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Breakups
It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.
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yeah duhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
First of all, you can't make her come back if she doesn't want to, second has she already moved on to someone who appreciates her more? If she hasn't, then action speaks louder than words, meaning its your job to convince her that you've changed and hope its not too late. Its a big world out there, and if she can't have her needs filled by you, there are others that may. But if she loves you enough to give you another chance, then you'd better be able to "produce the goods!" If she doesn't come back, all is not loss, you can just file it away as a learning experience on move on, but this time you'll be a little wiser!
This is one of those times when you don't immediately act on a feeling. Each of you is committed to another person and you both need to go back to these people and work on those relationships, or otherwise resolve them without being in two relationships at once. If you were both free of committment and doing this, then that would be another matter. My take on this is to do the right things first and then see. It might be that one or both of you is having issues in the current marriage and this is helping to avoid what is needed there.
What is it when ur ex tells u he doesn't knows if he still likes you?
Hes proboblt just lieng to uand whants to get some thing from you .
Which is better my heart lies bleeding for your love or my heart lies waiting for your love?
Try a mix.
My heart lay in waiting for your love, and when your love was earnt, I loved. Now that you're gone, my heart lays bleeding for your love.
The couple breaking up because of someone not liking any one of them is really hilarious. This is mental camouflage that couple is using for the break up, the couple didn't feel comfortable with each other or subconsciously love was not deep enough to sustain the realtionship is the main reason. Now if the girl is married and happy , the one who loved her should be happy now with her happiness.
When one always feel unimportant is there a reason to keep fighting to be important?
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From my view, no, you need to stop or else you will end up hurting yourself. I know because it happened to me. If this person really care about you, you don't have to ask for some attention or make you the first priority. But the tone of your question, I could tell that he don't know how to make you feel special, so just stop for your own sake and happiness....
just tell himyou have changed and that you miss the old him and remind him how he you to be with you and if in 2 weeks he hasn't change that means he not feeling you anymore. Just think about what your doing
sorry I ain't tryin to be rude it's the truth and truth hurts ive been threw that situation i know how you feel
What does it mean does it mean when someone says..............I love-d you too?
In the past tense, you say?
Most likely they've gotten over you but at one point they had strong feelings, if you're in a relationship with the person it may mean you've changed and it's affected their feelings about you.
What should i say if he didn't relalize we broke up?
Tell him specifically...."Hey I dumped you and apparantly you did not get the hint, so here it is...it is over!" Or you can say, "Apparently you didn't hear me last time so I will say it again... WE ARE THROUGH!!"
rule one in a relationship is communication. If he doesnt kno how you feel how can he kno whether or not to change or how can you know whether or not he can make you happy? If love isn't present its hurt staying in the relationship. But before you make any decision a talk is needed.
i have told him many times befor i was falling out of love and he never changed i have been feeling this way for 3 years it's hurts because i am a loving person and i cant feel any thing when we touch we were so good together but then he was cheating known he not and i cant feel love no more at all
How does he feel? is he still in love with you. Does he care about your relationship or how this could affect it? What do you want. To keep trying to work it out or do u feel that its a lost cause. Somthing u need to think about. You have a family together but without happiness is juss a life of lies and pain.
How do you continue to love someone once you do not trust them?
You really can't. If you choose to place priority on your connection to this person above self love you are telling this person that they are more important to you than you are to yourself. You're making this person more important than the truth. You're saying that YOU would rather live the lie than to experience reality (even if it is painful). At some point you will need to distance yourself from this person. If it is a relative sibling parent, child, etc), decrease your interaction as you can't always get rid of family. If it is a spouse or friend you may be on your way to a separation of truth as you might ultimately have to sever all connections in order to live an authentic life. Although painful; it will prove profitable in the end.
How can you win back your spouse after cheating on him?
Why would you want to get him back in love with you by coersion. He should want to love you back all on his own. It sounds like the relationship has past this stage anyway. If he cheated and now has feelings for another woman, is he even worth it. How would you be able to trust him in the future. For what ever reason he cheated in the first place, which he should have been a man and come to you before hand and let you know that his feelings for you werent the same and he was interested in someone else. Rarely, do people meet on the whim and suddenly have sex the first time they see each other, so in other words, they had to have been working up to the cheating over time. Anyway, I would say that unless he says he wants to work on the marriage, by either counseling together or seperately, that you face the truth and move on with your life. Get a divorce and find a man that will be honest with you no matter what and give you the love and respect that you deserve. I know all is easier said then done but your not the first you wont be the last and you have more strength then you realize. GOOD LUCK.
This is a good question for a psychologist to answer. I am not. However, my initial reaction is that a slap in the face, has connections to a condescending type of authority, as a means to invoke shame for having exposed someone to hurt, humiliation, or some type of personal offense. It is usual that a person will be slapped in the face for having said something that was shameful. A slap in the chest or shoulder does not carry that type of weight as it then could be perceived as a "fight" while a slap in the face usually is not an attempt to engage in reciprocal physical aggression but rather, a behavior that brings the conversation to an abrupt end.....usually.
How do you break up with a guy who's really into your relationship?
I just had to do this about 5 months ago. You just do it. There's a chance he'll be understanding, but be prepared for the worst case scenario. You have to do what's best for you and if it's getting out of the relationship, you have to be selfish about it.
it probably means that hes still not over you, or maybe just wants to still be friends
What does it mean when a man will not committ to marriage?
ok when a man will not commit, this is usually because of a few different things... [note: not all men are similar so yours may be a unique case, but these are the more common reasons]
1) he may just not love you that much.
2) you may be nagging him too much and he feels annoyed at the pressure.
3) you may already live with him, and do everything a wife does, so he thinks "what the difference already? "
4) or maybe, he just hasn't had the perfect opprotunity to ask you.....
all you need to do is relax, there is no need to chase after love, its its meant to be, its gonna happen regardless of the situation. am sure you are an awesome person and soon ull find that perfect someone!!!
Good luck!!
How is this possible? Are you for real? Do you honestly think women enjoy being abused and treated like garbage? Good for her for leaving you and I hope she keeps on walking. You don't know what you missed, and unless you start learning to treat women better than you are, you're going to be one lonely guy. No! It's not an act on her part. Getting rid of you is like lancing a pesky boil. Marcy *No way, she is not acting. She is glad she got away from you. Did you think she would stick around for some more abuse? Hell no. She is not a glutton for punishment, she has some self-respect. You should take this time to seek a therapist so you can change your abusive behaviour. You will never have a fulfilling relationship with any girl if you don't change your abusive ways. Please, get some help. Maybe, if you really love this girl and she still loves you, you might have a chance with her again. But you really better change and I would call a therapist right away and make an appointment today. You will change if you really want to. You sound just like my ex-boyfriend. Most of you abusers never change and feel that world owes you something. I can say from personal experience that getting dumped by my abuser was the best thing that ever happened to me. Wake up and realise that we move on and get stronger. We don't just lay down and die because you decided to play mind games. I agree GET INTO THERAPY!
