Breakups

There is no way to MAKE someone like you.

Its all by choice. If you want someone to like you. Spend time with that person. Become his/her friend then move on from there.

I agree with this person ^but i dont personally think spells are of the devil. true some are but lots of spells have to do with god and the bible. there may be some spell out there that helps but i have no idea what it is. the best approach i believe is to spend time with that person and go on from there as the person before me stated.

Spells are things of fantasy and myth. Stories made up for children and the ignorant. As has already been said, it is up to you to act in such a manner as to be reguarded kindly by another person. Doing so may lead to love.

That is just another polite way to say to break up.

Definitly she has someone or she is confusing between you and him.

Even though there is no other guy to her, she is probably thinking about if she should go on the relationship or not.

You Can't "break your Butt" but you can break your tail bone... you will tremendous am-mounts of pain especially when you bend down or crouch but really you need an X-ray

It depends who this guy is to you...

I have a guy best friend, he's like a brother to me and he always tells me he loves me. In a family way, does he mean it like this?

However if you think this guy may have feelings for you then maybe he said it at the end of the text because he wants to tell you but hes shy, and he has just quickly typed it and press send...

If you feel the same way, say it back?

If not ask him politely, what has made him feel this way, is it new to him and if you like him, ask him out!

He sounds sweet if you ask me ;-)

* This is sad and out of your control and since you won't be seeing him any longer then you have to sit down and talk to him and break up. Be sure he feels the same. There are ways to keep in contact such as email; phone calls, but if you feel this is impossible then it's better to be honest and break up. It will hurt both of you, but remember that you both aren't the only ones going through this type of pain and look towards the future.

if he breaks up with you but he doesnt give you s good reason. well then he is just been a guy. he might want you to give it upto him. if he loves you like he say she does he will look for you and want you back but you haver to be wise about it because guys love to brain wash girls. if i were you i would let him go and if he does the impossible and looks for you well then i would think about taking him back..hope this helps

from abby

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your 13 so your still pretty young. How do you know its love? it could be a crush or infatuation. Like i remember when i was 13 i swore i loved somebody but i hadn't loved anyone before so your never REALLY sure until you find someone you can get involved with and really say, i love him. i'm with this dude right now, and i can honestly say i love him AND im IN love with him. theres a difference there too. Just make sure you know what your dealing with and everything. also, don't give your heart out to too many guys, because once you do that and you find someone you want to spend the rest of your life with, you'll alrady have given your heart out to others. ummm

• Yes, sometimes a narcissist will contact their ex after a break up because the narcissist cannot imagine their ex with anyone else as the narcissist has a complex of being the greatest at everything including relationships and is ego maniacal.

Why are you still calling her if the relationship is over?

well its all on what you think if you think that it is bad then its bad but maybe if you still like (blah blah) then if your having sexual relations maybe you should get back together

Breakup at either his place or a semi private locale, somewhere you can leave if things get out of hand. Be clear that this is a breakup; don't say vague things about, "needing space," or "taking a break,". Do not go into details about why you are ending the relationship; simply say you no longer have the feelings for him you need to be in a relationship. Also be clear that you feel it's best if you two did not have contact with each other, so that it will be easier for both of you to move on. Accept that his feelings will be hurt, no matter how you word things.

You shouldn't be mean, but be firm about not contacting him and ignoring any contacts of his. If he tends to be clingy, any sign you give him (responding to his calls/emails/texts or going out of your way to say hello) may be construed as you still having an interest in him. Don't give him false hope.

Well this is such a broad topic... Stop bathing; eat only Mexican food and DO NOT take any antacids; disagree with everything the other person says and explain to them why they are so very wrong; retract your statements shortly after and change your position; abuse them physically, verbally, and emotionally; mock the things they hold near and dear to them; etc, etc...

You have to reconcile yourself to the fact that the person you loved disregarded your love, trust and respect when he decided to have an affair. He didn't feel obligated to stay faithful to you, or at least be decent enough to end the relationship with you before he went to someone else.

You feel terrible about what has happened, but you need to focus on your life. Spend time with your family and friends. Take up a hobby or start doing the activities you wanted to but your ex was never intersted in. It may take awhile, but you will start feeling better about what happened.

really this is something that takes time and not something you can just move on from lie that.men seem to move on very quicly because they are the ones that have something lined up..and woman are more into there feelings .. so really i have taken it apoun myself that i need to just keep myself busy but really when the day is over you reallt think about what happend so really what do you do. its hard cause why should you keep your self busy??you should be able to deal with this situation head on and get threw it and move on but really im lost in what to do its really hard..please replie with how you feel what i should do.

I had been with my boyfriend for 5 years, and just yesterday, my world crashed down on me when I found out that he had cheated on me with a girl he met at work. I spoke with her over the phone and she had confirmed this, saying he never mentioned to her that he had a girlfriend. I was absolutely devasted and this still has not even reached the 24-hour mark. It is even more difficult because he is constantly calling me, being very apologetic. And stupid me, I do talk to him, maybe because I am still so confused and really want the closure. As far as dealing with this, I agree with trying to make yourself busy. Go to the beach, go out with the girls, go to the gym and work on that tight body, anything that will build back your self-esteem, because no matter what, most girls begin questioning themselves on "what did I do?" This is no one's fault but his. His love and dedication was obviously not strong enough for him to keep from taking the steps to pursuing something else with someone else. If you take him back, he will know he can do this again.

It's the same story --- My world just collapsed. We just ended up my 6-1/2 years of marriage. I'm good as a dead person right now. Meaning, No life. My soon to be ex-husband would rather spend his new life with a 21 yrs old Nursing student, whom he just met online 7 months ago. Now, I just found out that they are currently engaged and hunting for a new apartment to live. My 26 yrs old husband begged me not to say to her new fiance that he is a married man. After few minutes, I called and confronted the girl and told her honestly that she is currently in love with my husband. She can't help it but cry.(First bf/fiance). It is way too hard to create a new life again, esp if everything is doing well and suddenly, the love of your life told you that he would rather spend his life with another young girl. Now, my soon to be ex-husband txt message me and said "You ruin my life!" --I text him back saying "You ruin my life as well! I will ruin yours too!" -- I feel weak as of this moment, tears won't stop dripping my laptop. My brain was flooded with full of question marks(???) What I have done wrong? Am I not that good for him? Did I not loved him enough? I just turned my thinkable thoughts to prayers. Please help us GOD -- me and other broken-hearted females who are currently suffering from sever lost of our ex-loved ones. Please help us forgive them and help us to move on our lives.

The answer, as Chris Rock might put it, is "not really". If your current beau says she tolerates this, she is being accomodating, but not sincere. Arousing jealousy in a current partner does not promote trust. One caveat to this general rule is that infrequent contacts (class reunions, at which your wife is present: occasional e-mail or facebook contacts (once or twice a year, at most), may be OK - if checked out with your partner. Ultimately, it all really depends on the mutual trust level you have with your partner. -from a Board-Certified Psychiatrist and Marital Therapist.

He's still on the rebound from his relationship with her. He's projecting his feelings towards his ex onto you---along with that, he'll eventually project the issues he had with his ex onto you as well. He's hasn't moved on to where he can have a successful relationship, because anyone else he currently dates will be basically a surrogate for the ex that he really wants.

Proceed with caution if you do decide to keep dating him.

Are you guys friends, and it depends where. if he see's you in the street, and smiles, it just like saying hi, at school, could be missing you but i doubt it. he would do a fake smile if he missed you (i am a guy)

It's wonderful to be young (even though you may not think so right now) because it gives you the freedom to make so many great choices in her life. Your ex girlfriend wanted "head space" and finding the spark has gone out of your relationship really has nothing to do with you. Many young men and women want to seek more out of life and have this hunger inside of them that they can't seem to suppress. That hunger is usually seeking a career, traveling, getting more of an education or simply finding out who they are, what they want and how to attain it. I'm sorry to say, but you are going to have to accept how your ex girlfriend feels. Try going out with friends and start dating again. If the two of you are meant to be together you will be. Often ex's can go their separate ways and a few years later end up together. Stranger things have happened when it comes to romance. Good luck Marcy

NOOOOOOOO! Why would you do that?

YES! Then tell him it was amazing and you could see the sparks flying and the doves soaring through the air!!! WHAT!!! ARE YOU STUPID!!! Dont tell him. if you kissed someone else and you like them more than your boyfriend then go out with them.

It is a choice only you can make. Think of why you would feel compelled to tell him, what it would do to your relationship, what will it do to him, why you even kissed someone else. Remember, that relationships are based on trust. Without trust you have nothing. The choice you make will have consequences you will have to deal with, if you choose to tell him, or even if you decide not to. You have to ask yourself some hard questions as to why this even happened.

a good relationship comes with trust, and if you like the other person better, you can tell him that you kissed some one else when you break-up with him. But, if you like your boyfriend more, and if he is a good boyfriend, he will understand. If you can't decide, listen to your heart. You can always find a way. If the situation is like, you kissed a guy that wasn't your boyfriend and you like the guy more, breakup with your boyfriend and tell him you kissed the guy. Or if its like you kissed a guy, and it was a big mistake, then you should tell the guy you kissed that you found some one else, then if your boyfriend ever finds out, tell him that happened before you guys dated. Everything should work out.

HEY! the last paragraph is the sneaky easy way out! Its SO much easier! do that! Seriously! or..... the second paragraph i guess. well maybe...... I think you should just tell the dude you kissed some one else and get it over with! all you have to do is say, " Hey I kissed some one else, and i liked it!" or something more gentle like, "hey i kissed some one else,but it was a big mistake. I never meant for it to happen, you're the one i like. Please don't leave me" Good luck with this situation! :D

Why would you? You don't think they know their own body? Maybe it is time to examine yourself and think why you would WANT to tell someone they are fat. Also, you by doing this, you may be opening yourself up for some criticism as well. Often, when you point out rude or obvious things, the person you are doing it to will take the opportunity to let you know that you are much less than you thought of yourself as well.

Same way as I tell you that you smell. You just don't. You will end up with in trouble.

If you want to tell her to lose weight, you should get her excited about activities that will make her feel good and make her feel good about it/have fun.

You don't tell anyone there fat. You don't tell the smelly guy he smells, you don't tell the short guy he's short. Everything is perceived as normal if it is able to function. Standards are abstract and if the fatness is ruining your standard, you should reconsider how you are to achieve your happiness. Maybe your **** or feel like a nothing and you just don't want her feeling superior or you feeling inferior in anyway. Either way you need to REALLY ask yourself what your goal is in calling telling someone their fat.

Depends on what kind you're looking for.

Here are some songs when the singer is dumping the significant other, or when the singer is being dumped:

Most Girls - P!nk

Leave (Get Out) - JoJo

Yesterday - Toni Braxton

Too Little Too Late - JoJo

Irreplaceable - Beyoncé

There You Go - P!nk

Heartbreaker - Mariah Carey

That's What it Feels Like - Jenna

Already Gone - Kelly Clarkson

Shake it Off - Mariah Carey

Bounce - Sarah Connor

It's Not Right, but It's Okay -

Here are some songs when the singer is grateful for the breakup:

Ridin' Solo - Jason Derulo

Fighter - Christina Aguilera

Since U Been Gone - Kelly Clarkson

Here are some songs when the singer is regretting the breakup:

Never Had a Dream Come True - S Club 7

We Belong Together - Mariah Carey

From the Bottom of My Broken Heart - Britney Spears

I Don't Believe You - P!nk

Walk Away (Remember Me) - Paula DeAnda

Sometimes, a song is sung as if two singer find out they have both been dating the same person:

Beautiful Liar - Beyoncé and Shakira

The Boy is Mine - Brandy and Monica

Same Girl - R. Kelly and Usher

There are also times when the singer strongly feels the breakup will not last, and feels her former lover will at some point come back to him or her:

Love Will Lead You Back - Taylor Dayne

Always Be My Baby - Mariah Carey

Just try to speak to him. Tell him u know u did wrong and try to forgive me and I will never do it again.

If you have done something grave to betray his trust.Its difficult to get that back.

He might have problems trusting you enough to take the first step.You have got to make him believe that you don't have malevolent intentions in mind.And if there is something simple that you know he wants you to do, do it.You don't have to demean yourself for that.Do it in a way that gains his respect and trust.

Cheers