Breakups

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My heart lay in waiting for your love, and when your love was earnt, I loved. Now that you're gone, my heart lays bleeding for your love.

Yes

ANSWER......

From my view, no, you need to stop or else you will end up hurting yourself. I know because it happened to me. If this person really care about you, you don't have to ask for some attention or make you the first priority. But the tone of your question, I could tell that he don't know how to make you feel special, so just stop for your own sake and happiness....

just tell himyou have changed and that you miss the old him and remind him how he you to be with you and if in 2 weeks he hasn't change that means he not feeling you anymore. Just think about what your doing

sorry I ain't tryin to be rude it's the truth and truth hurts ive been threw that situation i know how you feel

In the past tense, you say?

Most likely they've gotten over you but at one point they had strong feelings, if you're in a relationship with the person it may mean you've changed and it's affected their feelings about you.

Tell him specifically...."Hey I dumped you and apparantly you did not get the hint, so here it is...it is over!" Or you can say, "Apparently you didn't hear me last time so I will say it again... WE ARE THROUGH!!"

by not hitting them in the first place!

You really can't. If you choose to place priority on your connection to this person above self love you are telling this person that they are more important to you than you are to yourself. You're making this person more important than the truth. You're saying that YOU would rather live the lie than to experience reality (even if it is painful). At some point you will need to distance yourself from this person. If it is a relative sibling parent, child, etc), decrease your interaction as you can't always get rid of family. If it is a spouse or friend you may be on your way to a separation of truth as you might ultimately have to sever all connections in order to live an authentic life. Although painful; it will prove profitable in the end.

purposeful forgetting

rule one in a relationship is communication. If he doesnt kno how you feel how can he kno whether or not to change or how can you know whether or not he can make you happy? If love isn't present its hurt staying in the relationship. But before you make any decision a talk is needed.

i have told him many times befor i was falling out of love and he never changed i have been feeling this way for 3 years it's hurts because i am a loving person and i cant feel any thing when we touch we were so good together but then he was cheating known he not and i cant feel love no more at all

How does he feel? is he still in love with you. Does he care about your relationship or how this could affect it? What do you want. To keep trying to work it out or do u feel that its a lost cause. Somthing u need to think about. You have a family together but without happiness is juss a life of lies and pain.

Why would you want to get him back in love with you by coersion. He should want to love you back all on his own. It sounds like the relationship has past this stage anyway. If he cheated and now has feelings for another woman, is he even worth it. How would you be able to trust him in the future. For what ever reason he cheated in the first place, which he should have been a man and come to you before hand and let you know that his feelings for you werent the same and he was interested in someone else. Rarely, do people meet on the whim and suddenly have sex the first time they see each other, so in other words, they had to have been working up to the cheating over time. Anyway, I would say that unless he says he wants to work on the marriage, by either counseling together or seperately, that you face the truth and move on with your life. Get a divorce and find a man that will be honest with you no matter what and give you the love and respect that you deserve. I know all is easier said then done but your not the first you wont be the last and you have more strength then you realize. GOOD LUCK.

Yes I believe so, and Radiance is a terrific book:)

This is a good question for a psychologist to answer. I am not. However, my initial reaction is that a slap in the face, has connections to a condescending type of authority, as a means to invoke shame for having exposed someone to hurt, humiliation, or some type of personal offense. It is usual that a person will be slapped in the face for having said something that was shameful. A slap in the chest or shoulder does not carry that type of weight as it then could be perceived as a "fight" while a slap in the face usually is not an attempt to engage in reciprocal physical aggression but rather, a behavior that brings the conversation to an abrupt end.....usually.

I just had to do this about 5 months ago. You just do it. There's a chance he'll be understanding, but be prepared for the worst case scenario. You have to do what's best for you and if it's getting out of the relationship, you have to be selfish about it.

it probably means that hes still not over you, or maybe just wants to still be friends

ok when a man will not commit, this is usually because of a few different things... [note: not all men are similar so yours may be a unique case, but these are the more common reasons]

1) he may just not love you that much.

2) you may be nagging him too much and he feels annoyed at the pressure.

3) you may already live with him, and do everything a wife does, so he thinks "what the difference already? "

4) or maybe, he just hasn't had the perfect opprotunity to ask you.....

all you need to do is relax, there is no need to chase after love, its its meant to be, its gonna happen regardless of the situation. am sure you are an awesome person and soon ull find that perfect someone!!!

Good luck!!

How is this possible? Are you for real? Do you honestly think women enjoy being abused and treated like garbage? Good for her for leaving you and I hope she keeps on walking. You don't know what you missed, and unless you start learning to treat women better than you are, you're going to be one lonely guy. No! It's not an act on her part. Getting rid of you is like lancing a pesky boil. Marcy *No way, she is not acting. She is glad she got away from you. Did you think she would stick around for some more abuse? Hell no. She is not a glutton for punishment, she has some self-respect. You should take this time to seek a therapist so you can change your abusive behaviour. You will never have a fulfilling relationship with any girl if you don't change your abusive ways. Please, get some help. Maybe, if you really love this girl and she still loves you, you might have a chance with her again. But you really better change and I would call a therapist right away and make an appointment today. You will change if you really want to. You sound just like my ex-boyfriend. Most of you abusers never change and feel that world owes you something. I can say from personal experience that getting dumped by my abuser was the best thing that ever happened to me. Wake up and realise that we move on and get stronger. We don't just lay down and die because you decided to play mind games. I agree GET INTO THERAPY!

It either means that whoever falls asleep on the phone is really really tired or that he/she got bored.

if the girls hot go out with her or just break up with your boyfriend or whoever

Don't get your friend to do it! That is the worst thing to do!

Just go and say to him "I think this would work better if we just stayed friends" of course it depends on how long you've been going out, if it has been like 6 months then just break up like you would with anyone because by now it wont be as big a deal of who asked who...

If you have been going out for like a week then say the first one, hope I helped x

One thing you have to keep in mind in life is that things needn't fit perfectly into boxes. This girl wants to go out and maybe engage in sexual activity (you both know all about sexually transmitted diseases and safe sex, right?) but without being committed in a "dating" relationship (probably because she sees other guys, safe sex is doubly necessary). If you're OK with that, then there's no problem. If you're not OK with that, then you should give up on her and look for someone who wants more what you want.

In any case, learn about safe sex!!!

yep.

Everyone has a past and you really shouldn't judge him by his. Like others pasts we have been in relationships that haven't worked and move forward as he is doing - I do realize there was a marriage with this but so have there been with many others. Just because he has been married and divorced in the past may not mean that he will not consider this in the future if he finds a woman that he wishes to do so with. If you like this person and want to be with him then do so with and open mind and take things from there - you cannot expect such a commitment nor think there won't be one in the future as you just don't know and you don't know if you don't try.

Not until the divorce is final!

He's trying to make you jealous and hurt you. Do the same thing back to him with another boy! He will get jealous~!