Breakups

it probably means that hes still not over you, or maybe just wants to still be friends

ok when a man will not commit, this is usually because of a few different things... [note: not all men are similar so yours may be a unique case, but these are the more common reasons]

1) he may just not love you that much.

2) you may be nagging him too much and he feels annoyed at the pressure.

3) you may already live with him, and do everything a wife does, so he thinks "what the difference already? "

4) or maybe, he just hasn't had the perfect opprotunity to ask you.....

all you need to do is relax, there is no need to chase after love, its its meant to be, its gonna happen regardless of the situation. am sure you are an awesome person and soon ull find that perfect someone!!!

Good luck!!

How is this possible? Are you for real? Do you honestly think women enjoy being abused and treated like garbage? Good for her for leaving you and I hope she keeps on walking. You don't know what you missed, and unless you start learning to treat women better than you are, you're going to be one lonely guy. No! It's not an act on her part. Getting rid of you is like lancing a pesky boil. Marcy *No way, she is not acting. She is glad she got away from you. Did you think she would stick around for some more abuse? Hell no. She is not a glutton for punishment, she has some self-respect. You should take this time to seek a therapist so you can change your abusive behaviour. You will never have a fulfilling relationship with any girl if you don't change your abusive ways. Please, get some help. Maybe, if you really love this girl and she still loves you, you might have a chance with her again. But you really better change and I would call a therapist right away and make an appointment today. You will change if you really want to. You sound just like my ex-boyfriend. Most of you abusers never change and feel that world owes you something. I can say from personal experience that getting dumped by my abuser was the best thing that ever happened to me. Wake up and realise that we move on and get stronger. We don't just lay down and die because you decided to play mind games. I agree GET INTO THERAPY!

It either means that whoever falls asleep on the phone is really really tired or that he/she got bored.

if the girls hot go out with her or just break up with your boyfriend or whoever

Don't get your friend to do it! That is the worst thing to do!

Just go and say to him "I think this would work better if we just stayed friends" of course it depends on how long you've been going out, if it has been like 6 months then just break up like you would with anyone because by now it wont be as big a deal of who asked who...

If you have been going out for like a week then say the first one, hope I helped x

One thing you have to keep in mind in life is that things needn't fit perfectly into boxes. This girl wants to go out and maybe engage in sexual activity (you both know all about sexually transmitted diseases and safe sex, right?) but without being committed in a "dating" relationship (probably because she sees other guys, safe sex is doubly necessary). If you're OK with that, then there's no problem. If you're not OK with that, then you should give up on her and look for someone who wants more what you want.

In any case, learn about safe sex!!!

yep.

Everyone has a past and you really shouldn't judge him by his. Like others pasts we have been in relationships that haven't worked and move forward as he is doing - I do realize there was a marriage with this but so have there been with many others. Just because he has been married and divorced in the past may not mean that he will not consider this in the future if he finds a woman that he wishes to do so with. If you like this person and want to be with him then do so with and open mind and take things from there - you cannot expect such a commitment nor think there won't be one in the future as you just don't know and you don't know if you don't try.

Not until the divorce is final!

He's trying to make you jealous and hurt you. Do the same thing back to him with another boy! He will get jealous~!

ya(yu) aye na - i love you (in karen from burma)

• Some girls are in love with love and not mature enough to have enough confidence in themselves when the guy they are going with and then break up over and over again just keep taking him back. It is common in teens and even a few adult women.

wats the question???????????

never!!!!! Because you broke up with him!!!

• Unfortunately, it sounds like your ex girlfriend had a bad breakup and she is taking advantage of your love for her as well as being kind. You are enabling her behavior and it is time you sat down with her in private with the TV off and sternly ask her what is going on as you are not putting up with her behavior.

yes you should. It would be a nice thing to do.

You can't fix it. It could be mended possibly. Depends on the people involved. You should write a specific question if you want a specific and thoughtful answer.

Believe it or not well over 90% of people are shy (many just fake the fact they aren't) and there is just a small percent that actually feel very confident. Most of us get butterflies in our stomachs when we think of someone special and you ache to tell them how you feel, but most of us when younger do fear rejection. If you break down the word "rejection" it first sounds like a very stinging word, but in reality we get rejected every single day of our lives. It could be something as simple of trying to be nice to a student in school or a clerk in a store and they just stare at you like you have a growth between your eyes. We can look for a job and be rejected from many before we finally find one. You could talk to a close friend for advice and they look at you in a stupor. So "rejection" isn't all that bad. What I did with the word, was I ignored it. I realized not everyone was going to feel the same about me as I might feel for them, or they may not like me for who I am, but I'll never cheat myself by being something I'm not and try my best by learning from past mistakes. I refuse to go through life not trying and end up getting old with a lot of "what if I'd done this differently" or, "what if I'd just asked that guy out things could be different. Each person on this earth is unique and special in their own way. Some for the good, some for the bad. Never cheat yourself and second-guess who you are. Be the best YOU can be and that should satisfy yourself. Now, once you have done this you are more confident to go right up to that young man and invite him out to a party, movies, etc. If you are super nervous then try double-dating with a friend so not all attention is on you. Take it slow and easy and smile, then perhaps talk to him if you get a chance. You can ask what classes he is taking, what his favorite band is or what type of movies he likes. Keep the conversations short at first until you get use to being around him and seeing what his reaction is. When you feel a little more confident then ask him out. If he says no, try and not take it too personally. He may have a girlfriend or like another girl he hasn't asked out yet. When I was younger it seemed I liked all the guys that didn't like me in a romantic way, and the guys I didn't care for were asking me out on dates. Well, it all balances out in the end. Good luck Roseline! Marcy

its really hard if you really love this someone. With me, its been 3 years and i still love him. It won't work if you try to think that this someone's a jerk and all that cause later on you'll regret filling your minds with lies. if the case is that you want her/him but can't and its breaking your heart and you don't want to love her/him because it hurts you, try your hardest not to think of her/him or if that doesn't work and try to talk about your feelings to her/him if you 100 percent know that she/he would understand and wouldn't make fun of you and that they know that you love them.

If this is the first time falling in love, then it'll take a while to get rid of the feeling becaue its your first time and you don't know what to actually do. if any of my advice doesn't work, then try what I'm doing now; accept all the facts because you cannot overcome something or do something about it if you won't accept the truth, like you still love her/him and this and that, cause if you won't accept the truth your mind and heart would be all confused and you don't want that, trust me.

If you feel like you want to move on but still want to dwell in the past and your stuck in your own path, keep moving forward, but that doesn't mean that you can't still think of him. Don't dwell in the past, keep moving on, you can't wait for him forever, you have your other goals to accomplish. if you happen to think of him, keep thinking of him and don't force yourself to much not to, forget that your heart was ever broken and just smile when you're having a hard time, i know you won't forget about her/him that easily, but don't look back.

if you ever stop walking in your path and look back, remind yourself that you gotta be strong, don't fill your mind with anger and hate, just accept the facts. It'll take time, a lot of time, and you might feel on giving up on this advice, if you ever try it, don't give up. you gotta be strong. remember that ;)......

It sucks

There really are not words to describe how horrible it feels. It hurts more than anything else. You would much rather get hit by a bus than to feel the pain of losing the one you love. And to top it all off, there isn't really much anything that will take the pain away.

either hes not ready to commit or he is afraid of how u react or he does not want to let his funny part of life go aka being free as a teen

• When your heart is broken over someone you love it means that your friends are often more loyal and will be there for you through all your ups and downs rather than a lover that comes in and out of your life until you meet that special someone that truly should be in your life. Even if you meet someone and marry them it is very wise to keep your good friends close to your heart. Lean on your friends and tell them how you feel and your heart will eventually heal along with a little help from your friends. Without friends any individual puts too much stress on themselves to try and resolve their broken heart on their own leaving the heart sick person feeling lonely and alienated. Get out with friends and try to have fun. Don't sit around and mope over lost love and start dating when you are ready. If your lost love is meant to be with you then they will be, but if it doesn't happen then it means that person was not meant for you and there is a special someone in your future you should truly be with.

"Love is so short, forgetting is so long." - Pablo Neruda I