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It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.

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How do you find out why you broke up with your ex girlfriend and she doesn't want to talk about it?

Until you can figure out why you broke up with your girlfriend then do her a favor and stay away from her. You have some serious soul searching to do. Hate to commit? Want your cake and eat it too? Doesn't work that way. Unless you can be loyal, love her with all your heart, be good to her, have fun together and share, not to mention good communication skills then you are too immature to have a serious relationship.

How do you get even with a womanizer?

leave them alone don't sink as low as they are. That's what KARMA is for.

AnswerKARMA. let them suffer....all alone...................you don't have to be as low as them all it does it let them know how bad they got to you.................then that means they have won in some way.

Hi i want to get them back good and i dont believe in KARMA

What should you do if your best friend since childhood starts liking you Should you give them a chance or would that just ruin the friendship you've had for so long?

it could make your relationship diffrent but if you are a teen and you want them to be in your life later odds are you wont get married and when you broke up you couldn't be good friends with them. but if they ask you out and you say no that could get your relationship messed up too so it is all up to you.

How do you know if you should break up with your boyfriend?

Were you in love with one another? Is he a good decent person? Do you have fun together? Ask yourself. Only you know.

AnswerAll you've got to do, is ask yourself a) were you happy? b) did you love him? c) could you imagine your lives together? d) did trying to imagine it make you happy? e) can you envisage a time when you could be happier - without him or imagine being happier with anyone else?

The answers to these should help you.

AnswerI don't know did you? Explain more what happen in the relationship? AnswerNo one can actually answer this for you but YOURSELF. So if you dont miss him and think about him all the time and watch his every move and get jealous when you see him with someone, then you know you did the right thing because you consider him a friend..Otherwise if your questioning yourself(you are) you may still have feelings for him..but its normal. Just see if this goes on like this..you will know what to do if it does..only you know..

Well... I recently broke up with my boyfriend, and I don't know if I did the right thing either. Basically if you feel like crap it's normal. He was the nicest guy I knew but something told me we weren't right for each other. Just let the tears fall, and move on. That's what I'm doing. :) imagine your life without them if it's easy let them go if it's hard hold them tight and never let go.

What does it mean when you can't stop thinking about your guy friend?

You need to ask yourself.. "can I ever think of him as more of a friend?" , "do i really like him?" , and "if we went out would this effect our relationship as friends?"

Be a little bit more flirty around him and see how he reacts to this. If he does the same back have him make the first move. (girls usually hate making the first move.) And see how the relationship goes. If the relationship does not go well, then if he is a nice guy then you to can continue to be friends. (:

How to get over a friendship breakup?

That's really hard. My advise is to be as open and honest with each other as you can; and, if it's possible, to still be friends.

I was a cheerleader with him and he was my partner. I sat him down and talked to him, before he got a chance to drop me, and explained that I knew things weren't working out between us but we had to get over it. We stayed best friends.

Look for new girls and hook up with as many as you can. Its shallow but it works perfectly.

It depends if they hate you afterwards. If they do you don't really want to stay friends because they don't understand. The person I was with didn't hold anything against me and kept acting as normal.

I say that you should just ignore them. Don't give them the cold shoulder but don't talk to them unless they talk to you first. My best friend and I haven't had a conversation in about a month and a half. As time goes by, it gets easier. If you feel like crying, do it in private because keeping those emotions inside of you makes you more prone to doing something you will regret. Think about what your friend did to you. Are you willing to give them a second chance? I wouldn't advise it though because I gave my best friend many more chances and I caused myself unnecessary pain. What she did was very extreme though. If it's that extreme, definitely just ignore her/him. You might want to find a way to distract yourself for the first few days/weeks.

I would agree to keep yourself busy for the first few weeks, its the hardest. And don't act before you have REALLY thought about it; regret is never a good way to go. But I sure wouldn't isolate myself from him/her, or be trying to act like I'm alright when I am upset about it. It would also depend on how bad the break up was. If it were something completely uncalled for, as in something stupid, or mindless, or just being cruel to get back on a low level. It also depends on how you want to leave the relationship. Either in a good way (staying friends), or a bad way (as in like never talking to each other ever again). If your headed toward the good way, then start out acting like friends. It might be hard (if the break up was bad) but later, you wont regret keeping a friendship later on in life. But if your heading toward never talking to each other again, then trying not to talk. If you have to, that's just what happens. But I don't recommend doing that, losing a friend over a break up. It will be like World War 3 if your the one who is hurt the most and trying to keep the friendship afterward (same as if it were reversed). No matter where its going, just don't let your angry over come your decision. A feeling of hate is strong, but shouldn't be strong enough to destroy, ruin, and trash a saveable relation. If a second chance seems way too extreme for what happened then just stay as acquaintances.

You will have to make up your mind and realize that we all have these relationships that hurt when they're over. There's nothing you can do about being human. Once you have forgiven yourself for being human, and made up your mind that life is too short to dwell on the past, you will be on your way to the future and new things.

If I was you, I wouldn't leave this person alone until you got an apology out of him or her. Sometimes they will crack and just make up. If they don't, either you get an "I'm sorry", or you have a real reason to be mad at them and even "snitch" on them.

That is quite hard as you were best friends with them. I would probably leave them alone and make some new friends, this gives you the chance to make new friendships and step out of your comfort zone making new friends. Hope this helps :)

Which state contains the name of a country bordering the US?

Texas, New Mexico, Arizona, and California share borders with Mexico. Maine, New Hampshire, Vermont, New York, Pennsylvania, and Ohio border Canada.

What is the best way to get your ex boyfriend back?

Well you flirt around him with other boys and make him jealous. Maybe get another boyfriend for the mean time to make him jealous. from cupid

How is the best way to break up with your boyfriend?

face-to-face and straightforward but not too harsh and no lines like 'its not you, its me' and tell her/him the reason. The one you're breakin up will at least think you're brave enough to do it face-to-face. Straightforward so you don't have to spend so many hours in the mirror trying to make a speech. Not too harsh because you don't want to sound like you've never liked/loved her/him. No lines so you won't sound cheesy or lame. And give her/him the reason because she/he deserve that much and so you'll save her/him from wondering what they did wrong and what's the reason. good luck ;)

How do you know when a guy is lying?

# Licking his lips:

To help cover up the lie,liars tend to pucker their lips or licking them constantly. # Step 2 The smile:

When his smile looks fake and it lasts longer than usual. # Step 3 His details:

They like to keep the story short. He only gives you a little bit of details. Its hard to keep the story straight So liars tend to speak generally about a topic. # Step 4 Changing his story:

Liars also could make up so much to the story and the story could change three different times. # Step 5 His hands and feet:

Watch his hands and feet for constant movement, this is a sign of him being stressed # Step 6 His slow speaking:

He speaks slowly because he doesn't want to tell to much and he's watching what he says. Liars tend to choose words more carefully and speaks slowly. # Step 7 Where he looks while he is talking to you:

Liars tend to look up and to the right because that's your creative side. When they are telling the truth they usually look down and to the left. Test this out: Ask some one to imagine a big pink elephant with blue dots and green feet and watch where they look. They are using the creative side so they should be looking up and to the right. # Step 8 Covers the mouth while speaking:

He covers his mouth while talking or also he could rest his chin on his hand while talking. Either partial or full covering of the mouth.

How do you make a friend forgive you when that friend is wrong?

I would get to know my friend first and try my best to not give them any reason to feel the need for me to ask for forgiveness.

I'm just that respectable, honorable, and a great friend. So, I would do anything that would be so unforgiving or need forgiving.

If I did do something, it was for a good reason...I'd explain why and let them decide. Or it would be totally unintentionally and immediately ask for forgiveness.

okay, definitely do NOT do the whole making her feel bad and make you seem like the victim. It doesn't work 99% of the time. It just makes the other person get very defensive. It depends on what you did to the friend to make her mad. If it's simple, just give her space. If it's big, she may never forgive you. You have to apologize a lot. I've been apologizing to my friend for a year and a half. (But I told her I wish she would have died, so it's probaby 100 times worse than whatever you did.) Show your friend that you really are sorry. Be totally selfless. Write her a song, a poem, a letter. Bake her cookies or a cake. Show her that you truly miss the friendship. Eventually, she'll come back.

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I am in the same situation my best friend hates me for freaking her out with an email... (crazy i know) but anyway what you have to do is email her explaining why you said or did something. Another thing that is kind of evil is make her feel bad like tell her that she isn't the victim and make it sound like she did it to u. i hope i helped!!!!!!!!!!

How can you tell if your ex who dumped you still likes you?

Hello, does he seem to show any interest anymore? Has anyone you know mutually told you he may still like you? Look for the clues that indicated the first time you dated! If you dumped him why do you care if he likes you, was the grass not greener on the other side ... one word, playa

Ways how to forget someone you love?

You may begin by taking out a clean sheet of paper, and record one one side -- all of the negative experiences this darling exposed you to. On the right side of the sheet, record all of the positives you can come up with. Do not discard. Read it over again at various times during your day. Feel free to add or take away..in other words edit. You will know, at the end of this excursion into reality, what you should do. You will need to revisit the list periodically, because the libido sometimes overwhelms the ego.

What does it mean when a guy is always staring at you and smiling but has a girlfriend?

It all depends on how he looks at you.If he looks dreamily at you, you know he loves you but if he looks at over girls that are not his girlfriend you know he does not like you he just likes checking girls out.

It all depends on how he looks at you.If he looks dreamily at you, you know he loves you but if he looks at over girls that are not his girlfriend you know he does not like you he just likes checking girls out.

How do you win your ex boyfriend back if he is already married to someone else?

It honestly depends on how long ago you and the person broke up. Also, who broke up with who? If they dumped you, the odds are that you may not win them back. However, if you dumped them maybe they are trying to make you jealous. THAT IS NOT ALWAYS THE CASE THOUGH. "Some people are in your past... and sometimes that is where they belong. In the past."

How do you stop loving a guy who's not right for you when you are in love?

  • You need to know yourself better and realize what love really is about. Love is devotion; honesty; loyal; caring; encouragement and good communication skills. Don't ever settle for less. This young man is not for you and you should be independent and walk away even if it means some heartbreak because you will be the winner in the end. There is that special young man out there for you so don't stick with this young man or you will have many regrets.

How can you tell when a guy is going tobreakup with you?

how 2 tell if ur BF wants break upwell for one. there is any WAYS to tell... for one you can tell by body language such as if he is just sitting around your house & not looking at you in that special way or wanting a kiss or hug or fool around, or even saying good things about you such as "you look pretty" or "you smell good" or "I love you". Maybe you can tell by how much he hangs out with his friends... Does he have a sertin girl-friend that you HATE yet he refuses to stop "hanging out" with her? These all r signs, but the only true way to know is to ASK him. I know its hard to ask your boyfriend that, but it maybe that he is just scared to tell you. AnswerThere are lots of ways to tell if your Bf/Gf wants to break up with you

1:Trys to find ways not to be around you

2: Does not hold, hug or kiss you as much.

3: Does not look into your eyes when talking.

4: Always starting fights and wanting to leave.

5: Does not listen when your trying to have a serious conversation.

6: starts lying about small things.

7: If in love, does not say "i love you" as much as before.

8: when you can't get their attention as much as before.

9. ignores ur text,messages,emails.

Some of these things could also mean there is a problem with your Bf/Gf so the best thing would be to talk to them and tell them how you fell. see what they have to say about it

Hope this helps!

How do you get over being dumped?

When you have just been dumped it is important to understand what went wrong in the relationship so that it can be remedied in the future. There is not point making the same mistake again in another relationship.

After you can have another go at the relationship or you just might want to move on.

If you are at the teenage years, relationships are usually not 'serious' and are more casual so it would be a good idea to move on.

However, it gets slightly different in the older people. They are usually more determined to make it right or have another try at the relationship.

Therefore you should do what you think is best for you and don't let anyone get in your way. The choice is 100% yours.

How do you earn back a boy's trust?

Don't ask her if she trusts you. I know this will be hard but you can't let her know you're trying to. If you know what you did to lose it then show her you can be better than that. You won't get anywhere by telling her anything, you'll need to prove it. == If you really want to earn a girl's trust, you must tell her about your feelings. Apologize for the reason you lost her trust and mean it. Allow her to be angry at you and don't expect her to forget it quickly. Earning trust back once you lost it takes time.

Do men regret leaving their partner and kids in the end?

I think not !

I don't know about anyone else, but I regret having children. That decision has been the cause of most of my unhappiness in life. My kids are severely handicapped. Our lives have been nothing but taking care of them. I'm 55 and despite having busted my butt working for 35 years, I have no money, have never been anywhere, don't have friends and don't have any time for myself. I so wish I could go back in time 22 years and do everything differently.

What does it mean when your boyfriend talks about marrying you in the future?

it depends if your asking like when is the best time or the usual. the best is when you both love each other and hardly fight and arent jealous of one and another. and its up to you to decide if youre ready. just keep in mind how much he cares and how much you care. the outcome in the end will be perfect if you keep those things in mind. and you can always cut it off if you thinks its too soon.

Is a wife responsible for her husbands debts?

It depends upon the state in which the couple resided during their marriage, the issue of his incarceration is not really relevant as to which spouse owes debts incurred. If the couple resided in a community property state the wife is responsible for all debts incurred during the marriage including but not limited to credit card account(s). If the couple resided in a non CP state the wife would only be responsible for debts that were incurred jointly. This only applies to a couple who are still legally married, the final terms of the divorce decree generally stipulates how existing debts are assigned.

How can you get back the mother of your child after a breakup?

I would recommend trying to build trust back up. Also, flattering her would help. Helping out with the baby (buying it stuff like clothes, toys, diapers) would also show her that you want to be there. Be responsible.

Why do women want their ex more after they have broken up?

You know the saying you never know what you got until it's gone. Or the phrase the grass always looks greener from the other side. Well women realize the importance of a good man after a break up with them mind you I said a good man not a perfect man, but a good one. Love now a days is hard to find and a woman just wants a man she can trust and rely on. Even though the ex she broke up with may not be the best she realizes he was a good man and maybe there's a chance for her and the ex to rekindle a love that they once shared. It's not that she's desperate it's just she's sees what she didn't see in the relationship and sometimes it's better to look at someone from outside the box so to speak. There is another phrase that absence makes the heart grow fonder which is so true. Time away from the one you love only makes the love stronger and makes the reality of not having that special someone in your life worth trying to fix and mend.

AnswerOne word: FAMILIARITY. AnswerThis works with BOTH men and women. And sometimes it is not even the case. The reasons why people sometimes want an ex back are because they finally realised what they had and then its too late. They may have taken the other person for granted and just assumed they would stick by them. But once they see an ex getting stronger and moving in different directions, reality sets in. The reality is that this person may have some dignity, pride, goals and a zest for life without you. This can cause some people alot of fear and regret.

Sometimes its a good wakeup call and you do not take them for granted again if you win them back. Other times it is a lesson to learn. The lesson being that no matter how in love someone can be with you, that love can die with neglect and or abuse and there sometimes is nothing you can do to win it back. Never asssume that things will always stay the same or that you have a person right where you want them. You may actually be baffled by their newfound strength and kick yourself for being such an ass.

I have found its more men that feel the regret of the one that go away so to speak. They realise at that point that you cant just go out and find a duplicate of that person as there will never be another you. They all they do is compare every women to the one that got away. To avoid living in this type of regret, just make sure you always treat your partner with love and respect.

How do you get a couple to break up?

They will probably break up sometime without anyone making anything worse. They will get tired of each other eventually. If not, get over it it is their choice of words, trust, love, and mistakes.

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