Breakups

listen to her, understand what she needs.. let her sort herself out for as long as it takes. if she really loves you, she will come back..

Although all situations and individuals are just that - individual and different. Each person experiences something of their own so there is no specific feeling(s) for one person except what they feel on their own. Remember people are only human man or woman and have feelings specific to that individual.

Yes its okay to feel hurt over an ex boyfriend getting a new girlfriend but you just have to move on and let them know you have moved on. Try to stay friends with your ex even if its hard. You cannot let him having a new girlfriend get to you. Try going out with some friends on a fun night and let them take your mind off him. It really helps if you just be around him with total confidence so he will know that you aren't one of those crazy people who are always around their ex. keep it real :D

If you are Legally separated he cannot - it is illegal. If you do not have separation papers and/or proof of separate residences then although it is wrong you have no legal leg to stand on. If you can show that you have signed and notarized legal separation papers or proof of separate residences then take that info to the sheriff and they will be able to assist you with what the laws are about this where you live.

He doesn't have the right to make a decision like that. Either he wants to be with you or not. I would say he is not that into you and you need to look in other places and to move on. I would tell him to take a hike.

try helping your friend by saying courageous word like you deserve far better than this and like nothing has happened buddy ... look forward in your life and also that its his/her bad luck that the person didn't get you.

these word help a lot in bearing pain .

also try not making him remember about his/her ex. try to divert his mind away from the matter.

this must surely help.

Don't try to solve all the problems, or have all the answers. This will be much more annoying than helpful. Just be there to listen and to spend time with a friend. In general, follow the lead of your friend.

Well, if they looks at you longingly they probably still has feeling for you. If they look at you madly, they are probably really mad for yalls breakup.if Sometimes they look at you when they are with other people,usually on a date, it means they still like you and are trying to make you jealous!

No it is extreamly dangerous for a boy to be friend with his ex-girl friend when she has no interest on you. you will feel depressed with her words and her actions. It is highly not advisable.

If your boyfriend is true to you it doesn't much matter what she thinks. He's her ex and now he's your boyfriend. If it really bothers you because you have concerns then start maturing and sit down and talk it over with your boyfriend. Don't let his ex ruin a possible great relationship that you have. Good luck Marcy

You could say politely "I don't think we have that much in common anymore, therefore I don't think we should be friends anymore."and make sure you dont be mean to her and try to find a new best friend that really cares about you and understands you. HOPE THIS HELPS!

This is a very broad topic. There are no particular disadvantages of relationships--those are determined by the people involved, their expectations, their actions, communication between the parties, etc.

The general consensus seems to be that when trust is gone, the relationship is finished.

You used the term "boy" so I assume both of you are fairly young. It takes practice to know how to ask someone out on a date, how to act on a date and sometimes some boys are shy and don't communicate well and don't keep in touch, while others can be clingy. The best thing to do is communicate with him and don't hurt his feelings. Just say you aren't ready for a relationship right now and it's best to part company. If he says he wants to remain friends with you then tell him that you would prefer not as it only complicates the situation. Be careful, some guys can be stalkers and not even know it themselves. When you break this friendship up then do it in a crowded cafe or somewhere where your school friends are nearby.

it is ugly the ugly people are lol

You don't!

get into the same things as her and flirt with her when your girlfriends not there. If she doesn't cos she doesn't want to hurt her sister then get them to fight with each other and then she might go out with you to get back at her. Or if your gilfriend gets on with her sister then she might go on about how good you are at snoggin! lol good luck...! and what d'ya mean you don't- every boy likes his girlfriends sister! lol

• You have a girlfriend and that is all that counts. Let your ex girlfriend know right off the bat that you are not interested in her other than a friend and then leave the rest up to your friend to ask your ex out. Other than straightening things out with your ex girlfriend stay out of it and just enjoy your time with your present girlfriend.

Be honest, polite and empathetic. Simply tell her the relationship is not working for you and it is best for both of you to part ways. She may be hurt at this time and will possibly cry and try to carry this topic on - breakups can be drawn out, keep it simple, to the point and walk away. Unfortunately it doesn't sound very good and may seem short but there is just no easy way to break up. And this is a females point of view. Good Luck. just say "i dont want to go out with u anymore''

He could be hurt, sad, embarassed where the breakup is concerned and not giving a second thought to your stuff yet unless he has got rid of your stuff. He could also just being ignorant and wanting to be like this as a type of getting back at you. If it is stuff that can be replaced and that you really could live without it then just let it go and let it be - move forward, ignore him and move on. If for some reason you really need this particular stuff then call his home and either leave him a message or talk with his parents if he lives there and let them know you would like your stuff back or better yet even show up at his place to get it back there and then. Personally I would replace the stuff, cut all ties and let it go - move forward and ignore him. Besides if your broken up he really owes you nothing in the way of communication or paying any attention to you and you should not expect it either.

First off, if your boyfriend wants to break up with you, then maybe you're just better off without him because there IS someone out there who will never want to leave your side. Trust me. No matter how much it may hurt at the time, just let him go.. Just like the saying, "If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, it was always yours. If it doesn't it never was."

But, if you insist on trying to keep this boy yours, then you have to give him some space, show him that YOU'RE slipping away and hopefully it will make him realize what he's losing and that he's losing something great.. There isn't quite an answer to this question but there are things you can do to try and prevent this heartbreak..

1. Give him space. No texting, calling, facebooking 24/7. Let him do his thing. Be short with him (not in a mean way of course)

2. After some space, talk to him. Try to understand exactly WHY he wants to break up with you.

3. Be patient. If it doesn't work, you will have other boyfriends.. Trust me.

Heartbreaks can be horrible. Surround yourself with good friends and family. I hope this helps <3

You obviously have given her reason to hate you.

Think of what that was, and ask yourself, if you were her would you want 'you' back? Look at it from her point of view. You have caused her some pain.... it may, or may not, go away.... but the last thing she is going to want is you trying to get her back.

Write her a letter.

Explain what happened and apologise sincerely - don't write if the apology is not sincere.

Tell her, once, that you would like to make it up to her and to see her again.

Don't pressurise her.

If she comes back it will be on her terms and in her own time-scale.

If you just want her back for ego reasons then forget it.

we cant get over with someone abruptly. it takes time... focus your attention to other things or aspects of your life

1. You can be your true selves with each other.
2. You feel comfortable sharing your deepest thoughts, fears, and emotions with each other.
3. You rarely lie to each other, but you also refrain from being brutally honest.
4. You give each other space and/or "Me time."
5. You make it through rough times as a couple without splitting up.
6. You agree (or genuinely agree to disagree) on financial matters.
7. You treat each other the way you would like to be treated, not necessarily the way you feel you're being treated at the moment.
8. You and your mate completely deal with your problems, refusing to leave them unresolved until resentments form.
9. You forgive each other for mistakes.
10. You don't tell each other what you should or shouldn't think/feel.
11. You both listen without interrupting.
12. You respect each others' privacy.
13. You speak each others' Love Language, even if it's different from your own.
14. You willingly make sacrifices for each other.
15. You share mutual interests and activities.
16. You respect each others' individuality and make the most of your differences.
17. You act as each others' backbone, providing loving support without guilt.
18. You share spiritual beliefs or a spiritual connection.
19. You show sensitivity to each others' needs.
20. You discuss and negotiate instead of fighting.
21. Each partner takes responsibility for their own thoughts and feelings.
22. There is mutual trust and dedication.
23. You have a strong friendship.
24. In addition to loving each other, you genuinely like each other.
25. You don't judge or force your opinions on each other.
26. You take quality time to nurture your relationship.
27. Both partners maintains his/her own set of boundaries and respects the boundaries of the other.
28. You are both attentive to the needs of yourself and the other.
29. You enjoy physical contact (hugs, kisses, cuddling, sex) together.
30. You show appreciation for each other.
31. Hardship, uncertainty, and disagreements are accepted as a part of life.
32. You communicate openly and meaningfully with each other.
33. There is equal power between you and your mate.
34. You keep your expectations of each other in check.
35. You genuinely apologize to one another when feelings are hurt.
36. You and your mate speak up assertively instead of expecting the other to read minds.
37. You both eliminate passive aggressive behavior (ignoring, silent treatment, eye rolling, stomping, hanging up the phone) as much as possible.
38. You have a strong sense of interdependence (mutual responsibility) to each other rather than dependence or co-dependence.
39. You avoid going to bed mad.
40. You CAN live without each other, but you choose each other over every alternative choice.