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It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.

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Is he breaking up with you?

  • Sometimes there is no reason for a break up and some young men are too immature for commitment and may get bored in relationships quickly and go from girl to girl. If you really want to know then your ex boyfriend can answer that and you should ask him.

How do you make your boyfriend feel sorry for breaking your heart?

If he apologizes, and if you really think he means it, and you still love/like him and care about him, you won't want to make him feel bad for breaking your heart, even tho it might still kill you to say that you forgive him, you did it for him, because you care about him. (usually what happens to me, i like to say love is a silent killer...but is also the best thing in the world)

and if he is really sweet, he'll buy you flowers or something to try to make you feel better or something. And if you 2 arn't a thing, and he doesn't bother to apologize, and if your truly over him and over the fact that he broke your heart, then tell him that. "Even though you broke my heart and didn't seem to care at all, i forgive you, in fact i thank you, because your one less jerk I'll ever date again"

but that's only if he really is a jerk, don't say it unless its true. because if you do love him, you'll feel so frkn guilty if say that to him...trust me. But anyways, Good Luck!

How do you know a true lover?

A true lover is the one who will do anything for you.He/She will take care of you.He will love you forever,no one can impress him/her.He/She will always think about you.He/She will always praise about you,if anyone says wrong or bad about you he/she will get angry on that person and it may change to a fight.The true lovers feel very much shy around you,even if they are not among the shy kinda person. Just wanna say one thing its not possible to have first and true love in this world.But still best of luck to you.

How do you tell your girlfriend its over when she begs to stay with you?

there are lots of ways...

1. don't!

2. just tell him and say 'don't be hurt'

3. say 'sorry its over'

4. instead of telling him, just avoid him

5. text him or mail him

6. get a bunch of friends to say it

7. meet him somewhere private

and heres some ways to tell him its over...

1 'i love you but its just to soon for me'

2. i love you but im not in love with you'

3. 'sorry its over but can we still be friends?'

and try to avoid these sayings...

1. 'get lost'

2 im going out the the last boy your ex cheated on u with'

3. can't be bothered to go out with you'

4. im cheating on you'

stupid ideas...

1. comit suicide

2. leave forever

3. stay in your house and never leave

4. make fun of him

5. throw your laptop/phone down the loo

hope they helped!

Will ignoring your ex make him want you again?

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Maybe for a short while but after that you could fly to the moon but I doubt he'll care.
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Sure, if you want him to think you hate him.

No. If u want him to want u more, a couple days after the breakup u should get a friend of urs (who's a boy) to pretend to be going out with u. Arrange it so ur at the same place, and let him see u with ur friend. If u see him

looking ur way, pretend to be all cuddly and totally hot for ur friend. He'll be wishing he was the one there with u.

Is it all right to date your brother's ex girlfriend?

Ooops! This is a sticky situation. The best thing to do is talk to your cousin and tell him that you are interested in his ex girlfriend and would he mind if you asked her out. If he has no problem with this, then do so, but if he does have a problem with this I would respect his wishes and find another young woman to date. No man/woman should come between family or friends. If you have fallen in love with this young woman and you feel she is the one for you, then I would still talk to your cousin, but if he is not happy about it, there isn't much he can do because he has made his decision not to date this her and she's free to date who she would like to date. Good luck Marcy Answer Yes. It is also okay to go out with your sister's best friend, but not your best freind's sister.

It really depends on how close you two are, any ex of a true friend is a "bro-no," at least until the wound heals. The answer is yes, when the time comes that you know the answer is not no.

How do you know when it is okay to ask your ex to get back together?

If he hasn't phoned or emailed you or asked you out on a date then he doesn't want you back bad enough.

Marcy

He might do simple things?

Call you , bring up old memories , maybe tell you he still likes you or would have you back , smile and generally enjoy talking to you (:

How do you leave your wife?

  • There is nothing much you can do when your spouse leaves you for another woman. No matter how heartbreaking it is dig in your heels and don't beg him to come back and start out by getting out with friends and having a little fun for yourself even if there are children involved. You can always trade-off babysitting with a girlfriend, but remind yourself that if you do have children that they suffer the loss of their father not living with their mother and often children may blame themselves for the break up and you will have to assure them that sometimes adults can fall out of love with each other and it has nothing to do with them. Remind your husband that you could get him on desertion and if you divorce him you will most likely get half of everything he has. If you want to wait at least seek legal advice and get child support (which every father should pay) or even support for yourself if you are not working. Most men who leave their wives generally do not stay with their mistress for too long (perhaps six to eight months if that and depending on the individuals) and a good percentage of men get it out of their system and want to come back to their wife. Sometimes people just think the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. Don't ever let your husband think you cannot get along in life without him and if he wants to come back home get him to date you first before you allow him back into your life.

If your boyfriend broke up with you because his going to abroad?

i think thts justified , this guy is just being practical.. i mean when u don't meet ech other things at times becomea a pain ( as u start missing each other more ) at times out of sight becomes out of mind so take things positively .. cheer up

How do you break up a mistress?

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Now you've done it. The worst thing that a man and woman can do is get involved on the job. If you want the relationship to end, why not try talking to the woman involved with you. If that doesn't work, perhaps a change of jobs might be a good idea. There's an old expression concerning women. The Scorn of a Woman is a man's worst enemy. Be careful how you handle this situtation because the other people in your office will take sides and you could end up being the looser big time.

How do you know when your boyfriend wants to break up?

Initiate an open and honest discussion with him about it.

This works if he is honest and is not playing games. You would also want to

watch his non-verbal messages and watch his patterns over a length of time.

Why do i keep trying to find things wrong with my ex if he still loves me and i still love him?

Maybe you still love him deep down, but there are still some things you are mad at him about. You could try talking to him about how you feel and about the things you are angry at him for. And try to understand eachothers thoughts for why they might be mad at you and you could try yo do something about what he think you should improve!

What if a boy likes you and wants to be your boyfriend?

It depends on whether you love him too. If not then tell him you just like him as a friend. If you do love him then it's up to you to decide if you want him for a boyfriend or not.

If a Muslim man gets a woman pregnant must he marry her?

Only if get married with the same man who caused her pregnancy without marriage but he should be a Muslim man. If he is not Muslim or if pregnancy is from someone else then she never can get married during pregnancy but only after her delivery of the baby.

Is lying bad?

Well, friend, lying can create a lot of tangled branches in the happy little forest of life. It's important to remember that honesty is like a gentle stream, flowing smoothly and bringing peace to those around you. So, let's paint a picture of truthfulness and watch our world become a brighter, more beautiful place.

Who breaks hearts more guys or girls?

Boys break more hearts. Everybody knows that, because girls have more feelings and are more sensitive...so their hearts get broken very easily.

Though...some boys might not agree with me so, lets just say neither or both. You can never really tell.

If your girl friend wants space dose that mean she wants to leave you?

Not always no, give her the 'space' she needs maybe? And then hopefully she will realsie what shes missing, therefore she knows you respect her.

If you begin to worry perhaps send her a message asking how she is after a few days?

How can you get back at your friends for backstabbing you?

The best way to get back at an Ex-friend for backstabbing you is... nothing don't talk to them don't even get bothered about it because that's what they want, they get more wound up from it not bothering you than if you did something back

How do you know if your boyfriend has gotten over his ex girlfriend?

Is he holding back from you? Answer

Can be difficult to tell sometimes. We men usually get over exes pretty quickly, as we are focusing our attention on our current relationships.

Obviously no two people react / respond the same to people, so you can't always count on specific signs (as some people / magazines would have you believe)

I would suggest having an open and honest talk with him about the ex and his current feelings toward that person. I would STRONGLY suggest that you try to put defensiveness aside and not take what he may say as a negative against you.

The idea here is for him to feel free to express what he's thinking / feeling without fear of your reaction.

Trust me, he's going to be worried about what you'll say or do. He's probably not looking for a fight, he just wants to answer your question.

If, however, he gets defensive immediately, there may be an underlying issue that needs addressed, either by him or by the two of you.

Hope this helps!

How can you get your ex back from his new girlfriend?

I think your best bet is to leave her alone. If she really does love you, then she will call and want to be with you. If she doesn't call you, then you know where you stand with her. In the meantime, go on about your life. Meet new people. Why not? Whatever you do, don't call her. Be mysterious; let her wonder what you're doing. If she does call you, act like you're having fun, and you're happy about the way your life is going.

More Advice:

Firstly, I need to mention that all potential solutions to your relationship issues are not a guarantee of success. Ultimately, if your ex has made a decision that your relationship is over, then you will have to make piece with it and move on.

Having said that, here are some suggestions that can help to get your girlfriend back:

1. The "No Contact Rule". This is an old strategy, but it still works. Let your ex have some space, especially if you've just broken up. They will miss the "person being around to share things with" They will miss that "person being around to share things with". Cutting off contact will also make you look stronger and less needy.

I am understanding here that you broke up with her. Well, you made the decision and if she wanted you back she would have come to you. I would leave her alone. If for some reason you don't think she is happy with her new boyfriend then perhaps you could talk to her. If she tells you she is happy with the guy she is with now I would move on.

Pretend you're not interested in her and let her know she can't have you. People always want what they can't have.

Start dating someone else immidiently to make her jealous, let her know about it. Jealousy is a powerful emotion.

Eventually tell her that your new girlfriend keeps asking for sex and you want to know if there's anything left between the two of you before you do it.

That'll spark up some emotion, trust me.

Ignore her. guaranteed successPretend shes just a friend when you run into her. Act nonchalant like she's one of the guys, but show respect. Don't call her at all!!

How do you know if your ex misses you?

If he misses you, he will call you and text you without you having to prompt him. He will make excuses to call and talk to you, he will make excuses to see you, and it will be obvious he misses you.

In general, if he says that he's too "busy" to call you or see you, it means that he's just not that interested. Even a guy who has had 2 hours of sleep and is entrenched in work will make the effort to come and see you IF he ACTUALLY missed you.

So if you haven't seen an effort on his part, just move on and save yourself heartache. Throw away his pictures, delete his pictures from your computer, don't call him (makes you seem desperate, pushes him further), don't talk to his friends, and seriously work on loving yourself again and work on finding someone that will truly love you.

You may think that guys can change, but this hurt will never leave you. If a guy truly loved you, you wouldn't ever have to even wonder if he misses you or if he is still into you. Even if it's hard, you must move on... if you ever plan on falling in love again.

Another answerAlso, if he stares at you all the time, flirts with you and calls or texts you all the time. Alsoif he really did miss you he would never have broken up with you in the first place, so he probably doesn't

What happens when a married Jehovah's witness wants to leave his mate to be with another woman a non Jehovah's witness?

VIEWPOINT FROM THE PERSPECTIVE OF A JEHOVAH'S WITNESS The problem would not be with the fact that the individual was not one of Jehovah's Witnesses. We have lots of members who are married to people of other faiths, or even who claim no faith. The problem would stem from ignoring God's laws on sex and marriage. The Bible says that sex is to be only within the marriage arrangement. People who are not married that engage in sex are commiting what the Bible calls fornication. (1 Corinthians 7:2-5; 1 Thessalonians 4:3-8; Ephesians 5:5) Fornication isa serious sin that is listed among the things that can cause a person to lose out on God's Kingdom. Notice what 1 Corinthians 6:9,10 says,"What! Do YOU not know that unrighteous persons will not inherit God’s kingdom? Do not be misled. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men kept for unnatural purposes, nor men who lie with men,nor thieves, nor greedy persons, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit God’s kingdom." How the matter is viewed from the congregation may be handled differently depending on the circumstances. First, if the individual is not a baptised Witness, thenthey are not considered a member in the first place. In that case, basically nothing changes. They were not a Witness to begin with, so they are not viewed any differently. If they were not baptized, but they had progressed to the point of engaging in the door to door ministry, and could be considered a Witness, then the congregation elders would meet with the person. The purpose of meeting with the person is first, to try and help the individual. They would counsel the person on how God views sex and marriage, and the Bible's commands regarding sex. They are going to try and help the person who is evidentally spiritually sick, and help them regain spiritual help. This is inline with the Bible's exhortation to Christian Elders at James 5:14, where it says,"Is there anyone sick among YOU? Let him call the older men of the congregation to [him], and let them pray over him, greasing [him] with oil in the name of Jehovah." The elders may ask the individual to stop engaging in the door to door ministry for a time, and resume earnest personal Bible study, in order to completely regain spiritual health. That would be what the elders would decide at that time, depending on the how the person responds to counsel. If the person is baptized as a Jehovah's Witness, then the same procedure as above would apply. But since the individual is advanced in their faith and regarded by the congregation and the community as a full-fledged Jehovah's Witness, then the elders would also keep in mind protecting the congregation from possible harmful influence and keeping reproach form God's name and the congregation, always though tempered with a view to rescueing a person who is very spiritually sick. They would cousel the person and try to reach the person's heart. If the person does not respond to counsel, and in some cases the person will actually tell the elders that they want to leave the congregation, then the elders may decide to apply 1 Corinthians 5:11, where it tells those to quit mixing in company with such persons, and let them become just as a person of the nations. In other words, they would no longer be considered a member of the congregation, unless later, they decide they want to return, in which case the elders would again try to help the person heal spiritually, and assist them in returning to the congregation. This is an outline of a couple of different senerios, but it gives some insight as to what happens in this type of situation. The elders always are going to have three basic questions in mind when dealing with this: How can we help this person? How can we protect the congregation from harmful influence? and How can we make sure that God's name is honored?

What are the solutions for a broken heart?

Time, it heals all wounds

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Yes " time" is the number one answer to heal our broken heart. My heart was been broken 4 times but this 4th times was the man that I married. I gave him 20 odd years of my life, everything a wife can give to her husband but unfortunately he betrayed me and fell in love with the married woman ( then), he met on a dating site. It was very hard for a long time but time, faith, belief, love ones, my children helped me to heal.

It also helped going to the beach and walk, I workout, and I also travel because of my work. If I can do it, and other women can, I think you can also. Don't never loose your faith. Good luck!

How do you deal with your boyfriend's ex girlfriend after she found out that we had an affair?

You don't - if you two are together now just ignore her. Unfortunately it wasn't the way to go and chances are she is hurt but the best thing to do now is for both of you to avoid all contact with her and don't entertain her with any feedback, comments etc. Just move forward together and eventually when she realizes you two are moving on and not allowing her to bother you she will get the idea and stop bothering you. If you find she is just over the top and won't leave you alone you may want to look into a restraining order.

How many high school sweethearts break up during college?

if you look in my family, My mother and father met in highschool, so did my Step Mom and my Step dad.... but they didnt get married till later(of course) and my Aunt and Uncle met in high school but my Aunt thought that he was annoying... My grandparents met when they were 13 and well they are still together..... It all depends.... Dont know if i helped

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