will not cheat on me, but there is always that 1%. So, what do I do? Ruin the great relationship we have? My attitude is, we have built our relationship on trust and if he wants to break that trust down the road then it will be him that pays the consequences and not myself. I have become independent, know myself fairly well and know I can survive even if it happens. No, I wouldn't like it and I'd be heart-broken, but I'm a survivor and I'm independent enough to be happy with myself, or if lucky, meet someone else down the road. I would NEVER let one person every shake my trust in the opposite sex. Not all men/women are bad. For all of us, having a relationship is purely a gamble. So, whatcha goin' to do? Sit there and wonder if this poor guy/gal loves you just after he's/she's told you so, or are you going to start realizing that you can't control everything, enjoy your relationship and should a problem come up then deal with it. Good luck Marcy

You know you still love him if...

1. You get jealous when you see him with ANY other girl

2. You find that you don't want to be with any one else besides him

3. Your obsessivly thinking about him and why you broke up

4. Your always wanting to text him/call him

5. When you listen to songs you try and think of how that song relates to you and him.

6. You always wonder if he thinks about you

7. You constantly go through old Texts or look at old notes or cards or presents that he gave you.

8. Compare all new guys to him.

9. Sometimes even 'stalk' him on facebook or twitter to see if he's gotten in a new relationship.

10. And last you always look back at memories and smile or giggle. If you cry then you don't still love him.

If your boyfriend disrespects you and insults you then he is no boyfriend at all. No girl deserves that from no guy what so ever. Just like its not right for a girl to do that towards her boyfriend. All couples have their moments at what they say to one another, but there are specific things you can say and there are specific things that are unexceptible to say. This works towards the male and female. The moment he disrespects you and insults you for 1: the respect is gone 2. the question of if he still "loves" you is not even a question at all. I feel if a man disrespects and insults his girl what love is that, that's no love at all. Love is a word with much meaning, and it means alot , so please don't disregard the word love, but it is just a word. Its how your treated and how his actions towards you are to what counts (with all the rest included, but that being just one the top number one's) . What I think you should do is discuss this matter with him. Let it be known that you don't except that and stand up for yourself and be proud of who you are. When a man starts to do this he is trying to chip away at your selfesteem, when its wrong and unexceptible. Why he's doing this only God knows, but one of the major reasons is that he's not happy within himself. This is a red flag and not a relationship for you. Girl stick up for yourself and don't ever be afraid too. God Bless.

Well, just be urself.... that should work for u...

jk!!!!

kay so u need 2 like really embaress her like in public so she does not wanna b cn with u. like sing 2 her in front ov every1 at a dance, or like pick ur nose, or u cud even just hit on another girl....

u get the point...

hey this is kalley dashner and i am a girl but they want boy's to look at them and that is the truth i have been thro a alot and i know everything in the world and somtimes they look so hot boy's do not fall for the trick ok

hey this is kalley dashner and i am a girl but they want boy's to look at them and that is the truth i have been thro a alot and i know everything in the world and somtimes they look so hot boy's do not fall for the trick ok

that is true but why do they want boy's to love them. whell, you girls want to be perfect as posibile for a guy to like you.

You don't. Just avoid them, don't flirt, don't laugh at their jokes, and they'll eventually get the picture. Don't be too obvious about it; don't be rude, just boring. But there are always people that just won't give up. As a last resort, you could ask a friend to tell them for you. Have them just hint at it. DON'T have them say "hey, Samantha, Fred told me to tell you that he doesn't like you." And pick someone that is good friends with the person; someone that the person trusts. Another thing you could do is make up an excuse. My excuse that I use often is "I don't date younger girls", which is partly true. Another thing you can do is talk constantly about other girls (or guys) when she's (or he's) around you. Just be like "Wow, that girl (or guy) over there is hot" or "I miss (either your ex or your crush's name goes here)"

listen to her, understand what she needs.. let her sort herself out for as long as it takes. if she really loves you, she will come back..