Breakups

What i would do is go ask him if he is still into her and he most likely will say no. But if he says that he is kinda attracted to her or just is attracted to her the ask him would he rather be with her than u and if he says no then what i would do is tell him that he needs to stop flirting with her if he really wants to be with me.

Sometimes when you break up with them, you tend to act like you hat them, unless you still want to be friends. it kinda happened to me, too. ;)

He's simply asking you out for dinner so go with him. If you have any reason for not completely trusting him you could always suggest another couple come with you until you are comfortable. Listen to your instincts. If he's a nice guy then you're making a mountain out of a mole hill. He simply asked you for dinner. Don't go back to his place and don't ask him to yours. After dinner thank him and that's the end of the date for the time being. Youare in total control of your own life and if you have second thoughts for your own personal reasons then cancel the date. You owe your ex nothing!

You can't 'tell'. If you're wondering if a certain person is attracted to you, you could try 'suggestive' behaviour to a degree, and if they respond in a positive way, they could well be. Although this really isn't an accurate way. I myself flirt with many other guys, yet not one of them is who I like.

KISS HER ?#@ Promise her anything and she still may want to leave you. Rightly so, you cheated and she has lost her trust for you. Her thoughts are probably "once a cheater, always a cheater" or "if he did it now, he will do it again." Trust is a bad thing to lose in a relationship. You may get lucky if she loves you enough to work through this. If you have no children together and since you are not married, she will probably see this as a clean break and will not come back to you. Take it as a lesson that you should never cheat.

Well, if you see him around school/work and he talks to you or waves as you walk past, chances are he's still thinking about you. If your bold enough to, approach his and drop a hint that yous till like him. His reaction can tell you a lot about how he feels. If worst comes to worst, have one of his friends ask him if he still likes you.

He could be feeling a bit sad and lonely about breaking up, he may still want to be with you, but doesn't want to initiate it unless you don't feel the same way. You could talk to him but it may scare him off, or you two could just remain friends, and if anything else develops over time then so be it.

Well there can be many signs that your ex still loves you!

One sign is that he/she wants to initiate with you or have contact with you. If he/she says a polite "hi" that's a good start!

Another sign is that your ex hangs around the spots you both used to go to or that you love because he's just looking for you.

Another Sign is that your ex starts dating immediately after you break up and tries to rub it in your face, he is just trying to make you jealous!

Another Sign: If your ex wants to spend time with you because your feeling down or just need someone to talk to: he still cares.

But another way to get your ex back is to wonder? Why am I his ex in the first place? Why did we ever break up? What can I do to improve myself?

They are some good questions to answer and may even get you two 'Love Birds' back together.

If you are so very unhappy with him then the best thing to do is sit down with him and communicate your feelings with him. Tell him why you feel the way you do and with luck he may provide you with some information about himself that you didn't know and it may change your whole perspective of him (good/bad.) Be wary what you expect from a relationship. You could be expecting too much and you may simply be second-guessing how he feels about you. The only way you can make changes and grow in a relationship is by communication.

I hate to tell you this, I know it hurts but just let her go man. I was in a similar situation myself years ago. But once a woman has made up her mind in matters like these, it is pointless to try and change it. Believe me I tried and I just got more hurt. Since then I have found a better woman that treats me so much better. Point is that when you just let this person go, and come to terms with it, you will be much happier. I suggest you take a year or so to concentrate on yourself and determine where you want to go from here in your life. When you have accomplished this (believe me YOU WILL BE MUCH HAPPIER!!!) You will be able to concentrate on a relationship that is worth the amount of time and effort you will actually be able to afford to put into it, since you have taken the time to sort out your own baggage. You wouldn't want a woman with a lot of social and economic baggage, would you? OK So then why would you expect a woman would want you with baggage? The best way to keep your woman after your self-time is just be a romantic man, open doors, when you two are walking on the side of the street, walk on her side that is closest to traffic, she will notice, trust me. Get some flowers for no reason at all(but only do this after you have been dating a bit, otherwise she will feel that you are being "clingy") I look back now and I am actually glad about what happened, the woman that left me was cool and cute, but man was she dumb, now i have someone that is cool, cute, smart and everything I want. I was only able to do this after I had taken some time for myself and got my baggage put away. As far as the cheating thing, how can you ever trust her again? Everytime you aren't together, all you will be thinking about is what she is doing with another man, and it will tear you apart. LET HER GO its for the best.

First thing to do is establish a deadline for you or him to move away (no more than a month). Living together with an ex is a very dangerous situation that could easily degenerate into violence, in whichever form you can think of (verbal, physical, psychological). Until the two of you are still living under the same roof, I would strongly advise you to spend the less time possible inside the house when he's there too. Be strong.

Throw him back! If he is not on the same page as you, the relationship is not going to develop into a longterm thing. You can't change another person's feelings. I would say, have a fling with him, but he may leave you with an STD or worse, so you'll need to be cautious.

I am in sadness, in pain, I am in sad loss from you, I miss you, I can't stand being apart from you, I am depressed because you are not with me, there are MANY words- too many to list them all- to express that you miss someone.

Some options, as applicable: Move out of their home.

Move out of their town, state, region.

Work with your mate to set reasonable guidelines and limits.

DO NOT punish your children by depriving them of their grandparents.

You decide who you give your power to. Keep giving it to your in-laws, and they will keep exercising it.

He is interested in someone else, or not interested in you.

Well that could be an answer. But how long has he not replied for. He may not be interested in you in that way but he just wants to find out if you love him. which lets face it you probably do otherwise you wouldn't be asking this question If you sure he is single, then tell him you love him. and he probably will text back. OR if you just want him as a friend wait for a few days and then text him saying 'hey whats up? you haven't been texting in a while' and if he still doesn't answer, find otherwise to get in touch like facebook, bebo, my space, msn, home phone even. an easier way to find out if he is ignoring you is get someone else to text him and see if he replies. that's what i do with this boy i know. But if he doesn't answer your text don't annoy him constantly, at the most text him about three times, just say random things he might be interested in.

It's cliche, but time does heal. You just have to allow it. Use this time to invest your energies into yourself. When it gets tough, seek comfort in your friends. Eventually, statistics and and your elevated confidence from having improved yourself, will yield you another opportunity for love. Only this time you'll be wiser with your selection and you will likely find a more compatible, and often more interesting partner. Good luck...

Yes, Very normal especially after a bad break up or when you still love him.

I loved this boy.. he asked me out and he was so sweet but i was heaps pressured so i dumped him. i felt so bad. and this happened 3 times + and i still love him like no tomorrow but i don't think he loves me or will, anyways.

That are a perfect part of your life that you can think about but if they break your heart just forget about them. If they really loved you they would want to be in your future not your past. :)

Hope this is okay. Signed Miss Anonymous :)

I was in a relationship for 4 years and last year decided to end the relationship. We have remained close friends and there is no bad blood or awkwardness. This is how I broke up with him and how we remained friends.

I broke up with 'Roger' (Name changed) face to face. This is the only way to do it to ever have a civil future. I was straight to the point yet sensitive. This is the script you should follow.

"Roger. I love you more than anything and anybody in the entire universe. Your smile is as wide as the Grand Canyon, your laugh as cute as a thousand puppies, your fists as strong as a hammer to the face. We are one, our hearts connected, our bank accounts joint and our phone passcodes the same. Yes I may have put a bit of weight on, I may like 'Nathans' pictures a little too often, and by often i mean once on the 12th December 2013 but you'll know this, and yes perhaps I do show off in front of people but most of all I am happy and willing to change. I think it's time we take the next step in our relationship [going down on one knee optional]. We are finished and are now just friends [leave room]".

There are multiple reasons why your husband doesn't feel the spark, especially after a certain age. In any event, a man is always aroused by a woman who shows him consideration and a little skin. For some women all it takes is getting into shape, and for others, all it takes is talking to him about desiring him and that sets him off. The fact that he's still with you after 20 years shows a level of commitment that is rare these days, so there is a good chance he will try to please sexually. He has needs too. Something else to consider is a man's stress level. Set a special time apart for the two of you in which you can just relax and become reacquainted. Guys love a tease, so when you kiss him, don't hesitate to pay some extra attention to what you know to be his favorite places. Soft strokes to the back, little groans, sucking the neck, and just overall making it obvious you want to touch him and be loved in return. Be happy with him and he will relax and pay attention.

Also, many men produce less testosterone as they age. You might want to have him tested. He can get booster shots or oral medications if he needs them.

I think not. It really makes no sense that she could, especially if she's just a girlfriend, but some places have such crazy laws... if you're worried that she might try you should probably break ASAP, but you probably figured that already. If you have lived together for 6 months or longer, then yes. You are legally bound by something called "common-law marriage". She would be entitled to half of all your possessions. If she committed adultry, you may be able to argue this law in court, and she would be entitiled to nothing.

Unfortunately you are going to have to accept what he says. He no longer loves you. You hurt his heart deeply and broke the bond of trust which is not easily rectified. The only good side to all of this is you have the chance to learn from this mistake on your part and NOT do it again so quickly. People are not on this earth to be used and abused and their feelings treated like a piece of garbage.

You dont have to deal with your Girl Friend/Boy Friend or Husband/Wife. Your kid's won't have to deal with you fighting. Your kid's won't be crying ALL the time.

That's all I can think or advantages.I really can't think of disadvantages.

well if he dumped you, then he won't mind, but if you dumped him, then he wouldn't feel too good about it.