Breakups

Maybe you still love him deep down, but there are still some things you are mad at him about. You could try talking to him about how you feel and about the things you are angry at him for. And try to understand eachothers thoughts for why they might be mad at you and you could try yo do something about what he think you should improve!

It depends on whether you love him too. If not then tell him you just like him as a friend. If you do love him then it's up to you to decide if you want him for a boyfriend or not.

Only if get married with the same man who caused her pregnancy without marriage but he should be a Muslim man. If he is not Muslim or if pregnancy is from someone else then she never can get married during pregnancy but only after her delivery of the baby.

Boys break more hearts. Everybody knows that, because girls have more feelings and are more sensitive...so their hearts get broken very easily.

Though...some boys might not agree with me so, lets just say neither or both. You can never really tell.

Not always no, give her the 'space' she needs maybe? And then hopefully she will realsie what shes missing, therefore she knows you respect her.

If you begin to worry perhaps send her a message asking how she is after a few days?

The best way to get back at an Ex-friend for backstabbing you is... nothing don't talk to them don't even get bothered about it because that's what they want, they get more wound up from it not bothering you than if you did something back

Is he holding back from you? Answer

Can be difficult to tell sometimes. We men usually get over exes pretty quickly, as we are focusing our attention on our current relationships.

Obviously no two people react / respond the same to people, so you can't always count on specific signs (as some people / magazines would have you believe)

I would suggest having an open and honest talk with him about the ex and his current feelings toward that person. I would STRONGLY suggest that you try to put defensiveness aside and not take what he may say as a negative against you.

The idea here is for him to feel free to express what he's thinking / feeling without fear of your reaction.

Trust me, he's going to be worried about what you'll say or do. He's probably not looking for a fight, he just wants to answer your question.

If, however, he gets defensive immediately, there may be an underlying issue that needs addressed, either by him or by the two of you.

Hope this helps!

VIEWPOINT FROM THE PERSPECTIVE OF A JEHOVAH'S WITNESS The problem would not be with the fact that the individual was not one of Jehovah's Witnesses. We have lots of members who are married to people of other faiths, or even who claim no faith. The problem would stem from ignoring God's laws on sex and marriage. The Bible says that sex is to be only within the marriage arrangement. People who are not married that engage in sex are commiting what the Bible calls fornication. (1 Corinthians 7:2-5; 1 Thessalonians 4:3-8; Ephesians 5:5) Fornication isa serious sin that is listed among the things that can cause a person to lose out on God's Kingdom. Notice what 1 Corinthians 6:9,10 says,"What! Do YOU not know that unrighteous persons will not inherit God’s kingdom? Do not be misled. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men kept for unnatural purposes, nor men who lie with men,nor thieves, nor greedy persons, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit God’s kingdom." How the matter is viewed from the congregation may be handled differently depending on the circumstances. First, if the individual is not a baptised Witness, thenthey are not considered a member in the first place. In that case, basically nothing changes. They were not a Witness to begin with, so they are not viewed any differently. If they were not baptized, but they had progressed to the point of engaging in the door to door ministry, and could be considered a Witness, then the congregation elders would meet with the person. The purpose of meeting with the person is first, to try and help the individual. They would counsel the person on how God views sex and marriage, and the Bible's commands regarding sex. They are going to try and help the person who is evidentally spiritually sick, and help them regain spiritual help. This is inline with the Bible's exhortation to Christian Elders at James 5:14, where it says,"Is there anyone sick among YOU? Let him call the older men of the congregation to [him], and let them pray over him, greasing [him] with oil in the name of Jehovah." The elders may ask the individual to stop engaging in the door to door ministry for a time, and resume earnest personal Bible study, in order to completely regain spiritual health. That would be what the elders would decide at that time, depending on the how the person responds to counsel. If the person is baptized as a Jehovah's Witness, then the same procedure as above would apply. But since the individual is advanced in their faith and regarded by the congregation and the community as a full-fledged Jehovah's Witness, then the elders would also keep in mind protecting the congregation from possible harmful influence and keeping reproach form God's name and the congregation, always though tempered with a view to rescueing a person who is very spiritually sick. They would cousel the person and try to reach the person's heart. If the person does not respond to counsel, and in some cases the person will actually tell the elders that they want to leave the congregation, then the elders may decide to apply 1 Corinthians 5:11, where it tells those to quit mixing in company with such persons, and let them become just as a person of the nations. In other words, they would no longer be considered a member of the congregation, unless later, they decide they want to return, in which case the elders would again try to help the person heal spiritually, and assist them in returning to the congregation. This is an outline of a couple of different senerios, but it gives some insight as to what happens in this type of situation. The elders always are going to have three basic questions in mind when dealing with this: How can we help this person? How can we protect the congregation from harmful influence? and How can we make sure that God's name is honored?

Time, it heals all wounds

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Yes " time" is the number one answer to heal our broken heart. My heart was been broken 4 times but this 4th times was the man that I married. I gave him 20 odd years of my life, everything a wife can give to her husband but unfortunately he betrayed me and fell in love with the married woman ( then), he met on a dating site. It was very hard for a long time but time, faith, belief, love ones, my children helped me to heal.

It also helped going to the beach and walk, I workout, and I also travel because of my work. If I can do it, and other women can, I think you can also. Don't never loose your faith. Good luck!

You don't - if you two are together now just ignore her. Unfortunately it wasn't the way to go and chances are she is hurt but the best thing to do now is for both of you to avoid all contact with her and don't entertain her with any feedback, comments etc. Just move forward together and eventually when she realizes you two are moving on and not allowing her to bother you she will get the idea and stop bothering you. If you find she is just over the top and won't leave you alone you may want to look into a restraining order.

if you look in my family, My mother and father met in highschool, so did my Step Mom and my Step dad.... but they didnt get married till later(of course) and my Aunt and Uncle met in high school but my Aunt thought that he was annoying... My grandparents met when they were 13 and well they are still together..... It all depends.... Dont know if i helped

you act like you dont want him , and he will come back to you but just play hard to get and he will keep trying to get back with you but after a while you can tell him yes and just watch how nice he will be to you Let him see you happily going out with another man. That is the old "one wants what one cannot have". For some reason it just makes you that much more attractive.

I'm only a teen, but I think what you should do is take it slow. Most likely, you hate him, but if he wants to see you, then see him. Only, do it in private. No matter how much you may hate his guts, just try to get to know him again. He may not hate you, he may even have regretted his desicion. Get to know him again and take it really slow. Just be friends.

What I would do is try to forget about him and you could do that by finding someone else you like better.

• I have deleted the first answer; the correct answer is below. There are legal implications with respect to engagement rings which potentially could cause trouble and monetary loss for those taking unqualified advice on legal matters.
• In Louisiana my information is that you cannot keep the ring if the engagement is broken. The only way that you can keep it is if he chooses not to get it back upon the termination of your relationship, or if you do get married (but that gets complicated). Legally, you are required to immediately give the ring, or its monetary equivalent, back in the event that the person who gave it to you requests that it be returned. In all US states except Montana, an engagement ring is considered to be a "conditional" gift, where the conditions of the gift are not met until the marriage is completed. Therefore, once the chance that marriage will occur has been nullified (you break up or call off the engagement) then, upon request, the ring must immediately be given back to the person who initially purchased and gave it as a gift. Some states do have laws regarding who broke off the engagement and/or why, which can affect whether the ring recipient must return the ring, but that is rare, and is not the case in Louisiana. So, give it back if you are asked to do so, otherwise you could end up paying court fees and still end up giving it back in the end.

The previous answer was so ridiculous and childish, I had to just delete it completely. The short answer to this is that he is either bored and/or lonely, and he thinks he can get what he wants from you with minimal effort. Unfortunately, this is almost always true. Whether it was a previous girlfriend, or you, who let this behavior develop, the fact of the matter is that he now sees you as recyclable. He can throw you away when he's done with you and then pick you up when he wants to use you again. Not all guys do this, but the ones that do, they do it because they believe they can get away with it. The real question is, do you take him back each time and how do you feel after he leaves? Real relationships don't strengthen with the yo-yo effect, so unless you are completely okay with on-again/off-again relationships, end it now while you can, if at least for yourself. Saying no can be difficult, but you will feel much better about it later on.

Whenever you feel ready to. If you still have feelings for your ex, then you should maybe address these issues first and then make a clean break. If you have already done that, the only reason you must be asking that question is because you are bothered what your ex might think. Will it make you happy to start a new relationship? I dont think you have got your head around the fact that you no longer have to take your exes opinion into account. If you are still in touch with your ex, because of children, for instance, it would be wrong to parade your new interest around in their face, but let them know that you are seeing someone and you are happy.

I think after a separation and divorce it is important that you take this rare chance to get to know who you are and what you want out of life. Don't be in too big a hurry. It's fine to date a few months after a separation, but be sure the person you are dating understands that there are no promises of a relationship at this time.

When you stil feel that empty, cruddy hole in your gut or heart, you should take a little more time out for yourself to mend. That way you won't make a mistake or rebound.

There isn't any rule on time frames...it really depends on how confident you feel going back out there and meeting new people again.

Your first date after a divorce or separation will be a rebound relationship as you will still be searching for the same characteristics you were used too. Try not to fall into that trap because you don't want to be with someone similar to the one you left. You will shortly find yourself again and know what you are looking for in a man/woman.

It depends. If you were "alone" for a good period of time, mentally/physically or in other ways while in a relationship, than you are ready anytime after you get out. You have had your 'alone' time. However, if you jump from one relationship to a new one (without mental/emotional time apart)...then it might be too soon. The answer...have SOME time alone.

If you need a rule of thumb as regards time after divorce, it is to be alone for one year for each four you were married. This gives you time to become self sufficient and to get back to the real you.