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Breakups
It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.
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How do you get the ex boyfriend to get back with you?
you act like you dont want him , and he will come back to you but just play hard to get and he will keep trying to get back with you but after a while you can tell him yes and just watch how nice he will be to you Let him see you happily going out with another man. That is the old "one wants what one cannot have". For some reason it just makes you that much more attractive.
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I also love my second cousin. Everyone at school even knows about it but I just don't care. No one seems to have that much of a problem with it anyway because it's a fairly distant blood relation, but screw them anyway even if they do care. All of my close friends, which I have plenty of, don't care at all anymore and instead of caling her "your cousin" they refer to her as your girlfriend. But everyone that I do tell, they always care at the start, but then i explain what a second cousin is and how it doesn't raise the risk of having deformed babies and how it's legal in every country to marry them and it's legally not incest and they get over it eventually. I can't help the fact that I love my second cousin. I only met her a few months ago and we got along really well. we became attracted to each other and then we started to play around and kiss and stuff and now we love each other. My family and her family don't really mind which is a good thing. Even her cool older brother said he didn't care because he likes me. No one seems to care, they always say "as long as she's hot". aside from that I just have to accept that I'm gonna get ripped on about it, but it's worth it. I always just think to myself. "yeah, that may be true, I am with my second cousin. But she's hotter than what you'll ever get." and she is so I'm all good... Just do whatever you want. If you love them, then be with them. If not, then move on. Hope that helped you feel better about eveything. ;)
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You can continue to research this questions but that above text is what you are going to find everywhere eles. Dating your first cousin is bad and you shouldn't do it. Second cousin however is as much blood related to you as a total stranger.
I like my second cousin also. I have no idea if she likes me or not but whenever i till my friends that i like my second cousin they freak out until i tell them that second cousin are barley related. I told my family about it and they don't care which is good but know i need to find out if she likes me. =D
What is the solution of broken family?
Broken homes are usually the result of the breakdown of the family as a single unit. With relaxed laws (no fault) for divorces, women working outside of the home and a diminished belief in things spiritual and moral, society is experiencing decay in general.
AnswerThere is no one solution for what you call "broken families". First, young men and women need to be taught how to avoid pregnancy until they have learned the skills required to raise an intact and healthy family, one that thrives because it has a stable foundation.
Next, give families the supports and resources that help keep families together and address the social problems that tear them apart. Loss of jobs, poverty, inflation, unaffordable medical costs, high cost of housing, lack of higher education or job skills, living under hopeless conditions- are only some of the difficulties that cause stress in families, stress that leads to depression, domestic abuse, turmoil, poverty, divorce and disinterest in marriage. Economic instability leads to generations of "broken families".
In those cases where a break up is unavoidable or a family unit was never formed in the first place we need to reduce the birth rate and provide the supports that keep the family healthy in spite of the situation. We need to stop referring to those families as "broken" and take steps toward reducing the numbers. Most single parent families have mothers as heads of the households and they live on the edge of poverty. Offer those women something better and maybe they will wait to have families. Unfortunately, we have allowed the problems to grow and only a monumental effort fueled by new ideas and dedication will turn the situation around.
What does it mean when your ex wants to still be friends?
Some possible reasons are:
He might either:
Feel bad,
Still like you, but not as much, (Just like he likes other people that are simply only his friend),
Or really like being your friend, but nothing more.
If it's the last option, evaluate how you feel. Are you satisfied with only being his friend? If not, get him out of your life, as what is the purpose of keeping something or someone around that doesn't satisfy you at all?
When an ex lover breaks up with you and tell you they want to still be friends with you, it's just a selfish way to remove any guilt for hurting you!
He wants to keep an eye on you and your behavior in case his "new relationship" doesn't work out, then he can come back to you. He wants to see if the grass is greener on the other side.
What ever you do, DO NOT FALL FOR THE WHOLE "LET'S STILL BE FRIENDS" BS, PLEASE!! If the relationship is over, just let it go. A lot of the time, people break up, but still feel there is hope. If you just quite can't let go, trying to "just be friends", may sound like the most logical option, but this is an unintentional action of allowing the dumper to not feel any guilt for hurting your feelings, as the dumpee will always want more, especially if emotional attachment is still there. BIG MISTAKE! It is just a way for you to alleviate any guilt, and this friendship gets in the way of the dumpee's recovery, as a change of heart is always anticipated. I just never understood the whole "You were my girlfriend/boyfriend for God knows how long and now, you're just my platonic friend" thing. It's a hard and awkward transition and it takes time to adjust. Being friends with your ex boyfriend while he's starting a new relationship is hard, as you're going to get hurt, especially if you still have feeling for him. As his friend, he might confide in you or tell you details about his new relationship. It might be difficult or uncomfortable for you to deal with. I feel the only way exes can be friends is if you broke up a while ago and have since gotten completely over each other and have moved on. Before that point, you're just setting yourself up to the point that you'll get disappointed or hurt again. Forget his intentions. He might be missing you and wanting you back or he might just want to be your friend, but think about what your intentions are. Do you want to just be his friend, or, do you want it there to be more? I ask you this, because if the latter is the case, you're setting yourself up for heartbreak, as it won't work out. If you guys want to be friends, you have to make sure that's all you're going to be, and you have to accept and be comfortable with the fact that he has someone new in his life and she's playing the same role you once played in his life, while you are now just a friend of his.
I was with a boy 2 years on and off, and in the end, he broke up with me, and only wanted to be friends. He recently added me on Facebook, and let me tell you, it's not fun, as I may have another guy now and I'm over this one, but seeing him happy with this new girl hurts......long story short, it's a bad idea to be friends with your ex.
I want my ex boyfriend back but he says hat he doesn't want me back?
I'm only a teen, but I think what you should do is take it slow. Most likely, you hate him, but if he wants to see you, then see him. Only, do it in private. No matter how much you may hate his guts, just try to get to know him again. He may not hate you, he may even have regretted his desicion. Get to know him again and take it really slow. Just be friends.
How do you stop liking a boy that you really like?
What I would do is try to forget about him and you could do that by finding someone else you like better.
In Louisiana do you keep the engagement ring if engagement is broken?
- I have deleted the first answer; the correct answer is below. There are legal implications with respect to engagement rings which potentially could cause trouble and monetary loss for those taking unqualified advice on legal matters.
- In Louisiana my information is that you cannot keep the ring if the engagement is broken. The only way that you can keep it is if he chooses not to get it back upon the termination of your relationship, or if you do get married (but that gets complicated). Legally, you are required to immediately give the ring, or its monetary equivalent, back in the event that the person who gave it to you requests that it be returned. In all US states except Montana, an engagement ring is considered to be a "conditional" gift, where the conditions of the gift are not met until the marriage is completed. Therefore, once the chance that marriage will occur has been nullified (you break up or call off the engagement) then, upon request, the ring must immediately be given back to the person who initially purchased and gave it as a gift. Some states do have laws regarding who broke off the engagement and/or why, which can affect whether the ring recipient must return the ring, but that is rare, and is not the case in Louisiana. So, give it back if you are asked to do so, otherwise you could end up paying court fees and still end up giving it back in the end.
How did they write dates back in the middle ages?
by using feather pens and a bowl with ink
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Answer: I believe you are asking how dates were calculated rather than the mechanics of how they were written down.
The answer is that various different systems were used.
- Royal charters and legal documents always refer to the year of the king's reign: "In the 5th year of King Stephen" for example. The famous Magna Carta ends not with King John's signature (as many people wrongly believe) but with the dateline: "Given by our hand in the meadow that is called Runnymede, between Windsor and Staines, on the fifteenth day of June in the seventeenth year of our reign", meaning 15 June 1215.
- The Church calendar was far more complex and used the old Roman system of Kalends, Ides and Nones together with the feast days of the saints to specify any particular date. It also used the term "octave" to refer back to a feast day a week earlier ("octave" means an eight day period but actually means the 7 days after the feast day, since the day itself is also included). So 2 days after the feast of St Michael would be 10 May, the Octave of St Ranulf would be 3 April and the Kalends of June is 1 June. Medieval years were calculated to start from either 25 December or 25 March, not from 1 January.
- Ordinary folk would have little concept of dates, apart from the major Holy Days, Sundays and feast days that were announced by the local priest. They would express dates only roughly, for example as "a few days before Martinmas".
Why do exes come back into your life?
The previous answer was so ridiculous and childish, I had to just delete it completely. The short answer to this is that he is either bored and/or lonely, and he thinks he can get what he wants from you with minimal effort. Unfortunately, this is almost always true. Whether it was a previous girlfriend, or you, who let this behavior develop, the fact of the matter is that he now sees you as recyclable. He can throw you away when he's done with you and then pick you up when he wants to use you again. Not all guys do this, but the ones that do, they do it because they believe they can get away with it. The real question is, do you take him back each time and how do you feel after he leaves? Real relationships don't strengthen with the yo-yo effect, so unless you are completely okay with on-again/off-again relationships, end it now while you can, if at least for yourself. Saying no can be difficult, but you will feel much better about it later on.
How long should you wait to start dating after a bad break up?
Whenever you feel ready to. If you still have feelings for your ex, then you should maybe address these issues first and then make a clean break. If you have already done that, the only reason you must be asking that question is because you are bothered what your ex might think. Will it make you happy to start a new relationship? I dont think you have got your head around the fact that you no longer have to take your exes opinion into account. If you are still in touch with your ex, because of children, for instance, it would be wrong to parade your new interest around in their face, but let them know that you are seeing someone and you are happy.
I think after a separation and divorce it is important that you take this rare chance to get to know who you are and what you want out of life. Don't be in too big a hurry. It's fine to date a few months after a separation, but be sure the person you are dating understands that there are no promises of a relationship at this time.
When you stil feel that empty, cruddy hole in your gut or heart, you should take a little more time out for yourself to mend. That way you won't make a mistake or rebound.
There isn't any rule on time frames...it really depends on how confident you feel going back out there and meeting new people again.
Your first date after a divorce or separation will be a rebound relationship as you will still be searching for the same characteristics you were used too. Try not to fall into that trap because you don't want to be with someone similar to the one you left. You will shortly find yourself again and know what you are looking for in a man/woman.
It depends. If you were "alone" for a good period of time, mentally/physically or in other ways while in a relationship, than you are ready anytime after you get out. You have had your 'alone' time. However, if you jump from one relationship to a new one (without mental/emotional time apart)...then it might be too soon. The answer...have SOME time alone.
If you need a rule of thumb as regards time after divorce, it is to be alone for one year for each four you were married. This gives you time to become self sufficient and to get back to the real you.
What does out of sight out of mind mean?
It usually means if you can't see it then you don't think about it. Like as an example, laundry. If you can't see that you need to do laundry then you might ignore it, or forget about it. Since you can't see it then it's out of mind. You could hide it and you could forget it's there.
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In regards to relationships this usually means that a person seems to care about you when around you but when away they seem to forget about you or not care about you. True friendship or true love will not be "out of sight out of mind" because you will still care about or love the other person regardless of the distance between you.
What do you say after your boyfriends breaks up with you?
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If you are going to break up with someone first let me tell you that it's not easy, but that being said, all you have to do in a nice way is tell the person involved that you aren't interested in seeing them anymore and that you feel they should see someone else as well. That whatever the two of you once shared is over.
It means she doesn't like you enough to see you as much as you want to see her, hence, she "wants space;" however, she would like to use you whenever she feels lonely, then she "misses talking to you."
Well,that's the thing though she told me she wanted to be alone for awhile and asked for space she said before that everytime i talk to her she couldn't take it anymore cause i annoyed her that the reason she asked for space.so im asking y would she say something like that even though she wanted kept asking for space in the first place????
Maybe its not the talking she misses.she probly misses you and is probly feeling bad for herself and so she just said that so she can hide her feelings she has for you.I kinda seen stuff like this they ask for space and then in a few days or so they find out that they already regret doing and so they feel bad.yea i think its that im not really sure but i hope its goes well.
i totally disagree with the person who answered 1st. im thinking of doing he same thing, but not cuz i don't like the guy, because i don't think i know him well enoughfor him to be showing me so much attention. i want to get to know him but slowly. thers absolutely nothing wrong with him and i think hes really cute and nice, but he says hey and looks at me EVERY TIME i see him. he just needs to go slower. since she said she misses talking to you, obviously she didnt want space cuz she thought something was wrong w/ you. she still wants to talk with you. you probably backed off too much. just go slowly with her, she sounds like a very smart girl who has her head on straight. shes got more morals that tell her she needs to know you better before getting involved in a relationship.
take a deep breath. are you with me? she's not breaking up with you. she still loves you and wants to be with you. she needs space. no calls, no text, no letters, no emails. it's going to be hell on your senses, but she needs her space. let her breath. she'll be back. she'll miss you. if you're still there and you're still cool with her (that means not degrading or accusatory. abusive. whatever) then everything will be fine. think of your family and friends. if you get tired of being around them you feel boxed in. you give each other space to breath and grow. you don't cling to them and say "what? what's going on? don't go!" just chill. everything will be fine. keep living your days. read. go biking. disc golf. thumb wrestle. i don't know. just be cool and be yourself. everthing is fine, there's nothing wrong and she's not going to leave you. she just needs space to breath. put your hands in the air, take 2 steps back, and let her be.
well, first of all, you need to know that it wasn't really good at looking at your husband's phone, because you should've trusted him more. But, on the other hand, your husband shouldn't be hiding these things to you, but one question though "did he say yes on the relationship with the other women?" if it's no, talk it out to your husband, calmly, but if you see him lying or making it up, you're best without him. if the answer is yes, and i know it might hurt because you love him and you didn't actually think he'll be cheating on you, but your best opinion is to leave him and start fresh. and if your angry at the other women, just keep thinking that she was that desperate to feel "in love" that she'll take someone else's husband, i mean that's really pathetic if you ask me. ;)
How do you know when your boyfriend doesn't like you?
HE WILL LEAVE CLUES HE WONT CALL YOU HE MIGHT BE NASTY TO YOU LIKE BEING SHORT OR SHARP WITH YOU HE WILL BE DISTANT YOU WILL KNOW IF HE DOESNT LIKE YOU
AnswerYou will feel the distance between you. He doesnt call or show the same affection like he used to. He is mean to you or nothing you do means anything to him. He doesnt say sweet nothings to you anymore, everyone else and everything else means more to him then you. Just ask and get it over with, so you can either improve the relationship or move on and live your life.
AnswerYou'll fill all weird and awkward around him. He'll be cold and distant and probably refer his friends over you. Plus you'll fill like your not even in that relationship anymore and start liking other guys.
To be honest time is what it's going to take to get over him I know what you're going through me and my ex have been broken up for over a year and we were together four years and we still have mad love for each other we are in the process of trying to get back together so I guess what I really should tell you is if you love him and you really love him and you feel like you gotta chance take it you may never stop thinking about him but for the time being maybe you should try to talk to someone else or just get out and mingle with other people to help you get over your ex but really it's going to take time time heals all things and prayer does too!!
The first thing you must do is avoid him. Once your brain is not getting input and feedback on him, pretty soon it will find other avenues to channel its energy. If you don't see, talk or ask anyone about him you will become bored of going over the same old things in your head. But if you continue to hang on it will just drag it out.Also get out and meet men. That's another way to replace the thoughts of him. I think it takes about 6 months then your over the worst then after that it dwindles quicker and quicker to indifference.
Why does a married woman still miss her ex boyfriend from month ago?
Either something went undone in that relationship or something is lacking in this one. To be a happily married woman and think about past relationships is normal but to miss an ex to the point where you are constantly thinking about an ex, then some underlying issue is a foot.
How do you show your ex that you love her?
If this is an ex-girlfriend, you may have already breeched the "L" word during you previous relationship with her. If this is the case the words usually aren't that dificult to say. That is.... if the relationship ended amicably.
If you had a relationship that didn't involve the "L" word, that's another ball of wax! Some times the reason for break-ups is because one party couldn't make a commitment big enough for "I love you", but you felt comfortable with the person you were with. This is usually the case and the party yerning to hear those words just got resigned to the idea that you were never going to take it to the next level.
If you truly love her, and the situation isn't complicated with her beeing with another, just say it. Your previous relationship should have had the stability for her to accept your love this time around.
What are signs that your boyfriend is about to dump you?
Only if he doesn't love you or care about you
A broken family is when your parents have broken up. This is a painful decision for kids; Who do you want to live with, Will you ever see your mother or father (depending on who you chose to live with) again and other painful questions like that.
How can you try to fix a damaged relationship?
Sincerity and honesty. You broke the trust previously, so it's what it takes to win it back. You need to really want it back.l First, ask yourself, why do you want to mend it? Does this person mean so much to you that you don't want to move on? If the relationship means alot to you, (I presume it means alot to the other person too, because true love is felt by both parties. But since truat has been betrayed, a block of forgiveness might be present such that the other person might not wish to let their feelings reign, as they might yet again get hurt. So, I believe take it slowly, show them that you made a mistake, and regret it. If you're sincere, and the other person still loves you, you're heading the right way.
Your crush just broke up with his girlfriend what do you do?
He just broke up with someone and you could give him some time as you don't want to be a rebound however, you could just let him know that your interested in him and see how things go. If you find he is interested take things slow as he did just break up with someone.
I think in most cases guys like girls who are cute, fun to be with, outgoing, and return their affections. The fact that they may be Asian or any other race or culture has little to do with it.
Should you break up with a girl if your not in love but you do love her?
Yes you should definetely break up with her.
If you realize that you are not in love with a girl anymore save both you and her a lot of wasted time, energy and heartache.
The sooner the better- It's painful but in the long run it is the nicer more moral thing to do.
How do you take your belongings from your ex?
* It's best to contact the ex to ask if they can come over to get their personal affects and if they refuse or give a time to do so and not be there when the person gets there then the police can escort the person to the exes house to get their personal affects.
