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Breakups
It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.
8,665 Questions
What is the perfect age to get married?
There sadly is no perfect age for marriage. There is only legal age. Nothing is perfect in life, you always will feel you are not ready yet. All you have to do is take the chance, if you hit it off, then there you go, you were ready. Else, take some time to get used to the change and when you look back at the time, you will see how perfect it turned out to be
How do you know when it's time to leave your husband?
Wow.....this is tough yet so simple.
#1- When everything seems one sided and you feel you are carrying the marriage.
#2- When you tell your husband "I love you" and he says something like "that's nice or i'm lucky or grunts". ALL THE TIME....there is never "I love you" back.
#3-When you are paying your own way. Marriage should be 50/50 and be a partnership.
#4- When your husband does not touch you and stops making love to you.
#5- When you have gotten so tired of no affection you just start sleeping in the extra bedroom.
#6- When he gives you no emotional support what-so-ever.
#7- When it's all about HIM.
#8- When you are giving him your best daily and he never does anything for you.
#9- When he tells you he does not or that he never loved you. BELIEVE IT.....he "may" be having a really bad moment but do not dismiss what he is saying.
#10-When he shows no appreciation for your efforts and when he never thanks you for a job well done. Being a wife IS a job even if you are home all day!
**notice I did not say an affair because many couples survive that** but, if that's a deal breaker for you then the marriage is over.....period!
I could go on with another 5 easily but I think you get it. You see, I AM leaving my husband in a month. I stuck it out for 7 years. If you see signs and think things will get better.....if you think he will wake-up one day and love and appreciate you then rethink that. Counseling helps many couples and every avenue should be taken to stay in the marriage. But, if you have tried everything else and it's still not working then it's time to rethink & reflect and maybe you just married the wrong man. I still believe in love and believe someday love will find me but don't spend years spinning your wheels. People are who they are and rarely change.
How do you tell if a girl is flirting at you?
well, if she really is flirting with you then she will always be trying to make eyecontact, she will put on lip gloss/touchup before she sees you. she will giggle at things you say, play with her hair, try to give you the sexy look but play it off as a dirty look to something u say, and she will try to start conversations, and try to touch you any chance she gets. good luck! ;)
How do you stop loving your ex?
When you hate someone especially an ex husband then they are winning by making you use up all your energy which you could use to achieve greater things in life for yourself. A good quote one should live by is 'Forgive that person; if you do not then they own you.' You are the one that is strong and can achieve anything you want to do in life so get busy and do it! Stop sitting around and mulling over the past regarding your ex husband and learn from the mistakes you have both made. One day you will meet that special person you truly deserve, but hate makes you bitter and if you become so bitter against your ex husband you may well miss great opportunities of meeting some special man in the future.
Can you sue your ex boyfriend for money owed?
Possibly, to file and have a chance of winning a lawsuit the person must have grounds to file the suit and provide evidence to prove that damage was incurred due to negligence or a deliberate harmful action by the defendant.
How do you deal with a bisexual boyfriend?
Just like you'd deal with any other boyfriend. Being bisexual means you are attracted to both sexes, but it doesn't mean you make yourself available for both sexes any more than being straight means you make yourself available for all opposite-sex people. Bisexual people can still be committed and monogamous, and aren't any less likely to practice safe sex. You'll fit into his life fine if you can both agree on whether to be monogamous. All of these other people who have posted here are prejudiced, most likely never knew any bi people, and need to get a life.
Another AnswerIf he's your boyfriend, that means you love him or else you wouldn't be going out in the first place. If he's having sexual relationships with another male, that's cheating, and in most (if not all) you would leave him. But if he isn't, what is there to deal with? The way he acts? Firstly, why would you be going out with him at all if you don't like the way he acts right?If you think he has diseases, talk to him about it and go get checked out by a doctor. You shouldn't think that he'll cheat on you just because of his sexuality. Because relationships are all about commitment so you should trust he wouldn't do that.
Good discussion:
Being bisexual doesn't mean you're promiscuos, unfaithful, or have STDs. It means that gender is not a factor when choosing someone to be with. Nobody ever suggests that if a guy is attracted to women of all races that that means he needs a woman of every race in order to be satisfied.
What happens during reconciliation?
1. The priest greets us, and we pray the Sign of the Cross. He invites us to trust in God. He may read God's Word with us.
2. We confess our sins. The priest may help and counsel us.
3. The priest gives us a penance to perform. Penance is an act of kindness or prayers to pray, or both.
4. The priest asks us to express our sorrow, usually by reciting the Act of Contrition.
5. We receive absolution. The priest says, "I absolve you from your sins in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit." We respond, "Amen."
6. The priest dismisses us by saying, "Go in peace." We go forth to perform the act of penance he has given us.
How do you tell your boyfriend you are not attracted to him?
Tell him you need to talk to him away from anyone else (that way there's no peer pressure) then calmly tell him you don't like him and you two aren't going to be anything more than friends.
Be polite and straight forward simply tell him you are flattered that he likes you but you are not interested sorry. Keep it simple and polite - no need to be rude or make them feel uncomfortable.
you open your mouth and say "im sorry but i don't like you the way you like me" don't be mean, or rude, be sincere, dont be obnoxious and dont yell or tell the whole world dont put it in writing or send someone to tell him
How do you tell someone you want a divorce nicely?
Well if by the person asking you mean the wife/husband you want the divorse with, one of the best ways is not "I WANT A DIVORCE!!!". No. First, approach calmly and tell the person a few reasons why the marriage isn't working. Explain why you would (this is important) WANT a divorce. Don't ask for it just yet. Then see if the person agrees they want one or not. If yes, they want one, then go right ahead and ask for it, you'll be fine. If they want to keep the marriage just tell them how things aren't working for you and ask for it then. Explain how things might be better if you leave your wife/husband. There is no easy way, but then, there really shouldn't be. Your spouse probably already knows that there is something wrong. If you can learn to communicate you should be able to figure it out. On the other hand, if you can learn to communicate you probably wouldn't need the divorce.
Is it true that woman is just like man but without Reason or Accountability?
First of all, your question is gramatically incorrect; it should read " Is it true that woman is just like A man, but without Reason or Accountability?
Secondly, it's a stupid question that I, as a female, will not waste my time answering.
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Uh, I understand your question perfectly and the answer is NO. It is not true.
Why isn't my ex fighting for me after he cheated on me?
i think you can work this one out for yourself.
How could i show my girl friend we are ment to be together and that i can be the person she wants?
Do something out of the ordinary, something that will suprise her. Make it about her and show her that you care in a romantic way that is different from anything that has ever been done for her.
What should you do when you get dumped?
You know what ima do? Ima break up with her. Wanna know why? because why the freak would you cheat on your boyfriend on valentine. ? it the day for couple. maybe she stupid.
I could never find such a love so capable of doing this during valentines day.
Why would an ex-boyfriend steal or destroy your property and when caught deny that he did it?
Abusers and criminals invariably deny that they had acted abusively or criminally.
I would say to see if they can still control you. The reason they deny an criminal activity or abusive activity it is because they believe they did nothing wrong. God Bless
one scenario suggests that the ex believes the objects belong to him. He may feel that you stole it and that destroying it will keep it out of your hands as it is already out of his hands. As for denying the destruction of your property... how could he destroy your property when he feels that it is his. He would be feeling that it is only his stuff that he was breaking.
Well, to be honest. it could mean anything. it depends how you see it, do you believe that your dreams come true? have they before? like if you had a dream you won the lotto, it no way would come true, there is no chance. dreams are just things that our mind makes up while we are sleeping. like if you dreamt of having sex with brad pitt, reckon that would come true? no it wouldnt, many people dream of that.
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What does it mean? Simply put, it means you had a dream last night, - nothing more nothing less.
Dream is a protective companion of sleep: Dreams have no specific source or agenda for its contents and dramatization.
Sleep sets in when the nerve cells get weakened due to continuous excitation during wakeful hours: A course of restful hours of inactivity is essential for the recuperation of lost energy in the cells: Sleep meets this life saving requirement: But there are stimuli reaching the sensory nerve cells from internal and external environs which might impose contexts for sudden waking up which would be injurious to the nervous system. Dreams in such situations appear as savers and allow the physic to continue the sleep or to take ample time for slow wake up. This is the scientific principle behind the appearance of dreams.
Your 'boyfriend and your concerns about your boy friend' has been an internal stimuli
which might have forced upon sudden waking up but the exigency got diverted when you saw the dream. That is all about it.
What should you do if an ex was asking about you?
There were obvious problems when you with your ex so be careful. Be sure he is worth hooking up with. He may also just be purely nosey and want to know who you are dating. It's really none of his business. I was married before and I left my ex. I heard from various people he was asking about me, but since I severed ties with the friends we'd had together and these people were acquaintances telling me he was asking about me, I didn't bite the bait. I left him because he cheated and was mentally/physically abusive and I wouldn't have gone back to him if the devil on horseback was on my butt. So, really think of why you left this guy and decide if he is just jealous or at least curious as to who you are dating. Don't rush into anything. Good luck Marcy
What to do when you are constantly crying over your ex?
Okay. This is always tough, I know. I go through the same thing. The first thing is to think about why they broke up with you/you broke up with them in the first place. Maybe they were cheating on you or your were sick of them hugging your friend in the hallway while you were still dating. I have no clue. Think about why you broke up and whether or not you're still happy with the breakup. If you're crying over him, you're probably not happy. Let him/her know that you want to be friends - just friends. If they refuse, keep telling them you like them AS A FRIEND! See how things go from there. Good luck!
Should you feel bad about talking to someone else when you're still in love with your ex?
There is absolutely nothing wrong with talking to someone, even if you are in a relationship, talking does not constitute cheating. :) ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ No, you shouldn't feel bad at all but you might want to be by yourself until you are over your ex..
What president broke up the most trusts?
Theodore Roosevelt called the trust buster because of his efforts to break up trusts and outlaw business monopolies.
