Breakups

Why are you still calling her if the relationship is over?

well its all on what you think if you think that it is bad then its bad but maybe if you still like (blah blah) then if your having sexual relations maybe you should get back together

Breakup at either his place or a semi private locale, somewhere you can leave if things get out of hand. Be clear that this is a breakup; don't say vague things about, "needing space," or "taking a break,". Do not go into details about why you are ending the relationship; simply say you no longer have the feelings for him you need to be in a relationship. Also be clear that you feel it's best if you two did not have contact with each other, so that it will be easier for both of you to move on. Accept that his feelings will be hurt, no matter how you word things.

You shouldn't be mean, but be firm about not contacting him and ignoring any contacts of his. If he tends to be clingy, any sign you give him (responding to his calls/emails/texts or going out of your way to say hello) may be construed as you still having an interest in him. Don't give him false hope.

Well this is such a broad topic... Stop bathing; eat only Mexican food and DO NOT take any antacids; disagree with everything the other person says and explain to them why they are so very wrong; retract your statements shortly after and change your position; abuse them physically, verbally, and emotionally; mock the things they hold near and dear to them; etc, etc...

You have to reconcile yourself to the fact that the person you loved disregarded your love, trust and respect when he decided to have an affair. He didn't feel obligated to stay faithful to you, or at least be decent enough to end the relationship with you before he went to someone else.

You feel terrible about what has happened, but you need to focus on your life. Spend time with your family and friends. Take up a hobby or start doing the activities you wanted to but your ex was never intersted in. It may take awhile, but you will start feeling better about what happened.

really this is something that takes time and not something you can just move on from lie that.men seem to move on very quicly because they are the ones that have something lined up..and woman are more into there feelings .. so really i have taken it apoun myself that i need to just keep myself busy but really when the day is over you reallt think about what happend so really what do you do. its hard cause why should you keep your self busy??you should be able to deal with this situation head on and get threw it and move on but really im lost in what to do its really hard..please replie with how you feel what i should do.

I had been with my boyfriend for 5 years, and just yesterday, my world crashed down on me when I found out that he had cheated on me with a girl he met at work. I spoke with her over the phone and she had confirmed this, saying he never mentioned to her that he had a girlfriend. I was absolutely devasted and this still has not even reached the 24-hour mark. It is even more difficult because he is constantly calling me, being very apologetic. And stupid me, I do talk to him, maybe because I am still so confused and really want the closure. As far as dealing with this, I agree with trying to make yourself busy. Go to the beach, go out with the girls, go to the gym and work on that tight body, anything that will build back your self-esteem, because no matter what, most girls begin questioning themselves on "what did I do?" This is no one's fault but his. His love and dedication was obviously not strong enough for him to keep from taking the steps to pursuing something else with someone else. If you take him back, he will know he can do this again.

It's the same story --- My world just collapsed. We just ended up my 6-1/2 years of marriage. I'm good as a dead person right now. Meaning, No life. My soon to be ex-husband would rather spend his new life with a 21 yrs old Nursing student, whom he just met online 7 months ago. Now, I just found out that they are currently engaged and hunting for a new apartment to live. My 26 yrs old husband begged me not to say to her new fiance that he is a married man. After few minutes, I called and confronted the girl and told her honestly that she is currently in love with my husband. She can't help it but cry.(First bf/fiance). It is way too hard to create a new life again, esp if everything is doing well and suddenly, the love of your life told you that he would rather spend his life with another young girl. Now, my soon to be ex-husband txt message me and said "You ruin my life!" --I text him back saying "You ruin my life as well! I will ruin yours too!" -- I feel weak as of this moment, tears won't stop dripping my laptop. My brain was flooded with full of question marks(???) What I have done wrong? Am I not that good for him? Did I not loved him enough? I just turned my thinkable thoughts to prayers. Please help us GOD -- me and other broken-hearted females who are currently suffering from sever lost of our ex-loved ones. Please help us forgive them and help us to move on our lives.

The answer, as Chris Rock might put it, is "not really". If your current beau says she tolerates this, she is being accomodating, but not sincere. Arousing jealousy in a current partner does not promote trust. One caveat to this general rule is that infrequent contacts (class reunions, at which your wife is present: occasional e-mail or facebook contacts (once or twice a year, at most), may be OK - if checked out with your partner. Ultimately, it all really depends on the mutual trust level you have with your partner. -from a Board-Certified Psychiatrist and Marital Therapist.

He's still on the rebound from his relationship with her. He's projecting his feelings towards his ex onto you---along with that, he'll eventually project the issues he had with his ex onto you as well. He's hasn't moved on to where he can have a successful relationship, because anyone else he currently dates will be basically a surrogate for the ex that he really wants.

Proceed with caution if you do decide to keep dating him.

Are you guys friends, and it depends where. if he see's you in the street, and smiles, it just like saying hi, at school, could be missing you but i doubt it. he would do a fake smile if he missed you (i am a guy)

It's wonderful to be young (even though you may not think so right now) because it gives you the freedom to make so many great choices in her life. Your ex girlfriend wanted "head space" and finding the spark has gone out of your relationship really has nothing to do with you. Many young men and women want to seek more out of life and have this hunger inside of them that they can't seem to suppress. That hunger is usually seeking a career, traveling, getting more of an education or simply finding out who they are, what they want and how to attain it. I'm sorry to say, but you are going to have to accept how your ex girlfriend feels. Try going out with friends and start dating again. If the two of you are meant to be together you will be. Often ex's can go their separate ways and a few years later end up together. Stranger things have happened when it comes to romance. Good luck Marcy

NOOOOOOOO! Why would you do that?

YES! Then tell him it was amazing and you could see the sparks flying and the doves soaring through the air!!! WHAT!!! ARE YOU STUPID!!! Dont tell him. if you kissed someone else and you like them more than your boyfriend then go out with them.

It is a choice only you can make. Think of why you would feel compelled to tell him, what it would do to your relationship, what will it do to him, why you even kissed someone else. Remember, that relationships are based on trust. Without trust you have nothing. The choice you make will have consequences you will have to deal with, if you choose to tell him, or even if you decide not to. You have to ask yourself some hard questions as to why this even happened.

a good relationship comes with trust, and if you like the other person better, you can tell him that you kissed some one else when you break-up with him. But, if you like your boyfriend more, and if he is a good boyfriend, he will understand. If you can't decide, listen to your heart. You can always find a way. If the situation is like, you kissed a guy that wasn't your boyfriend and you like the guy more, breakup with your boyfriend and tell him you kissed the guy. Or if its like you kissed a guy, and it was a big mistake, then you should tell the guy you kissed that you found some one else, then if your boyfriend ever finds out, tell him that happened before you guys dated. Everything should work out.

HEY! the last paragraph is the sneaky easy way out! Its SO much easier! do that! Seriously! or..... the second paragraph i guess. well maybe...... I think you should just tell the dude you kissed some one else and get it over with! all you have to do is say, " Hey I kissed some one else, and i liked it!" or something more gentle like, "hey i kissed some one else,but it was a big mistake. I never meant for it to happen, you're the one i like. Please don't leave me" Good luck with this situation! :D

Why would you? You don't think they know their own body? Maybe it is time to examine yourself and think why you would WANT to tell someone they are fat. Also, you by doing this, you may be opening yourself up for some criticism as well. Often, when you point out rude or obvious things, the person you are doing it to will take the opportunity to let you know that you are much less than you thought of yourself as well.

Same way as I tell you that you smell. You just don't. You will end up with in trouble.

If you want to tell her to lose weight, you should get her excited about activities that will make her feel good and make her feel good about it/have fun.

You don't tell anyone there fat. You don't tell the smelly guy he smells, you don't tell the short guy he's short. Everything is perceived as normal if it is able to function. Standards are abstract and if the fatness is ruining your standard, you should reconsider how you are to achieve your happiness. Maybe your **** or feel like a nothing and you just don't want her feeling superior or you feeling inferior in anyway. Either way you need to REALLY ask yourself what your goal is in calling telling someone their fat.

Depends on what kind you're looking for.

Here are some songs when the singer is dumping the significant other, or when the singer is being dumped:

Most Girls - P!nk

Leave (Get Out) - JoJo

Yesterday - Toni Braxton

Too Little Too Late - JoJo

Irreplaceable - Beyoncé

There You Go - P!nk

Heartbreaker - Mariah Carey

That's What it Feels Like - Jenna

Already Gone - Kelly Clarkson

Shake it Off - Mariah Carey

Bounce - Sarah Connor

It's Not Right, but It's Okay -

Here are some songs when the singer is grateful for the breakup:

Ridin' Solo - Jason Derulo

Fighter - Christina Aguilera

Since U Been Gone - Kelly Clarkson

Here are some songs when the singer is regretting the breakup:

Never Had a Dream Come True - S Club 7

We Belong Together - Mariah Carey

From the Bottom of My Broken Heart - Britney Spears

I Don't Believe You - P!nk

Walk Away (Remember Me) - Paula DeAnda

Sometimes, a song is sung as if two singer find out they have both been dating the same person:

Beautiful Liar - Beyoncé and Shakira

The Boy is Mine - Brandy and Monica

Same Girl - R. Kelly and Usher

There are also times when the singer strongly feels the breakup will not last, and feels her former lover will at some point come back to him or her:

Love Will Lead You Back - Taylor Dayne

Always Be My Baby - Mariah Carey

Just try to speak to him. Tell him u know u did wrong and try to forgive me and I will never do it again.

If you have done something grave to betray his trust.Its difficult to get that back.

He might have problems trusting you enough to take the first step.You have got to make him believe that you don't have malevolent intentions in mind.And if there is something simple that you know he wants you to do, do it.You don't have to demean yourself for that.Do it in a way that gains his respect and trust.

Cheers

It all depends on the situation. If he's worth it, be very careful and play your cards right. If your serious about getting someone back, you have to give it the time/space and attention it needs. Think it out first so you don't do anything dumb. Don't rush it, don't badger him and don't plead, it's very unattractive and needy. I am in the same situation and I know it's going to probably take 2 years before I can approach it again. He's Mr. Right for me though so I am willing to do what I have too for now and will try again when the time is right. My guy needed his space, space to sow his wild oats or he wouldn't be good for me or anyone else for that matter until he did. He married the only woman he ever dated so I was the first one after his 18 year relationship/marriage with her. He says he still loves me and that he can't weigh me out for the future. I guess that's what gives me hope. He also told me he's very attracted to me and that he fell harder and faster for me than his wife. So there's always hope.........no matter what anyone else tells you. When you think the time is right. For whatever the reason was that you two broke up in the first place, just make sure that, that person won't do whatever they did again. I guess it always depends on the situation. I hope things go well for you though. Think it over, and follow your heart!

no girl/woman needs that kind of nonsense. cus if he really loved you he wouldn't have cheated on you in the first place!!!! and even if he says oh he's sorry he won't ever do that again.. obviously he is not EVER worth your time... any way theres a ton of fine young men in this world and way better men that deserve a a trustful woman! Don't EVER stay with a man that only wants you for sex or is just using you!! they are not worth it!! I have been there and I finally realized i can make it on my own if i had too. But I have met a wonderful man that treats me like EVERY woman should be treated... so find your self a new man.. But please... Leave him.. It's not a small world!

well you should look for someone with the same quallities as you do like if you guys like the same thing then that can make a good relationship but you don't hjave to like the same thing you guys can like different things as long as you guyts get along with each ohter

• No, a seven year old boy cannot get a 13 year old girl pregnant because he has yet to go through puberty. However, seven year old boys should be out having fun with their friends and not entertaining having sex at that age.

• 'We need to talk' coming from a woman of any age to a man strikes fear into the strongest of men because women are unpredictable and the man involved may not know if he is going to be blind sided about something he was not aware he did wrong (if anything.) Women are more perceptive to emotions in themselves and their boyfriends so she may feel there is something wrong in the relationship that both of you need to work on or she could have done something wrong herself and regrets it, but wants to be honest with you, but there is also the risk that she may break up with you and all you can do is take a deep breath and meet with with her to discuss whatever it is she has to say. Remember, you have a right to put your two cents worth in as well.

Misogyny.

Ok,so there is a boy u don't like anymore. So if you don't want to hurt the boy feelings or your feeling just say this "i've been thinking over the weekend or week that we shoudn't be together because,i we're not right for each other''. If he asks why just say"I like you but, i don't think we're right for each other". And,end it there.

when your ex boyfriend spreads evil rumors about you it's either because you guys really had a bad relationship and the rumors are somewhat true, or you hurt him badly and he's trying to hurt you in another way. it means it's over!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When personal contact is not required or desired. When communication, touch, romance, and other positive heart felt emotions have failed to satisfy. When a desire to move on promotes distance between you.